Chapter 403 [You Are You]

Yang Yi saw the huge change in her mood, frowned, and after thinking about it carefully, she understood why she was so cramped and uneasy.

Gripping her hand tightly.

"What are you thinking?" He said softly.

"Nothing." She kept her head down.

It's really sad to have such a weak emotion, Yang Yi sighed in her heart, this girl who is very strong on the surface is really too sensitive in her heart, generally speaking, sensitive people are inherently fragile.

He said, "Are you thinking that they are amazing? ”

Wang Xueqing did not speak.

"Actually, to be honest, they're all quite remarkable." Wang Xueqing's head lowered lower, Yang Yi glanced at her, and continued: "But Xueqing, you are also amazing." ”

Wang Xueqing raised her head and glanced at him, not understanding what he meant by this, was he just comforting himself?

"Among the three of them, except for Na Xin, Wanru's identity as the daughter of a wealthy family, Xiangyi's identity as a princess, are all innate advantages that they can't choose, this is actually not their achievement, excluding these, in fact, there is no difference between you and them, Xiangyi is violent and loves to fight, and she is a super big stomach, she won't burp if she eats the whole earth, Wanru is the same, she is more about cultivating at home, and she doesn't do anything, are you different from them in this regard?"

"Even if you add innate advantages, I believe you will not be worse than them." Yang Yi continued: "You may be very ordinary now, but I believe that you will definitely have extraordinary achievements in the future, and you can make your business very big, and you will be a very powerful person at that time." ”

After hearing this, Wang Xueqing raised her head. yes, they have a very powerful background. But those are because of their innate advantages, although innate advantages are part of strength. But if she starts working hard now, she won't necessarily be worse than them.

Yang Yiyou shook his head and sighed: "But I'll tell you the truth, Xue Qing, if you base your self-confidence on this comparison of external objects, then your spirit is easily destroyed, a truly powerful woman thinks she is strong, then she is strong, not because I have more money, I am strong, nor because I think my current achievements are strong, this comparison is meaningless in my opinion." ”

"You are you, you are Wang Xueqing, a girl with ideals and ambitions. A sensitive but very kind girl, they are what they are, that's their own way of life, join the two of them now do nothing, just play at home all day, if you want to compare with them, shouldn't you do the same? Or if they're starting to be a big company now, and if they want to be the center of attention, do you have to compare with them? ”

"Everyone has a different lifestyle and ideal goals, so everyone's life trajectory is not the same. Maybe our lives will be intertwined in the future, but if you have to compete with them, then you will find that you must be the one who is exhausted in the end. Life is what it is, no matter what your current situation is, never think too highly of others. Don't think too low of yourself and do what you want to do not because you want to outdo anyone, but because you really want to do something. That's all. ”

"I know what you're thinking, but I don't think it's really necessary. If they are willing to accept you. They are willing to accept you no matter what your situation is, and vice versa. If they don't want to accept you, even if you are angry and trying to become the most powerful woman, they don't accept it, you don't accept it, the world of feelings is simply like and dislike in addition to these money and achievements, more money does not necessarily make them like you more, and low achievements do not necessarily mean that they don't like you. ”

"I believe that this kind of thing is the same for you, if you are willing to accept them, then whether you have money, no money, power, and no power, you will accept them, on the other hand, if you just don't like them, you just don't want to accept them, do you think it has anything to do with their identity, background, and achievement? Will you accept them because of their prominent background? Or will they be dishonored because they do not have a prominent status? ”

Wang Xueqing was speechless by Yang Yi's words.

That's what she was thinking about at that moment just now, she was such an ordinary girl living with their eldest ladies no matter what, as if she felt inferior, and she was worried that they would look down on her, but Yang Yi's words were like an alarm bell ringing heavily in her heart.

If this is taken as a goal, then her life ideal, her life trajectory will be completely changed, she will become a girl who is not herself, just to look close to them, to look like them, in the long run, I am afraid that she will completely lose her original self.

That's what she's afraid to happen.

