Lin Yin is twenty-six years old this year, but she gives the impression that she is not very mature, and this immaturity certainly does not refer to the body or intelligence, but is too simple. She is very beautiful, at least in the eyes of most men, Lin Yin is more feminine than Xie Xiaoxian, the melon seed face has a slightly deep eye socket, her eyes are big and her eyelashes are very long, she looks a little weak and helpless, I feel pitiful. When I saw her in the tea room, it was obvious that she had just cried, and her eyes were still red.

Before coming, You Fang was very interested in whether Lin Yin knew Li Qiuping's details? So after sitting down and not saying a few words, she asked how she and Li Qiuping met, and emphasized that the more detailed the recollection, the better, which may be helpful in finding Li Qiuping's whereabouts. Lin Yin trusted Xie Xiaoxian very much, and trusted You Fang unreservedly, with red eyes, she recalled her acquaintance with Li Qiuping with an obsessive look-

Lin Yin, a native of Ningxiang, Hunan Province, graduated from Hunan Normal University in 2006, and her parents asked her uncle, who worked in the Guangdong education department, to find a relationship and enter a junior high school in Guangzhou to teach English. Today's primary and secondary school teachers, especially the main teachers, are in a very different situation from the poor teachers of a few decades ago, not only have enviable winter and summer vacations every year, but also have a good salary.

Teachers with "flexible brains" have also learned to take advantage of the social relationships of the majority of students' parents, and it is convenient for them to do many things, and the parents of students often dare not offend and have to coax them. And those teachers who are responsible for teaching and are very decent are hard, but they have a high social status, respect, and a stable income and life, and this profession is the most suitable for a girl who has no ambitions.

Lin Yin's father is a department-level civil servant, and her mother is also a national cadre, and their family is a very respected and enviable family in the local area. The Lin family's parents originally planned to move in with their daughter after retirement, and they planned to retire in Guangzhou, and even planned to buy a house. Unexpectedly, the plan did not change quickly, Lin Yin only worked for a year, and then "eloped" with someone, and the person who abducted her was of course Li Qiuping.

The first time I met Li Qiuping was in the spring of 2007, Lin Yin's middle school is also Li Qiuping's alma mater, when the school held a special social activity similar to a thank-you meeting in order to expand the new reading room and sports room, and the protagonist of this event was of course Li Qiuping, a collector and alumnus who donated money for the expansion.

Lin Yin, the youngest and most beautiful female teacher in the school, was arranged at the main table by the school leaders during the meal, and told her to give Li Qiuping a few more glasses of wine. This practice of the school leaders is quite criticized in the society, and usually the parties are very disgusted, but Lin Yin is very willing and very happy.

In her eyes, Li Qiuping has a successful career, but he does not have the superficial habits of an upstart, and his knowledge and demeanor between his conversations are convincing, and Lin Yin has not been able to compare with the men he has seen since he was a child. He is handsome and elegant, not only young and promising, but also rare every move, word and deed makes people feel trustworthy and reliable, with such a person, it seems that you can rest assured to listen to everything he has arranged for you.

Lin Yin has been a good girl since she was a child, all her experiences are arranged by her parents, and she is used to looking for support in her sense of direction in life, which may be the reason why she fell in love with Li Qiuping at first sight. Ironically, however, this relationship later led to the breakdown of her relationship with her parents.

After meeting at the sorority, Li Qiuping also had a very good impression of Lin Yin, and he almost took a fancy to him at a glance, he was a person who would do it if he wanted to, and then he started his pursuit, and it was easy to get started. But this relationship was resolutely opposed by the Lin family's parents, and in their "plan", it was best for their daughter Lin Yin to marry a doctor with a successful career or a judge with a good status, not to be very rich, but to have a stable and convenient life.

Li Qiuping is an antique dealer, although he heard that the business is doing well, but the old couple does not understand this industry and feels uncertain. As for the titles of collector and philanthropist, it is even more unsettling, one is to spend money to buy something unknown and put it aside, and the other is to spend money to buy a good reputation on the surface.

After hearing the news, the Lin family's parents made a special trip from Hunan to Guangzhou and asked their daughter to arrange to meet Li Qiuping. Father Lin has some petty bureaucratic habits and likes to pretend, and Mother Lin has some petty philistine habits and likes to sneer, but their first feeling about Li Qiuping is the same - this person is unreliable, and he can't let his daughter follow him!

It is said that the feeling is secondary, and the most important thing is that Li Qiuping has been married, and he has not divorced yet! Li Qiuping told Lin Yin truthfully, and said that both the relationship and the relationship between the husband and wife had already broken down, and he promised that the divorce would be done by himself, and Lin Yin didn't have to worry about it. And the Lin family's parents resolutely expressed their attitude to their daughter and disagreed, even if Li Qiuping was divorced, otherwise they would break off the relationship.

