Chapter 361 Meet Zhang Guorong - Treat Depression!

As for the cause of Zhang Guorong's depression, the system can't be too sure, after all, she only found some information, as for the real willingness, maybe only Zhang Guorong himself knows!

But even so, Zhou Shaoming still learned a lot about the possible reasons why Zhang Guorong had depression through the system!

""Different Dimension", affected by the filming of this film, so that he could not get out of the plot of the film, and finally embarked on a road of no return."

"It's perfectionism -- it's because of his perfectionism that he can create such perfect music, movies, stage performances. Because he is perfectionist, he is too demanding of himself, and he requires himself to do well in all aspects, so whether it is as a good artist, a good son, a good partner, or a Chinese who is proud of the country, he demands perfection. However, it is not necessarily a good thing for a person to carry too much perfection. Once everything is required to be perfect, then the burden is too heavy and depression will follow! ”

Some unscrupulous media maliciously distort the facts, chase after the wind, and harass and disrupt the lives of my brother and Tang Tang, especially how classic and fashionable the "enthusiastic concert" is, but the media reported that he wants to become a woman, etc., this kind of misunderstanding by the world may also be part of the reason for my brother's depression. ”

Through these, Zhou Shaoming probably has some understanding, and the fundamental reason is that Zhang Guorong is a perfectionist.

This can be seen from the fact that he did not achieve a positive result with his lover Mao Shunyun, and no other women were reported, but developed a homosexual relationship with Mr. Tang Hede.

If you can't walk with the woman you like the most in your heart, your brother will go to extremes, which is a perfect syndrome.

And the fuse was the concert in 2000, which was originally a concert that was seriously prepared. And it's also very successful. However, because of some styling and so on. Being maliciously slandered by the media, what wants to be sexual, wants to be a woman, and so on are constantly coming out.

Zhang Guorong, who is a perfectionist, will of course not accept it after being maliciously slandered and misunderstood by the world. With stress, depression is normal.

On the other hand, it is about the movie "Different Dimension" that has too deep a sense of substitution.

Therefore, I want to enlighten Zhang Guorong. You can start with both.

In the evening, Zhou Shaoming arrived at Lu Yu Teahouse early, and the place where he made an appointment with Zhang Guorong was Lu Yu Teahouse.

When the time reached six o'clock, Zhang Guorong appeared with a peaked cap and sunglasses, and behind him was the agent Chen Shufen.

In another private room, Zhou Shaoming saw Zhang Guorong.

"Mr. Zhang, you're here!" Zhou Shaoming stood up and greeted with a smile.

Zhang Guorong nodded slightly and gestured, but his mental state was not very good. Afterwards. Zhang Guorong and Zhou Shaoming sat opposite each other.

After that, Zhou Shaoming bluntly said that he wanted to talk to Zhang Guorong privately. Chen Shufen could only go out, and there were also bodyguards such as Howard and Roken outside.

"Mr. Zhou, I'm curious, how did you know that I wanted to go and see the White Dragon King?" Zhang Guorong went straight to the point and expressed his doubts.

"Guess, Mr. Zhang has encountered difficulties recently, and it is a difficult difficulty to solve, and in Hong Kong, when encountering difficulties that cannot be solved, he will think of the White Dragon King, so I guess Mr. Zhang will ask for help from the White Dragon King!" Zhou Shaoming said with a smile.

"I see, Director Zhou knows Hong Kong very well!" Zhang Guorong nodded, basically believing it, indeed, Zhou Shaoming's guess is still very reasonable, people who know Hong Kong know that Hong Kong people, especially people in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, believe in and worship the White Dragon King.

"Mr. Zhang, you're sick, do you know?" Zhou Shaoming took a sip of tea and said, staring at Zhang Guorong as he spoke.

"No, at first I thought I was sick, but then I went to the hospital for a check-up, but there was nothing sick." Zhang Guorong said affirmatively.

For the word depression, don't talk about Hong Kong at this time, even few people in the world know it, let alone face it squarely and attach importance to it, so it is normal for Zhang Guorong to think that he is not sick at this time.