She may have a lot of imperfections now, but she likes her current self, simple, kind, gentle and shy, which is nothing wrong.

If she were to compare them, she would be the one she liked.

Seeing her pondering, Yang Yi said again: "You really don't have to think so much, do what you want to do, don't compare with them, really, I hope each of you is unique, your ideal self, you don't have to feel that you are ordinary now, in fact, if you have lived with them for a while, you will know that the eldest ladies who seem to be high up are actually very ordinary in life, really." ”

"They will sleep lazy, brush their teeth on their faces when they don't wake up, squat there during the day and talk to themselves with the little rabbit Dutch pig, and kick the quilt when they sleep at night, just like you, in my eyes, you are all very beautiful and beautiful but ordinary girls who can no longer be ordinary, for me, you have only one identity, that is my wife, not a princess, any eldest lady, all are not, they have no difference from you, just my woman."

Wang Xueqing looked at him blankly, I really didn't know why he had so much to say because of this small question, but everything he said was imprinted in her heart.

She is her, she is Wang Xueqing.

If you put your self-confidence in external objects, then she is very easy to destroy.

They are all the same in his heart, there is no distinction between high and low, they are just his daughters, not princesses or eldest ladies.

All of a sudden, her heart cleared.

She wanted to do what she wanted to do, not to make them look up to herself, not to make them feel like they were great girls, just because she wanted to.

Whether they look up to it or not, she is herself.

When confidence returned, Wang Xueqing smiled and glanced at him, "I found that you are really verbose when you are verbose." ”

"Hehe, this is called a serious talk." Yang Yi quickly kissed her on the face, and breathed a sigh of relief in his heart.

Why is he talking so much nonsense? The purpose is very simple, I hope she doesn't compare with them.

It's as simple as that.

Once a woman starts to compare, then everything is over, they will be more beautiful than whom, will look better than whom, will spend more money than whom, will receive more gifts than whom, will spend more time than him, will get more love than whom, once they fall into this dead confusion then the feelings or something will basically end, and love will slowly be consumed in this endless comparison.

If Wang Xueqing secretly competes with them in her heart, then it is inevitable that there will be various situations of appeal in the end, and once it appears, it is likely to be an irreparable disaster.

If women and women want to be harmonious together, the best and best way is to be tolerant and understanding.

It's as if Zheng Wanru tolerates Xiangyi's naughty willfulness and understands that she often has a small temper, so that the relationship between them has come step by step to the world where they are now like sisters.

He hopes that Wang Xueqing can also be herself, so with her personality, it should be easy to get along with them, as if she and Naxin are a good first step.

Although it was her luck to meet Na Xin in the first step.

It is also Yang Yi's luck.

Wang Xueqing glanced at him with slight disgust, and did not reject his close actions, but smiled: "Although you are right, I don't need to compare with them, because I believe that I must be no worse than them, but I still have to prove myself, because this is the embodiment of my own value and the realization of my understanding." ”

Yang Yi smiled.

"I'm very supportive of you, don't you see Na Xin is also very supportive of you, hehe, you and Na Xin can have a good relationship, and you will definitely have a good relationship with them."

Wang Xueqing's face turned red, and she said angrily: "Who knows what the personalities of your two girlfriends are, Sister Naxin has a very good personality, so she feels very easy to get along with, but they are your girlfriends, I don't believe that they can be so calm in the face of their boyfriend's other girlfriends." ”

She was right.

Just like when Na Xin first appeared, the two of them were wary of her, especially Xiangyi, who was so direct that if her resistance was not strong, she would really be frightened by her fierce offensive and cry back.

"Hehe, I'm sure with your personality they'll like you soon." Yang Yi can only hope for this.

"They are your girlfriends, and if I promise you, I will become your girlfriend, and at the same time, I will become a woman who shares love with them, no matter what kind of woman will not be happy, right?!"

"Na Xin is glad to do so."

"That'...... Sister Naxin is an exception, I'm afraid the two of them won't think so. (To be continued......)