Chapter 413: On Education
Some people will never be satisfied, such as Meng Chaofan. Originally, Zhao Jiuzhou looked at Jiang Lao's face, and he didn't implicate him too much in the last assassination, but his political experience was canceled and placed on Jiang Lao's original Director Li and Shen Kun.
This in itself is already a rare tolerance. In ancient times, the monarch was not lying on the couch and did not allow others to sleep soundly. Zhao Jiuzhou was able to tolerate Meng Chaofan staying in his original position, which in itself was a kind of generosity, and even Jiang Lao had to be grateful.
However, Meng Chaofan is really a little dissatisfied compared to his younger brother Meng Chaoqiang. If you do something wrong, you still want to get what you used to have, what a reason.
So when he came to Yang Dezhu's house and asked Jiang Lao to help him intercede, to get back his political experience, and still have the heart to take the road of official career early, Yang Dezhu turned around and left disdainfully. He really couldn't believe that this middle-aged man who came to ask Jiang Lao in a low voice was Meng Chaofan, who was full of spirit and pride when he first met him at sea.
Once a man loses his dignity, don't expect to be looked down upon again. Anyway, Yang Dezhu thinks so.
Although he never thought that he was very good, he would even be nothing if he didn't get the inheritance of the Array Immortals, just an ordinary ordinary person. But he is also a person with a lot of self-esteem. He will not put down his dignity to ask for help.
Yang Dezhu didn't know what the result of the discussion between Jiang Lao and Meng Chaofan was, but after Meng Chaofan left, Yang Dezhu felt that Jiang Lao suddenly aged a lot.
Yang Dezhu didn't ask, but Jiang Lao said. It's just that he didn't say the result directly, but said with emotion: "People really change." I know that this child blamed me for giving up my dignity and choosing a career, which made him lose his mother. But I didn't expect that the reason for doing this has been clearly realized. And his son has become so unscrupulous to protect the interests of the eight families. He was begging for a father's help. He was clearly asking for a way out for the eight major families. ”
Yang Dezhu also said with some emotion: "If you are used to living a luxurious life, you think that hard times are not lived by people, how can this work." As everyone knows, don't all the people in the world live like this? Could it be that his eight families can't live without privileges? What kind of reasoning is this? This is a temper that has been used to for thousands of years. It can be seen that the eight major families have decayed into the soul. ”
Jiang Lao nodded sympathetically and said, "Yes, although we haven't achieved equality for everyone now. But this inequality is normal. It is normal for people to have different experiences, different efforts, and different living standards. His father worked harder than yours, so it's understandable that he had a better childhood than you and had a higher starting point than yours. But innate inequality is a social problem. This is where the ills of family politics come in. I've lost this son. ”
"You didn't agree? I thought you'd agree. Your own son, after all. Yang Dezhu asked with some puzzlement.
Jiang Lao sighed and said, "Alas! If he treats me as his son, let alone put down his dignity to beg me, even if he says something, I have to help him get a future. But he's just here to play political negotiations. You want to use family affection to force me to give up the goal I have pursued all my life. Haha, I don't even know why. As a father, I gave birth to him, and I can understand that he hated me because of his mother's affairs. But why should I give up the pursuit and just listen to his words? That kind of family fun is not what I want, and this white-eyed wolf son doesn't want it. ”
Yang Dezhu comforted with some worry: "You just want to open a little." Not to mention this kind of thing in your home, even in the homes of ordinary people, there are a lot of them. Nowadays, gnawing at the old, only knowing that taking is already a social phenomenon. It's all the temper that we are used to as parents in China. It's a worrying situation. ”
Jiang Lao also sighed, but instead smiled and said, "When did you kid start worrying about the country and the people." However, although your worries have some validity, they are also a little blind. We have always been this way of education in Huaxia, and we don't still produce outstanding talents. It's like your willow, are you willing to take care of it? Actually, children, some things are really born. If you look at your willow, you will know that although she is a little delicate, she knows how to share, although she is lively and cheerful, she is also a little precocious and sensible. In fact, children are far smarter than we think, and they themselves can distinguish between good and evil right and wrong very early. Some of the hypocritical pretenses of parents can actually be seen through by children at a glance, but they just dare not say it. Since ancient times, we in China have paid attention to teaching by word and deed. Some parents themselves are not upright, how can you let him teach you to be a good child with integrity. ”
Yang Dezhu nodded and said, "Today's parents are simply inhumane. Forcing children to learn this and that, but this has also formed a social phenomenon, and anyone who does not learn will feel at a loss. As everyone knows, parents have caught up with money, and children have caught up with time. The burden has increased, but I still enjoy it. ”
Jiang Lao smiled slightly: "So you never care about your child's time after school?" But you don't care if I look at Liu Mei and Yu Liya, but I don't care, and I haven't relaxed. ”
Yang Dezhu said helplessly: "I am also a parent, and I also hope that my son will become a dragon." But I'm not going to impose what I can't do on my child and make him an ideal. Parents of my generation want their children to realize their college dreams, because they see that in that era, being admitted to college is a success. As a result, college students are unable to find jobs. As for us, in the current view, there is a big gap in the emerging industry of formation mage, should I just take advantage of the convenience to let my children learn formation and become formation mages? Let's not talk about the talent of a few of my children. Even if they are all suitable for learning formations. Could it be certain that twenty years later, there will still be a shortage of array mages? Wouldn't it be that there is a shortage of too many college students today? I don't think I have that long-term vision, so I can't choose the future for my children. The road ahead is only for him to walk, and I am doing my duty as a father to help him. If I look at my current wealth, my children can live well without having to do anything. Am I going to let them do nothing? And then I pass it on to them, and they pass it on to their children and grandchildren? That's how the Eight Great Families were born, and I don't want my descendants to be like that. Their future, they go on their own, I told them that a long time ago. I have an obligation to raise them, to teach them what is right and what is wrong. But they are not obligated to check their lives. And I said a long time ago that if they commit a crime in the future and go to prison, don't blame me, because they have not interfered with their freedom of choice. ”