However, can we think that these brothers are morally bad? Of course not! Differences in the level of education received will directly lead to differences in concepts. In their minds, since I spent money, it was a matter of course to use the ownerless things in the hospital. That's why they use it so comfortably. Perhaps, while I am measuring them by moral standards, they are also secretly evaluating me in their hearts. This man is really not your average stupid hat! If you don't need to, won't the hospital charge you less?

For example, in the previous foot odor turmoil, if we insist on labeling these brothers as "without public morality", it seems that there is some suspicion of "careless disregard for human life". They rarely wash their feet, as the saying goes, "living with the wicked is like entering the abalone, and they don't smell it for a long time", they are used to it, so they don't notice the smell of their feet at all. They are people who do things very aggressively, and they don't take other people's reprimands to heart at all. So it wasn't until a few days later that they realized the dangers of their bad feet. After they have a correct understanding of their foot odor, they insist on wearing sandals. In order not to bother the noses of the other people in the ward, they themselves prefer to endure the cold all day and night. Can you still say that they don't have a sense of morality?

With the change of understanding of the brothers who originally made people feel a little disgusted, I gradually had such a life insight. People are multifaceted and complex, and without in-depth communication and understanding, don't evaluate a person casually. Otherwise, your assessment will often be biased and may even be completely wrong.

Unlike the bed on the south side, the children of an eighty-year-old grandmother on the bed on the north side make a good first impression. For the sake of his mother, he tried every means to come to the treatment at any cost. But in fact, they are a little more contrived. Regardless of the outcome, I've already treated my own mother anyway; It doesn't matter what I'm doing in the hospital, I'm with you around the clock anyway. Could it be that in this way, others can still say that I am not filial? Perhaps, they are better than those children who refuse to even pretend and are not filial on the surface. It's just that I don't think that drinking tea, reading newspapers, and staring at TV in the hospital is considered true filial piety. Of course, I only hope that they do this because of their ability (not knowing how to take care of their mother), not their attitude (not because they don't know how to take care of them, but because they are too lazy to devote themselves to it). In fact, I know that most of my grandmother's many children are a matter of attitude. Even if I didn't know it at first, as long as I had the heart, I didn't ask anyone for advice, and I could basically learn everything by just observing how the young man and my family were doing. But they don't learn. There may also be a sense of blame for each other. I learned, and I had to do it all. In this way, won't I lose a lot of money? If you still think about the so-called question of who pays more and who pays less, then I think none of these children are truly filial. That's why I was so disgusted with my two middle-aged sisters.

Parents are their own, and without their parenting, they would not have themselves. No matter how many children my parents have, no matter how many other siblings do to my parents, I think I have an unshirkable responsibility to support them. Other people don't raise it, I raise it! Can it be considered a loss to support one's parents? Friendship is not a transaction, and it cannot be measured by "whether you lose or not, how much you lose". Supporting one's parents is a matter of course for children. As a child, you must first remember that "parents are their own world, and without heaven and earth, there will be no self"! If I understand this truth, then I think the grandmother's children will definitely not work and do not work.

However, we should not assume that the children of grandmothers have no feelings for their mothers. I can tell that they really want their mother to recover as soon as possible.

Within a few days of coming out of the intensive care unit, the attending physician will remind the family to walk around with the patient out of bed. The grandmother's children heard that exercise could help the elderly recover faster, so they immediately came to the motivation. Although the grandmother repeatedly said that she could not bear it, they still drove the grandmother out of the ward. The so-called anxious can't eat hot tofu, and the final result is that the poor old man faints in the process of being forcibly dragged around.

With the help of enthusiastic patients, after emergency rescue, the 80-year-old grandmother finally woke up from the coma. Suffering from this "great change", the grandmother's children were almost frightened. So we went from one extreme to the other. This post-operative exercise should have been a gradual process. As soon as you start getting out of bed and walking around, you need to try it first. For example, the young man's father, on the first day, only stood by the bedside, and on the second day, he only walked around the ward, and it was not until the third day that he began to move in the corridor. Even my father, who has always been in excellent physical condition, did not let him out of the ward on the first day. But the grandmother's children are good, and for the first time, the eighty-year-old man did a high-intensity exercise. If nothing goes wrong, that's the weird thing! Who would have thought that with this terrible first time, there would be no second and third ...... that should have persevered? Since then, the children no longer help the grandmother to get out of bed and walk around. Whenever I persuaded them that they should let the old man exercise properly, they replied to me with confidence: "I didn't die that time, how dare I let her get out of bed now?" ”

At first, the "raw pull" was to allow the mother to recover quickly; Later, "I didn't dare to let her get out of bed again" because I didn't want my mother to have an accident. All of this shows their concern for their mother. It's just a pity that in many cases, they don't translate their care for their mothers into practical actions. Therefore, it gives people a sense of incomparable "hypocrisy".

On the surface, I was closer to my grandmother's family than I was to the old man's family. This is because my first impression of the grandmother's family is much better than that of the old man's family. Later, gradually, I felt more and more clearly the "hypocrisy" of the old man's children, but on the contrary, my opinion of the old man's family was constantly improving. Therefore, my relationship with my grandmother's family gradually became estranged, but I gradually became closer to the old man's family. Of course, even when they were most acquainted, they did not reach the level of intimacy with the young man's family.

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