For the enemy, Wu Ling naturally does not have a good temper, but for the person he approves, Wu Ling naturally will not sit back and watch the other party be humiliated, and what he doesn't care about is not his character, not to mention that the reason why Wei Yun is insulted by Li Wei now is because of him.

So he took the red wine from Wei Yun's hand, put it on the table, and said, "Okay, this matter has nothing to do with you, I will deal with it!" ”

Saying that, he patted Wei Yun on the shoulder, if it was usual, Wei Yun would probably have slapped Wu Ling's hand away at this time, but at this time, a warm current emerged in his heart, compared with Li Wei, Wu Ling's attitude was as warm as spring. So he glanced at Wu Ling gratefully and didn't speak.

It's just that Wei Yun made such a move, but the average Levi couldn't stand it anymore, and said lightly to Wei Yun: "Boy, I know who you are, now I give you a choice, which side are you going to stand on this time!" Choose well, but don't regret it! ”

Wu Ling didn't make any moves, and Li Wei naturally began to target the people around Wu Ling, wanting to use Wei Yun and them to provoke Wu Ling. Hearing Li Wei's statement, Wei Yun hesitated suddenly.

He knows Levi's identity, especially he is still a very high position in their circle, almost a core figure, if he offends Levi now, he will almost offend the entire circle, after all, Levi's circle will never give up Levi for him. In other words, if he chooses Wu Ling, then he will almost be abandoned by the entire circle, and if he does it now. The price is not too great.

Although he is still a student, he knows it. In modern society. To mix well, you must have good interpersonal relationships. But it's not enough to have good interpersonal relationships, but not to be good at turning them into your circle. Relationship only means that you have a good relationship with a few people, and the establishment of a circle has a strong purpose, which can unite a part of people to the greatest extent and realize the sharing of interests and information resources in this circle. Mutual help and relationships in circles are much more effective than if you were alone with a good friend to pull the relationship.

At present, circles are everywhere in society, singers, movie stars, and comedians are making some shows and breaking news with each other, which is called the entertainment industry; In order to form a scale effect. Many businesses gather in one place, which is called a business district; Similarly, most of those who engage in politics appear in the political arena in the form of political parties, and this so-called political party is just synonymous with "political circles".

You see, the entertainment industry, business circles, and political circles...... And so on, but if you have a little bit of contact with the "circle", if you are among them, the "identity" will immediately become different. It's okay if you scoff at it. Honor and disgrace are not shocked, and I am somewhat overjoyed in my bones, after all, it means that you have a place in the "circle" and have been initially recognized. From then on, you can attend various occasions as an "insider", talk and point fingers. even flaunted his might.

There is often a word in the media, called "insider". It is equivalent to the meaning of "one's own person". It's not your own person, and of course it's not easy to do anything. If you can't get into the circle, you are just full of guts, and you are just a straggler, and it is difficult to become popular. People in the martial arts have to apprentice, one is to learn art, and the other is to have a return. Worshipping this teacher is equivalent to entering this door, and from now on you will no longer be alone.

Entering a circle in a certain industry is the premise for us to succeed in this industry, just imagine, if Wu Zetian is not elected to the palace, can she become a female emperor? It can be seen that all the exchanges, supports, and even fights happen in the circle, and if you can't enter the circle, all this has nothing to do with you; The closer you are to the core of the circle, the more likely you are to be promoted by the core, or even become the core.

It can be seen that things gather by like, people are divided by circles, and if a person wants to gain a foothold in society, he must have his own circle.

The one hundred and eight generals in "Water Margin", if they are all stragglers, they will not pose a real threat to the Great Song Dynasty. Can you Wu Song fight, can you beat my thousands of troops? You Wu is good at scheming, there are no soldiers and horses for you to deploy, and many good strategies can only be thought of in your mind, and there is no chance to use them. But when these stragglers unite, the Great Song Dynasty will be in danger, not to mention Wu Song, Wu Yong and others, even a time move who only knows how to steal chickens and dogs is probably enough for you to deal with the Great Song Dynasty for a while.

Before Liu Bei had fully established his own circle, he was not as good as Zhuge Liang in terms of strategizing, and not as good as Guan Yu, Zhang Fei, and Zhao Yun in terms of leading troops to fight, but he had an advantage that others were not as good as, that is, a huge coordination ability, he was able to attract these outstanding talents to his use, establish a circle with himself as the core, and with the power of the circle, he had the strength of the world.

