282 It's hard for a man

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Zhao Yang stood in the parking lot waiting for Ma Haijun, and after a while, he saw a man with a big belly running over panting like a pregnant woman. Pen, Fun, Pavilion www.biquge.infoβ•”β•—Where is this still that old classmate who is as thin as a firewood? But it is indeed the Ma Navy who has not seen each other for five years.

Naturally, there was no need to be polite between the two, so Zhao Yang said directly: "How did you become like this bear?" ”

Zhao Yang, who has been practicing medicine for more than a year, is no stranger to this change in the Ma Navy, which is a common problem of many married men: becoming fat after marriage.

For this phenomenon, especially Ma Haijun, who is not only fat, but also has the so-called general belly, also called beer belly, the reason is that on the one hand, life and diet have become regular, and there is less activity in winter, but more is caused by spleen and kidney yang deficiency. The causes of spleen and kidney yang deficiency are mostly caused by lack of restraint in sexual intercourse after marriage.

This is also human nature, married, sleeping with a fragrant and soft daughter-in-law every day, the freshness has not passed, for this kind of thing, the man's own restraint is insufficient, and he has done too much invisibly, which has caused kidney deficiency.

The kidneys belong to water, and closely related to them is the spleen that belongs to the earth, and the two are mutually reinforcing. The so-called mutual restraint, for normal people, means that the two parties restrain each other and strengthen each other, and when one party is weak, the other party does not become all stronger, but will also become weaker. As a result, the kidneys are weakened, and the temper is weakened.

The medical book says that "the two voids are in the shape of the ......", so the originally "slender" and "skinny" Ma Haijun has become like a ball now!

Of course, for office workers like them, the formation of the general's belly also has a reason for the emotional disharmony caused by the high pressure of life.

Ma Haijun ran to Zhao Yang with relief in his eyes, and after hearing Zhao Yang's words, he touched his stomach, and wanted to put it in, and asked, "You can also see that I am fat?" ”

Zhao Yang didn't speak, and patted Ma Haijun's stomach with his backhand, but his heart was relieved. β•”β•— Looking at his performance, you can see that his father should be out of danger.

Ma Haijun scratched his head, looked at Zhao Yang, and sighed: "You haven't changed much, I can't do it, this belly is also up!" ”

Zhao Yang saw a few white hairs on Ma Haijun's head, but he sighed slightly. Gas.

In the year he graduated from university, he and most of his classmates chose to stay in the Yellow Sea or return to their hometown, but Ma Haijun went south very heroically, signed a contract with a clothing company, and went to Tianxing as a business representative.

When I graduated, I didn't understand anything, but now I know that the so-called business representative is actually running sales.

After graduation, Zhao Yang "survived" in the Yellow Sea, rarely took the initiative to contact his classmates, and communicated with Ma Haijun several times, but he still couldn't get along anymore, so he asked him to borrow money.

And every time he borrowed money, Ma Haijun called him very happily. At that time, he was not in Tianxing, but in a township on the outskirts of Tiannan City, giving him money, and reversing the car once.

In those exchanges, it sounded like he was mixing well and became the vice president of a region. But where is it so easy to be in a foreign land?

Year! Zhao Yang received the news of Ma Haijun's marriage. β•”β•— He is a local of Tianxing, and he has RVs, so it didn't cost him much to get married.

At that time, Zhao Yang was still happy for him, and felt that the pony's life was so good, and he didn't have to work hard to earn money as a house slave and a car slave like them.

It's just that now that I think about it, what is the difference between this situation and getting rich?

Chinese people pay attention to "high marriage and low marriage", the woman's conditions are so good, as a phoenix man, does he have any status in the family? If the woman is not considerate, and then faces the pressure of work, she may not be very satisfied!

After a moment of silence, Ma Haijun sighed again: "Dude, I'm very happy that you can come!" ”

Zhao Yang collected his thoughts, patted him on the shoulder, and said, "Uncle Ma is okay now, right?" Let's check it out! ”

Ma Haijun nodded right and said, "It's out of danger, don't worry, I'm still asleep now, I have Uncle Li to help take care of it, let's go and see it later." You've come all the way and haven't eaten yet, have you? Let's go, let's go get something to eat first. ”

Zhao Yang looked at Ma Haijun's bloodshot eyes full of tiredness, and asked, "You haven't eaten either, have you?" ”

Ma Haijun held the car and changed his feet, and said with a sparkle in his eyes, "How can you be in the mood to eat!" ”

Zhao Yang opened the car door and said, "Let's go, let's go eat something outside." ”

Waiting for the car, Ma Haijun said again: "Yesterday at seven o'clock called me, the plane only had a flight at one o'clock in the morning, and the rain of T"D, drenched me without saying anything, and postponed to more than three o'clock before taking off MT got off the plane, I came to the hospital, and then called you to borrow money, and then it was upstairs and downstairs, paying money everywhere, waiting for the rescue."

