Eighteen: Children are the troubles of happiness
Wen Wan couldn't sleep, "Go, get me two drinks and food, I want to have a drink." Otherwise, I won't be able to sleep again today. He drank two small glasses of wine and climbed into bed. To say that this is the benefit, as long as Wen Wan drinks wine, drinks more than one or two wines, gets drunk, falls asleep on the bed. It's as useful as modern sleeping pills, so Wen Wan likes it very much.
Xia Ying looked at Wen Wan's Nirvana, thinking that Wen Wan was worried about the futureβ§ she was also very worried, what should be done in the future with the county lord's temperament.
Early the next morning, before Wen Wan got up, she heard the sound of rain. The rain is getting heavier and heavier, ticking. Wen Wan put on her coat and walked out of the door. Watching the sound of raindrops hitting the pebbles, like pearls falling on a jade plate, it is very crisp.
Looking at the rain beads, Wen Wan was originally in a boring mood, and this mood was even worseβ the cups in the were almost smashed to the ground by her.
Although she told herself that ten years was not long. But is ten years really not long? The sword doesn't have long eyes, and besides, you have to be afraid every day. Although Wen Wan knew that she was going to get married, she was still very entangled. So this time, I want to talk to someone. And this one who can speak, naturally it is none other than Mei'er", go and ask the prince of the Zhenguo Mansion to come over and talk about it. "Xiao Mei'er is not busy now, come over when you have time!
Wen Wan didn't want to think about it, she had always sent someone to invite someone β directly when she posted a post, and Mei'er must have known what was wrong. Something will be put aside for the time being. Hurry over.
Wen Wan watched the rain recede, and went outβ§ feeling bored, and walked around the yard. A gust of wind blew, and Wen Wan shivered. Xia Ying hurriedly put the coat in her hand over her. Wen Wan watched as the leaves on the begonia trees in the yard suddenly broke away from the branches, flew in the air, and fell to the ground leisurely after a turn. In the garden. The grass and trees are withering, and the scenery in the middle of summer is one day and one place.
"County Lord, the scenery of Luoju Garden is still good." Xia Ying looked at Wen Wan, and when she saw the withering appearance of the garden, she was busy suggesting on the side.
Went to the Falling Chrysanthemum Garden. It's a beautiful view. There are dozens of chrysanthemums in the garden, which are frost-resistant and cold-resistant, but bloom more and more delicately. There are also crystal dew drops on the flower bones. Not at all affected by the wind and rain. Looking at the chrysanthemums in this half of the garden, the gentle and complicated mood is not good at all.
"The county lord. Mrs. Luo arrived. Wen Wan nodded. Let people lead here.
Mei'er looked at Wen Wan standing in the middle of the garden, quietly looking at the flowers in the middle of the garden, and smiled, "What should I do, call me over in such a hurry." It turned out that I came to see the flowers, and I want to say, the flowers here are really beautiful. All my flowers have withered. β
Wen Wan's mood was entangled to the extreme, "How can you be in the mood to look at flowers and be annoyed." "Finished. I pinched a chrysanthemum in my hand. I was so annoyed that I crumpled the flowers in my hand again and threw them away.
"What's wrong? Is there something wrong with your industry? Or the emperor reprimanded you. As soon as Mei'er got the letter, she felt very weird, this is still Wen Wan who has known Wen Wan for so many years. The only time Wen Wan's emotions were exposed and she looked bored, this was really a big deal!
Wen Wan carried her face, looked at the flower very sadly, an annoyed, pulled a big chrysanthemum down, tore off one petal by one and stuffed it in her mouth, and then pounced and spit out, annoyed and helpless.
Mei'er saw that Wen Wan had been competing with Hua, thought about it, and said with a smile, "Could it be that a son-in-law was on a business trip yesterday?" Seeing that Wen Wan didn't reply, he guessed yes.
