Chapter 14 deals with the change of color of the father in marriage

If Yuan Xiaosheng's expectations are good, Ma Tianhu will definitely talk to Zhao Xuedong in the next few days. When the time comes, without Zhao Xuedong's heart, Ma Tianhu will come up with a way to solve this dead end and put it in front of Zhao Xuedong and let Zhao Xuedong choose. Thinking of this, Yuan Xiaosheng was a lot more relieved. But there is no need to tell Zhao Xuedong the news immediately. In case Ma Tianhu desperately wants Zhao Xuedong to die, and thinks that Chai Wenshan and Nan Zhenhai can settle the affairs of the land, and if they don't come to Zhao Xuedong, it will be equivalent to making Zhao Xuedong happy, and maybe in the end, he will have a reputation for being smart in front of Zhao Xuedong.

The sky was getting dark, Yuan Xiaosheng went upstairs and knocked on Zhao Xuedong's door, Zhao Xuedong answered inside, but did not open the door. However, Yuan Xiaosheng didn't have to see Zhao Xuedong, mainly to make sure that Zhao Xuedong was really fine, and he was relieved. Yuan Xiaosheng was afraid that Zhao Xuedong would not be able to think about it for a while, and he would also cut his wrists, hang himself, jump off the building and so on, and Wei Nanxiang would have another heroic party secretary.

"Secretary Zhao, if there's nothing wrong, I'll go home first." Yuan Xiaosheng stood at the door and said inside.

After a long time, Zhao Xuedong said: "Thank you for your hard work, I have nothing to do here, you go home and rest." Zhao Xuedong's voice was obviously a little vicissitudes, which should be the result of crying just now.

On the way home, Yuan Xiaosheng hummed a song "It's not a sin for a man to cry", and he was also full of emotion in his heart. Although Zhao Xuedong, as the secretary of the party committee, has a subordinate party to govern, he can be said to be a high authority in Weinan Township, but he has never seen him have a day of ease. It seems that this official will also be able to be, if he can't be an official, he will be tired and tired, and he will be bullied.

When I got home, my mother was still waiting in the living room, and when she saw Xiaosheng enter the door, she opened the door: "Isn't it Sunday today, why did you come back so late." Yesterday, I told Aunt Liu next door that I saw the girl today, and I made the girl wait for an afternoon in vain. Where you went, you didn't say hello to home. ”

Yuan Xiaosheng then remembered that Aunt Liu, who was next door next door, came to the house last night and sat for half the night, saying that she would introduce herself to an object, blowing the sky, saying that the conditions in the girl's house were so much better, how many businesses there were, how beautiful the girl was, how beautiful and beautiful the girl was, and how much water and water were beautiful, and the relatives of the seven aunts and eight aunts were leaders in that department in the county and city, and they would definitely be able to carry Yuan Xiaosheng in the future, and they said that they almost had a fight with the daughter of the Jade Emperor. The spittle that he said flew wildly, and it wasn't until Yuan Xiaosheng was drowsy that he stopped and went home.

Today, I was busy with Zhao Xuedong's business, but I forgot about this stubble. Yuan Xiaosheng had no choice but to smile embarrassedly at his mother: "Mom, don't worry about this in the future, your son is a college student, and he is worried that he can't find a daughter-in-law." As he spoke, he picked up his chopsticks and began to eat. As soon as I took a bite, I remembered that Zhao Xuedong was still alone in the office and lamented the fate, and I couldn't bear it for a while.

Zhao Xuedong's life is really bitter enough, there is such a mother-in-law on the stall, there are five or six people who dress up all day long, but they do some unsightly things. Today is the deputy secretary of the Political and Legal Committee, tomorrow is the deputy director of the Organization Department, and the day after tomorrow he can seduce a college student who has just graduated. This woman doesn't know if she is too vigorous in that aspect, or if she deliberately can't get along with Zhao Xuedong, she is extremely scratchy in front of that man, but she is serious in front of Zhao Xuedong. And the two have been married for so many years, and they have no children. Yuan Xiaosheng even thought that Zhao Xuedong had that flaw at one time.

"You're a political axe cadre now, and I don't want to talk about you more. I don't object to you not wanting to get married early, and I don't object to you if you don't want your family to introduce you. But there's one thing you have to keep in mind, if you can't find me a partner at the end of this year, you won't be in this house again. After my father finished coldly, he got up and went back to the back room to rest.

My father's words have never been much, but every time he speaks, he can always "say an amazing word", choking Yuan Xiaosheng half to death. This may have something to do with the fact that my father used to be a special soldier.

Although the mother feels sorry for her son, Yuan Xiaosheng is indeed not young, and according to the customs of the township, he should have gotten married long ago after the age of twenty. Yuan Xiaosheng graduated from university, it has been more than two years, and he will be twenty-five in the new year, and if he doesn't get married, the big girl in ten miles and eight towns will be married, and it will be difficult to find it again, no wonder his parents are so anxious.

The mother smiled and said, "Xiaosheng, don't think your father is ugly. Your dad is also good for you. As the saying goes, when a man gets married, a woman gets married, you are so old, and if you don't get married, it's also a piece of our heart......" Mother nagged again.

