Chapter 133: Fu Min's Marriage
"Yes, her place in my heart is far more important than my own, and I am willing to use my life to protect her and not let her suffer any grievances." Yan Tao said casually.
Fu Min's eyes were a little red.
Leaving Yan Tao for a distance, he slowly and imperceptibly exhaled.
She can feel that the man in front of her is a tough guy, not the kind of man who is easily emotional, don't look at him as easy-going on the surface, but everywhere he has the feeling of rejecting people thousands of miles away.
She had this feeling from the beginning of the meeting and shaking hands, he just touched his hand lightly and shook it, but he didn't completely grasp it, the time was very short, but it didn't feel perfunctory.
For professional reasons, Fu Min has shaken hands with countless people, domestic, foreign, different colors, different ages, and different surnames.
Even so, she is still sensitive to handshakes.
For professional peers, everyone is almost the same, except for a few people, they are basically etiquette surnames, and they are all trained, but you can feel the subtle differences when you experience it carefully.
For non-professional people, you can even roughly feel the person's character and surname through a handshake.
Fu Min is recognized by everyone as a beauty, even in the place where there are many beauties in the diplomatic department, she can be regarded as outstanding, so some people will look a little nervous when shaking hands with her, while others will look obscene and disgusting.
This Yan Tao's handshake was neither humble nor arrogant, he didn't take the initiative to stretch out his hand, it was only after he stretched out his hand that he leaned forward slightly, very slightly, stretched out his hand and shook it gently, his hand was completely touched, and then he let go.
This shows a kind of respect for the female surname and the leader, neither perfunctory nor nervous, she feels that this is a man with arrogance in his bones.
It is not easy to make such a man fall in love with a woman with all his heart.
Yan Tao briefly introduced the process of him and Yun Yang from meeting each other to falling in love, and also talked about Yun Yang's family background by the way.
Fu Min had changed the way he communicated with Yan Tao, and the two heads were almost leaning together.
She nodded and said: "Only an intellectual family can educate such an excellent girl, my father is a university professor, my mother is a middle school teacher, and I can be regarded as a scholarly family in today's China, no wonder you are so knowledgeable and understanding."
"After listening to your emotional experience, I will also talk about myself, otherwise it will not be fair.
"My family background is quite special, I believe, this word is almost guessed by you, I don't have many surnames.
"I have no intention of hiding anything, nor do I want to show off, but it is always annoying to have to explain with difficulty."
Yan Tao was stunned for a moment, he immediately understood, from the moment they met, he felt the innate temperament of Fu Min's ladylike body, atmospheric, casual, and uninhibited.
Hearing her say this, he was more sure of his judgment, but he didn't show any more.
He doesn't care too much about a person's background, that doesn't mean anything, many great people who have made outstanding contributions to mankind are from poor backgrounds, on the contrary, those so-called nobles II and III are rare.
Of course, with the growth of age and experience, his prejudice against these people has become much less, many of them are objectively caused, the so-called second generation of officials, the second generation of rich, some of them are not bad in nature, but the performance of a few people is despicable.
For the family surnamed Fu, Yan Tao still showed enough respect, and he smiled lightly: "A military family worthy of admiration, and the reputation of future generations is also very good, I should have guessed that Sister Fu is a member of the Fu family." ”
Fu Min pursed his lips and smiled, as if he had known that Yan Tao would have this attitude, and continued to talk about his own affairs: "I follow my mother more and have some civilian complexes.
"My mother, like your Yang Yang, was born in an ordinary intellectual family, and my father was a college classmate.
Their marriage was strongly opposed by the family headed by the grandfather, but the father was a very tough person, which was actually very similar to the grandfather.
He threatened to dissociate himself from his family, but finally obtained the acquiescence of his family and got together with his mother.
"My marriage was basically arranged by my grandfather, I was young at the time, I didn't know much about it, and my father asked for my opinion, and I didn't object.
"We are like you, he is six years older than me, and to be fair, he is also an excellent man, very ambitious, and he does not want to die at work, which should be very similar to you, so he talked about marriage very late.
However, his biggest problem is that the so-called dedication is too strong, to put it bluntly, it is too utilitarian, except for his so-called career, anything else is not worth mentioning in his eyes, including love and family affection.
"For me, forget it, it's just that he has to get married and needs a woman, and it doesn't matter to him who this woman is.
"However, our daughter is only four years old, that is to say, he is almost forty years old before he has children, and everyone says that middle-aged children will be very precious, and he has almost no feeling for this daughter to be a father, and he is not even interested in looking at it.
"In my memory, in four years, he never even held the child once, let alone played with the child.
"This is especially true between husband and wife, not afraid of your jokes, we are all from here, except when we first got married, we lived as a couple almost once a week, which was okay, but later it became less and less, so that in the end it was very rare to even touch me.
"I know he has women outside, and more than one, and people from big families like us don't care much about men like this.
"Although I was angry and talked to him calmly, I didn't make a big fuss with him.
"What makes me even more unbearable is that he doesn't defend or ignore me, he just doesn't say a word, as long as I talk too much, he simply doesn't go home and lives in the unit.
"What is the difference between having and not having such a marriage?
"Although most of my surnames are like my mother's, not the kind of competitive woman, but I have more or less inherited my father's unyielding surname, and last year, I took the initiative to file for divorce.
"My grandfather is gone, and everyone in the family, except my father, came to persuade me, but I made up my mind and told him, and all the people who persuaded me, that if you don't want to make a big deal and make a fuss, you will break up peacefully.
In this way, I became a free man again, a single mother with a daughter.
"That's my story, I've never mentioned it to anyone else, I don't know why, and I've told you so much today.
"I'm sure you're not going to laugh at me, though, are you?"