Mei'er blinked her eyes and asked very curiously, "I heard from my father-in-law last night that the heroic general actually asked the emperor to marry a palace maid?" Now this matter is in an uproar. Looking at your entangled expression, could it be that this palace maid is you? When she first heard about it, she thought it was very strange. As for where it is weird, I can't β say it at once, I will look at Wen Wan and know where the weirdness comes from.
This matter, the words of the emperor at that time, no one present dared to tell the outside world in detail. Therefore, everyone only knows that Bai Shinian asked to marry a palace maid as a wife. As for the fact that this palace maid is Bai Shinian's wife, it has not yet been circulated. It was not rumored that this palace maid was gentle.
Wen Wan listened, so annoyed that she threw the flowers on the ground again, turned around and went back to the house. Mei'er knew she had guessed at a glance, and she didn't know whether to laugh or sigh.
Mei'er wondered why Wen Wan was so entangled, she felt that there was nothing to worry about, "What's so annoying about this." Reveal his identity to him, and he won't dare to have any more delusions. You are the pearl of the emperor's palm, how can you marry such a man. The emperor is also reluctant, there is nothing to worry about. After saying that, Mei'er felt that something was wrong. Bai Shinian didn't say that he wouldn't marry a wife, why did he want to marry Wen Wan again. Bai Luo Shouxun gave it, and she was not a multiplication for Bai Shinian.
Wen Wan muttered, "If only it were so easyβ» A few years ago, I went to Yuquan Temple to worship my mother's life, and met a ninja from the Japanese and a killer sent by King Zhao. Separated from the guards. Then he was tied up by a woman, became a substitute bride, and married a man. In the middle of the night, I escaped, and I forgot about it, but I didn't expect it to come out again. Isn't that too coincidental, you say? β
Mei'er's eyes widened, and she was arced by the gentle words, "No, then the groom's official is Bai Shinian, right?" Mei'er saw Wen Wan's depressed and unacceptable look, and knew that it was true. At the moment, my mouth was able to stuff a big peach into it.
Wen Wan had a headache, "Cough, I have a headache!" β
Mei'er cautiously asked, "Then you guys, did you have a cave room that day?" "Substitute marriage, this is what can be in the play, and finally met Wen Wan. No wonder Bai Shinian didn't say who his wife was. Because he himself probably did not know who his wife really was.
Wen Wan complained with a face: "No." I told him, as long as he wants, I can give it, I will help him get β it, you say, what does this person want? β
The summer shadow next to him was very entangled.
Mei'er covered her mouth and smiled, "Then there is no way, with this stubble, he can't stop him from marrying the emperor." However, you are not mistaken, he is a wife. Why have you been married to him for so many years, and it's all right. It's all good now. Mei'er started gossiping.
Wen Wan was annoyed when she heard this, "Hey, now is not the time to discuss this, okay." Nine years older than me, so much older than me. It's a smoke again. After getting married, you have to go to the border, β and I don't know if I can see each other for the remaining decades. He patted his ass and left, leaving me to be a lookout. I don't want it! It's terrible to think about. But if you don't get married, you can't do it. I'm really torn between left and right. "I want to give up. And reluctantly. Don't give up, the thought of ten years is gentle and entangled.
Xia Ying looked at Wen Wan and sighed slightly. In the end, the county lord is still unwilling because of this article. But it is not so easy to get Bai Shinian back.
Mei'er still smiled and said, "None of these are the most important things. The point is that you and he are already married. According to the law, you are already his wife. You can be free for so many years, you have earned β·"
Wen Wan looked at her and smiled... "Who are you?" Is there anyone like you? I'm here for you to comfort me. I'm still gloating. You're too unsympathetic. β
Mei Er was not annoyed by Wen Wan, but took Wen Wan's hand and said sincerely, "The heroic general is actually good at everything. It's the fact that many girls can't stand it. But you see. You have all been married for more than six years, and it is not good to β prove the fate of the marriage that the master of enlightenment said, it must be General Bai. Wen Wan, in fact, I think that the heroic general is actually very good, you see β that for many years, where to find a good man who fulfills his promise not to marry a wife β. Besides, the wood is already in the boat. It's useless to worry too much. It's better to just go with it. β
Wen Wan glared at Mei'er, "I called you here to give me ideas, not to let you come to me as a lobbyist." Did Bai Shinian give you a heavy gift? "That girl, I didn't do anything. It was there that all the people turned to him. Wen Wan felt that she had suffered a loss. The girl was a scoundrel with well-limbed limbs. But in the eyes of everyone, he is a man who has never been seen in a century.
