Chapter 68: There is a problem

"Ranran, my uncle brought you Donald Duck's comic books, as well as a lot of beautiful clothes and toys. [It's all in the box, you go and choose a favorite one to wear, and how about your uncle go out with you later?] Ji Xin's eyes saw Ran Ran, who was shrinking back, and made up his mind to understand the inside story, so he wanted to take the child away first.

"Hmm" Ran Ran's big eyes lit up, and he didn't know what he thought of, "Then I'm dressed, is it always like this?" Is it good to take pictures? ”

"Of course, the little princess is what she says" Ji Xin kissed the little cutie, her pink face was red and fluttered like a hard-boiled egg, she was loved by everyone!

Ji Xin watched Ran Ran run back to the room pushing the box, and then turned his head, "Sister, can you say it now!" Ran Ran has obviously become less courageous."

"Xiaoxin, let's talk about it" Li Cheng saw that his wife closed her mouth and didn't say a word, so she had to open her mouth to explain, "Actually, you can't blame your sister, she was also frightened"

"Well, you also know that your sister and I are busy with work and don't have time to take care of Ran Ran. She was so noisy that her parents were too busy to take care of her, and there happened to be a nursery across the street from the community. We thought about sending her over, not to learn anything, and to play with children of the same age. ”

"That's good" Ji Xin understands their concerns, it is impossible for the child to be locked at home all day, and it is unrealistic to take it with him. Grandpa doesn't have the energy to watch all the time, and kindergarten has become the best place, and white-collar workers in big cities do this.

Li Cheng hummed and continued to explain, "The plan can't catch up with the changes. Last Friday, we dropped Ran Ran off at school as usual and left. Unexpectedly, this little girl didn't wait for anyone to pick her up when she was about to get out of school, so she picked up a few children in the class and ran out without telling the teacher. ”

"The management of this school is too strict, and the teachers are not responsible" Ji Xin was a little nervous when he heard it, the little radish heads were too bold, and they still wanted to be independent?

Sister Ji Yu glanced at her younger brother, "How can there be such a habitual child, my mother is the same as what you said." It was rush hour, and there were a lot of cars on the road. The one on our doorstep, you know? Halfway through the crossing, the little dolls were stupid and stayed motionless in the middle of the green belt. If the neighbors hadn't found out earlier, they wouldn't have known what was going on."

"Uh......" Ji Xin didn't expect the story behind it to be so tortuous, but it was still a dead duck with a hard mouth, "The children didn't mean it, they didn't know the danger, and the school was to blame!" ”

Li Cheng was a little embarrassed when he heard Ji Xin's naked partiality, "Mom went to find their principal the next day, and I had to ask the head teacher to apologize......"

"Why do you still have an opinion?" When she mentioned this, Xu Jinmei was not happy. I am not old, I can relax with my children, and I will not have this kind of thing" Besides, those teachers are so young, and there are only two years after graduation, and they have no children, how can they know how to take care of people? ”

"Playing the piano at school" Ji Chenglin was concise and to the point, although he was also a high-level intellectual, he was also a little excited when he encountered his baby granddaughter.

"Dad, the little girl has to be educated from an early age, she is used to being naughty, and when she arrives at school, she will be the king and hegemon, and she dares to wrestle with the children in the big class. If you don't change it now, you won't know what to do when you grow up" Ji Yu didn't seem to be the first time to discuss this matter with his parents, and he seemed very helpless, "I've been sitting in nightmares these days, always thinking about what to do if there was an accident that day?" I even think Ran Ran has ADHD. ”

"Don't talk nonsense, it's not good for children to be healthy and lively, they have to be compared with those mature and dying little prodigies on TV, smart is smart, but it's still like a child who has just entered kindergarten?" Ji Xin was taken aback by the whimsy of the old lady. "Brother-in-law, you also say something, this can't let Ran Ran hear it, she should be sad"

Li Cheng spread his hands and made a helpless gesture to Ji Xin, "Your sister is a little nervous." Everything I said was wrong, and Ran Ran threatened to spank him if he didn't obey in the past two days, so the little guy was afraid. ”

"I didn't really fight, I just scared and scared her" Ji Yu saw that everyone was crusading against herself, and she was also a little aggrieved, which mother didn't want her children to be good, but the education method was difficult to kill tens of millions of families. Especially for domestic children, the pressure is even greater, and they have to squeeze the single-plank bridge, the high school entrance examination, and the college entrance examination several times.

Ji Xin understood the crux of the matter, touched his chin and said, "Sister, I see that you and Ran Ran are not normal"

"What did you say?" Ji Yu raised his voice and pulled his brother's ear and asked.

"What's the hurry, listen to me, and let it go quickly, my ears are going to fall off" Ji Xin was a little angry, how could this person still come to this trick when he grew up, and he bullied himself every time he was old "I mean that you probably have a psychological shadow again, in fact, it is the sequelae of that incident"

"Go on, don't rub it off" Ji Chenglin learned medical skills from the second master since he was a child, and he also knows a little bit about psychology. So the first one understood, urged.

"Well, the situation of the old lady is very simple, she used to be a little indulgent to Ran Ran. Now that he encountered a setback, he instinctively thought that his doting almost hurt his daughter. So overkill, set a lot of rules, don't allow this, don't allow that. ”

Ji Xin analyzed them one by one thoroughly, "Although Ran Ran is nothing on the surface, she must have been frightened by the cars coming and going that day, and her parents had a different attitude from before, so she would be even more sad and feel that everyone didn't love her anymore." The child doesn't have so much thought, and his heart is very fragile."

"yes, why didn't I think of this stubble?" Ji Yu, who had been thinking about the recent situation, quickly understood it, but in a blink of an eye, he blamed himself, "I'm so fierce to Ran Ran, will he not kiss me in the future?" ”

"Blindly worried" Xu Jinmei won the victory, so she no longer cared about the quarrel some time ago, and began to comfort, "How can the child remember so much?" Didn't she just kiss you behind your ass? Don't be so hot and cold after becoming a mother, let alone deliberately teach Ran Ran, just take more time to spend with her. ”

Ji Xin also came up with an idea: "Yes, anyway, won't you go to the United States with me after a while?" Play more in the new environment, and you'll be fine. ”

He also visited the kindergarten in the small town of Boozer, and felt that American children are indeed happier than in China, and their only task after arriving at school every day is to play with other children, and the teacher will think of various ways to play. There is no addition and subtraction, no literacy, and no composition classes, English classes......

The overall evaluation is that it is relaxed and happy, Ji Xin told his family about Lao Mei's education method, and everyone was a little incredulous. Ji Yu was the first to object, "Can they teach children like this?" Don't be unable to learn anything, the bamboo basket is empty"

"Sister, Lao Mei, this is really entertaining. Their methods seem rudimentary, even playful, but every year there are all kinds of geniuses in the world, the Nobel Prize is commonplace, and even innovative thinking is admired all over the world, which is not fake. ”

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