Chapter 26 Under the Teachings of the Elders
Chen Mo touched his head a little embarrassed, "Uncle Cao, you're a little embarrassed to praise me." ”
Cao Zhongmou said with a smile: "So you still need to experience, when you can achieve honor and disgrace without being surprised, then you are not far from success." I am giving you a book today, which is "Thick Black Studies" written by Mr. Li Zongwu. Since childhood, we have all taught you to be a good person and a kind person, but you must not be a simple person. Even if you can't be a thick-hearted person like the book says, you still have to know how to recognize them and deal with them. ”
He looked around and couldn't help but laugh. "Look at me, I've drunk a little too much today, the book is on it, I'll ask your mother to bring it to you later."
Chen Mo asked, "Uncle Cao, you said that I have so many advantages, don't I have any shortcomings?!" I myself think that I have a lot of shortcomings. ”
"Oh...... Then tell me, what are your own shortcomings?! ”
"Paranoid ......"
"Only paranoia can succeed!"
"Stubborn ......"
"That's pretty much the same as paranoia!"
"Little ...... Heart"
Cao Zhongmou laughed, "Just for the divorce of your parents and parents, you can ignore your father for more than six years, your heart is really small enough!" You don't want to think about it, although they are divorced, what is there to be sorry for you?! They gave you the house at home, and the monthly living expenses are not less, right?! Besides, they're all happier now than they used to be, and you should be happy for them. ”
“…… It's just that I'm used to it......" After a while, Chen Mo said expectantly.
"Habit is a terrible thing, it can make mistakes taken for granted, and right things become mistakes. When you were sixteen years old, they abandoned you, and you should indeed feel resentment. But after seven years, you have really grown up, and what you should do at this time is to forget the past and change yourself. ”
Chen Mo hesitated for a long time and nodded. "I'll try to change myself."
Cao Zhongmou nodded and said: "You said a few points just now, but I don't think you talked about the real place, which shows that your self-understanding is not good enough." ”
He held up two fingers and said, "I think there are two aspects that you need to change. The first is that you are jealous and hateful, everyone in this society is not black and white, everyone is a complex individual, and they all have many faces. It's like me, I'm a kind elder to you, but in business, outside the scope of the law, I've done hateful things, and I'm a bad person to the people I've hurt. At this time, how do you evaluate me?! Therefore, you have to learn to distinguish everyone carefully, no matter what kind of person he is, you have to learn to hide your true mentality, no matter how you want to deal with him, you have to learn to hide deeply. ”
Chen Mo nodded, and he said again: "The second shortcoming is that your personality is a little arrogant. You are still young, graduated from a prestigious college, proficient in two foreign languages, and have been taught by your grandfather, including Chairman Chu since childhood, so you are still quite proud of yourself. Young people, there is nothing wrong with pride, but this pride should be kept in the heart and not shown. But the person you admire can be extremely humble, and your pride will be shown in the face of those you despise. This kind of personality, if you work in my company, is not a big problem. Because you are different from Cao Yi's pretentiousness, he only cares about his own feelings, and he doesn't care about anyone else. You will carefully analyze everyone around you, and as long as there is a leader who can be lenient with you, you will do well. But CNPC is different, this is a large state-owned enterprise at the vice-ministerial level, above you, there are countless leaders, maybe among these people, there are many people who are monkeys and crowns, and the corpses are vegetarian, when you face them, I believe you must not leave a good impression in their hearts. ”
"For example, your second uncle, he doesn't have any real ability, so you have always looked down on him. He is your own uncle, he will not care about your attitude, forgive you. But other people don't care about you, do they really care?! You know, although they don't have the ability to do things, they have the ability to do bad things, plus their life experience is richer than yours, all kinds of small means that are not on the table, and they are definitely more skilled than you, to be honest, you are far from being their opponents. I think that at the beginning, I just couldn't stand the endless deception and deceit, and I resolutely resigned from my job at the cost of Cao Qi's birth. ”
"So, if you want to grow up in a company like CNPC, you have to change both of your shortcomings, and only in this way can you develop in a company like CNPC. But according to your character, I don't dare to expect you to be able to be like a fish in water! ”
Seeing Cao Zhongmou laughing heartily and leaning into the sofa, Chen Mo knew that today's class would end here. Cao Zhongmou's words gave him a lot of inspiration and reflection, and he couldn't help but feel lucky when he thought of the ending of Lang Yufu who lived in his thoughts. With the guidance of Grandpa, Uncle Kang, and Uncle Cao, the foundation of Nalang Yufu is much better than that of Lang Yufu. No matter how big the Longtan tiger's den is, you also have the confidence to break through.