Mei'er smiled and said, "Yes." When I get back, I'll send him a letter, telling him that I'm trying to comfort you, and ask him to make up for me. "Be sincere, it's also a good talk.
Mei'er saw Wen Wan lowering her head, her face was sad, and she took Wen Wan's hand, "Wen Wan, our friend for so many years." Let me tell you something from my heart, even if you have the emperor's love now, you have money in your hands. It looks like there's nothing left. But I don't think you're really anything. A woman can only be considered complete if she marries a good husband, lets her husband love and spoils her, and then has her own children. General Bai couldn't care about your identity as a palace maid at that time, and begged to marry you β such a good man, and he couldn't find it with a lantern! Don't bother me, I used to think that you wanted to be a couple for a lifetime was wishful thinking, and there are men in this world who don't steal. I always thought it was all in the drama. But you don't want General Bai to be a man who has done β it, you still plan to marry and become a nun? β
It is for this reason that Wen Wan has been planning for so long. But thinking that the husband and wife have not seen each other for at least ten yearsβ§ it is very uncomfortable: "I am also very moved, I am afraid that I will miss it again." But I think that as soon as I get married, I have to separate, and the separation is not a day or two, but ten years. How many decades are there in life! Ten years later, I'm an aunt. I, I don't want to. I really don't want to. Moreover, the matter of war is not certain. I have a just in case. β
Meier can understand, too. Those women are waiting in the capital, and it is understandable that men are fighting for the future in the frontier. Because that's a matter of honoring the ancestors. But gentleness doesn't need her husband to be icing on the cake, but things in this world can't have the best of both worlds. If you want to get it, you have to give. It's just that women always pay more. When it came to this, Mei'er could only persuade Wen Wan to obey: "Then think about it." You don't marry Bai Shinian, you have found a county horse. I didn't want a concubine to have sex, but can you know that he will guard you for the rest of your life? It's better to find someone who is intimate and dedicated to you. Gentle, easy to get priceless treasures, rare to have a lover. How many people can't ask for it. You have such a man who is infatuated with you, cherish it! β
Wen Wan was silent β, she knew all the truth, and she knew what she was doing. But there was some fear, and some hesitation to ask someone to encourage her.
Mei'er thought that Wen Wan was still hesitating, and persuaded her bitterly: "Wen Wan, if you don't marry such a man, you will really regret it in the future." I know your character. If it doesn't meet your requirements, you'd rather not have someone who won't be exquisite. If you miss General Bai, I'm really afraid you won't be able to find what you like. If that's the case, you really won't marry for the rest of your life, and you'll be alone. Even if you have a lot of money, what's the use of being rich? No matter how much gold, silver and jewelry there are, they are all cold dead things, can they still laugh with you and please you? Cheng Chenghuan kneeled. Gentility. Don't hesitate. If you miss it, you won't regret it. β
Wen Wan sighed, no matter how entangled, no matter how hesitant, I have to marry. In the future, I will think on the bright side. Don't let these negative emotions get you swayed. But it's hard to think about it!
Cough. Wen Wan complained. She actually thought about letting Bai Shinian be transferred back to the capital. But she quickly gave up on the idea. Putting aside the fact that the emperor would not agree. Bai Shinian's current military exploits are not enough to be knighted. If he returns to the capital, even if he is knighted, he will not be knighted by his own ability. Wen Wan was unwilling to let that Bai Shinian bear the reputation of relying on a woman. If so. Over the years, it can also affect the relationship between husband and wife.
