Chapter 079, Good Girls and Bad Girls

"If you don't accept it, then tell me, why are you a man? What does your man look like? Just with a handlebar? Canglong looked at Tang Long unceremoniously.

So Tang Long stopped talking, originally he had a lot of words to define in his heart, but in the end he found that he couldn't use any of them, it seemed that Canglong's last "belt" was reasonable, but he was unwilling to admit this definition in public, if he admitted it, it would be equivalent to agreeing to Canglong's previous statement, he was just a lower body animal.

At this time, he suddenly felt that it was a mistake for him to stand up, and he was very uncomfortable in his heart, and even hated Canglong for why he had forced himself to such an embarrassing point, wasn't it just a few words with Wang Jiao?

"Sit down." Canglong said suddenly, he knew that his words hurt Tang Long a lot, but he had to say this, and it was also not that he was protecting Wang Jiao.

Hearing this, Tang Long sat down very unhappily, but the eyes around him made him feel like a pinprick, and at this moment, Canglong picked up the chalk and wrote eight words on the blackboard, which were divided into a group of four words, one group was male superiority and female inferiority, and the other group was chivalry.

He let the students look at it for a long time before he spoke: "I think you have all heard these two phrases, the first can represent the relationship between men and women in Chinese history, and the second can represent the relationship between men and women in British history, even now, these two words can still describe the relationship between men and women in China and the relationship between men and women in Britain." ”

"Teacher, what you said is ancient times, but this is not the case in modern China." Suddenly, a boy heard what Canglong wanted to say, so he was not convinced.

"Then tell me, why no one in the class defines a virgin, but a boy must define a virgin?" Canglong asked, staring at the student.

So the boy in the class immediately stopped talking, and then lowered his head again.

"Human history is constantly moving towards civilization and etiquette, we often call ourselves a country of etiquette, often call ourselves a big country, often claim that we have 5,000 years of civilization, but we never thought that in these 5,000 years of civilization, Chinese men have been ignoring their women, even in modern times, they still shirk most of the responsibility to women, and they proudly say that they are men, they are husbands, and they are manly." Canglong said, looking at every boy, "I like Chinese culture very much, but I don't agree with that bullshit saying that men are inferior to women, and I believe you don't agree either, right?" ”

This time, no one among the boys nodded, and no one shook their heads, at this time, the atmosphere in the classroom was not at all hip-hop just now, more serious, and the girls were all excited, it was obvious that this time Mr. Cang was going to give them a head and slam this group of self-righteous "manly".

It's just that they soon found out that this was not the case, Canglong did not lash out at them fiercely, but his tone became softer: "We call ourselves a big country, and we also know that there is an island country in Europe called the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, it was once the most powerful country in the world, known as the empire on which the sun never sets, and it still implements a constitutional monarchy in a feudal society, but the men of this country have never oppressed their women, and they show more humility and elegance in front of women, There is no so-called concept of male superiority and inferiority, men in this country believe in chivalry, and the most important part of chivalry is to respect women. ”

Canglong said, looking at the boys, but there were still many people who were not convinced, Tang Long immediately stood up and said, "Teacher Cang, are you going to teach us to worship foreign countries?" ”

"That is, the British have the traditions of the British, we Chinese have the traditions of the Chinese, why should we learn from a small Western country, after saying that Britain is no longer an empire on which the sun never sets, he has become history." One of the boys muttered.

"Worship the foreign? Tradition? Don't have to learn from small countries? Canglong looked at Tang Long and some unconvinced boys with a sympathetic expression, "I remember that the emperors of the Qing Dynasty in the past had almost the same idea as you, but the expression was different, the emperor of the Qing Dynasty thought that China at that time was the Celestial Empire and must be surrendered from all over the world, but who would have thought that an opium war, the small country in the eyes of the Qing Dynasty emperor would fight his Celestial Empire for a long time, and now you tell me that you don't need to learn from others?" Want to follow your own traditions? ”

Hearing this, the boys immediately stopped talking, and even felt that what they just said was really stupid, sitting here, they were like the emperor who was sitting in the capital at the beginning, Yelang arrogantly looked down on a small country on the map, but in the end he was beaten by this small country.

"If Chinese traditions are all the dregs of male superiority and inferiority, I don't think it's okay not to follow them." Canglong looked at them and said coldly.

The entire classroom recalled the aftermath of Canglong's words just now, and then they could hear their breathing in silence, and the boys finally stopped refutating, and even the anger on Tang Long's face disappeared a lot.

Obviously, in traditional Chinese culture, there is not only the dregs of male superiority and female inferiority, but more virtues worthy of our admiration, but these virtues you are not willing to learn, because in this modern Chinese society, our men, just like in ancient times, put more responsibility on women, it seems that men and women are equal, but you call yourself a "man" at the same time really give women equality? Canglong asked.

