Extra: Jiang's children's childhood
What is it like to have an IQ that is too high?
Jiang Zizhuo thinks he has the right to speak on this issue, but the experience is not very good for him.
He didn't like to cry since he was born, he just quietly watched the adults busy every day, and the adults said that he was very well-behaved and easy to bring, and Jiang's mother also agreed very much, like to hug him, kiss his face, and sigh that he gave birth to a worry-free son.
Father Jiang is a pragmatic civil servant, the kind of person who has the world in mind, no matter what position he is in, he is determined to do a good job and do it to the extreme, this kind of style is destined to he does not have much time to spend at home, on his wife and children.
Jiang's mother understands Jiang's father's way of working, because she is also a workaholic, as a surgeon in the cardiovascular and cerebrovascular department, she also has endless cases and operations.
With such parents, Jiang Zizhuo's childhood was destined to be lonely, he stayed with his parents until he was three years old, and was sent to his grandfather's house in the capital.
There, grandpa always has a cold and hard expression that is not smiling, although grandma will look at him with a smile and kindness, caring about his hot and cold, painful and hungry, but grandma still has many of his brothers and sisters around him who need grandma to care about.
A child who can cry has candy to eat, and for a child like him, who is always quiet and does not cry or make trouble, there will always be more times when he is ignored than when he is noticed.
At a young age, he was already accustomed to being alone, eating alone, sleeping alone, and watching the scenery in a daze. He always thought that his brothers and sisters were the same as him, until one weekend. Family gatherings.
The uncle's family, uncle's family, and aunt's family all came over, and the brothers and sisters around him who were still digging the pit all rushed to their parents with a cheer.
He saw that the eldest aunt took out a handkerchief from her pocket and wiped the soil on her face for the cousin who only knew that she had a runny nose all day, and after wiping it, she held him in her arms again, and asked one by one what she had done recently, what she had eaten, and whether she was obedient.
The cousin, who was usually skinny and dying, was obediently nestled in the arms of the eldest aunt, chattering happily. Jiang Zizhuo, a little older, suddenly felt that such a scene was strange and dazzling.
For the first time in his immature heart, he began to wonder if his parents didn't like him. Otherwise. Why have they never hugged themselves like this, spoken to themselves so softly?
This kind of cognition made the young Jiang Zizhuo's children very hurt, and they didn't like to talk more and more, and only hid in the room every day. Never play with those siblings again.
At the age of four. Grandpa began to enlighten them. He and several other children study for an hour every morning and afternoon. The high IQ is reflected in this moment, and what other children need to learn for a few days, he can learn in one morning. Other children need to memorize the three-character scripture of the disciple rules many times, and he will not forget it if he recalls it twice.
His unusually outstanding performance directly attracted the attention of his grandfather, not only opened a small stove for him, but also gradually smiled at him, which caused serious dissatisfaction among other children.
Children are jealous, and they need just as much smile and warmth, just like grandma does.
Grandpa's eccentricity made several children begin to crowd out the little Jiang Zizhuo, don't sit at the same table with him when eating, don't sleep on the same bed with him when sleeping, even if you watch TV, you have to occupy all the places where you can sit.
Although Xiao Zizhuo didn't understand why they treated him like this, he was an obedient and patient child.
Until one day, there was another family gathering, and all the family members arrived, except for Jiang Zizhuo's parents.
Several children hugged their parents and looked at Jiang Zizhuo who was the only one and sat silently on the side.
At dinner, grandpa called Jiang Zizhuo to his side again, shh
"Your parents don't want you anymore, what's the use of grandpa liking you."
This sentence was like the last straw that broke the camel's back, and the four-year-old Jiang Zizhuo finally couldn't bear the grievances in his heart anymore, slid off his seat, and ran away crying.
There are no children who can't ask for parents, and he is just an ordinary child.
The crying was followed by a serious illness, the high fever lasted intermittently for a week, no matter how uncomfortable it was when he was sick, Jiang Xiaoxiao did not snort.
He was just more silent than ever, and everyone knew that he missed his parents, including Jiang's father and Jiang's mother.
On the third day of Jiang's illness, Jiang's mother rushed to the capital and hugged him tightly in her arms as soon as she entered the door.
The smell of mother's body will always make children addicted, and Jiang's child nested in Jiang's mother's arms and finally cried again.
The day after Jiang's mother came to the capital, she left in a hurry, but there were also Jiang's children who left with her.
It's just that when he returned to his parents, he still didn't get the company he wanted, Jiang's father and Jiang's mother were too busy, and he was still alone.
Going to kindergarten during the day, there will be a nanny to pick him up after school in the afternoon, and his life has not changed much compared to before, but he has returned to Fengcheng from the capital, and the days have passed little by little.
Jiang's mother only takes him out to play during the holidays, and when he goes out, he goes to shopping malls and wholesale markets and other places where he can add things to the family.
Sometimes, Jiang's mother felt that it was really inconvenient to take him, so she would discuss with him before going out, and after a few times, Jiang's children only felt that they were disgusted by their parents.
As he grows older, his high IQ begins to manifest itself at this moment, and his mind begins to become more and more heavy, and he will slowly think about whether his parents don't like him, whether they feel that they are a burden, whether they leave them by themselves, and they will feel happier......
When Jiang Xiaozi thought about this, no one told him, and he had no one to say, and he didn't say more than ten words to the nanny.
Finally, when Jiang Xiaoxiao was about to celebrate his sixth birthday in two months, he made up his mind that he wanted to run away from home and go to a place that would not embarrass his parents, and go to a place where someone would really like him and love him.
Another holiday, Jiang's mother rarely transferred two days of vacation with her colleagues, ready to take Jiang's children out and add him new clothes for the season, Jiang's children followed Jiang's mother, watching Jiang's mother walk around in the mall, he followed behind, thought for a while, turned around with tears in his eyes, and walked the opposite road to Jiang's mother.
He wants to stop causing trouble to his parents from today, and he wants to live the life he likes from today. (To be continued.) )