And Bai Shinian told her for ten years, and he had already set a goal for himself: 'Earn enough military merits within a year to complete his dream.' Then go home and warm the kang head with your wife and children.
Wen Wan actually wanted to scold Bai Shinian, a bastard, and didn't want to give up her dreams. and to marry her and bring her home. When he got marriedβ‘ he patted his ass and fulfilled his dream. All the hardships and all the difficulties have to be solved by her. What kind of affectionate pretend, bastard bastard.
Mei'er persuaded Wen Wan for a long time, and saw that Wen Wan's face became more and more ugly. I can't help but have a little headache, "Wen Wan, don't be stubborn anymore." It's like this now, even if you are stubborn, it is already useless, there is no way to reverse the situation, it is better to go with the flow. β
Wen Wan thought that it was Bai Shinian, a bastard, who made herself so entangled. couldn't help but said angrily, "I can go and adopt a child, why do I have to give birth to a child." Having a husband is equivalent to not having a husband, and if you β the children, you have to bring them up and raise them by yourself. Why should I get married? β
Mei'er was angry when she saw Wen Wan. is also helpless, "What nonsense are you talking about, where is it good to have a biological child." Those children who were adopted. If you're lucky, you can raise a filial one, but in the end it's a layer apart. You have to be careful when you beat and scold, but what can I do if I raise a white-eyed wolf. Moreover, the current situation does not allow you not to marry. It's better to think on the bright side. β
Wen Wan still said with a sad face: "I still have to think about it." "It's not that I'm thinking about not marrying, marrying is already on the strings. So Wen Wan thinks about how to get the most out of herself.
After talking about the phone, Wen Wan was in a better mood. However, there is something going on in the Zhenguo Mansion, so let Mei'er go back quickly. Mei'er hurried back.
Ping'er sighed, "Madam, if you want to say that the county lord is really blessed. General Bai has been waiting for her for so many years. If you don't marry, General Bai will be too pitiful. β
Mei'er can actually understand Wen Wan's hesitation, "Cough, people outside look at Bai Shinian with deep affection." But all kinds of sufferings must be endured gently. When did Wen Wan suffer such a big loss. Bai Shinian wants to marry Wen Wan and go home, and it is estimated that he will have to suffer a lot of toss. "The gentle status is already respected, and people who envy and hate her abound. Bai Shinian is not around, everything has to be gentle and thoughtful, what is the use of deep affection. But she couldn't help but persuade that Wen Wan β might be the arrangement of fate.
Ping'er was a little worried: "The county lord, will you not marry?" β
Mei'er shook her head and smiled, "No." If Wen Wan didn't marry, he wouldn't be so depressed. I looked at Wen Wan, that is, the duck's mouth was hard, but in fact, she herself was already moved. Otherwise, where would they come to ask me? I have already tossed and mixed up my own ideas. It's just that she's not willing after all. I have to toss and toss. However, after so many years of tossing anyway, I don't care about this time. Wen Wan wanted to know what Mei'er thought, and she would definitely say happily, worthy of being my good friend, they have become roundworms in my stomach.
Ping'er looked happy: "That's also good." "Women, see infatuated men. It's all with high respect, plus he can hold a beauty.
Mei'er sneered: "Wen Wan will definitely get married." Wen Wan is a good person. It's just that it's awkward in marriage. is also gentle and lucky, some people's luck is really not envied by envy. β
Wen Wan couldn't sit still, couldn't stand and couldn't walk, and her mind was upset. She knew she was going to get married, but when she thought about it, she was uneasy. cough, Wen Wan finally thought that instead of thinking about it alone, it would be better to let people pat it, "Xia Yu, you go and ask the Seventh Lady to come over." Let her bring Sister Lan's children over. Let's just say I miss a few of them. If it is inconvenient for the Seventh Lady, bring the child over. β
Half an hour later, Zhenzhen brought all four children over. All three daughters and one son were brought. The eldest Sister Lan is already seven years old, and she is a little adult. By the nurse's bridge hand, Meng Xuan also walked by herself. Meng Nan was held by the nurse, and she really hugged Brother Fu.
