Wang Ming looked at Deng Hong's face covered with blood, and couldn't help but feel compassion, this is also human nature, and under his own enlightenment, the previous body seemed to have a sense of disgust for this Deng Hong, and disappeared a little.

"Just do a good deed!" Wang Ming sighed and stepped forward.

"Wang Ming, what are you going to do?" Deng Tian watched Wang Ming come over and shouted nervously.

"Do you still want Wang Ming to save your daughter!" Wen Ya stepped forward angrily and pointed to Deng Tian's nose and said.

After all, Deng Tian is a middle-aged man, and he is also a very powerful person, a person with a head and a face, and he is not happy for a while when he is pointed at his nose and speaks like this.

Then he yelled at Wen Ya: "Where did you come from, ghost girl, yell here, what do you do!" ”

Yun Han heard Deng Tian accuse Wen Ya so loudly, he felt very uncomfortable in his heart, and stood up and said: "I said Uncle Deng, Wen Ya is my friend, this can't be regarded as an ordinary person!" And Wen Ya is still Wang Ming's girlfriend, do you think she is an outsider! ”

Although the elegant Deng Tian doesn't know him, Yun Han Deng Tian does! The Fang family is also a powerful force in Shenxia City, the eldest lady of the Fang family, Fang Yunhan, who doesn't know it!

"It turned out to be Miss Fang's friend, did you say it earlier? If you had said it earlier, there wouldn't have been so many misunderstandings, wouldn't you, but even so, you don't want to hurt my daughter, Deng Hong is my only daughter, I love her, I love her, although she has a very serious illness today, but I won't give up on her, and I won't let anyone hurt her. ”

Deng Tian said: "Wang Ming can't do it, Miss Fang, you don't want to, and your friend can't do it, because Deng Hong is my daughter, and as a father, I have the responsibility to protect my daughter!" ”

Yun Han nodded. She didn't expect Deng Hong's father to be such a character. Although Deng Hong is not good, but judging from her father's words, Deng Tian is at least a person who values affection, and his love for his children is destined not to make a person so bad.

Even if he is a bad person, but he loves his children deeply, and his parents, he also has unbearable hardships, at least such a person will have such a soft place in his heart. It will not be easily touched.

Seeing Deng Tian like this for Deng Hong, Yun Han couldn't help but think of her father in her heart, she remembered that when she was a child, her father was often with her, spoiling her, loving her and caring for her. Do her best to protect and cherish Yunhan.

Yun Han's father is also very busy, but Yun Han is very happy. His own father was when he was a child. At least spend a lot of time with themselves, unlike other wealthy families, parents have no time to take care of their children, which also creates a lot of estrangement, once this estrangement is formed. Most of them will be accompanied by a body, like a knot in the heart, which is difficult to untie.

That's why it's so important to love children. When an adult loves another adult, that adult will understand that he is loved. But when parents love their children. Children will love everything. Love is the best food for children's growth. The ability to love is the most beautiful quality. Love is the most critical opportunity to enhance life.

Yun Han suddenly remembered a story he had seen before, and he still remembered the story very clearly.

Previously, there were several children in a nursery school, and every day the focus was on finding love and destroying vents. Such a child has almost no attention at home, and this kind of child is obviously not satisfied with love.

We know that once a child is satisfied with love, in a state of ease and freedom, the child's true nature will manifest itself. His psychological, personal, moral, and intellectual qualities will develop desperately. In fact, adults are also like this, if their social environment is full of love, safety, fairness, and tolerance, in this environment adults will also become beautiful, develop quickly, be creative, and love life.

For a child, if love is not satisfied, the child's whole state is not confident, he does not cooperate with other children, he is often trying to get the love of others, or trying to destroy something, or trying to figure out the parents' minds to get some love. I saw a little girl of three years old who had broken her hand and was bleeding a little while playing, and I said to her, "You go to your mother and bandage it, or you will get infected." ”

She smiled and said, "It doesn't matter. "It was a winter evening, and she was playing with dirt outside, so I advised her to go back and bandage it before coming out to play. She hesitated and said, "Okay!" She went home happily, but as soon as she entered, she cried loudly, exaggerating her wounds. Her mother comforted her. When she went out in tears and saw me still standing in the doorway, she immediately smiled and raised her finger and said, "Hero!"

It is sad to let a child whose life is flourishing to scheming to get love.

