Chapter 175: Open Relationships
I have to admit that love is one of the most complex puzzles in human history, and the passion and changes that men and women can burst out of when they touch this primitive and advanced topic are really better than the most complex equations. WwW is worth your collection. LWXS520。 COM - It is difficult to find universally applicable axioms in love, and what you think is common sense is likely to be a new theorem that has not yet been proven in another person. But in these unpredictable chemical reactions, there seems to be an invisible hand in the underworld that dominates all this, love is like a sponge, wiping away all the fog on the glass, allowing you to see yourself, what kind of person you are, and maybe what kind of feelings you will get in the end.
For Chen Zhen, her love experience is actually like a mirror reflecting herself, not beautiful, but not ugly, she has had many suitors, but before the crossing, there was only one lover in her ex-husband. Although there are practical factors in choosing him as the first love, Chen Zhen has true feelings for her ex-husband. Her ex-husband is also an authentic rich and handsome one, although there are some common problems of rich children, but the character is actually not bad, she is sure that he really loved her - if it were not true love, the two would not have come to this step of marriage, Chen Zhen's son was conceived after marriage, she did not enter the door with a son - it can even be said that until she filed for divorce, he still had a lot of feelings for her, and it may not be an exaggeration to say that he still loves her.
It's just that for her ex-husband, his love does not contain the element of loyalty, and there is no such thing in other people's outlook on life, for him, his wife is jealous and disciplined, which is called sex, and it proves that his wife loves him, and he can accept it happily, but when he goes out to hunt wild food, it is called fresh, and even called trend, and people do not play true love with Xiaosan, let alone let women outside have children - her ex-husband's family is such a configuration in the previous generation, and her father-in-law did not cause less umami outside, so soon after making a fortune, his mother-in-law urged him to do a ligation, That is, before Chen Zhen got married, her father-in-law was old, so he gradually regained his heart and began to retire with his mother-in-law with peace of mind. In the past few decades, 'aunts' have also come and gone, and her ex-husband can count a few on his fingers.
Chen Zhen's in-laws have always had a good relationship, and growing up in such a family, her ex-husband naturally felt that monogamy was designed for ordinary people. After he began to learn to take over the family business, Chen Zhen took care of the children at home, he had to run all over the country, there were few confidants around, and it was inconvenient to talk about business - in his heart, the colorful flags outside the home could not threaten the status of the red flag at home, and if he was not good to Chen Zhen, he was still not convinced: Chen Zhen had never treated the red flag badly, and he had done a good job before and after marriage, and there was absolutely no situation where he began to toss after marrying.
When such a couple breaks up, it is difficult to say who is right and who is wrong, Chen Zhen has not hated her ex-husband, but she is not innocent when she thinks about it - she takes a fancy to her ex-husband, at least 50% of it is for other people's money, her ex-husband doesn't want anything from her family, he likes her 100% for her person, and he is more sincere than her, and you have to say that his logic is wrong, the fact is that in this circle of real estate tycoons, those who can be the same as her ex-husband's family are already educated and restrained, and others live like that, Why is it wrong for my ex-husband to live so much?
In life, I really admit the truth of death, that is purely because I can't get along with myself, I don't know before marriage, and after I get married, I find that he still has such a side, so I can't go back and slap myself, try to adapt, I can't adapt and I can't change, then I leave. Everyone walks together because of love, if you don't love, then separate, there is no need to turn your face into hatred because of love, it is too ugly to hurt others and hurt yourself, when it comes to divorce, her hatred is almost light, and she is even very grateful to her ex-husband, how to say that she still took more than 30 million assets, and got a well-behaved and lovely boy - if there is any lesson left to her by this marriage, that is, don't talk about love with rich people, at least don't talk about love too seriously.
The reason is too simple, and there are too many, the rich face more temptations, the rich are busy, the four seas are home, and you get together less and leave more, and the work is tired, imagine this scene: in the morning in Beijing, in the afternoon in Zhuhai, get off the plane and go directly to the office, have a regular meeting to make a decision of 18 million, and have to be patient in the evening to accompany a group of people you can't offend to eat and sing, and wait until you are drunk and hazy and fall to Simmons, what you want is definitely not to listen to some family members' chicken bits and pieces, It's about how to concentrate on tomorrow's work. At this time, sex is a kind of service, ISO9001 certification, happy to pay and leave, and do a spa effect is almost the same, silver and goods, than pestering the family that is much more convenient - buy. Chun you are the buyer, you don't care how the other person feels, you have to constantly take care of the other person's feelings with the family member, for the group of people standing at the top of the pyramid, they are likely to really not have the energy.
In fact, these are all the words that her ex-husband said when he quarreled with her: 'My heart is yours, and others are all pastimes', Chen Zhen could only barely understand at that time, but she never agreed. Now she's ...... I can't say I agree with it, but I can already fully understand my ex-husband's feelings: when you are exhausted because of work, the binding force of morality will be reduced to a minimum with reason. Service and sexuality. Temptation is everywhere and at your fingertips, and as long as your self-control is a little worse, it is really not uncommon to lose control of yourself. Not to mention that men are easy to cheat because of instinct, it is a woman - it is Chen Zhen herself, when she was filming in the Caribbean, she wore makeup for more than ten hours under the scorching sun every day, sweated countless sounds, and spent every day under mild heat stroke, and flipping through magazines and chatting about the phone is the only entertainment, and she didn't even have to watch TV, after all this hard work every day, when she finally collapsed in bed, if it weren't for the shackles of a fake marriage contract with Josh, she would also want someone to entertain her. After eight more hours of sleep, she has to get up to face another day of heat and sweat, if even she can't even enjoy this little hope of herself, the quality of life is inevitably too poor, don't you feel a failure to live like this?