Fu Ge'er is also more than a year old this year, his white and chubby arms are white and tender like lotus roots, and he is wearing a red carved silk gourd dress. As soon as Fu Ge'er saw Wen Wan, he shouted, "Auntie, hug." Auntie, hug"
"Okay, hug our Fu Ge'er. Let my aunt hug this fat doll. Wen Wan hugged her and kissed her heavily.
Fu Ge'er wiped the saliva on his face with his sleeve, looking disgusted. Pouted a small mouth. Unhappily shouting "dirty, dirty, water, water." β
Wen Wan looked at Zhile. Fu Ge'er was a restless lord, and when he saw that Wen Wan had a hairpin on her head, he reached out and grabbed it. He even dialed it down and put it on his hand. I was very excited, and I gave it to my mother, and I showed it off.
Wen Wan looked at Brother Fu'er, a robber, and laughed, "Sister Lan, what have you been doing lately?" Listen to your mother, you have been learning embroidery recently, show me your hands. β
Sure enough, I saw a tiny hole in Sister Lan'er's hand, "Xia Ying, go and get the jade paste." β
Zhenzhen looked at it and said, "It's not in the way, it's all like this." β
Wen Wan felt that time passed so fast, and in a blink of an eye, Sister Lan was seven years old, "What do you mean by such a young age." It's hard for her, too. Sister Lan, what do you do at home every day besides embroidery? "Girl's house. That's how it all came over. It's good that she didn't come over like this.
Sister Lan thought about it for a while and said, "I also learned a thousand-character text and a three-character scripture." Fifty large characters are drawn every day. I also have to take my sister to play with me, and occasionally help my mother take care of my brother. β
smiled gently, "Haha, our Sister Lan is really capable, she can share Deng for your mother." But he set a good example for his younger brothers and sisters. "Speaking of which, Sister Lan is really a good sister. Sensible, well-behaved and polite. I like it gently.
Sister Lan blushed and whispered, "I don't deserve my aunt to praise me like this, this is what Menglan should do." "In the end, she is a laughing girl, and she is still very shy when she is praised by others.
Wen Wan smiled and said, "Xia Ying, let Xia Xian bring the newly made pastries and give my brother and sister a fresh taste." Xia Ying understood and asked Zhenzhen, and Zhenzhen naturally knew that Wen Wan had something to say to her. Let the four children be taken away, and then look at Wen Wan, smile, and don't speak.
Wen Wan looked at Zhenzhen and asked, "Don't you feel tired when you usually take four children?" "Zhenzhen just turned 23 this month, and they are all four children. Children are born too much and too often. Although he has been heavily armed in the past two years, the real color is not as delicate as beforeβ If you look closely, there are fine wrinkles on the forehead. Now he is only 23 years old, if it is modern, but it is the age of elegance. Wen Wan suddenly remembered that many women from large families in ancient times seemed to be entering the Buddhist hall when they reached thirty. It means that at the age of thirty, you will enter old age and no longer have a married life.
Wen Wan looked at Zhenzhen, and suddenly was in a trance, why did Zhenzhen insist so much that she must agree to take a concubine after the age of thirty. Could it be that he also had such thoughts. Women in ancient times lived too hard.
"I'm tired, but looking at the children, I feel that it's worth it. When children bring me troubles, they also bring joy. With them, I feel that I have not come to this world in vain. With them, my heart is full. Zhenzhen said with a smile, and his eyebrows and eyes were smiling when he said this.
Wen Wan could see that she was really telling the truth.