Zhou Shaoming was not in a hurry, took another sip of tea and said slowly: "Is Mr. Zhang irritable in the past two years, unable to control his emotions, often insomnia at night and no appetite, unable to arouse interest in anything, and even has thoughts of suicide!" ”

Zhang Guorong's eyes gradually changed with Zhou Shaoming's words

"How do you know?"

"Because you're sick!" Zhou Shaoming said affirmatively.

"Am I sick? Yes, I have depression, but is depression really a disease? Zhang Guorong muttered to himself, a little puzzled, but he believed three points.

"Count, and severe depression is still a very dangerous disease." Zhou Shaoming said affirmatively.

"So how can it be cured?"

"Medication, but it's difficult for the time being, only treatment from the psychological side, simply put, is to help you figure out some of the things you are struggling with, or to remove some knots in your heart!"

"Hey!" Zhang Guorong took a breath of talk, how easy it is to talk.

"Mr. Zhang, I want to say yours, do you know yourself?" Zhou Shaoming got serious.

"Know yourself?" Zhang Guorong seemed a little vague, and then shook his head.

"Do you know why I sang your "I", that song with you on stage last night?" Zhou Shaoming asked again, without waiting for Zhang Guorong to speak, Zhou Shaoming replied directly: "I am me, why care about other people's opinions?" The world slanders and ridicules, so what? It's all jokes, they don't understand! ”

Zhang Guorong frowned, as if he had caught something.

"I am who I am, fireworks of different colors. Everyone has their own life and walks a different path, and if they don't violate the law or morality, what qualifications do others have to evaluate? Why should we care about what others say? Zhou Shaoming smiled faintly.

"Isn't it moral?" Zhang Guorong's eyes dimmed a little.

"Mr. Zhang, are you struggling with homosexuality?" Zhou Shaoming asked.

Zhang Guorong was silent at first, but finally nodded.

"Is homosexuality immoral? Mr. Zhang, what is your understanding of morality? ”

"It represents positive energy, the customs and habits of a social form." Zhang Guorong said directly without any hesitation.

In this regard, Zhou Shaoming was still very surprised. Casual opening. Zhang Guorong is definitely a knowledgeable person. It's just that more advantages overshadow that.

"Mr. Zhang, what you said is not right or not!" The corners of Zhou Shaoming's mouth tugged at a smile: "Morality is a social ideology, which is the norm and norm for people to live together and their behavior. Morality often represents the positive value orientation of society and plays a role in judging whether behavior is justified or not. ”

"But morality is not the same as customs, if that is the case. The customs and habits of each place are different, so is it not immoral for people living in one region to live in another region with different customs and habits? ”

"Perhaps, today's customs will change in the future. Just like in feudal China, there was a habit of polygamy, could it be said that there was no morality? So as long as you don't go against your heart and don't do things that hurt nature and reason, even if you don't conform to common sense and don't follow habits, it is not without morality, you can only say that you are different from ordinary people! ”

Zhang Guorong's eyes finally flashed a glimmer of light: "Mr. Zhou is talented, but my perspective on the problem is a little limited!" But is there a correlation between morality and my depression? ”

"Yes! Great correlation! I think Mr. Zhang must be dissatisfied and incomprehensible because the world, the media, and reporters have chosen the object of your lover. And Mr. Zhang loves Mr. Tang very much on the one hand, on the other hand. I also have to bear the pressure of public opinion, and this burden is part of the reason for depression for a long time. ”

"Mr. Zhou continues!"

"And the reason why the pressure of public opinion has a great impact on you. The fundamental reason is that in Mr. Zhang's heart, the love he chooses is not moral! ”

"And what I'm going to say now is that although the love between Mr. Zhang and Mr. Tang does not conform to the current customs and habits, and even many people can't accept it, but in the final analysis, it is a private matter between you and Mr. Tang. Go your own way and let others do the talking! ”

As for morality, remember that customs and habits are not the same as morality, and if they do not offend the interests of others, let alone harm nature, how can they be without morality? At best, it's a bit of a maverick! Moreover, Mr. Zhang has done a lot of good deeds and often donates charity, can such a person be a person without morality? ”

"So, Mr. Zhang, you have to think clearly for yourself, what morality is! Instead of caring about what others think, what others say. As a star, especially a big star like you, many people are envious, even jealous, and many newspapers and media maliciously slander the language, don't care, because you are a star, sometimes they need to deliberately smear to make money, in my opinion, their kind of behavior is really immoral, and Mr. Zhang just needs to keep his heart and don't be affected by other people's words! Remember: I am who I am, fireworks of different colors, the sky is wide, and I am the strongest foam! ”

With Zhou Shaoming's enlightening words, Zhang Guorong's body trembled slightly, the light in his eyes became more and more vigorous, and finally, he was even excited.

