Thirty-three. Old-fashioned past

"Until then, your relationship ...... I mean, including Xiao Tian, how is the relationship with her? Including her husband, who has passed away? There was a defensiveness in Pantene's expression, especially when talking to me, and I could tell she was nervous, so it made me want to find out.

Sure enough, she was stunned for a moment, and wrote lightly: "Why did you suddenly remember to ask this?" How many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law in the world have a harmonious relationship? What's more, Xiao Tian is still a child they adopted, and his relationship with them has not been very good. My mother-in-law has a strong personality and always wants to control everything about others. And what about Xiao Tian,...... It's not good to say, anyway, their relationship has always been like that, after we got married, we lived separately, and if we didn't live together, the relationship was relatively good. By the way, you can ask Zhao Xiaochan? Remember her, right? She used to live upstairs from my in-laws, and she had been there for a few years, so maybe you could find out something from her. ”

Zhao Xiaochan? I was stunned again. It seems that Pantene's social area is much wider than I expected. Before I could speak, she frowned and said, "It's not too early, she should go back to breakfast." It's just before 9 a.m., and you're so dedicated. ”

"Don't you ask me, what did you say to Pantene?" Getting into the car, Qin Ming almost couldn't wait to ask, looking forward to it.

Looking at the smugness on his face that couldn't be hidden, it looked like it should be quite rewarding. I asked a little helplessly: "It can't be about Xiao Tian, what have you gained?" ”

"It's about him, but maybe not what you think." Qin Ming said lightly: "Aren't you curious at all, since they have been married for so long, why haven't they had children?" ”

"You are also a person who has read books, and it is difficult to understand that more and more people nowadays are willing to enjoy their lives instead of using children to bind themselves?" I'm a little helpless, how could he care about such a problem? This is a problem that only those aunts in the community will care about, right? Can he still ask it in a grand manner?

Qin Ming shook his head and said, "I remember you once said that in marriage, women will pay more. In order to save their marriage, they will make various efforts. Of course, children are the most effective way. In fact, we can all see that Pantene likes Xiao Tian very much, and since she cares so much, I think she will definitely have such a mind. ”

"And then?" I asked a little helplessly, but it wasn't necessarily a good thing to ask questions in a straightforward way.

"As I expected." A bright smile appeared on Qin Ming's face, and after a while, he sighed lightly: "I have always believed that when a woman is over thirty years old, it is a threshold, and many things that are not valued will suddenly become important, such as family, such as children. Pantene is no exception, she really wants to have a child of her own, there is no doubt about it, but Xiao Tian is adamant that she will not have a child, and there has even been an unpleasant quarrel between them about it. All in all, what Pantene said, Xiao Tian hates children very much, and resolutely refuses to have children. ”

"Why?" It's strange to me that very few people are so repulsive about children. "Something to do with his family? Does he not like his home very much? Or is he not ready? ”

"Probably has its own problems, right? But none of these issues seem to be too important. I also asked her another question. About Shen Zhixiang, guess what she answered? ”

These are all questions I wanted to ask but didn't ask, I looked at Qin Ming with admiration, but I didn't speak. Qin Ming naturally didn't care about looking back at me, and said to himself: "She said that there are more people who like her, and there are not many Shen Zhixiang." She didn't take it to heart, because a rich person like Shen Zhixiang, as long as he beckoned, someone would pounce on him, and said that Biqi was one of them, and she had seen Biqi and Shen Zhixiang together. It is precisely for this reason that she has never thought that Xiao Tian will really like Biqi, she thinks that Xiao Tian should like people who are dedicated to their feelings and will also be responsible for their marriage. What happened later was far from what she expected. ”

"That's what most women think, right?" I looked at Qin Ming helplessly, however, when it comes to looking at feelings, men and women have always been people from two worlds, and they can almost be said to be diametrically opposed.

Qin Ming was silent for a while before he said, "If she is telling the truth, it seems that everything can be said, and it seems that there is a problem no matter how she says it, right?" It's getting more and more interesting. Moreover, you have also seen that Xiao Tian's mother is the old man we saw just now, and she is also a retired doctor. It stands to reason that she lives with her husband, and even if the relationship is not very good, she should pay attention to the condition of the other party's body, isn't it? If you find something abnormal, you should be able to know in advance and prevent it. ”

From Zhao Xiaochan, we heard a different statement. Zhao Xiaochan moved to that community almost at the same time as Xiao Tian's parents, and she and Xiao Tian have known each other for a long time. However, in her opinion, Xiao Tian's life does not seem to be perfect. Mother is a strong person, almost everything has to obey the rules of the adoptive mother, and the adoptive father is a cowardly, weak person, before Xiao Tian was a minor, the mother was the pillar of the family, and it was not easy to survive until her son got married, but when she married Pantene at that time, she only proposed one thing, in the case that the old man can take care of himself, she will never live with the old man.

Of course, Xiao Tian wished she made such a request. Zhao Xiaochan is not a person who is very good at talking about the shortcomings of the family, but it can be seen that she has a good impression of Xiao Tian. "Whoever you change, you will feel depressed in that kind of family, and there will be someone who keeps nagging in your ear all day long, that feeling...... I'm afraid it's not something that ordinary people can understand. Young people, the most discussed thing is that someone is talking nonsense. ”

"What about Xiao Tian's father? How is their relationship as husband and wife? I asked curiously. It is definitely not a one-time achievement to be able to form such a family situation, so I am even more curious, what kind of old man is it?

"A good old man, he is polite to everyone and never says anything. Regardless of Aunt Cui...... Even if Xiao Tian's mother said anything, he didn't have any opinion. It's that kind of person, who knew that he would die so early. Fate, it's really hard to say. However, Xiao Tian has always had a good relationship with Uncle Xiao, and he often sees the two of them going in and out together. Zhao Xiaochan said without hesitation, with a little more regret on her face.