Chapter 289: Men and Women
"Dad, I'm going to the competition today. I'm not a kid anymore, and I'm going to be embarrassed in front of my children if you do this! Xiaoyao sighed, feeling very dissatisfied with his father's care, "I should be more powerful, I am a big brother, I can't let others take care of me, I need to take care of my younger brothers and sisters." ”
"You take care of me, I like my brother to take care of me." Yoyo is very simple and direct, this little girl doesn't mind being favored at all, although her brother is a few minutes older than her, "You haven't taken care of me all the time, I'm also a sister!" ”
Xiaoyao was even more speechless, he must be all kinds of heart congestion now.
For the spoiling of grandparents, Xiaoyao is called a peace of mind, because since he was a child, he knew that his grandfather and grandmother loved him very much. For the mother's intimacy, the little one actually likes and enjoys it, because it is the mother.
As for the closeness of the father, the little one is sometimes more resistant. He is not a stupid brother, Xiaoyao is a man, he should ride around on black charcoal like his father, he should be good friends with the most powerful Pooh and King Kong, and he should take care of his family.
In the consciousness of carefree, he likes to take care of others more and become a big hero; As for being taken care of by others, it also depends on who it is. Anyway, it can't be to let Dad take care of it more, so that he is not a big hero, this is not a man.
Looking at the fat son's little virtue, the deception is quite helpless and helpless, and he actually feels very proud.
In fact, Qi Ping didn't deliberately cultivate some things at all, and he didn't ask Xiaoyao to learn any responsibilities or responsibilities at all. Of course, he hopes that Xiaoyao can become a good brother and learn to take care of his younger siblings and family. But MEmu is still young. You can't let Loose go take on these responsibilities early.
Of course. This is also something that needs to be realized slowly in the process of growing up. This may also be part of the growth of MEmu. This should not be a simple and crude education, but let Xiaoyao slowly realize this.
I'm glad that MEmu seems to be more and more aware of this, and he is indeed a very good brother. For his younger siblings, of course, he takes good care of them. Even if he himself is a naughty ghost, he usually makes mistakes and is punished; But when facing younger siblings, the little guy is a good brother, even if he sometimes bullies his younger siblings, but more importantly, he protects his younger siblings and takes them to play games.
"Dad. I want to go to the competition too, but why can't I do it? I'm able to drive now, I'm able to drive golf carts and ATVs, I'm going to learn to drive big cars and airplanes now. Holding his father's leg, Lele is now envious and jealous, "Can you sign me up, I'm going to drive too, I'm going to knock everyone away!" I'm going to drive big tanks, I'm going to fly helicopters. ”
Compared with the sensible eldest son, the younger son is a complete little bastard and a little devil; Xiaoyao and Youyou, a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, are not as naughty as Lele. The most tormenting thing now seems to be this little Lele.
Qi Ping has a headache now, and he is happy to participate in the competition. His interests are actually quite extensive. Xiaoyao likes to ride horses, drive, and row boats. Although he has a wide range of interests, these are just hobbies, and he just enjoys the process of participating in these competitions and the joy brought by these hobbies.
But Lele is different, his interests may not be as extensive as his brother's. Although Lele also likes to play games with him, sometimes it's just to watch and participate a little. Lele is actually more competitive than Xiaoyao; In fact, he likes one or two of his favorite projects, and his passion is probably in the things he likes.
Lele loves baseball, and he hopes that he can become the best baseball player; So when watching baseball games and playing baseball, Lele will show enough competitiveness.
This thing really makes people feel helpless, and some competitiveness is actually necessary, which can be regarded as some motivation. If you are not competitive at all, you are too 'easy-going', and you can even be considered unmotivated.
Qi Ping really has a little headache, because the children's competitiveness actually needs to be paid attention to. It's not a good thing to be too competitive, because that might be paranoia; It's not a good thing not to be competitive, because then you will appear to be unmotivated.