"Mr. Zhou, thank you!"

Zhang Guorong said excitedly, for the love between himself and Tang Hede, he has always been maliciously slandered and incomprehensible by the world, and even at this time he has some doubts about this love, is it really incorrect, at this moment, hearing Zhou Shaoming's words, there is a feeling of sudden enlightenment, I am me, go your own way and let others say it!

"Mr. Zhang, have you ever heard of the saying that no one is perfect?" Zhou Shaoming saw that there was an effect, and continued.

"Of course!"

In that case, why did Mr. Zhang insist on it? Some things may be beautiful because of their shortcomings, just take Mao Shunyun, the woman Mr. Zhang once loved, for example, they can't be together for various reasons, which is a kind of shortcoming, but why not be a kind of beauty? How many former enviable couples have lived together after coming together, and after a long time, they found too many shortcomings in each other, and finally parted ways, or even turned their faces. But Mr. Zhang and Miss Mao have always had that cherished love in their hearts, isn't this a kind of harvest, a kind of gain, a kind of beauty? So, Mr. Zhang, I hope you can completely let go of Miss Mao and treat her as your best friend, just like you and Anita Mui. And now, Mr. Zhang's lover is Mr. Tang Hede, then cherish the present, vigorous love, no matter whether it can succeed in the end, it is a kind of harvest, some things are open, it's good, let it be, maybe it can be smoother"

Zhou Shaoming began to enlighten about Mao Shunyun, although the current Zhang Guorong has Tang Hede, but through a lot of information, Zhou Shaoming still feels that he has regrets about Mao Shunyun, and as a person who demands perfection, this is undoubtedly an irreparable thing, pressed in the bottom of his heart, and it is a disease after a long time.

"Is it beautiful to have flaws?" Zhang Guorong muttered to himself, as if he had understood, but he was not thorough enough.

"Think of Venus, the broken arm has a defect that affects her beauty? As long as you love vigorously and have a clear conscience, what can't you think of? What's more, now that you have Mr. Tang, should you let go of the regret in your heart, that obsession, and love Mr. Tang well, if it is because of that trace of obsession, a trace of regret, and Mr. Tang can't achieve positive results, isn't it even more regretful? ”

"Indeed, I used to be too demanding!" Zhang Guorong nodded.

"Cherish the present and grasp the tomorrow!"

"Thank you, there are some things that can't be forced!" Zhang Guorong's brows seemed to have decreased a little.

"Mr. Zhang, as long as you have a clear conscience, as long as you work hard, as long as you pay, even if you don't get it, even if you can't be perfect, don't lament, time is not perfect, go with the flow, find your heart, deal with things indifferently, face it with a smile, what else can't you pass?"

Zhou Shaoming smiled, looking at Zhang Guorong who was gradually expanding his brows, he felt very satisfied, saving people's lives, and even creating a seventh-level floating slaughter!

"Go with the flow, find your heart, deal with things calmly, and face them with a smile! Mr. Zhou, I have lived for forty or fifty years in vain, but I am not as open as you can see. Zhang Guorong laughed to himself.

"Mr. Zhang doesn't have to be presumptuous, everyone has their own heart, their own way, it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, it doesn't matter if it's good or bad, but Mr. Zhang is sometimes too stubborn and too perfectionist! Zhou Shaoming just wanted to discuss with Mr. Zhang, hoping to make Mr. Zhang more open-minded, in fact, depression is not difficult to treat, the key depends on the patient itself, think about it, see it, everything is very easy to do! ”

"Mr. Zhou, listen to what you say, and read for ten years! Thank you! ”

"Thank you, I'm a director, and I can't see a talented and powerful actor sink down, so I made an appointment to meet Mr. Zhang!" Zhou Shaoming said with a smile. (To be continued.) )