Shen Rouning was slightly stunned.

She never expected that her mother, for the first time in her life, would talk to her alone, and as soon as she opened her mouth, it would be her life's event.

Not to mention anything else, she's only ten years old, wouldn't it be too early to talk about this? If Mrs. Shen Si, as a mother, wants to plan for her daughter in advance, it seems to be just as early? Moreover, if you are really a mother, will you have a clueless lifelong event to communicate with your daughter so early?

"You've always been assertive." Mrs. Shen Si continued: "Then you should also understand the importance of protecting yourself. This kind of protection, if it is about one's own reputation, it is also necessary to cherish oneself. To do this, you should have a clear decision about when you can do it and when you want to stay awake. ”

"What the mother said, the daughter didn't understand very well." Shen Rouning said.

How could she, a ten-year-old girl, understand Mrs. Shen's obscure teachings. Shen Rouning hoped in her heart that Mrs. Shen Si, as a mother, could give herself a daughter, more detailed explanations and persuasions, so that her daughter could understand that her mother actually cared about her.

But Mrs. Shen Si frowned.

Shen Rouning's heart sank slightly, and she pursed her lips and was silent.

Time seemed to have passed for a long time before Mrs. Shen Si considered it and spoke again: "I hope you can keep your true heart, but it's too early to be emotional." When people have obsessions, especially about the relationship between men and women, they can easily be hurt. ”

"Mother, do you mean that I should keep to myself, especially in life's events, and wait for my parents' orders?" Shen Rouning asked. An indifferent mother like Mrs. Shen would really bother with her life's events? She was very skeptical.

Mrs. Shen frowned again, but shook her head and said, "What I mean is that I hope you can be calm enough when choosing a comparison." Family background, character. Personality and even the stumbling blocks in future life after marrying, such as in-laws, concubines, and interests, have been fully considered and measured. Then make a decision. Instead of being easily swayed by feelings, under impulse, there is no result in paying, or making unwise choices and regretting it for life. ”

So. Mrs. Shen Si didn't have the consciousness of being a mother.

As a mother, shouldn't she personally choose for her daughter, insisting on what she chooses is the most suitable for her daughter?

Like Mrs. Shen Si, it is ...... to let go and encourage Respect for your daughter?

Shen Rouning really couldn't convince herself of this, so she could only convince herself that Mrs. Shen Si could leave herself to say such heartfelt words, which was enough to prove that in Mrs. Shen Si's heart, there was still a little bit of concern about her daughter.

She's not all aloof.

Shen Rou's pretty face eased. Feeling that the opportunity for Mrs. Shen Si to be willing to communicate with her at this time really couldn't be wasted, she thought about it and said, "Mother probably knows what happened to the Deng family today. Although my long-term cousin has a heart for me, the rest of the Deng family doesn't seem to be satisfied, so I should avoid my long-term cousin, right? ”

Mrs. Shen Si didn't expect Shen Rouning to ask such a question so clearly.

She was stunned for a moment, and slowly spoke: "If Deng Chang can't give you enough shelter in the malicious Deng family for many years, even he can't take the initiative to get a formal marriage contract with you; Or, your long-term affection for Deng is not enough for you to be willing to sacrifice and endure for the sake of his family...... Then, you avoided Deng Changnian in advance. That's right. ”

After a pause, she added: "In short, as a woman, once you take a wrong step. It is irretrievable for life. So, no matter what, you need to be calm and rational enough, coupled with enough patience, in order to wait for the future life you want. ”

Approximately, Mrs. Shen Si has been taught a lesson. That's why I have a serious admonition to her today.

Shen Rouning couldn't help but stare at Mrs. Shen Si's ink-colored embroidered forehead, her heart softened, and she said to Mrs. Shen Si: "Thank you for your teachings." Your daughter remembered your words. ”

"Just remember." After that, Mrs. Shen Si waved her hand and said, "It's late, you go back and rest." ”

"Yes." Shen Rouning said respectfully: "Good night mother." ”

She saluted, slowly withdrew, stood a little more under the porch, returned to the house, read a book for a while, and then fell asleep.

The snow stopped, and it was cold for a few days, and by the time the sky cleared, it was already March.

This year's spring boudoir, the date has been set, from the seventh day of the first month of March to the end of March 12, five consecutive days of exams. During the five days, the candidates ate and lived in the Gongyuan. Exams have always been very hard, and it is difficult for frail people to get through, and there is no other way.

Fortunately, Shen Chongyan, the fourth master, has always been in very good health. Well, occasionally I also learn to dance the sword of the famous people in ancient times, and the posture is also presentable, stay up for five days, pay attention, it should not be a big problem. Moreover, after a cold spring, the earth has really warmed up, and it is always much better.

After the third day of the third month of March, Master Shen Si no longer reads in the study.

He went out for a day, and heard that he walked around the Pearl Lake and relaxed, and then he didn't go out again, while preparing for the exam, he talked to Shen Rouning and Shen Duanrong, and taught the two to read and learn words, music and poetry, very leisurely.

On the same day, Mrs. Shen Si asked Shen Rouning to communicate alone, and Shen Si endured it all night, and secretly asked Shen Rouning the next day what they talked about. Shen Rouning roughly conveyed the meaning of Mrs. Shen Si to Master Shen Si:

“…… Daddy, you see now, it's just a black and thin Deng Changnian, there is nothing between us, the young masters and ladies of the Deng family are not pleasing to the eye, isn't it too bullying? So, Daddy, you have to take the exam carefully, you will become an official in the future, and you will be promoted to a level in three years, even if you are a six-grade petty official like your third uncle, will Brother Rong and I have a much bigger choice of choosing relatives in the future? ”

"My mother will be very happy, too." Shen Rouning used Mrs. Shen Si's transformation to motivate Shen Si at that time: "She didn't like to speak before. In the end, not only did I talk a lot, but I also cared about me. She must have seen her daddy motivated, and she was happy. ”

Master Shen Si thought so, geared up, and was full of confidence, so that he had the last few days of relaxation and contentment.

As long as it doesn't involve Mrs. Shen Si, Master Shen Si is really a very good man. He is intelligent, talented, and free and self-controlled, especially with Akagi in his heart, always optimistic about problems, and very confident.

Even if it is a major event of the imperial examination, he will never be presumptuous and nervous.

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