Chapter 264: What are you kidding?

In the afternoon, according to the habit of the old family, Ju An drove his brother-in-law's car and took Dinah and his father and mother to the countryside to go to the grave of his grandparents, and added some soil to the grave of his grandparents with Dinah according to the old rules.

Finally the old rules are over, and my father introduced the old people in the family to Ju An, so it is a waste of time to go down in a circle, because Ju An grew up in the county, at most he returned to his grandparents to live with his grandparents for two days during the holidays, and the relationship with the family is far less deep than his father's feelings, and Ju An also took Dina to deal with the errand.

Waiting for the sun to set, then he got out of his hometown and returned to the county seat, and when he waited for the night, Ju'an was woken up by Dina tossing and turning, and looked at the time on the alarm clock on the bedside table, it was already two o'clock in the night and said to Dinah: "Why don't you sleep yet, what's going on in your heart?" ”。

Dinah stretched out her hand to turn on the bedside light, and Ju An hurriedly said, "Don't turn on the light." Before she could finish speaking, Dinah had already turned on the light and said to Ju An, "I was thinking about the little kid named Nini I saw today."

"What's the matter with her, white and red, pretty and shiny," Ju said after a pause, not understanding what Dinah was worried about.

Dinah thought for a moment and said, "Maybe this child has a little bit of autism, just because she is playful but has no interest in games, and the teacher also said that she doesn't like to play with children very much."

"Autism?" Ju An asked. This is the first time Ju'an has heard of this thing, and there is this disease?

Looking at Ju An's puzzled eyes, Dinah explained: "It's just that children don't like to interact with others very much, they like to think about things by themselves, and if it's serious, they can't even hear what others say, and they are immersed in their own thoughts."

Why does this guy in the fog seem to be talking about me, I don't like to deal with others, and my favorite thing is to be stuffy in my own pasture, riding beangrass in circles: "And this disease?" I don't think you're talking about the little girl, it's kind of like you're talking about me, and you're just looking at it and you're a doctor, and besides, aren't there a few retired doctors who are also taking care of the children, if you're not at ease, you'll go back tomorrow." Since the orphanage is doing well, Ju Anna is not afraid of Dinah to see it.

Dinah thought for a moment and nodded, "Then we'll go see it tomorrow, and I'll bring her some toys then."

Ju An yawned and said, "Okay! We'll go tomorrow morning, and when we're done with the little girl, we'll come back and prepare things, and the day after tomorrow we'll go to Jiangnan, and then fly to Germany for our honeymoon, and now go to bed early, don't think about it." Then he kissed Dinah on the forehead and reached out to help Dinah turn off the bedside lamp.

Dinah listened to Ju'an's words and hummed, then leaned her head on Ju'an's arm, the two faced each other, and after a while, Ju'an re-entered his dream.

After waiting for the morning to finish, Dinah took Ju An to the mall to pick a stuffed baby elephant, bought something and immediately rushed to the orphanage.

Ju An and Dinah drove to the orphanage, and today it was Dr. Liu who saw the two first, smiling and saying hello to the two people.

Dinah's eyes swept around the yard and she found Nini sitting on a small chair and asked Dr. Liu, "Does that little girl named Nini have a slight autism?"

Doctor Liu listened and looked at Dinah and nodded: "This is still a bit autistic, but it's not serious, we can only provide their basic life here, and there are some things that we can't give, and I and several teachers have also brought Nini home, but you know that we are old after all, and we don't have much energy to focus on a child."

Ju An was stunned when he listened to it, this guy really has this disease, this can't be considered a disease if he doesn't like to talk? Didn't you like to sit on a small bench in the yard and watch ants for an afternoon when you were a child, do you also have a bit of autism?

Dinah asked in amazement, "Isn't there anyone willing to adopt Nini?" ”。

"Even if someone wants to adopt, it's all about adopting younger children, and Nini is two and a half years old and has already begun to remember and recognize people," Dr. Liu said to Dinah.

This Ju'an understands that many people even if they don't have a child and want to adopt a baby, most of them are raising a baby, so it is taboo to raise a child from a young age to tell the child that you are adopted by your parents, even if you hear others say that you will be angry, when Ju'an lived in the factory dormitory at home, I encountered, my mother's colleague two can not have children, raised a child, the child is a little older, once with the little friend had a conflict, the little partner laughed at her adoption, it is estimated that I heard others chew their tongues and say. As soon as the child cried and went home, the man who usually laughed was like an angry lion, and went directly to the door, Ju An watched the family on the balcony and apologized to the family, and the little guy who joked was also slapped in the face by his father.