Wen Wan asked hesitantly, "Then, if Shang Tang is not at home for many years. Don't you feel tired when β your child can't see each other? β
There are really not so many twists and turns, and I don't know the hesitation in Wen Wan's words: "What stupid words to say, with them, where will you feel tired." Even if I'm tired, I'm willing to be tired. As for saying that the prime minister is reprimanded - the veins are connected to you, and you are not together every day, and you are still their father. β
Wen Wan was stunned towards things. Maybe it's because I haven't been a mother yet, so I think the worst of things. When you become a mother, even if the child is troubled, it is a sweet trouble. When their parents give them life, it is already the greatest kindness. The current environment is like this, and you can't use 21 sets of methods to educate children.
Seeing Wen Wan in a daze again, Zhenzhen pulled Wen Wan and said, "Wen Wan, what's wrong with you." β
Wen Wan took her thoughts back: "How is your body?" If only someone had sent someone to come and say something. I'm telling you, you have to take care of your body first. The doctor said that you lost your body before, and Brother Shengfu has already injured his vitality, and his life will be in danger if he wants to regenerate. To fit, what do you let these four children do? I'll tell you something I don't like, if there is a stepmother, there will be a stepfather. What do you want, no matter how much my aunt takes care of it, it is not as good as my mother. β
"No, for the sake of a few children, I won't have any more children. Now that I have a blessed brother, I am content. In two years, I will take two concubines to my father-in-law, and let her spread the branches and leaves for my father. There was bitterness in her smile.
Wen Wan shook her head helplessly: "I said that he will take a concubine when you are thirty." He's going to dare to break his promise and see how I clean her up. I also know that someone must have gossiped about you behind your back. But the mouth grows on them, and what they say will not lose a piece of your flesh β What are the seven years of pure life, but there is nothing to block yourself. They are openly saying that you are not virtuous, and secretly they are envious of your comfortable life. It's because their hearts are unbalanced, so they are begging for cheapness. Look at me, I said that my future husband does not need to have a concubine to have sex, those people say that I am jealous, but I don't know how to envy and hate me in my heart! β
Zhenzhen said tactfully: "I'm not, I don't have a reputation for being unvirtuous, I am, because I have a reputation for being jealous, and when the time comes, Sister Lan, it will be difficult for them to be good relatives." β
"I'm going to make a block for yourself when you're suddenly fine. Sister Lan is still young, no, this β the appearance and talent of the three sisters of Sister Lan in our family, and those who seek marriage in the future will definitely break through the threshold, and some of them are not used. Take good care of your body. Don't worry about what you have and don't every day. Plugging yourself in vain. Wen Wan said with a smile.
Zhenzhen held Wen Wan's hand and said gratefully, "Wen Wan, thank you." If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have been so comfortable all these years. My mother and sister-in-law both said that I was blessed. β
Wen Wan saw the child who had just walked in and said, "Sister Lan, it's not me who is speaking ill of your mother in front of me!" In front of your mother, I also want to tell you, can you learn from your mother. Tears fall at every turn, and β tears fall too much, but it's not good. The girl's teardrops are worth a lot! β
The three little girls all looked at their mother. The three children have already begun to remember.
Zhenzhen wiped her tears and said: "Your aunt is right, don't learn from your mother's temperament, you have to marry someone else's family." has the same temperament as my mother, and my mother is not at ease. β
The three little girls looked at the two adults as if they didn't understand, and as they spoke, there was a cry outside. As soon as I entered, it turned out that Fu Ge'er accidentally fell on his heels. Xia Ying didn't let the maid and the maid hug him, and asked him to get up by himself. Fu Ge'er felt very aggrieved, and cried there earth-shatteringly.
Wen Wan stopped Zhenzhen, who wanted to hug her, and looked at Brother Fuqi. It means that he wants to get up on his own. Children can't get used to it. It's going to spoil the child.
Fu Ge'er's eyes rolled slightly, seeing that there was really no one to help, with two handfuls of tears, he got up and β€ in front of his mother, pulling his mother's clothes and feet, very aggrieved. Wen Wan looked at it and smiled, this kid is also very good at looking at eyes. (To be continued.) , () Vote for recommendation, monthly pass,,γ