Chapter 23: Selective Autism
"What do you want to do?" Zhang Qingwu asked with some panic. This man - seems to be angry.
Syllable!
Lin Wufeng slammed the door shut and said sharply, "I'll treat you." As a nurse, haven't you discovered your mental illness? Twenty-six years old, you haven't been in a relationship yet, do you think it's normal? ”
Lin Wufeng got all this information from Zhang Yunhai.
Zhang Yunhai once told Lin Wufeng that if the two of them were interested, he would definitely match. It's just that Zhang Qingwu's temperament is too cold.
Until now, she didn't even have a boyfriend. Zhang Yunhai introduced her to the doctors in the hospital, but she disagreed. She also had many courtes in the hospital, but she didn't agree to any of them. The interns at the hospital also gave her an ugly nickname. What is it called "Iceberg Nurse".
Isn't this playing the piano indiscriminately? Zhang Yunhai's only worry now is her marriage. So I once asked Lin Wufeng to see if he could cure Zhang Qingwu. After all, Lin Wufeng is the grandson of Lin Aotian, the king of medicine, and his medical skills are naturally higher than ordinary people.
Lin Wufeng also agreed to Zhang Yunhai at that time, after all, he is a doctor, and the heart of the doctor's parents, besides, Zhang Qingwu is really beautiful. With such a beautiful patient, what doctor would not want to treat it? Damn, I'm afraid that there are people going for free treatment!
After these days of observation and his own analysis, Lin Wufeng preliminarily affirmed that Zhang Qingwu suffered from selective autism - selective autism to men!
Selective autism, in layman's terms, is to only communicate with things that interest oneself and reject all things that are not interested. In the early stage of the disease, they are just silent, and in the later stage, they will choose to avoid everything, and at that time, they will only live in their own spiritual world, and have nothing to do with the outside world.
Almost every patient has their own experience background, but in general, it is the same
The emergence of sexual consciousness in early years, especially in adolescence, is related.
Maybe it's seeing some disgusting men when you're in adolescence, or maybe it's seeing the violent and vulgar side of men in the film. It is also possible that there has been a failed marriage and love.
The specific cause can only be clarified after contact with the patient.
Like Zhang Qingwu, who has obviously reached the middle stage of selective autism, if it is not treated as soon as possible, I am afraid that he will really become a robot living in his own world.
Therefore, Lin Wufeng has used all kinds of means as much as possible to break into Zhang Qingwu's heart as a man, holding hands, hugging, waiting for her to get off work, doing everything, and even wanting to kiss her, but obviously it didn't work.
"I just haven't found someone I like. What does this have to do with you? Can you take care of it? ”
"It's not like you haven't found someone you like. Rather, he hates and rejects all men from the bottom of his bones. Haven't you found out yet? ”
"You-"
"Are you still going to deny it? Do you feel like you're normal right now? Don't forget. I'm also a doctor. Also, I just had a serious emergency incident in the emergency department. I'm a little better than some of the so-called experts. Lin Wufeng said.
He doesn't do this to boast in front of beautiful women, but to build up the patient's confidence in himself.
If patients don't have faith in a doctor, they'd rather face the disease alone or let it rot in their stomachs than speak out.
If you can't cure it if you tell it, why should I blow myself up?
The Chinese people are not open enough in their thinking, and in their opinion, it is a shameful thing to be sick. Therefore, the number of Chinese people who experience it regularly ranks last among the developed and developing countries in the world.
Because they are afraid of finding out that they are sick. They are afraid of being embarrassed.
Of course, many more people are because they can't afford the heavy medical bills.
Zhang Qingwu looked at Lin Wufeng blankly, not knowing what to do.
She knew her problem, she knew that she had an indelible mark on her psyche. But is she going to expose herself so naked in front of this stranger? Being honest with such a man who is several years younger than himself?
"As your primary doctor, I need to know what's going on." Lin Wufeng said softly. The attitude is no longer as aggressive as it was just now.
"I-" Zhang Qingwu wanted to speak, but didn't know where to start.
Lin Wufeng didn't dare to relax in the slightest. It was only with great difficulty that he broke the woman's defenses with strong means. When she recovers again, it will be even more difficult to get her to speak.
"Who is he?" Lin Wufeng asked tentatively.
This already involves the knowledge of psychology. Lin Wufeng is usually very interested in this area, and he has dabbled in books such as "Master of Psychology", "Abnormal Psychology and Psychotherapy", "Neuropsychological Assessment" and so on. Even "Postpartum Care for Sows" has been read. It's used now, and it doesn't feel rusty.
"Xie Kaixiu." couldn't help it, Zhang Qingwu fell into the language trap set by Lin Wufeng.
"Can you tell me his story?" Lin Wufeng asked.
Zhang Qingwu realized that he had revealed his flaws, looked at Lin Wufeng vigilantly, and asked sharply, "What do you want to know?" ”
"A reason is needed. Need to know exactly what makes you start to hate men. Do you want to go on like this? Let the family worry so much? Also, the symptoms will get worse and worse. Now all you hate is a strange man, and in the future, maybe even your grandfather won't be able to approach you. ”
"At that time, what are you going to do? Living alone? Cut ties with all your family and friends? Lin Wufeng said intimidatingly.
Under Lin Wufeng's offensive, Zhang Qingwu's defense finally broke the embankment, squatting on the ground and holding his body and crying bitterly.
She's been suppressed for too long, too long.
Lin Wufeng stood there, letting her vent her long-suppressed emotions. Sometimes, it's better to cry out than not to cry at all. If you suppress it for too long, you will only get hurt to your body.
So someone once said that crying, tears can detoxify. Lin Wufeng said that he felt the same way. However, he could not cry, and even when his grandfather died, he only knelt at his grave for a day and did not cry.
Men, two lines of tears, one line of life, one line of beauty, and some men, two lines of tears, are only for beauty.
However, in this world, there is still such a kind of man, no matter what happens, he can't cry.
Lin Wufeng is such a man.