Chapter 245: Helping People to the End
Cui Ze also sighed, Chen Lao Liu burst into tears and was emotional when he recounted this, if he was in other places, he might be manic, and then he would get sick. This shows how serious the psychological trauma Chen Lao Liu has suffered.
"Master Cui, save me, you must save me, I seem to have a devil in my body." Chen Laoliu couldn't cry, his face was full of tears. His face was very bad, his dark skin was dry, and there were many spots on it, and he often engaged in toxic work such as electric welding.
Cui Ze nodded and said, "Don't worry!" The devil in your body is actually yourself, the other you, I will make him disappear and let you still be you. β
Since Chen Lao Liu firmly believes that there is a devil in his body, it is really good, Cui Ze plans to use some extreme means to make Chen Lao Liu not only come out of the psychological shadow of the past, but also build the courage to face life again.
The method is very simple, that is, let Chen Lao Liu enter the world of hypnosis, induce him to release negative emotions to his heart's content, let him vent to his heart's content, kill people, set fires, and finally be arrested, simulate the painful farewell to the child after he was caught, and simulate the torments he experienced in prison, and when Cui Ze induced Chen Lao Liu to walk back to his own world, Chen Lao Liu suddenly woke up like an initiation.
"No, don't, I don't!" Chen Lao Liu shouted wildly.
Cui Ze quickly reassured him, "It's okay Sixth Uncle, you're back, you're back, it's okay, it's over." You've said goodbye to that devil. β
After some inducement, Chen Lao Liu finally calmed down, and the whole body was sweating profusely, as if he had been fished out of the water, almost prostration.
"Master Cui, I won't do anything stupid. I will never. Chen Laoliu's heart palpitated, he was greatly stimulated, and his whole eyes became a lot sharper, as if if the devil appeared again, he would have to teach him a hard lesson at any time and face it bravely.
"That's good. Indeed, don't do stupid things, it's not good for yourself or your children. And, I hope you will be able to start a new life again. Well, I'll ask a friend to help you find a new job and rent a new house, do you think it's okay? β
Chen Lao Liu thought about it seriously for a while, and said with a sad face: "No, she and that man will not be separated easily, and there is no way to start over at all." β
"Then you can forgive her for the past. Re-accept her? Cui Ze asked seriously.
Chen Lao Liu said without hesitation: "Yes! As long as she is determined to live well with me, I can accept it, and I have to accept it for the sake of the child, the child can't live without a mother. β
Cui Ze was moved, Chen Lao Liu is an ordinary person, but he is a man, responsible, and responsible. Have a kind and tolerant heart.
"Well, I'll talk to your wife. Let's see if she can change her mind, no, let's find a way. Don't worry, if they play tricks, I will help you hire a lawyer, and I will help you fight a lawsuit. "Help people to the end. Cui Ze is determined to help Chen Laoliu, after all, Chen Laoliu can find here, which is also a kind of fate.
Chen Laoliu was naturally very grateful, overjoyed, and his mental state was much better. It's like two people before.
Chen Lao Liu came out, and the guests who were relaxing in the waiting area outside couldn't believe it.
"Wow, Master Cui is really powerful, no wonder it's so expensive, not long after this person went in, it was like a different person."
"Yes, yes, what, you haven't treated Master Cui? Master Cui is a little expensive, but I think it's worth it, I think Master Cui's price is actually quite low. β
"That is, Master Cui is out of the horse, and basically no matter how difficult the problem is, it can be solved. Just look at the man just now. β
"That man can't be a to, right?"
"To? Joke! When does Master Cui need to be trusted? β
The guest who said that Liu Lao Liu was entrusted was besieged by all the guests, and he was almost not sprayed to death by saliva, just kidding, as long as it was a guest who came to Zeqing's office, they were all Zeqing's brain-dead fans, especially Cui Ze's brain-dead fans.
Cui Ze called the driver Zhao Qing over and prepared to go to Liu Laoliu's house.
He didn't want to drag it out, although it seemed to others to be a trivial matter, but it was important to him.
Today's incident is also a reminder to him.
Perhaps, psychological counseling and treatment ignore the people at the bottom of the country.
In fact, the psychological problems at the bottom are also very common and serious, such as left-behind children and the elderly, such as husband and wife, and the normal psychological and physical needs of migrant workers.
He is not a saint and cannot save the common people, but he feels that since he is engaged in this industry, he should not blindly pursue commercial interests, but should also use what he has learned to assume certain social responsibilities while making academic progress.
If the people who are adapted to psychological counseling are middle- and high-income people, they have not been in contact with the bottom group, which is inevitably a bit snobbish, or in other words, they only know how to chase economic interests.
