Chapter 43: The Feeling of Home
However, Yu Fei obviously didn't believe Xie Bin's words, and pouted: "I don't believe in men, hum, they are all guys who can't walk when they see women." ”
Xie Bin smiled bitterly, "Sister, is it so difficult for me too?" You're a standard pole that overturns a boatload of people. ”
Yu Fei smiled, "Brother, you can make an exception," and asked with a straight face: "Brother, don't you go to the capital with you?" If grandpa is reburied, it may have to be done in a big way. ”
Xie Bin shook his head, "For me, the old man has been buried in the small ravine of Yilin, and I will only go to worship somewhere in the future." ”
Yu Fei listened to Xie Bin's words and was silent. Of course, she knew that the people who caused the situation in front of her were her father and others, but it was quite difficult for her to be caught in the middle. On the one hand, there are parents, uncles, aunts and others, and on the other hand, there is this brother who gets along well, but the root cause of all this is a little difficult to say. Yu Fei, a girl who had just graduated from college, could only be silent, she really couldn't think of a way to get the best of both worlds.
Xie Bin also saw that his newly recognized sister was entangled, and smiled and said with relief: "Okay, don't think about this, we can interact how we want to in the future, don't let other things ruin our friendship, hahaha, remember when we first met, you were very lively." ”
"Didn't I know you were still my brother at that time," Yu Feijiao snorted and glanced at Xie Bin.
Xie Bin smiled, "What's the matter, you can't let go of my brother after recognizing me?" What is the rationale for this? Are you only so lively in front of strangers? ”
"It's not," Yu Fei waved her hand angrily, wanting to explain something, thinking about it and giving up, she collapsed, took a sip of the drink, and then straightened up again, and asked with great interest: "Brother, I remember that on the day we met for the first time, you got along very well with Sister Yuying, and also, the day before yesterday at Brother Heizi's place, she took the initiative to invite you to dance, how is it going?" ”
Xie Bin waved his hand impatiently, as if he wanted to drive away all those unpleasant troubles, "Don't talk nonsense, we have only known each other for two or three months, how can it be, besides, people's family backgrounds are extraordinary, how can I be worthy of others." Xie Bin was still a little indignant when he said this, but it was mainly because of Xue Yuying's father's attitude, which hit him quite hard when he had a showdown with Xie Bin. Director Xue just said to Xie Bin that he didn't want Xie Bin to be with his daughter, as for why he didn't want to, he didn't mention any shortcomings of Xie Bin at all, and he didn't even have some comforting words. Obviously, in the eyes of Director Xue and his wife, people like Xie Bin have nothing to pay attention to at all, they just waved their hands, "Yuying's mother and I don't want you two to be together", it's over in one sentence, you have to listen to it, and you have to listen if you don't listen. Director Xue was facing as if he was one of his insignificant subordinates.
Seriously, looking at Director Xue's smiling face at that time, Xie Bin really wanted to punch him. But as a result, he could only cater to the performance that a small person should behave and take the initiative to leave there. Thinking about it now, it is indeed quite aggrieved, but Xie Bin has no other way, he is originally a weak person. If his mind was not clear, he might make a lot of noise for a while, so that Director Xue would also be disgraced. It's a pity that Xie Bin is not that kind of person, he has a very smart brain and knows what will be the best choice. Speaking of which, if it really makes trouble, is it good for him Xie Bin? It is estimated that there is no other result except for making Xue Yuying's family hate him even more.
Then again, if Xie Bin was really that kind of person, it is estimated that Xue Yuying would not look at him differently.
However, Yu Fei was not satisfied with Xie Bin's realization, and hummed a few sentences: "The official is a cow, and our family is not a soft persimmon that can be pinched by others." ”
Xie Bin could only smile bitterly when he heard what else he could say, "Okay, don't talk nonsense about things without shadows, if it spreads, won't it ruin the sisterhood between you and Xue Yuying?" But having said that, Xie Bin was still a little moved by Yu Fei's performance, especially the sentence "our family". Xie Bin has only one relative since he was a child, but the old man's personality really doesn't look like a housekeeper, and sometimes, Xie Bin even suspects that he is the head of that family. It is said that at that time, the old man didn't care about anything other than making some money, sometimes the poor couldn't open the pot, and went out to borrow money and food, that was Xie Bin's business.
And now Yu Fei's sentence "our family" suddenly moved Xie Bin very much, such a feeling was something he had never experienced. Is this what it's like to have a family caring? Xie Bin faintly thought of his biological parents who didn't know where they were.
However, if Xie Bin is really allowed to integrate into Yu Fei's family, Xie Bin himself is afraid that he will not be so reluctant. Xie Bin said that the good thing is that he has an arrogant backbone, and the bad thing is that he has a donkey temper. Don't look at Xie Bin, who is usually very easy-going, but if you encounter his principle, he may even turn against you.
Xie Bin's relationship with the Yu family is only the old man's nurturing grace, and as for other things, it has nothing to do with Xie Bin. If Yu Fei's family is just an ordinary family, but their family is this kind of rich family, if Xie Bin comes to the door to confess his relatives, it will inevitably leave people with the impression of being rich and noble, which is also the reason why Xie Bin decisively cut off the relationship with Yu Fei's family.
