There were guests at home, and of course everyone was very happy; The reason why Qi Ping is happy is that his good buddies have brought their families to visit, which is naturally the reason why Qi Ping is the happiest.

In fact, it's definitely not just Qi Ping who is happy, the children are happy; These little hosts are all hospitable, they all like to meet new people, they like to have someone to become new friends and partners with them. So these little ones are hospitably entertaining their friends, and that's why they're happy.

"Lele went to school, otherwise he would really have to circle around Xiaowei. My stinky boy is really a little rascal, I used to hear a little that he likes to circle around little girls, but now it's a long sight. ”

Brought good friends to the horse farm to ride horses, looking at Xiaowei, who was carved in pink and jade, Qi Ping was a little funny.

"I think he only likes beautiful little girls, and my son Lele doesn't like to play with them very much. You don't know how good Lele is to Xiaowei, the chocolate is taken out and the caviar is eaten. As long as Lele comes back, he will definitely take Xiaowei's hand and take her out to play, tease bears, and fight with orangutans, anyway, your family Lele is very owner-oriented. ”

Listening to Zhang Biao's ridicule, Qi Ping was a little embarrassed; The point is that the fat son, the little master, is treated differently too much, they are all new friends, but there is no reason to just revolve around the little girl.

"I see, if your son continues to be so serious, I will have to observe. When the time comes, give them a baby kiss, your son will definitely be happy, and I will find a good son-in-law at that time. ”

Shi Wei is also ridiculing, these are obviously jokes; Don't say flush anymore. Even he knew that such a thing was unrealistic. Doll pro. Speaking of which, it is no longer in vogue. Now it's all about watching the children's free love, where did the parents' orders come from, the words of the matchmaker and the like, what age is this?

"My family is really good. If you don't object, I'll be glad to do so, but you'll regret it anyway. What virtues I have in my family, you probably know now. The Great Demon King of the Mixed World, that's his type. And how impatient this character is, you can see a little bit of it. ”

Qi Ping is definitely not pit his son. It's telling the truth; Lele's character, you can basically understand it by taking a little look.

"Lele is good, your children are good. You don't know, my little Zhang Yu followed her grandparents, and she was used to not being in shape. I'll be honest, my Zhang Yu is indeed a little squeamish. Our family is just a well-off family, but this has already raised a young master. You're a billionaire kid, I don't see it squeamish. ”

Zhang Biao said with some emotion, he saw the children of Qi Ping's family, and he knew these little guys when he returned to China for the New Year; Everyone knows that the children of the Qi Ping family are naughty. And it's still naughty.

But it's really nothing, it's normal for children to be naughty; But in the Qiping family. A few kids are really not squeamish or anything. Although these little guys are the children of billionaires' families, their food and clothing may be relatively high-end, but these children are definitely not squeamish.

The little ones basically do what they can do by themselves, and there will never be anyone to feed them when they eat, and if they fall, they hit somewhere, and they get up and go crazy. There was even a party where I saw a band-aid on Xiaoyao's little face, and although the little guy was injured, he was still smiling, and even a little embarrassed, because he made it himself.

There is no such thing as crying, and there is no such thing as making Qi Ping succumb because he is unreasonable; These, the little ones really behaved very well, the little ones don't look like the children of the rich family, they are really not the squeamish type at all.

It's really enviable, because too many children are too squeamish now.

"I envy you when you say this, my Xiaowei is her grandparents. If Xiaowei falls, her grandparents will definitely pick it up and coax her immediately. Originally, it wasn't a big deal, but Xiaowei must have cried a lot, and then the small things will become big things. Xiaowei is a little squeamish now, this is the truth. This thing can't be said to be her grandparents' business, and I'm used to her, which is really used to some daughters. ”

Shi Wei seems to be a little late-aware, maybe he has known these things for a long time, but he doesn't plan to change them or anything like that.

Qi Ping smiled and didn't speak, he was really happy about this matter, several children in the family were usually naughty and mischievous, and the people in the family were also spoiled children. But if you want to talk about doting or something, it's really not very likely; No matter how naughty the little ones are, the family will not spoil them, and the family pays attention to cultivating some of the children's spirit.

As a parent, the psychology of spoiling children is certainly understandable, and who can really scold and criticize their own children; Sometimes I understand the truth, but I really feel ruthless, when it comes to my own children, after all, how can I not be spoiled or spoiled by my own flesh and blood.

But for the sake of the child's future, parents sometimes really have to hate to be rational, properly pampering the child is should, absolutely not excessive, to grasp the proportion, unprincipled excessive spoiling, to the child is harmless and not beneficial.

Children who are overly spoiled, because they have been surrounded by their parents' doting for a long time, do not know how to think about others, do not compare their hearts with their hearts, do not consider problems from the perspective of others, and are self-centered, selfish and self-interested.

Qi Ping attaches great importance to this point, there are four children at home, if these little guys are all selfish one by one, don't say that Qi Ping is not there or anything like that, even if he is still there, it is estimated that the children will make trouble and break up the family.

Qi Ping really wants to see the children love each other, and he definitely doesn't want to see something bad.

And once the child is spoiled, the direct consequence is arrogance, because all the concessions of the parents also meet all their requirements, including a lot of unreasonable demands, and he has the idea that he is the boss in his bones. Parents have to listen to him, dare to ride on their heads to talk and do things. I don't know how to give in. I don't know how to be tolerant. can't stand the grievances, has an arrogant personality, no one in his eyes, and behaves perversely and arbitrarily.

Again, there are four children in the family, so you must not cultivate such a character; If the four little ones all think that they are the most important and the most favored, then they will really make a fuss.

