Chapter 428: Night Talk
When it was completely quiet outside, Wang Qiao summoned all the staff on duty to come to the meeting.
Meetings are often criticized because many of them are really unnecessary. However, meetings are indeed an excellent channel for unifying ideas and conveying information. In this special place, the quarantine site is a particularly effective working method of gathering for meetings, and after a few meetings, comrades from the three units will subconsciously develop a common understanding of the "collective".
If an external force invades this temporary collective at this time, it is easier to promote the emergence of collective consciousness, and there is a word "common hatred" that describes this state of affairs very accurately.
Wang Qiao talked about three aspects, one is the instructions of Secretary Ji of the county party committee; the second is the discipline of the duty team; The third is the basic situation of the current world. After the speech, except for the personnel of the duty group, the other comrades must go to sleep, maintain strong energy in order to have a good mood, and only with a good mood can they maintain the stability of the team.
After everyone dispersed, Wang Qiao sat in the office, made a cup of tea, and sat alone to think about problems.
The offices of the construction team are all old-fashioned buildings, and the upper part of the office door is glass, so that the view is transparent.
Yan Lin had some insomnia, and when she went out to the toilet, she saw that Wang Qiao was still sitting in the office, so she walked over and knocked on the window gently.
"Please come in."
"I haven't rested yet."
Yan Lin sat opposite Wang Qiao's desk when she entered the room, and said, "The first day has finally passed. β
Wang Qiao said: "These fifteen days have been torment, but as time goes by, life will get better and better." β
Yan Lin said: "I'm also worried that with the passage of time, the few people who are quarantined will become more and more anxious. β
Wang Qiao shook his head and said: "I took psychology when I was in college, and I saw Elizabeth, an American psychiatrist? In KΓΌbler's On Death and Dying, the psychological changes of the near-death patient can be divided into five stages, from rejection to acceptance, from non-adaptation to adaptation: rejection-; Wrath-; Struggle-; Depressed-; Accept. It is also suitable to apply it to Yang Liyong and others who are isolated. β
He pointed to the water boiler and said, "There are paper cups over there, pour your own water and drink it." β
Yan Lin said: "Are you on the first night shift today?" β
β βdΗngβ βdiΗnβ βε°β β said, .β.oβs_(); Wang Qiao diΗn diΗn head and said: "In this special environment, I must take the lead, I am on the first shift, Zhao Jin of the Public Security Bureau is on the second shift, the third shift is from the Health Bureau, and you are on the fourth shift." You didn't have to go to quarantine and dragged you in, and I always felt sorry to go. β
"Don't talk about it anymore. Do you drink coffee, I'll make you a drink. After receiving an affirmative answer, Yan Lin returned to her room, took two arms, and returned to Wangqiao's office to brew two cups of cappuccino instant melt coffee.
The aroma permeated the room, diluting the ubiquitous smell of disinfectant in the quarantine area.
Wang Qiao said: "I want to be on duty overnight, there is no problem with drinking diΗn coffee, you don't drink it, so as not to be unable to sleep, in the quarantine area, the long night is long, and it will be sad if you can't sleep." β
Yan Lin held the cup in both hands, her fingers as white and delicate as the cup. She took a sip of her coffee and said, "I often have insomnia, and I'm used to it." β
Wang Qiao pointed to his face and said, "It's not good to have insomnia often, it's easy to get old." β
Yan Lin smiled a little bitterly and said, "You haven't finished talking about rejection, anger and the latter feelings just now, I want to hear it." β
Wang Qiao said: "I have read that book for many years, but it is not too accurate, why I remember it, mainly because it has something to do with the emotional experience in the detention center before, so I remember it." β
Yan Lin said: "Is that necklace still there?" β
Wang Qiao said: "Yes." β
Yan Lin said: "Can you take it off and let me touch it?" β
Wang Qiao took off the necklace made of iron wire from his neck and handed it to Yan Lin. This necklace is made of the most ordinary iron wire, and since it is worn on the chest all year round, it comes into contact with the skin every day, becoming shiny, without rust, and carrying the owner's body temperature. Yan Lin held this necklace, and the past rushed to her heart like a flood beast.
