"She must love you very much, right?" Cai Mingzhu listened to Wang Xiao's words, and her heart was a little sour

Wang Xiao smiled slightly, and didn't have a positive response, but said to himself: "In fact, how a person treats you is not just to see how he treats you, sometimes the most important thing is to see how he treats others, and then you can understand your status in his eyes, and then you can understand what kind of person he is." ”

"For example, if a person is good to you, but he is also good to others, then he is just a normal friend. No matter how good he is to you, it's only because he's human, not because he's in love with you. ”

"If a person treats you well and treats others badly, then he may be in love with you and you have a special place in his heart. But such people are also dangerous. Once he doesn't love you anymore, you know what will happen. ”

"If a person is kind to you and friendly and polite to others, then you can know that this person not only loves you, but that he is also a good person. Even if you break up one day, he will be kind to you. ”

In fact, the understanding of a person is usually not simple, direct and equivalent, but can only be known through observation and comparison and empathy. For example, if a person is very lowly in front of others, but pretends to be noble in front of you, then you can know that he doesn't care about you at all, and wants to maintain a good image in front of you, but he is just vanity in front of you. You are just a pawn for him to gain vanity, without you he will find another pawn, in short, he doesn't really love others. The only thing he loves is vanity. ”

By this kind of observation and comparison, you can know what a person's character is and what you are like in his heart. You don't have to say it at all, you can see it. ”

Cai Mingzhu asked suspiciously: "Since you can see that she is good to you, and you think she is very good, then you should live happily together." Why can't you be with her? ”

Wang Xiao shook his head slightly and smiled, and said: "This question is a bit complicated, it can't be explained in one or two sentences, there are two factors." I don't want to talk about that today. What I'm trying to say is that there is often no truth about many things in the world, and the key is what you choose to believe. For example, if you want me to help solve a crime, do you want to do justice or do you want to climb up the ladder with merit? It's not up to you, it's up to me what I choose to believe. If I choose to believe that you are doing justice, then you are a police flower with noble sentiments in my eyes. If I choose to believe that you are trying to climb up, then you are a woman who is obsessed with fame in my eyes. Therefore, what I think of you depends on what you do to me. ”

Cai Mingzhu was a little ashamed, but pretended to be dazed and said, "I don't quite understand what you mean?" ”

Wang smiled and said slowly: "My meaning is very simple. Whatever your insistence on solving the case is, it's best not to force me to change my mind about you. If you make me change my mind about you, it makes no difference to me, whatever you really think. So, I hope you will respect my position. ”

Cai Mingzhu asked again: "However, I don't want to force you to change your opinion of me, don't you care that I change my opinion of you?" I also hope that you will respect my position. ”

Wang Xiao shrugged his shoulders helplessly and said, "People will inevitably encounter this kind of stalemate. Actually, this is very bad. In such a situation, it depends on whether the two parties can communicate. If you can't communicate, you're likely to have a fight. The so-called communication does not mean that either side is forced to compromise, but that everything makes sense. If there is a consensus between the two sides, who is right, who is wrong, who is excessive, and who tolerates, there will basically be room for maneuver. However, if there is no such convergence of the concept of being a person and doing things, then no matter what you love or not, it will only be a tragedy to be together. Maybe it's okay to meet once in a while, have a meal, or have a gunshot. But if tea, rice, oil, and salt live together, there will be constant trouble. ”…,

"I couldn't help but like that girl, not because she was so nice to me. I didn't say how nice she was to me, I just said that she was kind to me. There is a difference between the two. The only reason I can say that she is kind to me is because she is just a little more polite to me. I think you should understand. These can be judged by the comparative observation between people. ”

"The reason why I can't help but like her is not because she is nice to me, nor because she is beautiful. It's not like I haven't seen a girl who is prettier than her, and it's not that I haven't seen a girl who is better than her. However, what I really like about her is that she understands me so easily. I'm a hard person to understand, but when I talk to her, she doesn't have to say too much for her to understand what I'm saying.

I could feel that feeling very strongly, and I knew from her response that she understood me. It's not that she's smart, but I think I have the same understanding of human feelings as her. Therefore, I don't have a hard time communicating with her. ”

"Don't underestimate this kind of thing. This kind of thing is very important. The closer the relationship, the more important it is. If two people have the same concept, then it is not difficult to live together. On the contrary, if no matter how much you fight, the other person doesn't understand what you're talking about, and always thinks that you're not good and you're bad, then you can't be together.