Yes, she knew that Chris liked her, and she still had this instinct in the relationship between men and women - if a man likes a woman, the woman must feel it, if he just says he likes you, but you don't feel it, then it is not really like. Chen Zhen believes in intuition, she feels that these things are written in the instinct of human reproduction - she also likes Chris, she believes that Chris must have felt something, otherwise he would not have said this at all - go to his 'I just want you to know', there is no 'I just want you to know' in this world, it will be said, it just means 'I want to fall in love with you', 'I want to be with you'.
"And that's why we shouldn't say it." She said, "I thought you should be able to imagine, Chris, especially since we're not ordinary rich people -- we're not only rich, but we're pretty good-looking -- hell, you're probably the one who understands this best, and you should understand how much temptation it represents, and how many opportunities you have as an actor to go out in a year, and this kind of relationship with less and more temptation usually doesn't have a second outcome other than a breakup -- and the mood ups and downs that it brings?" That's the most terrible waste of energy. ”
That's Jenny's heart, she really hasn't thought about developing a serious relationship with anyone right now: when you're all about your career, relationships really become a luxury. It's not your money that costs you - it's not the most important thing anymore, it's the cost of energy. She'd been tied up for years because of that damn fake engagement, and now that she's finally breaking up with Josh, Jenny swears that the next time she's exhausted and falls on the mattress, she'll have the freedom to 'do whatever I want', without worrying about what Chris would think from thousands of miles away, and while she may not do anything, it makes a big difference whether she has that freedom or not. As for Chris's past, will he be faithful to a relationship...... That's not in the picture, her 'fall in love' option is currently closed at all, and no matter how good the applicant is, she doesn't plan to open it.
"I'm not saying I hope to get engaged to you tomorrow." Chris said, grinning as if to laugh at Jenny's over-cautiousness, "It's just- well, maybe sissy to say that...... God, God knows how many times I've laughed at my brother before - but that's the way it is, it's just that I want to develop an emotional interdependence between us, maybe it could be an open relationship, you and I can keep in touch with the outside world without any burden, but I don't need to worry about you saying to me, 'You're over'—every time I call you—"
He leaned closer to Jenny, "I can safely say 'I miss you' to you—we can make an appointment to connect with each other, we can watch a movie together, we can read a book by the fire—well, this one is too sissy, delete, delete." ”
He waved his hand, as if to add some strikethrough to his words just now, "Lovers can do a lot of cannons. Friends don't do things together, I hate that I say that, it doesn't sound manly at all, and it's hypocritical—"
Christopher has always been very changeable, Jenny has seen many of his appearances, cynical, childish and annoying playboy, sober and calm career strongman, low self-esteem and old screen image, and a big boy who loves to laugh and cheerful...... Now his expression also gives her traces of déjà vu, maybe she has seen it in a film and television drama, his eyes are green and shining, his eyes are wide and round, and he seems almost a little frightened, as if he was frightened by what he said, but because of this, it has a special persuasive power.
"But it's true that I want to do these so-called 'romantic things' with you." "In a lot of my relationships, I've always jumped away from the romantic part -- they're just about sex. It's just a stepping stone to love, and I've always thought men who really enjoy these couple details are funny, and I think men do these things just because they can please girls. But now I'm realizing, it's really strange, that in my imagination, if the object is you, these things seem like sex. Love draws me more to me -- I want to do these things with you, and I want to do them with you. I want to love the same way—"
He paused suddenly, almost hesitantly and asked, "It doesn't make you look down on me—does it?" Precious? ”
"Of course not." Jenny said, struggling to keep her tone steady, "There's nothing to worry about another person confessing how he feels, Christopher, and you're thinking about something beautiful, so why should I look down on you?" ”
"Will you promise me, then?" Christopher immediately seized the opportunity, and he asked eagerly, in an almost coquettish tone, "I want you to promise me - you like me, you said it yourself, why don't we give it a try?" ”
Perhaps realizing that his 'childish' tone did not arouse Jenny's motherhood, he quickly adjusted his tone and pointed out carefully, "After all, I don't see what you have to lose by trying, and if your concerns are only a matter of loyalty and nothing else, what do you have to lose by giving it a try if you don't set your expectations too high?" ”
Open Relationship ...... Isn't this equivalent to a very closely related cannon. Friends? Put good friends and cannons. Friends are combined, and then sprinkled with romance as a flavoring, you can probably get an open relationship, right? Jenny thought for a moment—to her astonishment, she couldn't find a reason to object.
"There's no commitment to loyalty, there's no pressure, there's no fighting," she sighed, "but there's all the good things that lovers can enjoy—the person who invents an open relationship must be greedy, or too share-minded, but Chris, you know it's not going to be popular, and there's a reason for it—"
She suddenly remembered Cesare's admonition to her: 'You have moved away from the mass way of life'.
Yes, she can't be considered a normal person anymore.
Jenny couldn't help but smile wryly, as if she had been dominated by a sudden impulse: why not ask 'why not' instead of asking, 'Why?'
"But no matter what, we can always give it a try." She turned the conversation around and shrugged, "After all—why not?" ”
Seeing the dramatic change in the expression on Chris's face, she laughed out loud and hurriedly gave Chris a preventive shot, "Just give it a try, no promise, nothing, if it doesn't work, you can stop at any time-"
Her words were interrupted by Chris without saying a word, and the new actor threw her on the thick fur carpet and trapped her with his arms as support.
"I've had enough to say to you today." He said, his eyes flashing with determination that could not be misunderstood, "It's too much -- compared to the confessions of ordinary film and television dramas -- and now, we might as well say a few words." ”
He kissed again—I don't know if it was Jeanne's delusion, but this time, his kiss was hotter than every one before......
The author has something to say: I've been waiting for a long time, there is a double shift tonight ^^