Ma Haijun hadn't eaten for a day and a night, and it was night, so he tried to eat some food that was easy to digest, so when he passed by a porridge shop, Zhao Yang stopped the car. β•”β•—

Ma Haijun grabbed Zhao Yang, who was about to get out of the car, and said with a smile: "If you come once, why do you have to invite you to a good meal!" Let's go, the flower food in our flower city is very famous, you haven't eaten it yet, have you? Let's go, and then there is a branch of Wanhualou, let's go there to eat! ”

Zhao Yang slapped his hand away and scolded with a smile, "You know a fart, those cauliflowers are good at most, what are they delicious?" Besides, I've been driving for so long, how can I eat anything else? ”

Ma Haijun opened his mouth, and wanted to say something, Zhao Yang had already taken off his seat belt and got out of the car, he raised his face and smiled, his thoughts were surging in his chest, he exhaled again, and also got out of the car.

Some so-called porridge shops sell dog meat on sheep's heads, but this one is very good, focusing on all kinds of porridge, and of course, there are also all kinds of stir-fried dishes.

The two sat down, Ma Haijun looked at the billboard on the wall, and asked Zhao Yang, "What do you want to eat?" ”

Zhao Yang said with a smile: "Uncle Ma is still lying in the hospital, you listen to me, we have a salted bone porridge per person, and then we want a plate of cucumber mixed with pig's face and stir-fried mung bean sprouts, which is simple and affordable!" ”

Ma Haijun really didn't worry about his father, so he nodded and said, "Okay!" It's late now, and I'll treat you to a good meal tomorrow! ”

Zhao Yang smiled and said, "You guy, I just want to eat you!" ”

The bones in the porridge shop are cooked in the morning, and they are not really porridge, but they are boiled with steamed rice and bones and some water, so they come up quickly. β•”β•—

However, although it is done quickly, the meat bones are really well cooked, and when sprinkled with coriander, it smells fragrant and looks white rice and green leaves, which also seduces people's appetite.

Zhao Yang and the others were indeed hungry, so they scooped a spoonful and drank it first, and then praised it in unison.

In the summer, drinking hot porridge is really exciting, and after a few sips, sweat broke out on the faces of the two. At this time, the fried bean sprouts and the mixed pork face were also served.

The two of them didn't need to be polite, they just buried their heads in drinking porridge, gnawing on the meat on the bones, and then sandwiching a chopstick dish from time to time, just like when they were in school, they ate fried noodles together in a small shop after going to school.

The two of them asked for Zhongyan's porridge, but the amount was a lot, and after drinking two bowls, there was almost half of it left. After padding their stomachs, the two slowed down the pace of eating, and talked while eating.

Looking at the two dishes on the table, the bean sprouts had bottomed out, but the mixed pig face didn't move a few chopsticks, Ma Haijun smiled and said: "D, it's really not good, when I went to school, this plate of pig face has long been gone!" ”

Zhao Yang smiled: "At that time, you were thin, and you were counted as being able to eat meat, why don't you eat it now?" ”

Ma Haijun rubbed his stomach again and said with a wry smile: "I can't eat anymore!" ”

As he spoke, he saw him stretch his chopsticks towards the pork face, but halfway through he turned to a section of cucumber. β•”β•— Looking at his appearance, you know that he doesn't want to eat, it should be that his body does not allow him to eat.

It's not that difficult to lose weight for him, Zhao Yang's main purpose is to treat his father, so he asked, "Uncle Ma, why did he suddenly become so sick?" ”

Ma Haijun's whole body fell like the tide of the sea, and he put the cucumber in his mouth and chewed it twice, as if he had accidentally sucked the chili powder into his throat, and coughed violently.

Zhao Yang was stunned for a moment, hurriedly picked up the pot and poured him a glass of water, and said, "Drink some water and flush it." ”

Ma Haijun lowered his head, shook his hand, fumbled with a napkin to wipe his nose, and when he raised his head again, he saw that his eyes were red, but tears still couldn't help overflowing.

Zhao Yang's heart seemed to be blocked by something, and he suddenly felt uncomfortable.