Therefore, it is really not a simple matter to take care of and educate children now, and if you want to let children grow up happily, this is definitely not to say that children have no worries about food and clothing. For the children's moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic and labor, these aspects really need to be paid attention to, especially in terms of morality and quality, which is what Qi Ping and Kate care about.
watched the little guy roar away in the ATV, and watched the little guy roar away in the ATV; Qi Ping is not worried at all, the co-pilot of the car is still sitting on King Kong, this is a super bodyguard is very real, although it is a little crowded on the small ATV, but the superb body is enough to ensure that it can protect the free in case of danger. In fact, the ATV is really safe, and driving the ATV is the same as playing.
"Dad, my brother isn't cute at all." Yoyo sighed and looked devastated, "My brother doesn't like to play games with us now, he only likes to play games with boys now, and he doesn't like to play games with girls anymore." ”
Qi Ping shivered instantly, proud of his fat son's choice; Yoyo, this little girl looks really ignorant, of course boys can't look too girly, and they play games with girls all the time, so the little boy won't seem to be MAN enough. Little boys, sometimes they still need to be honest and naughty, so that they are 'typical' boys.
Yoyo is now mentally unbalanced, which is normal; Because the little girl has been with her brother since she was a child, and her brother is actually his best friend. If you have good friends, of course, you have to play together; Yoyo now has a lot of good friends, and she also hopes to pull her brother into her circle of friends so that they can play games together.
As for playing games with my brother and knowing my brother's naughty friends, Yoyo definitely won't agree. Don't look at Yoyo who is naughty sometimes, but the little girl still likes to be a little lady sometimes, she likes beautiful clothes and paints; But what about my brother, he likes to run around and fight with a group of little boys, and those games are too rude for Yoyo to like.
For the little complaints of the baby daughter, Qi Ping chose to be silent; Of course, the little girl's careful thoughts are clear, what she hopes is that her brother can play more games with her, and the little girl is not used to her brother, who has been inseparable since childhood, gradually began to have some distance from her.
This kind of thing is really normal; Although they are twins, there is still a difference between men and women. Boys have a boy's world, girls have a girl's personality, and it's normal for such a little 'disagreement' to occur.
And it needs to be acknowledged that children are growing, even if they are boys or girls, and they can't always be together. Twins may deliberately play together and grow together, but as they grow up and have their own ideas and interests, they will slowly begin to have some small distances.
It's better to pretend to be stupid in this matter, Qi Ping really doesn't want to interfere too much with the growth of the children, he doesn't want to plan the growth of the children. Let the children make their own decisions, they have the right to choose what they want to try, they have the right to do what they like.
The most important thing is that children have the need to learn to take responsibility for their own choices, and Qi Ping does not like to see his children indecisive or afraid to try or choose. He hopes that the children will be more courageous, and he hopes that the children can be more active and independent.
Watching Xiaoyao happily 'training', watching the fat boy ambitiously preparing to improve his driving skills and prepare to compete with some children. Qi Ping is still very satisfied, the fat son is still very powerful, this kid will definitely get more and more powerful; Qi Ping only needs to give him some advice and guidance, and the fat son can actually absorb these experiences very well.
As for the baby girl, she lost interest after looking at it from the side, and the little girl still likes to go back to the house and has been playing crazy outside. The little girl went home with a little bit of Romeo and Zhu Yingtai, and went back to watch cartoons and paint, which is what the little girl likes now. It's just a pity that my brother wasn't brought back by her, and my brother seems to like outdoor games now, and this is another playful little boy.
Well, that's the difference between a boy and a girl; It's not just that Qi Ping and Kate sometimes 'treat the children differently', but the children are also slowly recognizing these things consciously or unconsciously in the process of growing up, and their current interests and hobbies have slowly begun to change, and they are now starting to have some differences.
It's the men's world, with his fat sons practicing driving and the boys riding training. Although it may seem to be more tense and exciting, it will make the little boys feel very happy, and they just like this tension and excitement because they are boys!
As for holding dolls or drawing and dressing up all day, the little boys are not interested in that at all! (To be continued......)