People are easily influenced by the environment. The book "Detonating Epidemic" is devoted to the "law of environmental power", and the power of the environment is enormous. The "broken window theory" says that if someone breaks a piece of glass in a building and doesn't fix it in time, someone else may be implicitly connived at to break more glass. There is a Chinese saying "break the jar and break it", which is a similar truth.

If you pour a spoonful of wine into a bucket of sewage, you get a bucket of sewage; If you pour a spoonful of sewage into a barrel of wine, you still get a barrel of sewage. A grain of mouse feces spoiled a pot of porridge, and if you are careless, you will eventually be virtuous. In almost any organization, there are a few difficult characters who seem to exist to make things worse and make themselves stink. The worst part is that they are like rotten apples in a fruit box, if you don't deal with it in time and throw it away, it will quickly spread and spoil the other apples as well. What's terrible about the "rotten apple" is its astonishing destructive power. An upright and capable person entering a chaotic department may quickly be swallowed up, and a person without virtue and talent can quickly turn an efficient department into a plate of scattered sand. It's easier to destroy than to build, and if you work hard to plant a vegetable patch for a year, a wild boar can destroy it in 5 minutes. It is not the mountains in the distance that make people tired, but a grain of sand in their shoes.

As the saying goes: Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. When you get to a bad unit, you can't get any benefits even if you try to move mountains. That's why I have to change units. Of course, you can also transform a bad unit into a good unit, create a small unit and make it a big unit, but first you have to become the boss first, and the price you pay is too great. Marry a man and marry a man. Dress and eat. In the past, women relied on their own men, and if they married the wrong person, they missed their lives. Of course, you can also educate and transform bad men into good men. But after all, the difficulty is too great. Choose a place to support yourself carefully!

Qin Shi Huang's prime minister, Li Si, believed in the "rat philosophy": rats in the toilet ate dirty things, and they ate them in order to be able to eat them. You have to hide for fear of being discovered, and the rats in the rice barn can eat the rice generously without worrying about being discovered. Rats love rice, you have to move from the toilet to the granary. You can't catch big fish in a small pond – no matter what tempting bait you put in. If you go fishing in a place where there are many fish, you must go to a big river, a big lake, or a big sea to catch big fish. To be a big man, you have to go to the big environment. You can't die of old age in a place where "the temple is small and the wind is strong, and the pool is shallow and the king is eighty".

There is a story in the Zhuangzi that there was a family of people in the Song Dynasty who specialized in the business of bleaching cloth, and they had ancestral prescriptions that they applied to their skin in winter. It can keep the skin from drying out. There was a passing guest who bought a secret recipe with 100 gold and presented it to King Wu. King Wu waged war against the Yue Kingdom in the winter. King Wu's army used this medicine, did not get chilblains, and won the battle. King Wu then rewarded a large piece of land to the one who offered the secret recipe. The same medicine can be used to emollient the skin when bleaching cloth, can be used to exchange for 100 gold, can be used to win battles, and can be used to get the reward of the territory of the territory. It's the same with circles. Some people use the circle as a place for leisure and recreation, and some people use the circle as a tool for individuals to climb up, with different purposes and different means of operation. The results obtained from this will also be different.

An ordinary steel plate is worth only $5; If it is made into a horseshoe, it is worth $10; If you make a steel needle, it's worth $3,550.8, and if you make it into a watch pendulum pin. The value can then climb to $250,000. Use it differently and make something different. It will make a huge difference in its value.

A Zen master gave his disciple a stone in order to enlighten him. Let him go to the vegetable market and try to sell it. The Zen master said, "Don't really sell it, ask more people and see how much it can sell for in the vegetable market." "In the wet market, many people see the stone and think: the most you can do is put it in the fish tank to make a knick-knack. So they made a bid: nothing more than a few copper coins.

The next day, the Zen master asked his disciples to take the stone to the gold market and sell it. When he came back that night, the apprentice was very happy and said, "Wow! Master, it's amazing, they actually bid 1,000 dollars! ”

On the third day, the Zen master asked his disciples to bring stones to the jewelry market to sell. The apprentices couldn't believe that they had bid 50,000 yuan! Of course, he was determined not to sell, and the jewelers were even more vigorous, competing to raise the price - they offered 100,000, 200,000, 300,000, and finally simply said: "You can give as much as you want, as long as you sell!" ”

On the fourth day, when we arrived at the antique market, the stone was said to be a priceless treasure and was the second "Heshi Bi". That's a national treasure that King Qin Zhao is willing to exchange for 15 cities! No one dared to bid at all!