It's not that Yuan Xiaosheng doesn't want to get married, but he has his own plans. If you find one in the township now, you don't agree with each other, and you still can't live together in the future, just like Zhao Xuedong, so why bother.

"Mom, you can rest assured." Yuan Xiaosheng divided five by two and put the bowl in his mouth, "According to what my father said, at the end of this year, at the end of this year, I will definitely bring back a daughter-in-law for your second elder, okay?" ”

Yuan Xiaosheng said that he already had a plan in his heart, and it was definitely impossible to find a partner at the end of the year, so he could only reluctantly make it difficult, first use Nan Suqin for a while, and then talk about it after passing the parents' pass. Anyway, Nan Suqin has no plans to get married in the near future. It's just that Nan Suqin has been lukewarm to herself during this time, and if she gets out of the basket and refuses to help, she will be in trouble. It's best to go tomorrow to discuss with Nan Suqin and make this matter a reality, so as not to let her parents interfere in her marriage again.

After eating, it is natural to take out the "Officialdom Equation" given by my grandfather and study it. Through this period of time, following Zhao Xuedong to run forward and backward, it can be regarded as a practical test of the theoretical knowledge learned in "Officialdom Equation". Seeing now, even Yuan Xiaosheng felt that if this set of books was not written by Zhang Juzheng, he wouldn't even believe it. The book does have a very unique insight into the affairs of officialdom, and it has a unique way of promotion in officialdom, combining officialdom with ancient techniques, Qimen Dunjia, and Zhou Yi gossip, and making a set of promotion rules.

The simplest rule is to list your immediate bosses by category, then write down their functions (in charge of work), relationships and roles, as well as their position and energy in that level of officialdom, and finally fill in your own position, indicating which bosses you can first get in touch with, and then how to go up to the next level through this level of relationship. What kind of attitude should I take to face these superiors? Once you go up one level, which relationships can be maintained and which ones need to be eliminated, then make a list of relationships and continue to move up. This method seems simple, but it is also the most effective method.

To put it bluntly, officialdom is two kinds of relationships, one is the most common relationship of interests, and the other is the so-called circle network. Although the interest relationship is effective, it is also extremely unstable, and once the interest changes, or the money is sent out, the relationship will immediately break down, and it will not have a long-term surname. The circle relationship is very stable, you can't enter the circle, you can only be a layman, of course, you can't get the care and promotion of the people in the circle, once you enter the circle, you will immediately rise to the top, soaring, what we usually call standing in line is this kind of relationship.

According to the discussion of "Officialdom Equation", the way to be an official is to weave a circle, and the more you go to the center of the circle, the greater the chance of being promoted, of course, it is not completely absolute. The circle itself is also open, not completely closed, there are circles within the circle, and if there is no absolute conflict between this circle and the other circle, it is also possible to form a circle that intersects with each other, that is, the people in this circle may be inextricably linked with the people in another circle. The more you go to the center of the circle, the more opportunities you will have to contact the top of the circle, and of course, the more opportunities you will have to be promoted and recommended.

For example, the head of the organization, as the pillar of the circle of the secretary of the county party committee, in addition to belonging to the circle of the secretary of the county party committee, may also have his own circle, and may also have contacts with other circles, such as the circle of the director of the people's congress. Of course, it would be very dangerous if the head of the organization was also mixed into the circle of the county magistrate. Because in a general sense, the secretary of the county party committee and the county magistrate themselves belong to different circles, and the contradictions are irreconcilable due to the struggle for power. If the organization minister has an ambiguous relationship with the county magistrate's circle, it will become duplicitous, and in the end, neither the county magistrate nor the secretary of the county party committee will be welcome, and they will definitely have no right to speak on the Standing Committee.

If you are mixed in the outer layer of the circle of the organization minister, it is equivalent to mixing in the circle of the county party secretary, and you must find a way to get closer to the position of the organization minister or the secretary of the county party committee, so that you have the opportunity to go up step by step. If you follow the organization committee of the township and township, although the organization committee member is also the circle of the organization minister, the energy is very limited, and you want to wait for the organization committee member to promote you, then your initial starting point is wrong, if the organization committee member can be promoted, you may still be promoted, once the organization committee member loses power, you will also be unlucky. But in most cases, even if the organizing committee is promoted, it is very likely that you will be ignored as the pawn who once worked hard for him. Because of his limited energy, he has no right to speak in the circle, and it is difficult for him to even be promoted, how can he promote you. So, if you're just content with the outer layers of the circle and plan to get into officialdom, it's no different from an idiot's dream.

Of course, this is just an analogy, like modern officialdom, the secretary of the county party committee and the county magistrate generally do not play circles, because they want to be promoted, relying on the energy of the upper circle, therefore, generally speaking, once they become the center of an absolute circle, there will be no more opportunities for promotion, and it is very likely to become the target of public criticism. So playing circles is also a very dangerous game of officialdom. The best way is to move to the outer layer of the center of the circle, you have to find a way to go up, if at this time, do not go, once the center of the circle collapses, your point closest to the center of the circle, it is very likely that everyone will push the center of the circle, and then I am afraid that you will be locked in the circle, and you will never be able to go again.