You must know that when Xie Bin just entered the door of Yu Fei's house, Yu Fei's father and uncle showed obvious wariness, if Xie Bin really regarded himself as a member of their family as the old lady said, it is estimated that Xie Bin will be secretly hated to death by the two "uncles".
Later, Xie Bin and Yu Fei did not talk about these things anymore, but learned about each other's family situation. Xie Bin didn't have anything to know there, and some of the things Yu Fei wanted to know, Xie Bin didn't want to mention it again. Because of Xie Bin's past, it was really boring, even when the old man was there, it could be summed up in one word, that is, the word "poor".
For a lady like Yu Fei, this word is so unfamiliar, but for Xie Bin, it is a past that he never wants to mention again. In other words, Xie Bin still remembers the embarrassment when he went to the neighbor's house to borrow rice for the first time, and that feeling is really hard to forget. Thinking about it now, Xie Bin doesn't know how he spoke at that time, he was just six years old at that time.
As for Yu Fei's life, it looks colorful, but in fact, it can be summed up in just a few words, which is nothing more than "eating, drinking, and having fun", and there is nothing worth saying otherwise. This is like the wall of the wall, the envy of the outside of the wall, and the outside of the wall squeezed hard into the wall. As for what is good or not, happy or unhappy, everyone has their own feelings and experiences.
However, Yu Fei is lively and full of nature, and a very simple thing can make her say flowers. Looking at Yu Fei's cheerful expression, Xie Bin's mood also relaxed, no wonder Jiang Guanghao would chase so hard, Yu Fei, this girl is also a rare good girl.
In other words, it's not that there are fewer girls like Yu Fei, but that there are fewer girls like her who are born in a rich family but don't have any shelves. For a girl like her, material life is not a problem for her at all, and she will not be tempted, as long as she is clean and self-conscious, she is a standard good wife, and she is absolutely at ease when she marries home.
But girls from ordinary families are not necessarily, once they enter society, the more beautiful ones will always be tempted by all kinds of temptations, and there are fewer and fewer who can resist those temptations. And it is precisely in this way that girls like Yu Fei are doubly precious. These days, how difficult is it to find a beautiful girl with a good personality who will not be tempted? Friends who often surf the Internet know it. Especially after the famous sentence "I'd rather sit in a BMW and cry" said by a female guest in a certain show a few years ago, this sentence has been used as a motto by many girls.
Look at the present, if you want to find a wife, the woman's first condition is that she must have a house, and if she has high requirements, she must also have a car, which is enough to make many ordinary families bankrupt. Last year, there was news that a man got married, and the other party's asking price was too high, and as a result, the man's mother was forced to jump off the building for her son. This made Xie Bin sigh for a long time, he was a person who had never seen his mother, so he naturally couldn't understand what kind of emotion it was, but he didn't expect it to evolve into such a situation.
In some places, the bride price for marriage is based on the scale, which makes Xie Bin a little speechless, saying that according to his previous way of making money, how long will it take to marry a daughter-in-law?
And a girl like Yu Fei is different, it is estimated that not only does not need a bride price, but the upside-down dowry is enough for many people to live comfortably for a lifetime. Is it often circulating on the Internet that some rich people marry their daughters and then give away sky-high dowries? Yu Fei is like that.
However, Jiang Guanghao obviously did not come for the money of Yu Fei's family, with Jiang Guanghao's father's status, money is far less important than a higher status. If Jiang Guanghao and his family want to make money, it is definitely much easier than opening a company and running a business.
After saying goodbye to Yu Fei, he took his books, bought some vegetables and fruits, and came to his teacher's house.
The teacher Xie Bin worshipped was so cheap that he didn't even drink a cup of tea, and he ate Xie Bin's meal, and later gave away more than a dozen books and dictionaries that were smaller than the number. However, although the old man's family conditions are not as good as those of Yu Fei and Li Jingjing, he is not short of money, so he naturally doesn't care about these.
But the old man doesn't care, it doesn't mean that Xie Bin can ignore it, the etiquette that should be there can't be careless, especially in terms of details, Xie Bin attaches more importance to it. When you go out to do things, no matter how much, you always have to bring something with your heart, which is also what the older generation attaches great importance to.
Of course, the gift is not only to be given, but also to be giving, and at least the gift you give must not make the host unhappy. For example, if someone doesn't like to eat meat, but when you come to the door, you bring a few pounds, and people don't say it, they must mumble in their hearts.
Fortunately, Xie Bin's teacher didn't have anything obvious taboos, so Xie Bin was more relaxed, and it was enough to buy some fresh fruits and vegetables. It is said that if Xie Bin sends money to the old man, maybe the old man will kick Xie Bin out of the gate. Old man, at this grade, there are very few things to care about, and sometimes even if you come to the door empty-handed, they will be happy.
When Xie Bin entered the door, the old man was writing, and Qiao'er was also there. Seeing Xie Bin coming in, the girl smiled happily, "Uncle and uncle, did you come alone?" ”
Xie Bin was stunned, "What?" Isn't it enough for me to come alone? ”
"Naturally it's not enough, you have to bring a girlfriend, my grandfather said last time, 'Xiao Xie is not too small, I have to give him a girlfriend'."