Chapter 261: Mother-Child Dialogue
When he left Qinjiazhuang, no one came out to see him off, Zhen Fei was annoyed at this time, it seemed that this Qin family was not suitable for him, and he didn't welcome him when he came, and he didn't even have anyone to say hello when he left.
This is Chi Guoguo's slap in the face, and it is also contempt, which shows that the Qin family doesn't care about his existence at all.
Thinking like this, with an unconsciously dissatisfied expression on her face, Ou Xuli saw it in her eyes and said with a wry smile: "Actually, most people in the Qin family don't know that they have found you, otherwise, they will come to greet you." ”
For this explanation, Zhen Fei was noncommittal, anyway, the Qin family left a bad impression on him.
Several people got into the car, and after leaving Qinjiazhuang, they stopped in a no-man's land, and then Qiao Huizi put the car away, and Zhen Fei said, "Auntie, forgive me for being rude." After finishing speaking, he put the suspicious Ou Xuli into the storage space, sacrificed the teleportation boots, and returned to Shanghai in the blink of an eye.
When she arrived in the mansion, Ou Xuli's spirit was still in a trance, holding Zhen Fei's hand tightly, five fingers were trapped in the muscles of Zhen Fei's arm, Zhen Fei comforted softly: "Don't be nervous, it's okay, you can live here in the future, don't go back to that Qinjiazhuang." ”
"You still have property in the Qin family." Ou Xuli never forgot this, she waited hard in the Qin family, partly out of responsibility, partly for the Qin family's property, all the bloodline of the big family has a share of the family property.
"I don't care about that bit of property." Zhen Fei said lightly.
"Are you rich?" After Ou Xuli saw the environment of Haoting, she had to admit that the current Zhen Fei was completely different from what she imagined, and she didn't know how he did it.
The disciples of Haoting expressed a warm welcome to Ou Xuli's arrival, not only did everyone have gifts to give, but also laughed and said things that Ou Xuli liked to hear.
Pei Xinyue didn't leave Ou Xuli's side, serving left and right, even Leng Xiao and Qiao Huizi couldn't intervene, these two girls were not very satisfied, but they didn't dare to show it, leaving a good impression on Ou Xuli was more important than anything else.
After dinner, Zhen Fei and Ou Xuli sat in the study.
Zhen Fei took out a set of clothes and said, "Auntie, you put on this set of clothes and take a look, this is a magic weapon, with the function of automatic protector, if you encounter any danger, this dress can protect you." ”
"Who the hell are you?" Ou Xuli finally couldn't help but ask, when there were many people, no matter what abnormality Zhen Fei showed, Ou Xuli couldn't help but ask.
"I'm a mage." Zhen Fei admitted his identity and ability, and said: "It is a person who has a certain amount of mana and can do things beyond ordinary people." ”
"Aren't you a doctor?" Ou Xuli didn't know much about the mage profession.
Scratching his head, Zhen Fei was not very easy to explain this matter, so he had to say: "Anyway, I am such a person, being a doctor is a profession, and I don't rely on being a doctor for a living, in fact, being a mage is also a good choice, it is more convenient." ”
"Well, if you think it's good, it's done." Ou Xuli coped with a sentence.
"Do you still hate Daddy?" Zhen Fei had to ask this question, although it has not been confirmed that Ou Xuli is his biological mother, but Zhen Fei attaches great importance to his father's emotional problems.
"I never hated him." Sighing, Ou Xuli said: "In fact, the big family is like this, the original partners are all the right people, even if there is no emotion, after all, marriage is a tradition, and it can also bring more prosperous benefits to the family, he likes Yuan Jingshu, then it is good to raise it outside, I will not go to Yuan Jingshu for trouble, but he pursues that kind of single-minded love, and regards love as more important than bloodline inheritance, which is really sad." ”
"It's still stuck to tradition, and those things are outdated." Zhen Fei expressed his concept.
Shaking her head, Ou Xuli said very seriously: "You are wrong, people from big families have more common language with people from other families, and there are also channels of communication, a person has adapted to the surrounding environment since he was born, and it is difficult to change his thinking and habits, from dress, eating habits, and friends, there is a fixed pattern, a person from a big family, looking for a spouse of an ordinary family, this kind of thing is more touching, But the innate tradition in the bones is still difficult to change, think about it, how many of the love with such a disparity in identity have a beginning and an end? Life is long, and it has to go through a lot of ups and downs, love is a thing that can not be changed, and it can withstand the scrutiny of the years. ”
"I really can't accept your point of view." Zhen Fei said very painfully.