Besides, Qi Ping still has some money, and the children's future life will definitely be rich and clothed; Once the children embark on the path of perverse character. That's really the end of it. In the United States, the private life of many rich second generations is called a mess, and Qi Ping doesn't want to see his baby children become like that.

Spoiled children, many times tend not to do anything, become increasingly lazy, occasionally do a little thing is also lost, and even more undisciplined; And these children are also prone to excessive spoiling by their parents, and they do not stop some of their children's bad behaviors and impolite behaviors, and children do not know what politeness is.

These are really bad, because once the character is developed. It's really hard to change; Such a thing really can't be taken lightly because of the character of the children. It needs to be cultivated from a young age.

These are the results of doting on children, but the most important thing may be something else; For example, psychological quality, social skills, and so on.

Living under the care and pampering of parents for a long time, I don't know what difficulties are since I was a child, because everything is solved by my parents, once I encounter difficulties, I will be at a loss, my character will become cowardly, I can't do big things at all, I can't do big things, I can't stand any small difficulties, just like flowers in a greenhouse, once I open a greenhouse, it will inevitably be destroyed by a storm.

Because of selfishness, self-centeredness, arbitrariness and undiscipline, no one in sight, naturally unable to live in harmony with others, and communication with others has become a barrier.

Interpersonal relationship is a kind of interaction and mutually beneficial communication, and the overspoiled child always thinks that he is the emperor's boss, refuses to wronged himself, refuses to think about others, and always acts from the perspective of inequality, naturally no one wants to interact with him, and his interpersonal relationship will definitely be difficult to deal with.

Qi Ping has seen a lot of little emperors and princesses, and it is really the only center of the family, which is held in the palm of everyone's hand. Spoil children, who doesn't spoil their own flesh and blood; But spoiling children should also have a degree, otherwise this is not spoiling children, but harming children.

And many children grew up with their grandparents, which is also a kind of helplessness; If the child's parents have that time, who doesn't want to spend more time with the child. Grandparents must be more serious and careful than nannies and the like, but it is really impossible for grandparents to watch their children suffer, it is absolutely spoiled, and it is normal for their children to never be wronged.

Other people's affairs are in the same place, but in his family, the children's personalities are very good; In fact, for a period of time, Qi Ping also talked to his parents many times, because his parents sometimes show some potential to spoil children, and they may not realize it at all.

Fortunately, now everyone in the family is psychologically prepared, and after having four children, the children have slowly developed some habits; As for the adults, they have long been mentally prepared enough, they know the scale. Other people's children think it's better to spoil a little, but it's definitely not good in Lao Qi's family; Even not only the Qi Ping family, but also the education of the elder brother's family.

"Sister, sister!"

Sweetheart is a little aggrieved that her pony has been snatched away; The little girl has always liked to run around with the pony, and that is her sweetheart. But now the new sister Xiaowei also likes ponies, and Sweetheart is naturally willing to share it with her sister; But Sister Xiaowei has now occupied the pony, and the little girl is naturally psychologically unbalanced.

"Sister, ponies like me. You can't hold it like that, it hurts. ”

The little girl was anxious to run around, circling around Sister Xiaowei; The big eyes looked at my sister pitifully, and her little mouth was very aggrieved. But she didn't cry, and now she is still circling around her sister, wanting her to return the pony to her, and even more so that her sister knows how to get along with the pony.

But it's clear that Vicky doesn't realize this yet; She is an only child, and she is such a baby bump at home, and she really has all the good things at home. Therefore, it is difficult for the little girl to develop some spirit and quality such as sharing, she still thinks that the good things are hers.

The pony is the first time Vigil has seen a really cute doll; She loved it, and it was normal for her to want to take it home. And Xiaowei also understands that it's not her things that can't be taken secretly, she knows that she may only be able to play with this cute little pony for a while, and she is not willing to let go now.

Vigilly cries because her parents tell her to return the pony to her sister; So Xiaowei got angry, crying and ignoring her parents anymore, and she didn't want to play games with her sister, who was the big villain. There is another reason why Xiaowei is crying, that is, her parents promised to give her a pony, which made Xiaowei very unhappy.

The little sweetheart was also very aggrieved and cried, the little guy was very helpless and confused, she couldn't figure out what was going on. Because the little sweetheart is a little too small now, it is difficult for her to understand some complex emotions. And my sister was crying, and she was still saying bad things about her little sweetheart, so she naturally cried aggrievedly.

Crying is crying, but Qi Ping doesn't care much about it; It's not Qi Ping's ruthlessness or anything like that, if you want to talk about the children in the family, Qi Ping is definitely the most spoiled sweetheart. But this scale, Qi Ping still cares a lot.

This is a contradiction between the children, as long as it is not some principled mistake, then Qi Ping is not more to interfere, he will let the children solve it themselves. Don't underestimate the children, even though they are still young; But Qi Ping can guarantee that these children will be able to handle these things.

A lot of times adults just think that the kids are too young, and that's a good excuse for them to interfere with everything. However, this is too much to underestimate the cute children, and it will indeed get the children used to letting the adults help solve some problems.

Qi Ping simply comforted the little sweetheart, and then explained some reasoning to the little girl, as simple as possible so that the little sweetheart could understand. As for what should be done next, Qi Ping is really not worried at all.

There are four children in the family, two in the elder brother's family, Luo Yi's family and Steve's family; The forest farm is a children's nest, even if the children usually get along with each other, there will be no lack of contradictions, they can solve these small conflicts by themselves. (To be continued.) )