"That's really not hard enough. Nothing can be said together, everything is like playing a harp to a cow, everyone has their own set of ideas, even completely irreconcilable ideas. Well, living together will only have constant disputes. Even if there are no disputes, they will live a very depressed life. After all, life is a trickle of water, and you can't always tolerate it, the key is to be able to get along. Only when two people are in tune can they be happy together. ”

"Some people are like this when they fall in love, they always blindly tolerate it, make it meet each other's expectations, let the other party love themselves more, and make the other party more good to themselves. Or maybe both parties in love do this, every time they meet, they will carefully put on a mask, and then deliberately create some false romance to show off their happiness in front of others. But in fact, this ridiculous approach is just to lay the root of self-deception. ”

"When you really get married, you can no longer pretend to be beautiful in life, and you have to expose the truth, and the contradictions will continue to strike. Either endure or divide. So・How many sweet couples are very sweet before they get married. But after getting married, there will be constant contradictions, and even quickly to the point of breaking up and divorcing. Even if you don't get divorced, you will feel that life is very depressing, and there is no sweetness when you are in love. ”

The reason is that they are not real when they are in love, deliberately pretending to be too much for the so-called beautiful and sweet romance, or too tolerant in order to be able to be with each other...... In short, none of them can let each other see their true selves. And in fact, their true selves are not in tune with each other. ”

"It's called ruining a lifetime of happiness for the sake of momentary enjoyment."

"It's better for people to be able to have the same ideas, so that life together is not so difficult."

"It's the same with friends, like-mindedness lasts for a long time."

"If the two of us have the same understanding of human affairs, then I believe that we will not be separated by this matter. You want me to help you, and I can't help you because I don't want to, so you don't think I'm not a friend because of that, right? If you're thinking so seriously, I don't have much more to say. ”

Wang Xiao talked to Cai Mingzhu for a long time, and his mouth was a little dry, so he went to drink coffee leisurely...,

Cai Mingzhu was even more embarrassed by Wang Xiao's words, and her face became blushing, which contrasted with the tears, adding a bit of charm. It's a pity that the atmosphere is not very good, otherwise, Wang Xiao can enjoy it.

"Okay. I won't force you anymore. If you don't want to do it, you can't do it. Cai Mingzhu smiled reluctantly and quietly wiped away her tears with her jade hand. Then I'll find someone else to figure it out. I'll go first. ”

Cai Mingzhu stood up from her seat, her high-heeled boots clattering against the floor, and quickly disappeared into the coffee shop.

Wang Xiao looked at Cai Mingzhu's distant shadow, and drank coffee without any worries in his heart.

All good things come to an end.

If you want to end up and break up, you can only accept it and get used to it.

Of course, Wang Xiao didn't want to lose Cai Mingzhu's friend.

People are different from each other, some people are suitable to be friends, but not to be husband and wife.

It doesn't matter whether people are good or bad, it's just whether they fit in or not.

But some people are not even suitable for friends, so they can only try to stay away as much as possible.

Unless it's a friend of interest.

Whether you like it or not, you must do your best to maintain the relationship, and it is okay to use all kinds of means to disguise, coerce, and restrain you, and it can even be said that you have to use it. But if there is no stake, then forget it. Life is tired enough, so why bother yourself, wouldn't it be even more tiring!

Wang Xiao feels that it has little to do with Cai Mingzhu's interests, and it is not too tense to maintain this relationship.

Even if he is nervous, there are some things that he cannot control.

The maintenance of a relationship depends on two people, and it is not a unilateral effort.

As he said, following the general principles of human affairs, it makes sense that he would not help. He made the choice he should have made, and Cai Mingzhu should respect his position. If Cai Mingzhu can't understand it, then forget it.

After withdrawing from the front of the good people, Wang Xiao's life has become comfortable and leisurely, and he doesn't need to be too busy with things that have nothing to do with him, he just needs to manage his own affairs every day.

If people only focus on their own one-third of an acre and don't need to be distracted by some meaningless things, then they will definitely be able to make achievements by concentrating. Wang Xiao is like this now, after not being a good person, he concentrates on doing his own thing, and his life is quite comfortable and leisurely, without the needless troubles he used to have.

For example, if it was when he was a good person before, then he would definitely pay close attention to whether the police caught the clues of Hua Nan, how the police found the clues to arrest Hua Nan, and how Hua Nan avoided the tracking and investigation of the police. But now that he's not a good person, he's too lazy to care about that kind of nosy. No matter what the outcome is, he doesn't feel pain. He just wants to run his own life. As for other people's lives, let them go!

Wang Xiao felt that when people lived to his level, they were already on the road to escape.

It's not that he doesn't do good deeds, but he doesn't insist on doing good deeds.