"But does this have anything to do with the quarrel between me and Wang Jiao?" Tang Long suddenly asked rhetorically.

"It's a big deal." Canglong looked at him and his expression suddenly softened, "Because Chinese women rarely require their other half to be a virgin, while most Chinese men expect their women to be virgins, don't you think it matters?" Do you think it's equal? ”

"That's because of themselves," Tang Long blurted out, but suddenly found that the eyes of the girls around him were vicious, so he swallowed the words back.

"It's them who want to give their bodies to men, right?" Canglong did not shy away from looking at Tang Long, and suddenly smiled, "It's really funny, naΓ―ve, don't you think that in your words, there is a kind of meaning that you can't eat grapes but say that grapes are sour?" You can scold a girl who is not a virgin for being "sassy", then let me tell you, men are more eager for "sex" than women, according to you, in fact, men are "sassy" than women, at least ten times. ”

As he spoke, Canglong gestured his fingers.

Suddenly, the girls of the entire ninth class smiled with red cheeks, although Canglong's words were so red. Bare. Bare. But it was very comfortable to hear the girls.

"Or is it just that you're too narrow-minded to accept this?" Canglong looked at him, his tone was not so heavy.

"But there is still the word loyalty in traditional culture, can you say that this is not a virtue either?" Tang Long retorted again.

"Loyalty?" Canglong shook his head, "The real loyalty is not the so-called virgin and non-virgin loyalty, but the loyalty to love and the chastity of marriage between men and women, it is a pity that in China, the probability of a woman cheating is still much smaller than that of a man, and the probability of a man cheating is ten times that of a woman, and even many men take it for granted that they keep mistresses, is it a man who is unfaithful, or a woman who is unfaithful?" ”

Tang Long was speechless.

"There is a humble gentleman in traditional Chinese culture, as well as a more simple manhood, these two sayings coincide with the chivalry of the West, the real man is tolerant and open-minded, brave and upright, and knows how to respect the women around him, this is the real blood man, and Tang Long, although you have a manly physique, but you are not a man, at most a little boy, because your heart is full of naΓ―ve ideas; It's not your fault that you have a virgin plot, but you can't ask the women around you or your future wife to be a virgin, even if you're a virgin yourself, but you tell me, are you? Canglong asked.

Tang Long immediately blushed, and he was a little embarrassed and didn't know how to answer.

"In Western countries, there is no such thing as a virgin, because they think that the word virgin is disrespectful to women, because their men rarely ask their women to be virgins, and their women will have many men in their lives, and their men will have many women in their lives, and this concept is particularly prominent in the United States, American men generally don't like conservative women, and the so-called conservative women are actually virgins in your eyes, because conservative women have no "sexual" experience and can't make both parties happy. Canglong looked at them, only to find that most of them were blushing.

But Canglong did not stop, but continued: "American women will not even claim that they are virgins, because for American women, this is a very shameful thing, of course, I am telling you this, not to let girls learn from them, but to tell you that the interaction between men and women is equal, neither men nor women can ask each other what it must be, and there is no need to say how this woman is, what that woman is, because this is a very mature performance, For a guy who wants to pursue a girl, such an immature performance will only lower your score in her mind. ”

Tang Long moved his buttocks, as if he wanted to stand up and do something, but everyone was worried about something, but in the end, he gritted his teeth, stood up and said to Wang Jiao: "I'm sorry." ”

At this moment, not only Wang Jiao couldn't believe it, but the entire ninth class couldn't believe it, but Wang Jiao still replied open-mindedly: "I shouldn't have scolded your mother, I apologize to you." ”

Seeing that the two of them made peace, Canglong breathed a sigh of relief, he said so much, if there is no effect, it is really a failure.

"The reason why I am saying this to you, and comparing Chinese culture with Western culture, is not to instill anything in you, but just to tell you that you are both eighteen years old, and there are some things you want to say." After a pause, Canglong said, "There is a big difference between Chinese culture and Western culture, if Tang Long's words are placed in Western countries, no one will say anything about him at all, and even girls will flatter him, but it is completely different in China, the traditional conservative culture will immediately turn a good girl into a bad girl in your eyes, because traditional culture has too high requirements for women, and it must be to maintain the so-called chastity to be considered a good girl." ”

And the word "Sao" in ancient times, representing the high wind and bright festival, such as the literati, Qu Yuan's divorce, in Western countries tender and sweet women, can be described by this word, so girls don't have to care about it in the future. Canglong smiled, "Okay, now let's open the textbook."