Back home, Su Li's time is very good, the three little guys haven't made a fuss yet, Su Li is quite relieved, the little ones obviously get along well with grandpa, grandmother, grandparents and grandparents, first took over a little girl, and then hugged the left and right right, Su Li is equal, one person on their chubby cheeks, kissed it, stepped forward, touched and hugged the three little ones who welcomed her warmly, Su Li smiled brightly, and the first quarter moon appeared to infect the joy. "Good baby, I didn't trouble your grandfather, I will reward you! Keep it up, keep up the good work, mom and baby come together! ”

Gently touched the little heads of the three little guys, Su Li smiled gently, and gave praise, the three little guys are already very able to understand good words, and praise them for doing a good job, they will be very happy, just like when Su Li criticizes them, they will know that it is not right with a small face!

"Ah Li's requirements are quite strict, our three little babies, that's really well-behaved!" Dong Qingyan smiled and added glory to her grandson, and also told Su Li that the three little guys really didn't cry, they have been very well-behaved, when it's time to play, have fun, when it's time to sleep, sleep sweetly, no one needs to pat it, as soon as the little quilt is covered, they sleep peacefully.

When it's time to eat, sit on their exclusive small chair with good cooperation, although they don't eat with spoons and chopsticks by themselves, but they are stable and cooperate with the adult's feeding, sweet and practical, even if there are some foods they don't like, they just hesitate, and finally swallow it. That kind of intelligent understanding level, like a one- or two-year-old child, compared to a child of about eight months of the same age, it is really a heaven and an earth, it is simply not equal, push it out, I don't know how many people envy her!

"How the child is, it all depends on the adult's care, the child is particularly sensitive, he will be through the adult's emotions, to distinguish right from wrong, at this time, in many cases, our connivance, will let the child test out our bottom line, the rules that should be, now imperceptibly affect them, but also save the bad habits, change in the future more painful!" Although it may be a little troublesome to influence the rules of parenting for the children now, it is better than having bad habits for children in the future, and it is more painful to be ruthless to correct them, so she is now willing to be a ruthless mother and ask them now.

Love is love, care is care, but education is education, these are two different things, Su Li is very clear, naturally will not be confused, especially after determining that the three little guys may be raised in the mother's womb, and now the development is quite advanced, and she and their father have a keen sense of two-way inheritance, so it is even more negligent.

"Grandpa, Mom, Abba and Grandma, I know that you love these three little guys, and I love them the same, but do you think it's easy to help the three little ones draw the right track while they are still a blank sheet of paper, or, after they smear at will, we are helping them erase their inherent line habits and make it easy for them to change to new habits? Therefore, in order for them to be more relaxed in the future, I, as a mother, can only be ruthless! Su Li smiled and gently explained that the child will definitely have to get along with these closest elders in the future, so with the cooperation of the elders, it will be easier for the child's upbringing.

The elders in the family are all people of insight, even Abba and Aunt, they have always had all kinds of good habits and rules, otherwise, they would not be able to raise her such a character and such a upbringing, all of which are the credit of Abba and Aunt. These elders have all the ability to educate, but, obviously, the so-called next-generation relatives, next-generation relatives, is not what it means that now, the old people can ruthlessly ask for their sons and grandchildren, but few old people can hate to ask for great-grandchildren, at this point, even Yan Lao can't avoid doting on the three little guys.

Rational doting, is boundless love, is the premise of the children's growth and health, but, irrational love, is harmed by the three little guys, they are in the critical period of growth, the most important but, the home environment, the habits of the elders, are their imitation of learning objects, the spoiling of the family, it is likely to relax the requirements of the three little guys, so that for a while, it is good to see what, but as the days go by, a little back, and then a little back, then there is no margin of retreat.

In this way, she taught the little guy what rules and what is good, but she couldn't stand the elders from tearing down the wall behind, so that education has no meaning. Yes, Su Li is willing to do a good job of the family first, arrange the elders, and the child's future upbringing will never be found there, people like them, look twice, look at many eyes, everyone is staring, she doesn't want the three little guys to grow up in such an environment, but they are also staring at everyone!

She doesn't want the psychological gap between the three little ones to be too big in the future, being stared at, the children don't have too much maturity, those gossips, it is easy to hurt the child's immature heart, yes, she will start to put an end to that possibility now, so that their little babies can start to get used to those good manners and good upbringing from being sensible!

Have a good habit, have a good manners, do not ask them to become a high-profile existence, but also, impartial, sit upright, no matter what they do in the future, as long as they are useful, it is enough!

"It's also on the line, right, we know, and we will definitely teach the three little ones well on the issue of principle in the future!" Lin Juan nodded lightly on the little girl's forehead, as far as her rules are concerned, there are many things for him. However, what the little girl said is also very reasonable, they dot on them, love them for love, whatever they want, but they also have certain rules and freedom, and they can't indulge without a bottom line, just for their good, their bottom line must also be set.

Dong Qingyan couldn't say Su Li, and Lin Juan personally answered. My daughter has such a big right to freedom of speech at home, so my daughter's marriage is not bad! The two are naturally satisfied, there are very few mothers-in-law, they really do what they say, they love their daughter-in-law as a daughter, and what their mother-in-law promises is really done, what are they not worried about, look at what Ali said, it is not all adopted by Dong Qingyan, there is no hesitation, and the cooperation is simply tacit! (To be continued.) )