As a result, Lin Yin went against her parents' wishes for the first time and still decided to be with Li Qiuping, not only that, but she also obeyed Li Qiuping's arrangement and resigned and went to Yanjing, and the two lived together as husband and wife. Lin Yin didn't really want to break with her parents, one of the reasons she did this was that Li Qiuping had promised her that she would definitely make her parents change their views and accept their relationship in the future.

Lin Yin trusts Li Qiuping very much, and believes that he must have a way to "handle" his parents, just like many other things in life. It's been three years since she arrived in Yanjing, Li Qiuping has not been divorced, and her relationship with her parents has not improved, but Lin Yin still believes in him or is used to trusting him.

Although Li Qiuping is not divorced, Lin Yin has indeed never seen his "wife" appear in life, and divorce should only be a matter of time; On the other hand, Li Qiuping also arranged the lives of the two in a warm and carefree manner, proving to her parents that she was "reliable", and it should be a matter of time before she was accepted, right?

In addition, Lin Yin was not dissatisfied, after arriving in Yanjing, Li Qiuping named it after him and Lin Yin and opened a Qiuyin Zhai, which made Lin Yin feel very happy. Lin Yin didn't go out to work, the only petty bourgeois hobby she developed in the family was tea tasting and drinking tea, Li Qiuping specially opened a tea room for her near the princess's tomb, nominally Lin Yin was the boss, but she didn't have to worry about it, and she didn't expect to make any money, Lin Yin could ask friends to come here to drink tea and chat when she was free. The place where Lin Yin asked Xie Xiaoxian to meet was this tea room.

Li Qiuping's business is very big, and people are also very busy, but he never needs Lin Yin to worry and worry, he often goes to other places to talk about business, but he never forgets to contact Lin Yin in time to report her safety and care about her situation, and he has not heard from her for more than three days. In addition to being ambitious and caring for his "family", he is also a very caring, helpful and willing to give back to the society.

In Yanjing, Li Qiuping and Lin Yin donated police office equipment together, so she got to know Xie Xiaoxian. In addition, he also donated to build a rural primary school in his and Lin Yin's hometowns, which is definitely not a testimony to Xie Xiaoxian. In short, he is a rare good man, if it weren't for the complicated marriage problems, he would simply be a perfect good man. ――When Lin Yin recalled Li Qiuping's past, it could also be seen from Xie Xiaoxian's expression.

Hearing this, You Fang's heart was very complicated. He knew the details of the wild fox very well but couldn't say it, and at this moment he had to face people's praise for Li Qiuping so much. This kind of experience has a great impact on a person's mentality, and one can't help but feel that the world is ridiculous, and even everything that is advertised as beautiful is so hypocritical.

There are many similar experiences, and over time, the view of life and the world may become distorted and extreme, and people will become cynical or indifferent to everything right and wrong. If you are a teenager who is growing up normally and is new to the world, you may feel confused and unintentionally become extreme, thinking that you have seen through the bloody world and the cold life, and the world is just like that. Once the concept matures and is fixed, it may live in contradictions for the rest of its life, and it still thinks that it has real wisdom in life.

Unfortunately, You Fang has seen many such people and things in his experience, and the Wild Fox is only one of the most prominent examples; At the same time, he was also very fortunate to listen to a lecture under the east gate of Wu Ping. Wu Lao specially answered his relevant confusion, and You Fang remembered a sentence: "Don't waste things because of people, waste arguments because of people, and waste actions because of people."

The reason why Li Qiuping is praised is because he does have the actions of a philanthropist, not because of the behavior of the wild fox to steal and smuggle. The same thing, such as donating to a rural primary school, will not change the original surname of the thing because of the change of personal identity, the world praises this person because the thing itself is commendable, he did what many people want the world to do, and nothing else.

In the same way, the fact that donations to primary schools are commendable does not justify grave robbing, even though they are done by one person.

Everything that Crazy Fox has experienced is not false, what is hypocritical is only the contradictions embodied by Crazy Fox in different events, otherwise, no matter what Crazy Fox does, everything he does as Li Qiuping is useless. It can be described as a popular phrase - surnames are complex. But in Wu Lao's view, there is no need to pretend to be so deep, in fact, the surname is very simple, and the so-called complexity lies in the self-consistency and choice in different situations.

As for "don't judge because of others, don't abolish actions because of others" also refers to a very common situation: when people in the world deny a sentence or an act, the reason cannot be because of who said it or who did it, but only to see whether the sentence is justified, and whether this kind of behavior is advisable? The same is true when it is certain, otherwise everything will become nihilistic. It's easy to say, but there are too many similar things happening in the world, and there are too many people who are troubled by it or deliberately paranoid for some purpose, including many famous historical greats.

Because of this, when You Fang heard about Li Qiuping's "deeds", he did not feel too much confusion and indignation, but involuntarily remembered Wu Lao again, and was sentimental and speechless for a while, and his expression looked very much like he was deeply concerned about what happened to Li Qiuping later.

**;