57. Anatomy of Love

For Wang Aiying's marriage, this is the case, and it is necessary to explain it here. Just three months ago, after being introduced by an acquaintance, the prince charming in her heart appeared in front of her eyes. As soon as they met, Wang Aiying liked each other, handsome figure, logo looks, free and easy style, she liked his handsomeness, was the prince charming in her mind, he liked her beauty, was his special favorite, he was talented, he was romantic, she was dignified and steady, she was amorous, he was tall, plus a table of talents, her slender figure, tenderness can convey the spirit......

In short, they are the eight kings of mung beans, theoretically they are really a natural pair, a pair of ground matches. Since then, they are like glue under the moon before the flowers, they talk on their knees by the Qiong Yao pool, they love each other at happy moments, and they swear by the sea.

The main reason for them to be connected is the social relationship between them, the level of education, and the status of the senior cadres of both families. Well, needless to say, it belongs to the third generation of Zhengmiaozheng, with power, money, a car, and a house.

He Dazui didn't know where to learn about Wang Aiying's situation. For these situations she knew, she shared them with me in time, and at this time I fell into deep thought.

From this middle, we know the fact that love needs conditions, unequal conditions are generally not easy to become love, love needs occasions, there is no certain foundation will not produce hobbies, love needs to be tested, and love without tests is not real.

After learning about their experiences, I thought about how naΓ―ve and ridiculous it was for people to propose marriage to me Aiying in the first place, how can we be worthy of others! I thought, if it weren't for this car accident, we would have a reason to contact people, the cooperation of conditions is so natural, and the integration of human feelings is so reasonable. When I was a child, I watched a lot of big dramas, what Qin Xianglian sued, what an amorous woman was a negative man, these stories are really staged today, just because of a car accident, the love between them can't stand the test, and their beautiful love is drawn to a sentence, what a cruel reality this is.

During the meal, I said such words to He Dazui at the dinner table, and that Du Yuhong was also among them, and she was also listening to my fallacy. I said, "How capable are people? A car accident changes a person's fate, a time changes people's perceptions, a point of view will lead to a fundamental change in people's lifestyle, and external factors will reverse the situation. ”

After listening to my words, He Dazui picked up the words, and she said: "What you said is too reasonable, the real can't be realistic, and the real can't be real." ”

"Yes! What you say makes sense, people say that love is pure, sacred, and beautiful, but if these words are to be implemented, it is very perfect. People can't do without material things, and it's not omnipotent to have material conditions. I followed her words and said, "Love is such a strange thing. ”

Du Yuhong was listening carefully to what we were saying, and she didn't understand much about these things, but she clearly felt that what we said made sense.

He Dazui said: "What's more, whoever can do it, who can't, you can press you to the post, you will be beautiful when you put on new clothes, and your love will be providential if you give you these conditions. If you are given such a situation, if you are given something that you don't know and has no value, will you pay for it? In this way, life is the same, but it is just from that standpoint. ”

The people who have come over are different, they are mature in looking at problems, they are more in place in analyzing problems, and they have their own ways to solve problems.

He Dazui said: "In this year, people go to high places, and water flows to low places, these are very normal, what is abnormal is that those sons and brothers described in those novels in the past fell in love with folk girls, or beautiful and lovely princesses fell in love with folk talented and quiet poor men, the love between them is dead and alive, there is no material world to participate in everything, there are no difficulties that occur in front of them, it belongs to that kind of pure love." Or maybe they go through a tortuous love process, and finally have a lover who finally becomes a dependent, which is really what makes people more moved. ”

I said to her, what you said is right, the ideal is perfect, and the reality is very skinny. Therefore, the love read from the novel is very beautiful, and the love found from reality is very cruel.

He Dazui then expressed her views on love.

So, people now understand that what is really advocated is what is really lacking, and what is really practical is what is really usable, and this principle finds value here. Although people say that money is not everything, it is impossible for people to leave money, this is a living fact! At this time, I thought of what reality is, this is the actual situation, the living reality, people can't live in a vacuum, the real life is much fuller than the ideal life. If people keep this rule, the problem of living will be solved. ”

So, do modern people have a view of love? I asked.

