The first impression of these two countrymen is not good, and it can be described as "hateful". Lu Xun once said: "Poor people must have something to hate." Here, I would like to reverse the sentence, that is, "The hateful also has pity." ”

When they first arrived, they happened to meet with the young man's family who had gone through the discharge procedures. Out of good intentions, the enthusiastic young man's mother gave them a proper reminder about giving red envelopes. At that time, the old man and his second son both said that they had acquaintances in the hospital and did not need them. Hearing this, I told them that we also had acquaintances in the hospital, but we sent them anyway. However, the answers of these two are almost ridiculous. The father and son both said they had asked, but the attending physician said no. From this, it is not difficult to see that they are so simple that they are almost unsophisticated.

After they left, the people in the ward agreed that the attending physician's prevarication was just a formality and pretense, and if you insisted on stuffing the red envelope into their pockets, they would inevitably "laugh and accept".

Coincidentally, their attending physician happened to be their father's. It was because he knew that they did not give red envelopes, so he deliberately compared us to see how the attending physician was different. There is no need to look closely at all, because the difference is very obvious.

My first impression was that the attending physician seemed to be quite impatient with the father and son. Every time I come to explain what precautions I need, I always seem to be in a hurry. The old man was lucky, though. Because, they met me who was enthusiastic.

The most impressive thing was the time when I was told how to eat. After the attending physician finished speaking quickly, he didn't ask the stunned brothers if they understood, but pointed directly at us and said, "They are masters." If you don't understand, just ask them. With that, he walked away.

It's really different treatment for different people! I remember that the attending physician just told us some time ago that if there is anything we don't understand, just ask him or his assistant. How did the three father and son in the simple countryside who "don't understand the world" become asking people in the same ward? If we are not happy to answer them at all, then what should the father and son do? What puzzles me is that when my father needs to eat, he doesn't seem to feel the irresponsibility of this attending physician!

Probably because of the low level of education, the brothers' understanding is really not good. After the attending physician left, it was the boss who took the lead. Alas, completely overwhelmed. In fact, I reminded them yesterday that the attending physician should come over today to announce the precautions for eating, and emphasized that there may be a lot of content.

"I told you to take a pen and paper, and write it down one by one, but you didn't listen!" Seeing this, the old man came up angrily, "It's good now, numb claws!" ”

Hearing his father's angry cry, the boss whispered a little sneeringly: "Isn't there no paper and no pen." Even if he has it, with his speed of speaking, it's too late to remember! ”

"Even if you don't have to write it down on paper, you have to try to memorize it in your head." The old man's anger has not diminished in the slightest.

"He said so much one after another, how could we remember it all." The second child took over the conversation and helped the boss to explain.

"Waste, you two brothers! Isn't it good to divide the labor, the eldest remembers a little, and the second remembers a little. If you look at people, you can write them all down. The old man hated that iron could not become steel, "You didn't remember, so what should I do now?" ”

"What else can I do? Try it first. The boss replied whimsically.

"Idiot! Can this thing be tried casually? When the old man heard this, his anger became bigger and bigger.

"So, what then?" The boss had no idea for a while.

"Idiot, didn't the attending physician tell you that you don't understand and can ask people?"

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The above is what my father told me, and the brothers are unlucky, at this juncture, I happened to go to poop. Otherwise, I wouldn't have asked them to ask about it. Later, under my careful guidance, the brothers finally mastered the essentials of eating.

The two brothers themselves have a low level of understanding, and the attending physician is very impatient, so they are at a loss for what to do many times. If it weren't for my tireless guidance, the ward life of this family would have been a mess.

Secondly, what is clearly felt is the difference in attitude. Before, the attending physician treated us with a smile on his face. However, every time he came to the father and son, his face was full of seriousness. Many times, before the lecture begins, I will seriously emphasize that this is a major matter of human life. But the grave words that followed were unusually quick. Serious is serious, but it can't lack a sense of responsibility! Since "human life is at stake", then you have to tell people until they understand, right? In many cases, "seriousness" has become the best shield for this attending physician. It was precisely because of the seriousness of his face that even if there was something he didn't understand, the brothers didn't dare to ask. I said, it's okay, what kind of "cool" are you pretending! It's going to kill people!

Finally, there is a deep sense of concern. Of course, it was not the worry of the father and son, but the concern of me, a warm-hearted person, for the old man who had undergone surgery.

The following is hearsay, although there are many people who say it, but the truth has not been verified. Why do many people choose to give red envelopes before their family members' surgery? This is because there is such an unspoken rule in hospitals. If you don't give red envelopes, those bad doctors will become extremely irresponsible. It is rumored that some people will even be sewn with scalpels or scissors in their stomachs. Of course, such a statement must be an exaggeration. If you do, the result will be obvious medical malpractice. I don't think any doctor would ever joke with his future. However, almost everyone who has heard the rumors believes that the possibility of doing something is still very high. For example, put a thread in it, or the treatment of the wound is a little sloppy...... As long as there is a slight problem, the lucky ones will become inflamed. As a result, the patient will have a lot of unnecessary pain and can be life-threatening. The operation is heavy, and the patient's family is not easy to enter. Who knows what these attending physicians will do inside? Even if something goes wrong, it is very, very difficult for us amateurs to sue those professionals for medical malpractice!

Those of us who are completely disadvantaged and are very concerned about our loved ones have to bow our heads under the so-called unspoken rules. Actually, I am also a "sophisticated" person, perhaps because of my arrogance, and I usually don't bother to do such things at all. So, it was the first time in my life that I gave a red envelope. But now, I can only silently pray for the brothers who are even more unsophisticated. Hopefully, their father won't become a victim of the hospital's unspoken rules because of this.