"Ling Xian'er?" Xiuying seemed to have a flash of inspiration in her mind, but she couldn't catch it, as if she felt that the name was a little impressive, but she couldn't find the point.

"What's wrong with you?" Ling Xian'er asked in a daze when she saw Xiuying.

"It's nothing, just thinking that I have a friend who is also surnamed Ling, and I bought wine for him, and he has a birthday today." Xiuying can't think of it and doesn't think about it anymore.

"yes, it seems to be a coincidence." Ling Xian'er was slightly different, it was indeed a bit of a coincidence.

Xiuying looked at Ling Xian'er and felt that what she had just thought was not wrong at all. The word "immortal" is really appropriate, it turns out that there is a "immortal" in her name. If she was younger, she would have felt more like a fairy.

"Aunt Ling, eh, this title is a bit old for you, I call you sister, right?" Xiuying felt that her aunt really felt like she was calling people old.

Ling Xian'er shook her head lightly: "It's okay, just call Auntie." ”

Ling Xian'er's eyes darkened slightly: "If my child ...... It's probably your age. ”

The second half of the sentence Xiuying didn't hear clearly and didn't care, she cared a lot about the first half of the sentence. Is it called aunt or sister? This is still quite rare, and most women want people to call her younger. Too big to even like.

And Ling Xian'er didn't have such thoughts at all, so it didn't matter if Xiuying called her aunt. Obviously, she looks more like a sister.

"What about you?" Ling Xian'er retracted her thoughts and looked at Xiuying, "What's your name?" ”

"My name is Choi so-young." Xiuying directly told Ling Xian'er her direct name, she didn't hide it, and she wasn't afraid at all that she knew that she was a star, Xiuying of Girls' Generation.

"Oh." Ling Xian'er's reaction was very flat. has lived in the UK for a long time, and she has been away from the entertainment industry for a long, long time, although she has paid attention from time to time. But the understanding of this is still very shallow. She didn't know it when she was a girl.

Xiuying was a little surprised, there are still people in South Korea who don't know about Girls' Generation? Ling Xian'er's reaction was too bland, so Xiuying could only have this idea.

"Aunt Ling, are you Korean?" Xiuying covered her mouth after finishing speaking, thinking that her tone was a little offensive.

Ling Xian'er looked at Xiuying and smiled gently, and stroked the tips of Xiuying's hair: "It's okay." Don't care. I'm not, I'm Chinese. ”

"Chinese?" Xiuying thought about it, and it was right, the surname Ling seemed to have never been seen in Korea.

"But you speak Korean very well." Xiuying Road.

A person appeared in Ling Xian'er's mind, and the corners of her mouth couldn't help but pull up: "It's all that annoying guy, he wants to learn Korean and wants to pull me." Before we knew it, we learned it, and we agreed to teach it to our future son or daughter......"

"Huh?" Ling Xian'er's words Xiuying listened to it very confused, but she also roughly guessed one or two.

The two of them went to the coffee shop and walked in, looking for a corner. They each ordered coffee.

"Xiuying, tell me about your troubles. I'll try to help you out. Ling Xian'er was very familiar with Xiuying's name, and it didn't seem to be the first time she called such a name, which seemed extremely natural.

"That's the ......" Xiuying pondered for a moment and opened the conversation, starting from the conflict that day, but the specific reason for the conflict was of course not said, just said that there was a conflict with Ling Wenxuan. Jessica, Yu Li, Ling Wenxuan's matter, Xiuying will not say it like this no matter how hard she pours out her heart and lungs.

From the events of that day, as well as apologies afterward, Ling Wenxuan did not answer the phone. Until now her tangle ......

Nothing was missed, and Xiuying said it all. It is also mixed with the evaluation of Ling Wenxuan. What kind of person is Ling Wenxuan? The whole process was replaced by his title, and Xiuying did not reveal Ling Wenxuan's identity.

Ling Xian'er looked at Xiuying's eyes softened, he was a person who wanted to die for self-esteem, and the same was true for the man in the story. This reminded her of the man in her memory, and he was the same. Die with self-esteem and toughness on the surface. If you make a mistake, don't expect him to come and apologize to you.

However, it seems that he was the same as Xiuying back then. It's also too tough, and every quarrel is hard to end. Listening to the story of Xiuying and Ling Wenxuan, Ling Xian'er couldn't help but have a strong sense of substitution.

Ling Xian'er looked at the troubled Xiuying, picked up the coffee and took a sip and put it down.

"Xiuying, he's a man. Or a man who attaches great importance to self-esteem, such a man. You'd better not expect him to apologize to you first. Especially when he is in a reasonable position, don't think about it. Not to mention that you are at fault in the first place, even if it is not your fault in the first place, you must apologize 'appropriately'. ”

"Huh? He has to apologize for being wrong? "Xiuying is a little unhappy when she hears this, why.

Ling Xian'er smiled: "Of course not, why do we have to apologize?" I'm talking about 'appropriate' apologies. ”

"What do you mean?" Xiuying was a little confused.