If you change the circle, you can change your own value! Where do we sell stones today?

Because of its proximity to the rose, the earth absorbs its fragrance, so that it can also emit a fragrant aroma and bring the fragrance of roses to others. In fact, we are the same, what kind of person we get along with, over time, we will have the same "taste" as him, and the so-called "smell likeness" comes from this.

In a forum titled "Wealth Creation," one speaker gave a quiz to the audience by saying, "Ask each of you to bring a piece of paper and write down the six people you spend the most time with, or the six friends with whom you have the closest relationship, write down their monthly income, and then calculate the average of their monthly income." This average will reflect your monthly income. "The results of the test surprised everyone.

There is an old saying in Huaguo: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." Americans also have a saying: "Live with fools, eat and drink all day; Live with the wise, always diligent in thinking. These two sentences actually say the same truth: the influence of friends is very large, so big that they can subtly influence and even change your life. How far you can go depends on who you walk with. If you want to spread your wings and fly high, why don't you spend more time with the eagle and become one of them; If you're hanging out with chickens all day, you're unlikely to fly high. There was an interview with someone than that. The secret to Gates' success, he said, "Because there are more successful people working for me." Chen Anzhi's "Super Successology" also mentions: first work for successful people, then cooperate with successful people, and finally let successful people work for you. The people you associate with are your future. There is a saying in the Jewish classic "Talmud": Living with wolves, you can only learn to howl. In the same way, get in touch with good people and you will be well influenced by them. With a man who is destined to become a billionaire, how can you possibly be a poor person?

An interesting phenomenon has been found in experiments: a baby bird that has just broken out of its shell will instinctively follow behind its mother at first sight, but if it does not see its own mother at first sight, but other moving objects, such as a dog, a cat or a toy bird, it will automatically follow behind it. It is important to note that once the little owl has formed a follow-up reaction to something, it is immutable, which means that the little owl only acknowledges the first, but ignores the second. This phenomenon was later called the "imprint effect" by another behaviorist, and it is not uncommon in the human world.

Constantly mess with alcoholics and gamblers, and you can't be aggressive; Always be in the company of the people in the drill camp, you will not be steady; If you talk to someone who is complaining, you will become complaining; If you often associate with people who are full of the word "money", you will become a mercenary, a person who sees wealth and forgets righteousness.

Objects and hearts are clustered, and people are divided into groups. What kind of friend is what kind of future it predicts. If your friends are positive people, you can be positive people, and if you want better, your friends should not be better than you, because only they can provide you with successful experiences. If you keep doing the same thing with the same group of people, your growth is obviously limited.

Man is a circle animal, and everyone has their own interpersonal circle. The difference between everyone is: some people have a small circle, some people have a large circle, some people have a high circle energy, and some people have a low circle energy; Some people will run circles, and some people will not run circles; Some people rely on the circle to meet the source left and right, and some people are out of the circle and overstretched, and nothing can be accomplished.

No matter how big your circle is, there will be no more than eight that really influences you, drives you, and influences you. Nine people, or even less, usually only three or four. Whether your daily mood is good or bad is often only related to these few people, and your circle has always been limited by these few people.

Therefore, what kind of people to make friends with, what kind of people to form a sphere of influence, and what kind of people to form a circle with is actually a question that deserves our serious and serious thinking and treatment, and even the biggest thing in your life.

And for Wei Yun, it is no longer a matter of what kind of friend he chooses, and his current choice can't help but be related to what kind of future he will face next, and what kind of opponent he will have soon.

Levi's identity is clear to him, and if he chooses the wrong one, then Levi definitely doesn't mind looking for him to operate. In this way, whether it is to fight him or to fight Wu Ling, it is a good choice.

And this may be a small thing for Levi, but for Wei Yun, it is a big thing, because at this time, not only his figure, but even the parents behind him are very likely to be implicated. These are things he definitely doesn't want to see, but what if he stands opposite Wu Ling at this time?

There are so many people at the scene, especially his classmates, if he retreats at this time, it is estimated that these people will definitely look down on him. After all, the Feifeng Bar was his choice, and now that he encountered something, he retreated directly, so how can he mix in the Thirteenth Middle School in the future?

So for a while, Wei Yun was in a struggle. What the hell is going to do? (To be continued......)