Wang Qiao took a sip of coffee and said: "Then I will continue, the first stage is refusal, that is, the government sent a representative to Yang Liyong and others, I regret to inform you that there is a ** case in the third row of the bus you are taking, and you need to isolate for observation." Yang Liyong and others will refuse to accept this statement, as far as I know, each of them has said - what, this is impossible, it must be wrong! This is a natural psychological defense mechanism. Similarly, in extreme cases, some people will faint on the spot under a huge psychological blow, which is also a means of self-protection of the brain. β
Yan Lin said: "This statement is right, when they entered the isolation observation area, half of them were frightened, half of them were forced, their arms were not as hard as their thighs, they had to come if they didn't come, this is not good, but it is a fact." β
"It's legal to force them to isolate, so we don't have to feel guilty." Wang Qiao said again: "It's a blessing and not a curse, it's a disaster that can't be avoided." At the end of the day, they have to start acknowledging reality, and they move on to the second stage, where the trauma is transformed into emotional anger, venting, why is that? What is me! I didn't do anything wrong! At present, they are at this stage, and there is a temporary party branch in the quarantine area, which plays a role in stabilizing the morale of the military. In some cases, self-harm occurs. That's why I kept calling Yang Liyong today, just to ask him to observe whether the feelings of several other people have extremist tendencies. β
Since taking up a temporary post in Chengguan Town, Yan Lin has three strong impressions of Wang Qiao, one is strong organizational ability, the second is strong decision-making ability, and the third is that the combat effectiveness is still so strong, but the impression of Wang Qiao's "talent" in knowledge is very shallow, basically still staying in the era of repeating classes, hearing the summary of the first two stages, she suddenly remembered that she ignored Wang Qiao's educational background, he graduated from Shannan University, Shannan University is both 211 and 985, and the outstanding graduates who came out here are still significantly different from the repeaters in the era of repeating classes.
She looked at Wang Qiao through the mist of two cups of coffee, and now Wang Qiao still maintains a handsome appearance, but his temperament has become deep, and he is very attractive to a mature man.
Wang Qiao took a sip of coffee and continued: "Under normal circumstances, the time of five stages is relatively long, since we only have fifteen days, the time of each stage will be relatively shortened, but each process should not be less. They then find that venting, anxiety, irritability, etc., are ineffective and do not change reality in the slightest, and the third stage is to admit reality and hope that they will survive. Therefore, starting tomorrow, I will read them anti-non-propaganda materials and talk about the situation in the quarantine areas in various places, so that they can strengthen their confidence and adjust their feelings. β
"The fourth stage is that you have acknowledged most of the reality, but you have not yet finally adapted psychologically......"
When Yang Liyong fully acknowledges and adapts to reality, they enter the fifth and final stage - acceptance. At this stage, their psychology is restored to normal, and they are no longer entangled in the reality that cannot be changed, anyway, it is already like this, they can eat when they should eat, and they can play when they should play. β
Wang Qiao found that Yan Lin's eyes were full of tenderness when he looked at him, and he sighed secretly in his heart, and continued: "We want to create conditions and deliberately induce them to enter the fifth stage, after entering this stage, our work will be easier to do." Fifteen days later, they were released from quarantine, and our mission was over. Fifteen days later, if one of them is judged to be a ** case, then our duty team will be put into a new quarantine for observation. The new detention center in the county was vacated, and this is the newly found quarantine observation diΗn. It is highly likely that we will spend another fifteen days in that place, and we will repeat these five stages of psychology as the person concerned. β
Yan Lin held the wire necklace, put her hands together, and said, "Let me pray, after fifteen days, it will be a happy result for everyone." If I had been sent to the new quarantine area, Mom and Dad would have known. I couldn't imagine what it would be like for them to know what it would be like for me to be quarantined, let alone how they would live if I did get sick. β
When she closed her eyes and prayed, two tears hung in the corners of her eyes.
At this moment, Yan Lin is no longer a temporary cadre of the General Office of the Provincial Party Committee, and has become the simple and happy little girl many years ago. Wang Qiao wanted to hand over the tissue and let Yan Lin wipe away the tears, but he just thought about it in his heart and didn't take action.
Yan Lin gently wiped away her tears with the back of her hand, and said a little shyly: "I'm fragile again, I'm sorry to make you laugh." β
Wang Qiao raised the coffee, took a sip, and said: "This is a very normal psychological state, in fact, after the fourth group on duty learned that they had won the jackpot, they would also experience a similar psychological state, but Cheng DΓΉ was shallower. β
Yan Lin acknowledged this diΗn and said, "It's still possible that we will be locked up in the new quarantine zone, right?" β
Wang Qiao said: "Tomorrow I will tell you about this diΗn, so that everyone can have a mental preparation." β
Yan Lin said again: "Since the consequences may be extremely strict, then I want to ask about the past, private matters, is it okay?" β
Wang Qiao said: "Yes." β
Yan Lin said: "I want to hear the story of Lu Qi, this name has been dangling in my ears for many years, I have always wanted to drive her away, but I have not succeeded. It might help me if you tell me her story. β
Reminiscing about the past in such a special environment, Wang Qiao was quite emotional, and said: "After getting the results of the college entrance examination, I went to the old factory of Hongxing Factory, and happened to meet you moving, in fact, I was going to tell the story of Lu Qi at that time, but you didn't want to hear it." β
Yan Lin said: "That's because of cowardice and love. β
Wang Qiao said: "Then I'll tell it now, this may be a plain story." In my adolescence, when my life was most confused. It was the most confused, but not the lowest time, and the lowest period so far should be a hundred days in the detention center, and the shadow of death hung on my head, and I tasted it, so I was able to be relatively calm when I came to the quarantine area. β
Before entering the story, Yan Lin said faintly: "I have listened to this story for nearly six years. Hope it helps me get rid of those two words. β
(Chapter 428) (To be continued.) )