"Thank you, Uncle Cao, you think you really recognize yourself and know what to do in the future."
Cao Zhongmou smiled: "Don't have too much pressure, even if you are unhappy, I welcome you here at any time." For you, survival is not a problem, but how to live a happier and more successful life is what you really need to seriously consider. Your mom and they're in a hurry, let's go, let's stop here today. You will also go to the house more in the future, your mother and I are old, and it is impossible to have another child now. Your mother is just one of your children, and you shouldn't hurt her heart too much. ”
He was the first to stand up and smiled at Luo Chaoying, who came over: "I said a few words to Little Murdo, are you all in a hurry?" ”
"It's not in a hurry, it's just that Lao Li spit out wine, and the smell in the box is not good, and we can't stay."
"Leave immediately, Xiao Mo, I'll hand over your father-in-law to you, can you take care of him?!"
"No problem." Walking in front of Luo Chaoying, Chen Mo took the initiative to say, "Mom, it's been a tiring day, you should go back and rest early." ”
Luo Chaoying was stunned, she had forgotten how long it had been since her son had taken the initiative to talk to her, and if she didn't talk to him, he simply treated herself as a passerby. So she hadn't reacted yet, and by the time she reacted, Chen Mo had already walked to the stairs leading to the second floor.
Her eyes couldn't help but moisten, and when Cao Zhongmou saw her like this, he couldn't help but hug her waist and said, "His nature is still very good, but he is used to being indifferent to you, and it is difficult to correct it for a while." ”
Luo Chaoying opened his hand, "The court is public, you don't cultivate." ”
Cao Zhongmou laughed and said, "What about my daughter-in-law, what does it matter?!" You, I think you are worse than Xiao Mo, you are fifty years old, and you are still entangled in this and that every day. ”
Walking up to the second floor, Wu Liping held a pineapple in the hall to teach walking, the little guy was full of sleep and food at this time, and he was in good spirits. Chen Mo said embarrassedly: "Sister-in-law, I delayed you going home to rest." ”
"It's okay, I have children now, and I don't need to go to the school to arrange for the reception of new students, I'm idle these days!"
In the room, Li Boqing had already finished vomiting wine and was lying on the sofa and falling asleep. Yu Ting was a little embarrassed and helped the waiter clean up the stains on the ground outside the trash can. Li Shan held a rag in her hand and wiped it on the sofa from time to time, more like she was wandering than helping.
Seeing Chen Mo enter the room, she seemed to come back to her senses. "Why has it been so long? Daddy's house stinks, let's hurry home. ”
Chen Mo smiled: "We also have to bring back the source of pollution, and it still stinks when we go home!" ”
"You are not allowed to drink so much wine in the future, otherwise, I will not be able to serve you alone!"
Yu Ting slapped her and said, "Men, there are always some entertainment that you have to deal with, how can you let Xiao Mo promise you?!" You will be diligent for me in the future, and no one will spoil you like a princess in the future! ”
Chen Mo hurriedly said: "Auntie, I spoil ......"
Li Shan snorted proudly, threw away the rag, hugged Chen Mo's face with a smile, and kissed him on the forehead. "Do you hear me? I am destined to be better than you! ”
Yu Ting gritted her teeth with hatred and reached out to hit her. "You are here to be angry with me! When you have a child, I see how proud you are! ”
Chen Mo is 178 tall, which is not short, but Li Shan is tall, and he is wearing a pair of half-high heels today, so he is even taller than him. She didn't have to tiptoe, just raised her head slightly, and kissed her forehead, which made him hate his height even more at this time. Seeing Yu Ting beating her, he didn't stop her, this girl, she didn't know how to restrain a little, she didn't look at a few waiters, she just couldn't hold back her laughter!
With the strong Chen Mo, the drunk Li Boqing was not a burden, he carried his father-in-law downstairs, Li Shan drove the car over, and with Yu Ting's help, the four of them left the club smoothly.
But back in the compound, Li Shan began to make trouble again, she didn't park the car closer to her house, but parked directly under the street lamp in the yard. In front of a group of colleagues who were enjoying the coolness, Chen Mo knew very well the intentions of Li Shan and his mother-in-law, and he didn't distinguish between them, and put his father-in-law on his back, which won another piece of praise. After walking nearly a hundred meters and climbing to the third floor, he was so tired that he could barely breathe.