These taboos are not very particular about Lao Mei, many adopted children know that they are adopted by their parents when they are young, even if they don't say it when they are young, they will choose to tell their children the ins and outs of adoption when they are sincere. So when I told Dinah, Dinah was not able to understand the hard work of Chinese parents, the differences between the cultures of the two countries, and not that Chinese adoptive parents were bad, and even Ju An seemed to these adoptive parents in China who loved their children more than Lao Mei's adoptive parents.

Looking at Dinah's confused eyes, Ju An said: "You can't understand this for a while, the cultural differences between the two countries in this regard are too great."

Dinah sighed after hearing this, and then walked towards Nini with the baby elephant in her hand, Nini watched Dina walk to the side, and immediately lowered her little head and played with her fingers, not daring to look up at Dinah, Dinah squatted down and put the baby elephant on Nini's hand and said, "Nini, remember me, I came to see you yesterday".

Nini touched the baby elephant in her hand, nodded, did not speak, and then Dinah chatted with Nini for a few more words, such as who made the braids, very beautiful, etc., Nini nodded most of the time, and only whispered two words out of her mouth for a long time. Ju An looked at the old man next to him for a while, and he really couldn't see anything wrong with this little girl, she just didn't like to talk, this guy can also be considered a disease?

Listening to Dina and Nini saying a word, Ju An began to look at some naughty little babies around him playing on the slide, most of them are girls, a very small number of boys, it is estimated that the body is also a little sick, Ju An's hometown here is still more serious.

Seeing a group of noisy children comparing with Nini sitting on the side, this immediately showed the difference, without the mischievous energy of the rest of the children. But in Ju An's opinion, how good a quiet little girl is, and thinking about the little demon king at home, Tong Tong, Ju An thinks that Tongtong is a little more painful.

After waiting for Dina and Nini to talk for almost an hour, Ju An saw Dina stand up, walked to Ju An's side and said to Ju An, "Let's go."

As if he was about to be amnestied, Ju An immediately took Dinah and Dr. Liu to say hello and walked towards the car outside. It's not that Ju An has no sympathy, but Ju An himself is a man in his twenties, who has just gotten married, and it is estimated that he feels big to raise his own child, let alone someone else's child.

Waiting for Ju An to drive the car for a while, Dinah sat in the passenger seat and said to Ju An: "Ann, let's adopt Nini, shall we?" ”。

"What?" Ju An was shocked when he heard this, and hurriedly stepped on the brakes, and suddenly Dinah's body rushed forward, fortunately wearing a seat belt, and did not hit the glass, and then stopped the car on the side of the road, turned to Dinah and said, "You said we adopted Nini?" ”。

Dina looked at Ju An and nodded: "Nini's situation is really worrying in the welfare home, you know that children with autism are not corrected, and it is easy to go to extremes when they grow up."

Ju An looked at Dinah with a look of hope on his face, and said to Dinah, "What are you kidding?" If you are worried about Nini, we can find a psychiatrist to treat Nini, if we adopt, have you ever thought that we will definitely have our own children in the future, and what will others say about us behind our backs if something happens to Nini in the future." How did I think of this, what a responsibility it takes to adopt a child.

Dinah continued to persuade Juan: "As long as we do what we do, God will forgive us even if there is any problem, so why care what others say about us." Besides, we now have the ability to provide better care for Nini, why can't we give her a real home, a home with parents, grandparents, and a complete family."

After hearing this, Ju An said with a wry smile: "This is not just a matter of ability, but how much it costs to raise a child, have you considered it?"

"We've gotten so much from God to be able to live the life we love with someone we love, and adopting Nini is a kind of gratitude to us, okay?" After Dinah finished speaking, she gently put her hand on Ju'an's hand pulling the gear, and looked at Ju'an with tenderness on her face.

Ju An smiled bitterly and shook his head, this guy has made a beauty trick, it's really hard to say anything, think about it, if you don't get a bead, maybe now you can take five or six thousand a month and live a 9-to-5 life, eating pancakes and fruits every morning while waiting for the bus. You can do whatever you want like now, but I always want to donate some money to some foundations, but I never thought of adopting a child, let alone thinking about it, it is estimated that it is 108,000 miles away from thinking about it.

(To be continued)