Chapter 328: The Right Person
"Mother, as long as Hongxia herself is willing, there is no problem with this, you are right, Hongxia is still young, she is less than thirty years old this year, if she lives alone for the rest of her life, this day will be sad." Hongyun also nodded and said.
"That's it, now I'm talking to your father that the body is still strong, and it's okay for Hongxia's family to live with us, but when the two of us are gone, what should Hongxia do, although she has a son, but now if the son is good in the future, if it's not good, Hongxia doesn't even have a place to go, I think while she is still young, find someone to marry, and have children, it's always better to have someone to rely on in the future." Zhao said.
Huang felt that what her mother-in-law said was good, and it was not uncommon for people to divorce at this time or to remarry after a man died, not to mention that Hongxia was still so young.
Huang thought about it and asked, "Then what kind of person does the mother have, did you let the matchmaker inquire about it?" ”
"Not yet, I want to find the right person first, and then ask the matchmaker to investigate, Hongxia is a second marriage after all, it's not good to make a big deal, and it will be laughed at when the time comes, I just want to ask you if you see if there is a suitable candidate?"
Hongxia and Huang looked at each other, and also went through the people in their minds, but there was really no suitable person, they all shook their heads, and Zhao was silent for a while, and then said: "Second daughter-in-law, or you ask Dabao to inquire in the town to see if there is a suitable candidate, it is okay to be older, or if you are widowed, it is okay to have a child." There are more people in the town, and there may be a suitable candidate. ”
Huang listened to Zhao's words and was a little embarrassed. To be honest, she is not too familiar with the things in this town, and after thinking about it, it is not easy to refuse, so she said: "Mother, I don't know about this, Dabao has come back less, and I don't know if there is a suitable candidate." The next time he comes back, I'll talk to him and let him pay attention, it's my mother. Do you want Hongxia to find someone from the town? ”
Zhao nodded: "I think so, after all, the people in the town are better." ”
Hongyun on the side disagreed with Zhao's words a little, and said, "Mother, why are you the same person as your sister-in-law." Thinking about other people's money. What do you want to find someone in the town to do, I said, Hongxia is looking for someone now, don't be too demanding of people, as long as you are an honest person and can accept that Hongxia has two children, just don't dislike Hongxia who has been married before, don't pay attention to anything else. ”
When Lin He walked over. I happened to hear what Hongyun said, and I guessed the general thing. It should be about his sister-in-law remarrying, Lin He didn't interject, but sat on his original stool and listened.
Zhao looked at Hongyun, but didn't make a sound, and said after a while: "I don't mean that she has to find someone from the town, I think now it's best to find someone who has some family background, and it will be better for Yuanbao in the future, if the family is poor, and your own family can't take care of it, how can you take care of Yuanbao's affairs." ”
"Mother, don't think too well, if Hongxia marries into someone else's family, let's not say whether there are children in the family, even if not, Hongxia will have children in the future, if you have a child, as long as you don't abuse Yuanbao, it's good, you still think about the future of Yuanbao, you are really ......" Hongyun didn't continue.
Huang also said on the side: "Yes, mother, that's the reason, if Hongxia wants to remarry, Yuanzhu is easy to do, this child is so old, now he can do something, but he doesn't need others to take care of it, that is, Yuanbao is still young, and he will marry a daughter-in-law in the future, and he is afraid that the family will not care about the child brought in before, and it is good not to beat and scold." ”
"I also thought of this, I thought that the ingots are ** years old this year, and they can work in two years, and they will be put in my home for these two years, and the yuan beads will also be put in my home in the past two years, if Hongxia marries, there is no need to bring it, if Hongxia finds a better person, you can save some silver money when the ingots ask for a daughter-in-law, and subsidize it." Zhao said.
"In that case, I think Hongxia doesn't necessarily have to find someone with a good family background, it's the same to find an ordinary cropper, Hongxia has something to do, and she doesn't want a man to raise her." Hongyun said again.
"That's okay according to what you said, but there is no suitable person around here, I don't want Hongxia to marry too far, and this can still work in the second family." Zhao also felt that there was some truth after listening to Hongyun's words.
Hongyun looked at Zhao, thought for a while, and said: "Mother, in fact, I have an idea, but I don't know if you can see it, but if I say it, if you think it's not good, don't blame me." ”
"You said, I won't blame you, isn't this everyone discussing this matter, and you didn't say that it will be decided now." Huang said on the side.
Zhao also looked at Hongyun and motioned for Hongyun to continue.
"Mother, you see, in fact, the second brother's family has hired a lot of long-term workers, and there are also small servants in the family, so many people, you can just find one, there are many people here who are about the same age as Hongxia, and they are not married." Hongyun said.
Lin He saw Hongyun, but did not expect this, the small house and long-term workers in the family are indeed some suitable, just a few long-term workers in the family are okay, a few are indeed not married, not to mention anything else, that is, the steward Li Ping is a good candidate, Chinese New Year's Eve is thirty-five years old this year, it seems that there is a seventy-year-old mother in the family, a few years ago she married a daughter-in-law, as if to say that the daughter-in-law died of childbirth or disease, anyway, she is still single, and this person is honest, and there are no children at home, It would be nice if they could match their sister-in-law, but they never thought of it.
There is also a housekeeper at home, although it is said that he sold his body to his own family, but if he can really do it with his sister-in-law, this is easy to do, and the elder is also very good, alone, this is working in his own home, the income is not low, if he is given to his sister-in-law is also a good one, as far as Lin He's understanding of the elder is concerned, the elder will not dislike the sister-in-law has children at home.
It's just that of course I can't talk about my family background, but it's okay to live. Lin He looked at the Huang family, the Huang family must also think that Hongyun's idea was good, smiled and nodded to Hongyun, and then everyone looked at the Zhao family on the side, looking at Zhao's reaction, after Zhao listened to Hongyun's words, looked at Hongyun, did not speak immediately, thought for a while, and said: "I never thought of this...... If there is the right person here, it's good, Hongxia also knows, and it's not too far, it's just ......" (to be continued......