"When I apologize, I don't mean you say sorry to your face or anything. It's that you have to give him a step down the stage, and that's our apology. Not after that. Ling Xian'er smiled and narrowed her eyes, who did the little witch apologize to back then?

"You give him the stairs, and he, as a man, will reflect on himself and wonder if he has gone too far with you or something. If you think too much, he will feel guilty, and when he feels guilty, he will apologize to you. Let's use an analogy about this matter. If you were about to call him to apologize, you didn't apologize directly. ”

"You have the option to send a text message. It says, Oba, I miss you or something. It's not an apology, but it just shows that you want to reconcile. This sentence is not necessarily my example, it is roughly what it means. ”

"If you do it on the first day and he hasn't contacted you, you do it the second day, the third day. If he still doesn't respond to you after the third day, then you won't send it anymore. "Ling Xian'er seems to be very experienced.

"Stop?" Xiuying was stunned, "Then he hasn't forgiven?" Isn't that still the same thing as me? Stalled? ”

Ling Xian'er laughed: "Little fool, how can this be the same. Yours is there no room for relaxation, and neither of you has given each a step. And my way is different, you have given the steps. ”

"You see, you've been texting like this for three days in a row to express your apologies. But after three days, he, a big man, didn't react at all, and you a girl apologized three times. In this case, if you suddenly don't send it, he will be worried, is he too much, you have given so many reconciliation meanings, how can he be so cautious as a big man. ”

"If you don't continue, he'll think you're not angry. Add to that the apprehension in his heart, and he will be very upset, and then you will wait for him to apologize to you. The more he thought about it, the more apprehensive he felt, and the more he worried, the more guilty he felt. People are girls, and they all send him text messages to tell him that they want to reconcile, and they still love to ignore them. In the end, he annoyed others, and he had to apologize obediently under the guilt. ”

Moreover, at this time, he was also able to get by, and it was natural for him to apologize. After all, you sent him three text messages, and he has a valid reason to apologize. That's the magic of the steps. ”

"Looking at you the other way around, what do you have to lose? Isn't it just that he edited three text messages that don't hurt or itch, and then it's time to see him scratching his ears and cheeks in a hurry. Ling Xian'er said with a smile, she was the bastard who made this trick in the first place.

Xiuying's eyes widened when she heard this, yes, why couldn't she think of it? What a brilliant plan! Xiuying looked at Ling Xian'er in her gaze, and there was a hint of admiration at this moment. That's amazing!

"You have the problem now because you didn't give him any steps before the conflict escalated, and it's absolutely impossible for you to get him to apologize in this situation. If the key thing is that you are at fault, it is even more unlikely that he will apologize. Ling Xian'er took a sip of coffee, a little dry.

"So, is there a way for me to become like this now?" Xiuying asks for advice, and in front of her is an absolute master, and she discovers.

Ling Xian'er stretched out her hand and tapped lightly on Xiuying's smooth forehead: "Stupid, don't you understand inferences?" The same can be done now. This trick gives the steps you can understand as an alternative desire to escape. You can still use it now, and when you meet him, you will give some reconciliation on the side. And texting is a meaning. ”

"If he doesn't accept it later, it's okay, continue. Just like the text message, don't care about him after three times, and he will definitely come to apologize to you when the time comes. I don't dare to say this trick against other people, but it is especially effective against those who have super self-esteem. ”

"People with high self-esteem tend to care more about others, and the people he imagines are also very self-respecting and care about the feelings of others. He will often put himself in your position and empathize, and his self-esteem is heavy, and he will empathize better. He's definitely going to apologize. Ling Xian'er was very confident, because she had used this trick many times on someone with super self-esteem, and she had tried it repeatedly.

Xiuying listened to Ling Xian'er's words, and she really had the feeling of "listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years". This Aunt Ling is really powerful, this move is enough to hold the man in her hands and play him around.

"Aunt Ling, I know, thank you." Xiuying suddenly brightened. The biggest question in her heart was that she was afraid to face Ling Wenxuan, why was she afraid? is afraid that Ling Wenxuan is a stranger to her because he didn't apologize, and she is helpless.

What's more, she can't open her mouth yet, and she likes this method of solving the problem without having to say something on the side and not need to be completely confessed. She is also a person with high self-esteem, and it is difficult to apologize. I always feel a little embarrassed, but now all the problems are solved.

Ling Xian'er back then was the same as Xiuying now, they were both people with too high self-esteem, so it was perfect to teach Xiuying this trick.

Ling Xian'er smiled softly: "As long as you little couple can reconcile, my idea is valuable." ”

"Huh?" Xiuying was stunned, it turned out that Ling Xian'er had always thought so.

"No, Aunt Ling, we are not that kind of relationship." Xiuying hurriedly explained.

Ling Xian'er: "Okay, no, no. ”

Ling Xian'er's perfunctory words made Xiuying helpless, really not. (To be continued.) )