Yan knocked the cigarette pouch and pot in his hand on the edge of the table, knocked the cigarette ash loose inside, and poured it into the porcelain jar on the table, but still took the cigarette pouch and pot out of his hand, ready to come back to another pot. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Seeing his son's ignorant appearance, Yan's heart felt soft, and he couldn't help but reach out, pinch his son's ear, and touch his head again. The heart is really big, when I was a child, my ears were fleshy, but now it is much harder, and the hair that was obedient when I was a child is now black and shiny.

The corners of Yan's mouth curled, his eyes were full of softness, and he pointed: "Have you ever thought about why you want to get married?" ”

Belch? Why do you want to get married? Yan Gu became more and more ignorant. Why is there such a thing as marriage? When the man gets married, the woman gets married, and when the time comes, if you look at the right eye and find someone, you will do it.

"Saying you're a stupid boy, you're really stupid." The smile on Yan's face was even stronger: "You don't like to read those tall poems, you prefer to make some delicate toys." Fortunately, our family never insists on it, but respects each 'each has its own strengths', and you are just messing around. Now that you are going to get married, and you have children again, you can't always go with the flow, you have to think about the reasons for everything, and you will naturally know how to act. ”

Yan Gu said honestly: "If you talk about making a mechanism and making a tool, let alone bringing a sample, I can always get a shadow out of it." But these mundane affairs, who is idle and has nothing to think about them. ”

Yan asked: "Then I ask you now, you and Miss Lin just have done enough of the six ceremonies, exchanged marriage documents, and went to the yamen to prepare a case and change your household registration, then Miss Lin will be your daughter-in-law." Right? ”

It is equivalent to the meaning of marriage after getting a marriage certificate, which is easy to understand.

"Yes." Yan Gu replied simply.

"Then since Yu is your daughter-in-law in public and private, why do you have to set up a banquet to invite guests and make trouble for yourself to hold a wedding?" Yan still asked the same question as before. "If you don't have to hold this wedding, wouldn't it be very simple, and you don't have to choose any way."

Yan Gu frowned and rolled his eyelids. Mother's words sound like there is a lot of truth in them. But everyone in the world has to hold a wedding, won't everyone be full of food? I think there's a reason.

"Writing a marriage letter is just a matter for men and women." Yan Gu thought about it and said, "Wedding, huh...... Is it looking for witnesses...... Right? ”

Person...... Proof.

Yan folded the cigarette pouch and pot in his hand. That's the word. Returning the person's certificate, not a lawsuit, what kind of certificate is the person.

"Alas......" Yan didn't know what to say: "That's probably what it means, but don't use the term 'human witness'." People have to live. There's always an identity. When this identity changes, you need to inform the people around you. ”

"Therefore, the major events in life, from the time of birth, must be done 'washing three', 'full moon', 'grasping the week', and then birthday, name, schooling, women's and hair, men's weak crowns. There is a corresponding etiquette. Even getting married, having children, celebrating a big birthday, and returning to the West are naturally essential. ”

Yan Shi said a reason, quite a 'godson' feeling, seeing Yan Gu's face suddenly, Fang was satisfied to let him go back.

In fact, the strict one is suddenly pretended. It's not okay not to be abrupt, otherwise you'll only listen to your mother more.

He's never been most annoyed with these socials. People are born naked, and they may not be able to take anything with them when they go, so why not be happy in the middle of the past few decades, and have to deal with those parents who are short of three aunts and six mothers-in-law.

At home as a child. Yan Gu's most annoying thing is that there are some big and small things, those relatives gather in one place, and there are always elders who want to pull him over, touch his head, and praise the routine. You have to listen obediently and answer in the same way.

Thinking of his days in Zhang Wei, Yan Gu couldn't help but feel a little annoyed.

Seeing Lin Hui, he didn't seem to be very happy, and the little irritability in Yan Gu's heart flew away from the Nine Heavens Cloud, just asking Lin Hui if there was anything unpleasant.

"Actually, it's nothing." Lin Hui said a few words about the Anbang Marquis Mansion, and sighed: "Speaking of which." I really didn't take less money, but I couldn't be happy. Su Qin is not a vicious person, she was forced to do this job, and she actually started so ruthlessly. Zhao Shuyun has certainly been raised since she was a child. is arrogant and arrogant, but it is a bit pitiful to die so desolately. If she has two good intentions and is kind to the people around her, why is this? Glory and wealth can't run away for a lifetime. ”

Finally someone can speak, and Lin Hui will pour out what she thinks in her heart.

Yan Gu hugged Lin Hui's shoulders. smiled: "You yourself will say, that Zhao Shuyun 'has two points of kindness', it can be seen that she doesn't even have two points of kindness, what is there to be pitied." You are soft-hearted and can't see others suffering. As everyone knows, the bad people don't suffer a little, and the unlucky ones may be good people in the end. ”

When Lin Hui told him, his heart was much better, and he smiled and said, "What you said has some cause and effect." That's it, the water in this mansion is too deep, why should we pay attention to them, just live a small life in our small courtyard. ”

Yan Gu thought about the house he rented now and the small Zhuangzi he bought outside the city, which were really 'small courtyards', and then thought of the 'small days' he would live with Lin Hui in the future, and looked forward to it more and more, and hurriedly brought the three methods that Yan said together, and even talked about why he wanted to hold a wedding later.

If Yan was present, he would probably use a cigarette bag and pot to smash his son's head. Yan Gu didn't listen carefully, and he didn't understand it very well, and he said what Yan said upside down. Fortunately, Lin Hui already knew the question of 'why do you want to get married' since she heard it, so she didn't want to do it.

In Lin Hui's view, the important role of various etiquette is to announce to the world. Therefore, the more information is underdeveloped, the more we pay attention to these - otherwise there is no way to notify everyone, and there is no Internet scarf, WeChat little penguin and the like, not even a phone!

For example, if a man and a woman are about to get married, you don't invite your neighbors and friends to come over for a meal, and people will still treat you as a wild couple. Anyway, if you come to my house to eat today, and tomorrow I will go to your house to eat, but I will not suffer, and the relationship will be close when there are more contacts.

So why do you need to inform everyone? A declaration of sovereignty, of course! This man (woman) is mine from now on! You big guys all know that from now on, you don't have to think about confessing to the fire extinguishing the fire of your secret love, and there is no longer a chance for the one who is in love to marry another one, and those who are ready to be the third and fourth may wish to weigh it carefully - we have already dominated the main position.

If there is a mass distribution that can fulfill the function of a wedding - the collection of gifts is not included, then it is natural to consider not having to bother to hold a wedding - and some modern young people in another time and space are dealing with it in this way.

It's a pity that it can't be done on this plane.

Then, you can only choose one of the three methods.

Lin Hui quickly made her choice. (To be continued.) )