(This chapter is a big turning point in the book, please be patient and read it!) ）

Son:

When you read this letter, you are already eighteen years old, and according to the tradition of the Chinese nation, I am going to hold a coming-of-age ceremony for you. Because I'm busy with work, I can't come back, and the coming-of-age ceremony can't be held, and Dad is here to apologize to you!

Son, eighteen years old, what is eighteen years old, eighteen years old means that you are an adult, adulthood means responsibility, it means to leave the greenhouse of your parents and live independently! The wind and rain outside have to be carried by one person, and the ups and downs outside have to be tasted by one person, Daddy, one day will grow old.

I know, son, you've grown up, you've really grown up! I have a lot of things I want to tell you, but you also know that I have a good face, and I can't open the topic in front of you, so I will write to you this time, and I will say it all!

Son, before I say everything, let me say that I am proud of you! In the past, you were disobedient, fighting, skipping school, smoking, drinking, fooling around, sleeping lazy, and not returning home at night, all of which broke my heart with your mother.

Later, I heard that the army can hone people the most, that is, the people who are bastards, and after throwing them in, they will be a lot more sensible. So I put my heart down, looked for some connections, changed your file, and stuffed it into the army.

But not long after you joined the army, I regretted it! I shouldn't have been so cruel to let you go in and suffer at such a young age, and I thought at the time, you must hate me. Once again, you "disappointed" me, and when I came back, I couldn't see any trace of your hatred of me. The troops really hone people.

Later, I heard that there was going to be a war, and although we didn't know if you would go to the battlefield, the military region you were in was going to send troops to the battlefield! Your mother had a big fight with me because of this incident, and to be honest, I didn't dare to go home at that time. I'm afraid, I'm afraid that if I come home, what I see is your urn and your mother's search for death.

Fortunately, God forbid, you came back safely, although it was said that you were discharged from the army due to injury, but I think you should have come back from the file that was found to have a problem!

You have been reluctant to mention your discharge from the army at home, and the only time I vaguely told your mother about your experience of going to war.

But you are my son, your thoughts, how can I not see it, you have always been reluctant to mention it, I must have been painful and unbearable to look back on your experience on the battlefield! Here I won't speculate to uncover your scars, I just want to tell you that there are ten out of ten unsatisfactory in life, as long as you cross this hurdle, you will definitely live better!

Son, although I don't know what happened to you in the army, I knew at the time that you must have learned a lot in the army.

Don't lie to me, you are my son, you lie, will my father not see it? From the moment you said that you saw a notebook on the battlefield and learned about it, I could tell you were lying.

Later, if you make suggestions and suggestions for your Uncle Jiang and become a staff member, I can be sure that you must have encountered something, otherwise it would not have changed so much.

Later, you can speak many Chinese, not only me, even Guo Zhenfeng and them, are also a little suspicious of you, even if you meet a very powerful rightist, it is impossible to learn so well, and the foreign language spoken is more standard than that spoken by foreigners.

I don't know what you have to say, since you don't say it, I won't ask more, I just need to know that you are my son, that's right! I will only treat all this as if you were born to know, in ancient times there was Ganluo who worshiped the prime minister at the age of twelve, and now that my son is seventeen years old and a genius, I will only be proud of you!

But at the same time, I also hope that after you read my praise, you don't think too highly of yourself, I don't want to hurt Zhongyong.

In addition, I also hope that you can use your knowledge on the right path, our country is facing a big reform, I hope you can use your knowledge on the right path and devote yourself to this wave.

Unconsciously, I also wrote 1,200 words, why did I say it so clearly, really, at that time, because I wrote word by word and sentence by sentence, I was afraid that I would make a mistake and lead you astray.

In your mother's letter, I was told that you were going to get engaged. Time flies! In the blink of an eye, the little kid who played with the neighbor's Xiao Yun with his bare ass back then is also going to get married!

I already know that the woman's name is Zhong Ying, she is your master's granddaughter, I have seen it, she is very good, well-behaved, and sensible. I know that you are in love, I won't do the thing of beating mandarin ducks, and when the college entrance examination for this child Zhong Ying is over in July next year, I will definitely rush back to hold an engagement banquet for you.

Love, this thing, for me, is relatively far away, or rather, I don't even have the opportunity to look forward to, so I don't know much about it, and I don't know much about your life before marriage. Let me tell you how you should get along in the future!

Back then, your mother and I, introduced by the matchmaker, met each other, and both parents agreed, and then became husband and wife.

My mother and I quarreled again, and even had fights and bumps, so many years, it has been over!

Let me tell you about my feelings over the years!

In this world, it is really a wonderful thing to be able to go through the most important dozens of spring and autumn seasons in this life together, and to be able to be with lovers who love each other, and grow old.

However, two couples who are not related by blood, even if the two were childhood sweethearts' neighbors or classmates at the same table before marriage. No matter how affectionate and loving and flowery the moon is before marriage, once it comes to the small days after marriage, the day tends to be more and more plain like water, and it is even difficult to recover to the vigorous passion before marriage, plus the two of them naturally after marriage, no longer deliberately hide their shortcomings and temperament as they did when they fell in love before marriage.

