The Family Affairs of the Willow Vine (11)
Zhang Jingyuan's question is not wrong at all, Zhang's matchmaker said that it was a certificate that the official media had no official government, and that the private media did not make a good couple registered in the official government.
The state media is the agency that acts on behalf of the government to make marriages between men and women, i.e. official marriage agencies. Official matchmakers are called matchmakers, matchmakers, matchmakers, etc., and marriages made by private media still have to be registered with the official media and subject to the supervision of the official media, in order to comply with the provisions of national laws.
Zhang's said that he was the matchmaker of Liu Manman's marriage, which naturally made no sense. You must know the words of the matchmaker of the parents' order, the parents and the matchmaker are one and the same, not to mention that Liu Manman's father is no longer there, just say that the Xu family did not agree to this marriage at all, so the parents' order is not established, and the words of the matchmaker, Zhang's is not a legitimate matchmaker, so naturally the matchmaker she does is not counted.
Zhang Jingyuan said: "Mencius once said: If you don't wait for your parents' orders, the words of the matchmaker, you will peep through the holes, and follow each other over the wall, then your parents and people will be cheap." ”
There are basically no scholars in Siyingzi Village, so Zhang Jing quoted the scriptures. The people of the Liu family didn't understand it at all, but Li Quanyong saw that everyone didn't understand it, so he explained: "Lao Zhangtou's meaning is that if you don't wait for your parents' arrangement and the introduction of the matchmaker, you will drill holes and peek at each other, or even climb over the wall to support private meetings, then you will be despised by your parents and other people in society." Of course, the vine girl and the relatives of the old family don't know each other at all, so naturally there is no such thing as drilling holes and peeking at each other, or even climbing over the wall and supporting private meetings, but the words of the matchmaker of the parents' orders can never be abolished. ”
As soon as Zhang Jingyuan and Li Quanyong sang and harmonized, they defined the Jiang family's family affair for Liu Manman as an absurd affair without a matchmaker. Unless Liu Manman is really a panicked person, this marriage can't be done.
Jiang originally thought that Li Zheng might block more, but he didn't expect that Li Zheng didn't say anything at all, but the other two of you and I said that Liu Manman's marriage was a ridiculous thing.
"Although it is said that it is the words of the matchmaker of my parents, but after all, I am the milk of the man, don't I even have this right?" Jiang didn't mention anything else, saying that he was Liu Manman's milk, and he used his identity to oppress people.
Xiao Wanquan laughed and said, "Brother and sister, I don't think this is appropriate. If it's because you're a vine girl, your milk has to do her marriage, then the second family's can say that your sister-in-law is the master of your branch girl's marriage. Besides, this is a family, and marriage is a good thing to be harmonious and beautiful, why do you still make you reluctant and unwilling? ”
Jiang thought about it carefully, and suddenly felt that what Xiao Wanquan said also made sense. He hadn't seen Zhang's so-called distant relatives at all, just because Zhang told him that the Jiang family was willing to support his grandchildren to go to school, so he was like him. Now it seems that no matter what kind of person the Jiang family is, he should not make a marriage for such an unexplained reason.
Xiao Wanquan saw that Jiang's expression was a little loose, and said persistently: "I think the man girl is still young, and it is no problem to stay for a few more years, but the old family's round girl is about to reach the first, and the younger brother and sister still have to worry a little more." "What Xiao Wanquan means by this is that the Jiang family, you want to marry Liu Manman, it is better to worry about Liu Yuan'er's marriage. Liu Yuan'er is much more than willow vines. Liu Yuan'er didn't get married, and Liu Manman was even less anxious.
When Jiang heard this, he also thought that since Zhang told him how good her distant relative was, why didn't she think of her own daughter? Besides, although they are relatives, they are just distant relatives, if Liu Yuan'er really marries, isn't it just a good thing to be close to each other?
But now the Zhang family said that they would leave such a good family affair to Liu Manman, and the Jiang family didn't think much about it, but now that Xiao Wanquan said this, the Jiang family slowly came back to his senses.
Originally, it was a matter of nine out of ten, but now these people invited by Liu Tiandong have made it unjustifiable. Liu Yuan'er was already on fire in her heart, and now Xiao Wanquan hinted to the Jiang family that he was the one who should be worried about the marriage.
Liu Yuan'er was naturally very anxious in her heart, but Liu Yuan'er also knew that the more she got to this, the more she couldn't be in a hurry, if her milk really listened to Lizheng's words. If you forget this matter like this, then you will definitely not be able to hide the matter between yourself and Brother Baozhu. Liu Susu heard all the words she said to her mother.
But what else can be done now? The idea I gave to my mother was already weak, and now it is even more crushed by these people.
Now that he has thought of any ideas, it is impossible to discuss them with his mother, and at the same time, Liu Yuaner also has some resentment in her heart. How did the Zhang family do this when it was supposed to be a good thing? Now that this matter is so big, how can it end?
But even so, Liu Yuaner still didn't want to give up.
"A few uncles, in fact, my mother is also well-intentioned. As you know, my second uncle has been gone for several years, and there is no one in charge of the family. That's why my mother thought of Sister Man as soon as she heard about the Jiang family, and my mother also thought that if Sister Man promised a good family, wouldn't my second aunt's life be much better in the future? ”
What Liu Yuan'er meant by this was that the Zhang family did this for the sake of Liu Manman and Xu's future. You said that the men in your family are gone, my mother kindly helped you find a rich family, even if you are not grateful, how can you still say that my mother has bad intentions?
"Sister Yuan'er's words are good, for the sake of my sister and my mother." Liu Susu said coldly.
"If the eldest aunt really has such a good heart, why is my mother so unwilling to ask my grandmother to set this matchless marriage in front of the whole family? If the eldest aunt really thought about my sister and my mother, she wouldn't have taken my sister's reputation to heart so much. Just now, Grandpa Zhang said that he would not wait for his parents' orders, and the words of the matchmaker, drilling holes and peeping at each other, and obeying each other over the wall, then the parents and the people of the country are cheap. If the eldest aunt is really good for my sister and my mother, this should not be mentioned again. ”
Liu Susu only used what Zhang Jingyuan just said about his parents' order to seal Liu Yuan'er's mouth, and at the same time he was reminding Liu Yuan'er. Liu Yuan'er and Wang Baozhu had no matchmaking, and they were bumped into by her. Wang Baozhu also wanted to kill people because of this incident, and he still remembered it.
Liu Yuan'er didn't dare to say anything more when she heard Liu Susu's words, if she forced Liu Susu to be anxious. In front of people, he revealed the absurdity of himself and Brother Baozhu, and he was afraid that he would not be able to be a person in Siyingzi Village. But if you want to give up this great opportunity by yourself, you are really unwilling.
"What did Sister Su say, if the second aunt really didn't want my mother, could she still force the girl? Besides, there is still milk in everything. Liu Yuan'er meant that the Zhang family had been cleared up, and the Jiang family was in charge of this matter, and it had nothing to do with her mother.