"In fact, people are very practical nowadays, and the values of love have undergone a fundamental shift. No car, no house, no job, no high hall, this is the condition for people's love choice. People have this program installed in their heads, and this program will lead people to follow the laws of its operation, not because there is anything special about people, but because of the actual situation. Now the pure love of the society has become less and less, people are often because of the real factors of love, because of the change of material conditions and the change of the concept of life, the good life of love is guaranteed by material life, and the love life of material life is more practical, the pure spiritual love life will inevitably give way to the factor of pure love, once love encounters the influence of these key factors, it will often completely negate the direction of their progress. Only after the test of inseparable love, the union of love is long-lasting and perfect. ”

He Dazui said so many words in one breath, my head almost couldn't understand it, and I couldn't hold these things she said.

Seeing us discussing the conditions of love together, that Du Yuhong was also listening to our conversation next to us, at this time I saw her listening attentively, I made a joke of her, Xiaohong, what conditions do you need if you find a partner?

The girl was embarrassed to say: "I don't look for a partner, it's really troublesome to find a partner, but my conditions for finding a partner are not material, first of all, people have to be good, people are not good, there is nothing to talk about, if people are good, two people can create anything, a person's happiness or not, more is not money, but the harmony of spirit and family." ”

The little girl of the good fellow is really a victim, and the words she says are like knives, and the needles will see blood. Not to be a disgrace to the youth of the times.

Wang Aiying in this article, it is such a situation, once love encounters a critical link and is in a dangerous moment, it will not be able to withstand the test of wind and waves. That son-in-law brother heard that she had broken her arms, broken legs, and ruined her face, which would cause a drag on her life in the future, coupled with his mother's vigorous shuttle and opposition, as well as the persuasion of other people around him, what kind of can't be found according to your conditions, if you want to find her, you will serve her for the rest of your life, there are good girls in the world, why look for this one, if you continue to maintain a relationship with her, it will be equivalent to carrying a heavy burden, and there will be a child in the future, what is a burden, etc., A good man can't stand this gossip, and people finally moved the thoughts of this son, and the boy also decided to give up.

In fact, this boy is not alone with him at this time, but he is secretly crossing Chen Cang with other women while he is in contact with Wang Aiying? From this point of view, where can he be single-minded with Wang Aiying?

After a fierce ideological struggle, he realized that there was nothing between them. They have only been in love a few times, and there is neither an engagement nor a financial gift, which is not a big problem.

Brother Childe's idea is good, the road in the future will be slower and longer, who knows what new tricks will appear on the difficult road? Her own value has been lost, and we can't fall to death on a dead tree. Therefore, he wanted to take this opportunity to quickly cut off the three thousand love threads, so as not to cause undue difficulties in the future, and the method he adopted was not to see her, not to give her the initiative to contact, so that she broke off this idea.

Wang Aiying and Gongzi's love fate is destined to be short-lived, although the conditions between them are equal, but their vision only stays in the class stage, if one party has undergone a fundamental change, the other party will inevitably lose balance, love based on a certain power or money is unreliable, that kind of marriage can only be with material life, can only be a parasite of material life. Therefore, Wang Aiying understands it in her heart, and at the same time, she is also sad in her heart, the love in the world, the test of real life, has given her a change in life at this moment, but she still doesn't believe that he will be so ruthless, he thinks that he will appear, even if it is good to see each other, therefore, in addition to enduring great pain every day, she also endures mental torture, which really makes her life fall to the extreme.

Because of this, he just agreed that I should accompany her and treat me as a good person.

For the occurrence of these things, in the eyes of normal people, it can be regarded as natural and common sense. However, for Wang Aiying, it is different. The road of love is always unforgettable, yesterday's stroll seems to be around, how can you believe that he can't contain a little bit of love? It's really hard to explain why her favorite Prince Charming is so ruthless to her, and why is yesterday's happy love so short-lived? The lesson is really heart-wrenching.

However, the most difficult period is still around us, and it takes time to remove the scars on her body, but there is one thing that is relatively easy to do, she does not have to worry about the medical expenses, the public can reimburse her in full, and the medical conditions she enjoys are also the highest, and the doctors and nurses are also very thoughtful. At this point, her parents are really good to her, and the leaders of the TV station also take special care. Especially with the tattered king in front of him, he takes care of it very thoughtfully.