Before meeting Liu Laoliu's wife, in fact, Cui Ze had already analyzed that Liu Laoliu's wife was not necessarily bad, maybe it was just fate that created all this. As a rural woman who does not have much knowledge, her husband is away all the year round, and it is true that after the physical needs are not met, she will begin to have a strong psychological need, and she needs a man by her side. And Liu Lao Liu is a wooden person who can't speak, or has no emotion, his wife has never seen anything in the world, and it is very easy for her to resist the temptation and cheat. Then it was out of control and gradually moved towards the point of no return.
After meeting Liu Laoliu's wife, Cui Ze basically affirmed his analysis, and basically did not leave ten.
Liu Lao Liu's wife thinks that what she is looking for is true love, although her lover is a little lazy, but he is good to her, caring, and will coax her.
Cui Ze directly hypnotized, let her experience the life with her lover after the divorce, without Liu Laoliu's money, she began to worry about money step by step, and then ran around for work and life, lost a lot of mood, lost a lot of idle thoughts to play romance with her lover, and then there were endless quarrels, and her lover's lack of responsibility for the family broke her heart, and she began to understand Liu Lao Liu's goodness.
When she woke up, she hugged her head and cried, only to feel that she was confused.
In fact, this hypnosis process is also a kind of baptism for her, and she understands and understands many truths that she didn't understand in the past.
She was ashamed of Liu Laoliu and didn't even dare to look at her husband.
Liu Laoliu, with Cui Ze's encouragement, still took the initiative to reach out.
"Wife, let's have a good time, I won't scold you in the future, let alone beat you, as long as you follow me wholeheartedly, I will treat you better. In the past, I didn't care enough about you, and I was also at fault. Under the guidance of Cui Ze, Liu Laoliu also realized his own problems, although his cultural level is not high, but he deeply knows that if he wants to be happy, he also has to make changes.
The changes in the couple are the benefits of Cui Ze's indoctrination and guided hypnosis, which can make them understand a lot from their virtual experiences as if they were enlightened.
What happens to Liu Laoliu and his wife next, we still have to wait and see, Cui Ze decided that this case will continue to follow up in the future.
Of course, he also began to seriously touch the daily life of Liu Laoliu and their family, which seemed to be really embarrassing and undignified.
This is not only the humility of the profession, but reflected in all aspects, the meager remuneration is easy to suppress people's self-esteem, coupled with the embarrassment of life will make people more depressed, easy to sink, reduced to a reluctant life. And a city like Yanjing doesn't seem to be accommodating to these people at the bottom at all.
A group like them lives a very hard life, especially if the husband and wife have no skills, and they can only rely on their strength to eat, which is even more hard.
There are problems with these groups and, in fact, there is a great need for social attention.
On the way back, Cui Ze had been very silent, and his mind was full of these things.
These problems are not at all useful for improving material life, and the clear imprint of class affects them everywhere and suppresses their belief in the pursuit of happiness.
After a brief discussion with Su Bai, he made a decision to set up a public welfare psychological group, and regularly go directly to those urban villages and slums to provide psychological counseling and assistance to the bottom groups.
They are going to do practical things, they don't need those things on the faΓ§ade, they don't want anything like flowers, Cui Ze asked for a plan tomorrow, how to operate.
Xu Feng and they are all very enthusiastic, they are also moved by today's events, they are all touched, and they are very thoughtful.
Shen Wantong is in charge of this matter, and Shen Wantong is a child who came out of the mountains, and he is very touched by these.
Public welfare psychology is also a field that few people have set foot in, but it is very necessary.
In many countries, after a natural disaster, it is the psychological counselors who are the first to follow the disaster relief team to the disaster area, and quickly help those who have been traumatized in the disaster to return to normal.
For example, if the plane is lost, how to comfort the families of those lost passengers through psychology.
However, none of these involve some of the psychological needs of the people at the bottom, who are in urgent need of psychological support.
Shen Wantong's idea is to set up a team of psychological volunteers to regularly go to the slums to provide psychological assistance, mainly for the negative psychology of the people at the bottom, potential marital crises, left-behind children and other aspects of counseling.
Liu Laoliu is not an individual case, but there are countless models in reality, each with its own sorrow.
This is still a small problem, and I am afraid that those who have accumulated resentment in work and life for a long time, thus distorting their psychology, which is what the psychological volunteer team needs to focus on.
The relevant plan was sent to Cui Ze's mailbox in the evening, and Shen Wantong was also quite hard, and Cui Ze wanted this kind of motivation. (To be continued......)