The story of the dispute between Chu and Han, I think everyone must be familiar with it, Xiang Yu is the ideal hero of "pulling out the mountains and covering the world", if in today's China, he must be the object of worship of young boys and girls, but Liu Bang is a "good wine and sex" disciple, and the wife of Lianfa is disgusted with his personality. However, in the battle between Chu and Han, Liu Bang was defeated and fought repeatedly, and the battle of Qixia was won and the world was pacified; Xiang Yu won a hundred battles, lost the battle and died, laughing for the world. Why? It is still the circles that decide their fate.

After Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Han Dynasty, pacified the world, he said at the celebration banquet in Luoyang: "In the midst of the husband's strategy, the decisive victory is thousands of miles away, I am not as good as the ovary; Town the country, care for the people, give wages, endless food, I am not as good as Xiao He; Even an army of millions, the battle will be won, the attack must be taken, I am not as good as Han Xin. All three of them are masterpieces. I can use it, so I can take the world. Xiang Yu has a fan increase and can't use it, so I caught it. "The reason why Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Han Dynasty, was able to dominate the world was because he reused some people who were more capable than himself in some aspects, and he attributed the reason for winning the world to his own good management circle, which can be described as a word.

Maybe you will say, what era is it now, the past set doesn't work, now I eat with ability, I have the ability to worry about not eating? You may be right, but there is no denying that there are many talented and destitute people in this world, and perhaps they are struggling with three meals a day. Why have they not been lifted out of poverty in a world that claims to be capable? The reason is very simple, what is missing may be the circle.

And some successful people are able to succeed step by step by using the survival rules of the circle, consciously or unconsciously.

Dale Carnegie, known as the king of the American steel industry, said, "You can take away all my factories, equipment, markets, and funds, but as long as I keep my organization and people, I will still be the king of steel in a few years." ”

Carnegie's words reflect the ability of a Western bourgeois entrepreneur to run a circle and use it to create wealth for himself, i.e., they recognize that the circle factor is paramount.

After Carnegie's death, a short poem was inscribed on his tombstone: Here is the burial of a man who is best at organizing those who are stronger than himself into a governing body that serves him.

Nowadays, alumni associations are very popular in society, and there are no less than dozens of alumni associations of various kinds at Jingcheng University alone.

On weekends, when you go to Peking University, Tsinghua University, Renmin University and other campuses, you will find that there are many people who do not look like students, and many of them have spent a lot of money to study from all over the country. Learning knowledge is one thing, making friends is the more important reason. For those students in "adult classes", such as entrepreneur classes, financier classes, international MBA classes, etc., making friends may be more important than learning knowledge, and some people's only purpose is to make friends. Some schools have also seen this, and they will tell each other bluntly in the admissions brochure: having the resources of classmates from such and such a school will be the most valuable wealth in your life.

More and more people are realizing that having a good circle can expand the prospects or prospects for the future.

Such is the power of the "circle".

In your "human survival fold", in addition to money and professional knowledge, how many valuable circles do you have? How much is your "interpersonal competitiveness", the Stanford Research Center once published a survey report, which concluded that 12.5% of the money a person earns comes from knowledge and 87.5% from relationships. Relationships are only for individual people, while circles are for the expansion of relationships.

Circles can bring you great wealth. World-class network resource expert Harvey Brown. Mackay cleverly used his connections to find his first job.

There were very few college graduates at the time. McKay thought he could get the best job, but it didn't turn out to be as good as he could see. Good thing Harvey. Mackay's father was a journalist who knew some important figures in politics and business, including Charlie. Ward. Charlie. Ward is chairman of Brown Bigelow, the world's largest company that manufactures calendar cards. Four years ago, Ward was serving a prison sentence for tax issues. Harvey. McKay's father felt that Ward's tax evasion case was a bit untrue, so he went to the prison to interview Ward and write some unbiased reports. Ward liked the articles so much that he said gratefully that after many false reports, Harvey was a big deal. McKay's father finally wrote an impartial report that did justice for him.

After being released from prison, he asked Harvey. Does Mackay's father have a son.

"There's one in college." Harvey. McKay's father said.

"When will you graduate?" Ward asked.

"He's looking for a job, he's just graduated."

"Oh, that's just right, if he wants to, call him to me." Ward said.

The next day, Harvey. McKay called Ward's office, and at first, the secretary wouldn't let him see him, and then mentioned his father's name several times before he got the opportunity to speak with Ward.

Ward said, "You can come to my office at 10 o'clock tomorrow morning for an interview!" "The next day, Harvey. McKay arrived as promised, not wanting the job fair to turn into a chat, and Ward chatted about Harvey with great interest. The prison interview with Mackay's father was very lighthearted. After a while, he said, "I would like to send you to our gold mine 'to work', just across the street from Pinyuan Envelope Company." (To be continued......)