It's not that he doesn't help others, but he doesn't make it a duty to help others

If others think that he has to help, then he will not be as stressed as before, as if he is not human. He has a very clear and strong faith, and even if he doesn't help, he is still right.

With such faith, he will not have unnecessary troubles, nor will he be held hostage by human words.

It will not become a stepping stone for shameless people to gain benefits and vanity.

If people want to change, they must first change their concepts.

Wang Xiao has a better concept, so he has a better life. …,

It's not that he doesn't have the kindness he used to have, but that he recognizes reality better.

He is not responsible for the lives of others, just as others do not consider responsible for his lives

When he can't get what he wants here, he will find a way to get it from somewhere else.

He won't rest on his laurels in a stupid way, and then he'll only get a vanity.

Chun dreamed of the tragic situation without a trace, not everyone understands.

When people understand, they will learn to grasp the reality and not wait naively.

Wait until the end with nothing.

What you can grasp is your own.

Wang Xiao focuses on running his own life. In addition to preparing for the wedding with Zheng Fei, he is working hard to make more money in business, and then start preparing for his new round of plans.

According to Wang Xiao's latest concept, his power to do good deeds alone is limited, and he wants to call on more people to do good deeds. The most effective way is to guide the social atmosphere through media public opinion, re-establish people's faith in the world and people, and let people build a better world together with a friendly attitude.

Wang Xiaoxiao has become a number of media companies, including book publishing, newspapers and magazines, web portals, film and television companies, etc. He plans to use these media to promote truth, goodness and beauty, so that more people can build faith in truth, goodness and beauty. When more and more people are brainwashed by him, then the world will become better and better.

At the same time, Wang Xiao established a charitable organization, ready to carry out charity, help people in poverty to live, give them a good hope for a better future, and let them establish faith in the beauty of human nature.

Wang Xiao believes that the cause he has done will have a good radiation effect.

In the near future, more and more people will believe in the truth, goodness and beauty of the world.

Wang Xiao's large-scale move attracted the attention of the media, and at the same time, Wang Xiao used his influence to make the media pay attention to his career, and there were news reports every day to track his vigorous career and promote his goals and ideas for establishing the company, which aroused widespread attention and discussion in the society.

In particular, Wang Xiao's charity was immediately supported by the people, making many people believe that the world is still beautiful and solving many people's practical difficulties. Including difficulties in schooling, livelihood, medical treatment, and so on. In a short period of time, Wang Xiao has become the most influential philanthropist and people admire.

When he is fine, Wang Xiao also looks at the news and cares about people's comments on the cause he has done. If he does something wrong, then he will adjust it in time to make a better impact.

That night, after returning from work at the company, Wang Xiao sat on the sofa in the living room watching the news.

I accidentally saw a news item from a newspaper in Jiangcheng City that reported about the death of a corpse by the river.

According to that report, Bai Gan once shared a selfie video with a woman with his friends before his death. From these videos, it can be confirmed that dozens of beauties in Jiangcheng City have been raped by Bai Gan. At present, these videos have been circulated outside. Based on the videos, the police began to investigate a number of people, hoping to find further clues about Bai Gan's murder. Many rumors of the women involved in the case have come forward to refute the rumors, claiming that they never knew Bai Gan, and so on.

Seeing this news, Wang Xiao couldn't help but be a little worried, wondering if the rape Lian Tianhong video had been shared with friends in vain. If Bai Gan shared the video, then the video he got in his hand at the beginning may not be all of it, and there may be related videos in the hands of some of Bai Gan's friends.

Once the police saw the video of Bai Gan's rape Lian Tianhong from Bai Gan's friends, it would be a big trouble.

Because it can be seen from the recording time of the video that the video of Lian Tianhong being raped is the closest to Bai Gan's death. Then, Lian Tianhong will become the most suspected suspect in the crime. Even if it wasn't Lian Tianhong who committed the crime, it would be the forces behind Lian Tianhong who committed the crime. Then, things will be found in the cosmic image, which will adversely affect the company.

Wang Xiao had this worry in his heart, and then comforted himself in his heart.

It was only two days from Lian Tianhong being raped to Bai Gan being killed. In such a short period of time, it is unlikely that Bai Gan will share the video. After all, Bai Gan still did not extort money, and it was more advantageous for the video to be in his hands alone. If you share it with others, you won't have much capital.

When Wang Xiao thought about this, his heart became much more stable, but he felt that he couldn't wait for luck.

What should he do.

One cannot get the desired result by chance, one must put in the effort to really have it.

Wang Xiao has experienced so many things, and he clearly understands this truth.