As a result, the contradictions between husband and wife will be exposed at a glance with the increasingly ordinary married life.

The most important thing in married life is to trust each other, once there is a conflict, solve it as soon as possible, quarrel or fight, it will be fine in a few days. Don't think that the two of them have always respected each other, that's impossible, everyone's thoughts will be different! It is inevitable that contradictions will arise, but at the same time, it is also necessary to resolve them!

So I hope that in your married days, be polite to each other, if there is a conflict, try to solve it as quickly as possible, if you can't solve it, you can tell me, I will do work for you, but don't hold it in the bottom of your heart, so that the relationship between husband and wife will produce an insurmountable gap!

Unconsciously, more than 2,000 words, about your family, I'll mention it here! Focus on your career!

Before I left, you told me that you were going to contract out the electronic component factory, and I didn't say anything at the time. It's because I'm afraid that I won't think it through, but now that it's been so long, I've almost thought about it.

I don't know how you're going, but I'd like you to let me know in the reply.

Regarding the fact that you want to contract the electronic component factory, to say it from the bottom of my heart, I don't agree with it, now, you have sat in the position of the head of the supply and marketing section in the Hongxing Fertilizer Factory, and you are only eighteen years old! To put it bluntly, your future is immeasurable!

But I don't know why, you have to contract the electronic component factory that is about to go bankrupt, will that make you more promising, I don't believe it, let the facts prove it later! I'll see this as your ideal now!

The army has honed people, after you retired from the army, you have matured a lot, I believe that you have your own considerations in this matter, I will go with you! After managing you for so many years, I turned out to be more and more ignorant about you, and later I threw you into the army, but I made you grow up! Maybe there's something wrong with my education style!

So this time, I decided to verbally support you and let you indulge once, you're eighteen years old! In addition, the Carrefour store that you and the few boys of Guanyu ran also made me have a little confidence in you.

I have contracted an electronic component factory, and I have another suggestion, and I hope you will listen to it. After contracting the electronic component factory, there will be a lot of things in the electronic component factory, and the factory director is not so easy to be.

So, on the issue of the conflict between your work in the Red Star Fertilizer Factory and the Electronic Components Factory, I would like to make some comments, I hope you can listen to them!

My suggestion is that if you really want to contract an electronic component factory and the contract is successful, then you should quit your job at the Red Star Fertilizer Factory! It's a pity, but I think you have to do it, the power of gossip is terrifying!

You are alone, occupy a very important position, but you don't work seriously, and you are looking for gas to work outside, which will inevitably make some people blushing and unhappy! That's when the gossip will come!

Once the gossip starts, where will you get the money from the electronic component factory, it will definitely lead to doubts! Not everyone knows as well as I know where your money comes from, so you'll have a hard time arguing when the time comes!

Even if the debate is clear, the policy is unclear at that time, and you cause a sensation and show off like this, you will only die quickly and miserably! Therefore, it is best for you to keep a low profile now, and wait for the policy to be clear, and then let go of the courage to do it boldly! Resign your job at the Red Star Fertilizer Factory, although it is a pity, but it is also to reduce some worries!

After you quit your job at the Red Star Fertilizer Factory, don't be high-profile, try to be low-key, and work hard to develop your electronic component factory! The policy is not clear, don't mess around. Low-key development and making a fortune in a muffled voice is the king.

Son, you're eighteen years old......

One day you see that I am getting older and my body is not getting better, please be patient and try to understand me......

If I eat dirty, if I don't know how to wear clothes......

Be patient......

Do you remember how long it took me to teach you these things......

If, when I repeat the same thing over and over again......

Don't interrupt me, listen to me......

When you were a child, I had to read the same story over and over again until you fell asleep peacefully......

When I don't want to take a bath, don't humiliate me, and don't scold me......

Do you remember how many excuses I made up when I was a kid just to coax you into taking a shower......

When you see my ignorance of new knowledge, give me a moment and don't look at me with a mocking smile......

How many things have I taught you......

How to eat well and dress well......

How to face your life......

If I suddenly lose my memory during the conversation and don't know what to do, give me a little time to remember......

It's not the conversation that's important to me, it's to be with you and to listen......

Don't force me when I don't feel like eating, I know exactly when to eat......

When my legs don't obey, give me a hand, as I helped you out of your first steps......

When I tell you one day that you don't want to live anymore, don't be angry......

Someday you will understand......

Try to understand that I am in the last years of my life, and my days are numbered......

One day you will find that even though I have many faults, I always do my best to give you the best......

Don't feel sentimental, angry, or helpless when I'm close to you......

You have to be close to me, as I helped you start your life, to understand me, to help me......

Give me a hand and help me through life with love and patience......

I will repay you with a smile and my unchanging boundless love......

Your father

Fu Zhenbang

September 23, 1980

PS: This chapter is a big turning point in the book, thank you for reading it carefully. The last 500 words, copied from the Internet, are very touching!

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