The state of many children is that he knows that at this time he cries, his mother will love him. We know that children love you because others love them. He looks at the actions of others, he doesn't look at what you preach, which is also characteristic of the Montessori "absorbent mind." There is a saying in China: "It is better to give a good heart to a child than a good face." "I warn all parents: you would rather not give him a good heart, you also give him a good face, he will definitely grow up well. This reminds me of a poem by A.S. Pushkin: "It's easy to lie to me once, just beg you to lie to me." ”

Because the "good face" of parents can provide children with a foundation for emotional security, the result is that as they grow older, children are more likely to adopt the same values and other behaviors as their parents. But this "good face" must be given steadily. For example, a teacher in our nursery school broke his leg a little, and a child was operating teaching aids, and when he saw it, he ran out holding the teaching aids. A teacher in the aisle bumped into him and asked, "Why did you take out your teaching aids?" The teacher takes you into the classroom. And he brought him in. The child burst into tears when he saw the teacher with a broken leg. The teacher said, "Why did you take out the teaching aids?" The child said, "The teacher's leg is broken, and I am going to the doctor." ”

The teacher was so moved that he squatted down and said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, the teacher doesn't know." The teacher thought that this was the end of the matter, and the child went to work in the classroom. But when it was time for lunch, the boy was eating in the dining room and suddenly ran out again, and he saw through the window that the doctor had passed by. He ran out and said, "Doctor, doctor, our teacher's leg is broken. When he ran out, the teacher followed.

The doctor said, "Okay, I'll go see the teacher." With that, the boy let out a long breath and ran back. In the article, the teacher said: "The child is calm, but my heart is not at peace, and I know that the love I usually give to the child has been reciprocated. "Children learn to love, and it is the best reward for teachers and society to make children possess such qualities.

Yun Han remembered that many parents want to get along with their children, how to divide in the end.

Read some classic books, understand the laws of children's growth and the process of spiritual construction, and understand that human growth is actually the process of spiritual growth. In this way, you will understand the child, understand why the child grabs things, and puts everything in his mouth; Why children like to play with water, mud, and eat with their hands?

There is a saying: "There are no more punishments for a man than two things, depriving him of two things, one is the strength of the heart; One is the dignity of the human person. "Let's put the "inner strength" aside for a moment, because it's too complicated. I just mention human dignity, and I think it's common for us adults to reprimand children, or to give children a look.

Parents believe that children have no self-esteem, and children do lose self-esteem. In the long run, it doesn't matter if parents scold or beat their children. Some people, because of their childhood, spend their whole lives maintaining their self-esteem and struggle with contradictions, constantly maintaining their self-esteem on the one hand, and hurting others on the other. So I'm going to tell some parents, if your child doesn't have self-esteem, you'd better ask yourself first, have you ever given him such wealth?

Life is so cruel, you don't give, of course you don't get anything in return, you say, "How can a parent not love their children?" I fed and clothed him, and raised him, and I loved him in my heart. But every day you complain about him, you rebuke him, you reprimand him, and 70 percent of the language is negative. You reprimanded him in front of someone, and you even kicked him in the street. When someone comes to the house, you tell the guests about some of the child's shortcomings in front of the child, you constantly misunderstand the child from an adult's point of view, etc., these are not love.

What is love?" Love is patience, love is kindness, love is not envy, love is not boasting, it is not arrogant, it does not do rudeness, it does not seek its own gain, it does not get angry...... Only love the truth. Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things, love is a never-ending wait. ”

Yun Han often thinks that if an adult treats and understands a child with loving behavior and attitude, the child will be happy, confident, brave and full of love. More importantly, children can create a new world and life in the future based on this love.

We had dreamed of a more perfect life, where everyone was equal and understood each other; No spitting, no flies and no garbage, people with their children playing on the lawn in front of the door, old people enjoying the shade under the trees, philosophers talking in whispers on the sofas in front of the windows, girls sitting quietly on wooden chairs in the flowers holding poetry books, teenagers running on the court, poets talking in the nearby teahouse...... All this is not far off. If you love a child, let his spirit be happy, you give them good, and children can bring us a golden future. That hope is more reliable in children than in any adult. Because "children are the fathers of adults, children are the fathers of mankind, children are the fathers of civilization"

Yun Han is very grateful to his father, grateful to the father who is so busy every day, and will take out a lot of his precious time to accompany him, which is really good, really. (To be continued......)