Chapter 195: The True Meaning in the Ordinary
As the saying goes, "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders", sometimes the person who knows you best is not necessarily yourself, it is likely to be someone who loves you or hates you deeply, and everyone in the world has a shining point - that is, the so-called merits.
To really evaluate a person, material things are just foils, but to see your essence, what is the essence? To put it bluntly, it is the quality of a person.
In this materialistic era, not everyone can do Lin Dong's way, he is indeed very kind, compared to others for various purposes, he prefers to live a simple and pure life, he is actually a little lazy, maybe this kind of character can not help him succeed in his career, in this era, no money, no house and no car will indeed be looked down upon, now girls are very realistic, they would rather follow a man they don't like to enjoy a rich life, is also unwilling to weave their own happiness from scratch with a man they love deeply, this sentence may be a bit biased, but the vast majority of women are indeed like this.
This is the sadness of the times, but Lin Dong is not like this, even if Bai Xinlan - his first love finally fell into the arms of the rich, he did not lose his simplicity, which is very valuable, Lin Dong feels that he is at least worthy of his heart and can live an upright life! This simple character may not be able to bring any benefits to his life, but he is unwilling to change himself, and this is the last position he holds in his life! He doesn't like intrigue, not that he doesn't have enough intelligence, but he prefers to be a pure person, someone who doesn't need to live too tired—at least not too tired.
What is life? The answer given by everyone may be different, but Lin Dong's answer is very simple - ordinary is true - enjoying his own life in the ordinary! When others are entangled in all kinds of troubles, Lin Dong can lie comfortably in bed and read, and when others are annoyed that they have not achieved their goals, Lin Dong can bask in the sun very leisurely, this is his ideal life.
In Lin Dong's view, money is just a tool of life, and people cannot be enslaved by tools, so he lived a very happy time in Linjiang, although his heart sometimes hurts because he thinks of his failed feelings, but he is really happy more often, he is willing to help others, and he is willing to maintain his heart in this materialistic world.
Are rich people necessarily happy? Lin Dong has no money, but he is happy. If I ask you a question: what are you trying to make money for? You might say, "Of course it's to live a good life, but what is a good life?" You might say that you can live freely every day and don't have to worry about money. Well, suppose you have a lot of money, and you can't use it up, then - what is the essence of the free life you are pursuing? You might say that you can enjoy many things that others can't, you can buy luxury goods casually, you can have many beautiful women, you can drive a luxury car and a yacht, you can ......
Well, if you really live such a life, then I congratulate you first, and then I will ask my last question: do you think such a life will be happy and happy?
Many people may think that they will, it doesn't matter, everyone's life ideals are different, and there is nothing wrong with people who think this way, but the question just now explains the most essential thing in life - joy and happiness!
yes, aren't you chasing so many things just for joy and happiness? Is there anyone in the world who wants to live a miserable and miserable life? If there is, then congratulations, you have surpassed everyone else and are on your way to the highest level of infertility!
-- Happiness and happiness are really the ultimate goals pursued by everyone, of course Lin Dong is like this, but he doesn't have so many ideas, he just needs a pure life, to be able to live a pure life, he feels very happy and happy.
Lin Dong is lucky, his kind and simple character is still appreciated, some people say that it only takes one reason to fall in love with someone, but what you really fall in love with should be his or her merits, right? This advantage is at least positive, right? If you're out of that, then I can now congratulate you that you're starting to have a bit of a tendency to be infertile.
Looking at several women in Lin Dong, the reasons why they like Lin Dong are nothing more than the following: he is very infatuated, very kind, able to help others, not as lustful as other men, and very upright. That's all, except for Liu Xiaoqian, several other women are not short of power, so the man they are looking for doesn't need to be rich and powerful, so that women can not be affected by material things, what they see is Lin Dong's most simple essence.
As for Liu Xiaoqian, this woman has developed a very unique character due to the relationship between her growth environment, because Lin Dong once rescued a little girl who was begging in the cold night when the snow was flying, so her heart was moved in an instant, she is an orphan, of course she knows the sorrow of the orphan, what she needs is a man who can give her a sense of security, Wang Hao is really good to her, the young man is handsome, and the family is very rich, even if Wang Hao's own conditions are already very good, but Liu Xiaoqian still can't deceive her heart, She knows that the person she really loves is Lin Dong, she is a girl who is not moved by money, she only hopes to be with Lin Dong, she herself has nothing in terms of family, friendship, and love, so her dedication to love makes her bravely choose Lin Dong, compared to a rich life, she is more willing to live with a man she loves deeply, because only in this way will she be really happy.
Liu Xiaoqian is actually a very smart woman, although she talks very little, but she can often see the essence of the problem, plus she has lacked care since she was a child, so filling the gap in her feelings is what she wants most, Lin Dong is the man who can fill the vacancy in her heart, Lin Dong's behavior of helping the orphan girl completely touched her, and she has pinned her future on Lin Dong from that moment on.
Su Xiaoxiao is different from all of them, she is very willful and a little rebellious, often this kind of person is the most persistent in love! She doesn't have so many ideas, she just feels that she is very warm and happy with Lin Dong, and that's enough, Su Xiaoxiao is not very old, she is not deeply involved in the world, and she has not been polluted by the big dye vat of society, so she is the most sincere and simple person, she still retains her innocence, and the thoughts in her heart are also the most orthodox outlook on life, so she will really see the essence of Lin Dong clearly, so she knows the preciousness of Lin Dong's quality, and then she said these words to Lin Dong.
Lin Dong pondered for a long time before he spoke: "Xiaoxiao, I am a little embarrassed that you have spoken so well to me!" ”
Su Xiaoxiao stared straight at Lin Dong, her two big eyes flickering, and her face showed the most charming smile in the world......
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