"It doesn't matter, since you can remember, you think of yourself as an ordinary person, and you never think about the life of a big family, think about your current situation, can you marry a woman who is not a mage?"
I have to say that Ou Xuli's words are very reasonable, as a mage, Zhen Fei will never marry a woman who is not a mage, because the mage's ability is strong, and it brings a lot of convenience, in case he really falls in love with a woman who is not a mage, he will also teach the right magic power, which is not a problem, the problem is that if the other party does not accept the mana, he is willing to be an ordinary person for the rest of his life, Zhen Fei will find it difficult to accept.
This is the same with a man from a large family and a woman from a commoner background, and a man from a large family can lead a woman from a commoner background into a large family. If a woman from a civilian background does not accept everything from a big family, then there will be problems with the relationship between them, if a man from a common family lives a civilian life, I am afraid he will not adapt, if there is a deep love in it, after a long time, this love gradually becomes dull, and the contradictions between their different life requirements and standards will also be highlighted, resulting in contradictions and destroying beautiful love.
As for that kind of undying love, it must exist. But only a very small number of people can do this, and the bits and pieces of daily life will sooner or later polish and smooth out love.
This is why the big family pursues the right family in marriage, not only the combination of interests, but also the problem of each other's living habits, just like Zhen Fei can't accept a girl who is not a mage, since they are two people, they must have something in common in language and living habits, and they can maintain their lives with a common pursuit.
The essence of marriage is not about love and materialism. But it can never be separated from love and material, how to look at marriage, first of all, we must love each other, even if we like it, and then there is a world view, outlook on life, values, and there must be a certain material foundation.
Then, Ou Xuli asked about the details of Zhen Fei's life in the past few years, and Zhen Fei told everything in Shanghai, as for the circle of mages, Zhen Fei hadn't figured out what to say, after all, the experience of mages far exceeded the cognitive standards of ordinary people, and Ou Xuli, as an ordinary person, may find it difficult to accept that kind of exciting life.
Speaking of Zhen Fei living in the basement and worrying about even three meals a day, Ou Xuli had tears in her eyes and said: "You are suffering, I don't know where you are, I can't find you, if I find you, I will definitely take you home." ”
"Auntie, don't be so sad, look at it, I'm also bitter now, everything is very good now, I'm very satisfied with everything now, what about you? Isn't it also a hard time? ”
Taking a deep breath, Ou Xuli said: "My pain is not as much as yours, materially there has always been a family supply, give me 5,000 yuan a month, peace of mind when my young grandmother becomes, there is a beauty club to do regular care, and I can often travel, not very lonely, but emotionally I can't say, your father and I have only been with me for more than three years, and then he quarreled with your grandfather and ran away from home in a bad mood." Later, Tang Xiaoxiao came, I have always regarded her as my own child, in fact, Xiaoxiao's heart is even more bitter, I am dead, your father abandoned me in this life, irretrievable, but Xiaoxiao didn't even see your face, even if I miss it, I can't think about your appearance. ”
"If I don't show up again, Xiaoxiao will find someone to marry in the future." Zhen Fei didn't want to be with Tang Xiaoxiao, so he said this.
Shaking her head very resolutely, Ou Xuli said: "No, this is the rule, since Tang Xiaoxiao is already the daughter-in-law of the Qin family, she will never marry someone else in her life, just like me, I know that your father doesn't want me anymore, but I can't marry again." ”
"That's too inhuman, isn't it?" Zhen Fei shouted.
"Hmph, what is human nature? Rules are rules, how can you make a circle without rules? Do you think big families are so glamorous? The pain in the bones is not something that outsiders can understand, now it's okay, Xiaoxiao and I have solved a matter of heart, next spring, you will do your marriage with Xiaoxiao, and then, whoever you like, just raise it, just play it, I won't interfere with you, Xiaoxiao won't be jealous because of this, you can rest assured. ”
"This ...... This one...... No, I can't. Zhen Fei frowned, in this way, he is so sorry for Qiao Huizi and Leng Xiao, even Tang Xiaoxiao is sorry, and even more sorry for himself, anyway, in that case, he will not be Zhen Fei, but become another person. Love is pure and supreme in Zhen Fei's heart. He couldn't imagine the feelings of the twilight.
"Why can't you? Have your father's genes been fully passed on to you? If you look at the current society, people with money and people with a little power, which one is not a few women outside the family? Even though the law is monogamous, if everyone obeys the law, does it have to work hard? No matter what kind of social system it is, men are lustful and women are chaste, which are rules that cannot be shaken off, and I have seen too many absurd men in the big family. Ou Xuli said angrily.
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