Ma Haijun coughed a few more times, picked up the glass of water and poured it down, then clenched his fists hard, closed his eyes, and said tremblingly, "It's all my fault!" I'm not filial, I'm not filial! ”

Zhao Yang turned his face and exhaled a breath of turbidity, patted his hands, and said with a smile: "Everyone has a disease and disaster, and there is no way to do it." As soon as you heard the news, didn't you rush back quickly? ”

Ma Haijun just shook his head and didn't speak.

"The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not only the child wants to raise but the kiss does not wait for the ......", this may be the unavoidable feeling of every adult, and it is also the deepest regret!

Zhao Yang sighed, although he knew that it was useless to say anything now, he still comforted: "Don't be sad, isn't Uncle Ma out of danger now?" Rest assured, it will be fine! ”

Ma Haijun wiped away the tears on his face and said with palpitations: "If something happens to my father, I can't forgive myself for the rest of my life!" ”

For Ma Haijun, because his mother died when he was very young, and his father did not remarry, he worked hard to pull him to, and this feeling was particularly strong.

Zhao Yang poured him a glass of water, at this time, as a good friend, the best way to do it is to be a listener.

Ma Haijun raised his reddened eyes, looked at Zhao Yang and said, "Zhao Yang, do you know? Actually, my dad got sick this time because of me! ”

Zhao Yang didn't speak, poured himself a glass of water, and took a sip slowly.

Ma Haijun took a few breaths, and said sadly: "Yunyun had a one-year birthday last week, you know, here, the first birthday is very important, my father went to me, who knows the heart."

At this point, his tears flowed down again!

He raised his face, closed his eyes, covered his chest and said, "Zhao Yang, you remember, your relatives, friends and future children must take me as a warning, don't be like me!" ”

He lowered his head and shook his head, wanting to shake off the small water on his face, and then gritted his teeth and said, "Zhao Yang, have you ever seen me like this as a son?" When I got married, my dad went to my place and only stayed for five days! Yunyun was born, my father became a grandfather, of course he was happy, he bought a lot of things to see me, and as a result, he only lived for less than a week! On Yunyun's birthday last month, my dad took a train for more than 20 hours to get to me, but he only stayed for three days! Zhao Yang, I, I'm ......"

Zhao Yang clenched his fist, and when he saw that the diners in the small shop had come over, he hurriedly handed the waiter a hundred yuan and helped Ma Haijun to get into the car.

After getting into the car, Ma Haijun covered his face with his hands and buried it in front of his chest, and after a while, his emotions still couldn't calm down

Zhao Yang sighed, gently pinched his shoulder a few times, his tense body relaxed a little, and then couldn't hide the pain and said: "Our father and I depend on each other, I am the marriage of my son, this is a great joy in a lifetime, can my father not be happy?" What joy did he have when he went to see me...... However, how did Hua Qian's family treat my father? At the wedding ceremony, I thought my father couldn't speak Cantonese, so he was only allowed to say five sentences, so many people, did they think about my father and my face? ”

"My dad went to my wedding, we had a new house, two houses, and her parents also had a house, but my dad was hungry to live outside...... My dad was afraid that I would be uncomfortable, so he didn't say anything, but I didn't know if he felt even more uncomfortable? I'm his only son! ”

"Xiao Yunyun was born last year, and after my father heard the letter, he immediately went again, and told me that it was okay to live in a hotel, just to see another girl, his feelings, Zhao Yang, you are also a father now, you should be able to understand, right? However, after he went, he was only allowed to look, and he was not even allowed to hug him, saying that he had just been born and should not contact uncommon people, I Chuan

"Last week, Xiao Yunyun's birthday, I was afraid that my father would be wronged, I thought I wouldn't tell him, but I didn't expect my father to keep this in mind, and called me half a month in advance, you know, in order not to make my father ugly, I almost knelt down and begged them to be a family, just want my father to be happy to come and see his other daughter! But how did her family talk at the time? Is that what people say? ”

"Since I got along with her, four years after graduation, I have been back home twice. I have been repenting in her house for many years...... Now Xiao Yunyun won't recognize her grandfather! ”

"My dad called me at the end of last year, saying that he missed me and missed Xiao Yunyun, and asked me if I could go home for the New Year? Today, Uncle Li told me that when he called me, he had already found out that he had a kidney problem, and he was afraid that he would not be able to see me! ”

Zhao Yang raised his face, but tears still flowed down his temples.

He can understand Ma Haijun's repentance and deep love in his heart, because he is a son of man and a father.