Chapter 4: The Past (2)
Twenty-seven is a dangerous age for a woman who is not married or even has a boyfriend.
Of course, in another ten years, even if a girl is in her thirties and does not get married, there is nothing, but at that time, if she is not married in her thirties, it will be considered a difficult household.
Li Dan was also aware of this problem, so when a colleague introduced her to someone again, she didn't refuse as she did before, but picked a considerable amount to meet her.
Because Li Dan's conditions are very good, she has a good job, a good temper, and she is also beautiful, so most of the blind dates have taken a fancy to her. But after a short period of getting along, Li Dan felt that it was not suitable, after two years of picking, she still didn't find a boyfriend with her heart, not that she picked the conditions, she just wanted to find someone who looked pleasing to the eye.
But at this time, Wang Jinzhi came again, still for her old girl.
Liu Yang doesn't know why, after completing his master's degree in Beijing, he didn't develop in a big city, he had to go back to W City to find a job, at the beginning of the two thousand years, it was not easy to find a formal job for those who studied art, in order to arrange a formal and heartfelt job for Liu Yang, she hit her eldest daughter Li Dan again.
The method is very simple, that is, to introduce Li Dan to a boyfriend who is said to be in good condition.
At that time, Li Dan was also very conflicted, and she didn't know if she wanted to get along with that man according to her mother's wishes. Her hesitation was in Wang Jinzhi's eyes, that is, to take Qiao, that is, she didn't know what to do, she pinched her waist and scolded: "You still picked it, don't look at what conditions you are, you want to be a thirty-year-old woman, and you still think you are a twenty-year-old girl, if it weren't for people who want to find a good-looking daughter-in-law, do you think people can take a fancy to you like this." What kind of family background is the Ren family, the father of the family is the director of the District Construction Bureau, you have a little knowledge, it is a real shortage, and it is also a fat shortage, what kind of family wants to find a daughter-in-law can't find it, do you think people have to be you, you still take Qiao here. ”
In the end, Li Dan still went on a blind date, not because of Wang Jinzhi's words, but because of her colleague's analysis, the Ren family is indeed in good condition, a woman is at her age, it is late to talk about love, or be realistic, find a man with good conditions, and her life will be easier in the second half of her life.
Li Dan listened to it, and because of the busyness of the past few years, she starved the little romantic cells in her heart to death, so she met her husband Ren Xuekai in her previous life.
Ren Xuekai's own conditions are very average, graduated from college, but it is not a famous school, it is a university in the city of W, with a height of 1.72 meters, Li Dan can't wear high heels with him, and then there is his figure, nearly 200 pounds, which can be said to be a big waist and a round waist.
However, Li Dan didn't pick these things, because in the contact between the two people, Li Dan found that although Ren Xuekai's family conditions are good, he doesn't have those messy problems, except for being a little fat and short, there are no big shortcomings, what makes Li Dan most excited is that Ren Xuekai is a very honest person, he usually goes to work, and he won't call friends to eat and drink after work, but likes to stay at home, as long as he is given a novel, he can forget to eat and sleep.
Li Dan felt that living with such a person should be very stable and down-to-earth, so after getting along for half a year, the two hurriedly registered their marriage.
Soon after Li Dan got married, the Ren family did arrange a job for Li Yang in the face of their in-laws, of course, it was still far from Li Yang's own requirements, and only arranged for her to be an art teacher in a key middle school.
Originally, Li Dan thought that Li Yang was such an arrogant person, it was impossible to look at it, but society is a big refining furnace, and this year, Li Yang's arrogance was also smoothed out a lot by reality, so she was no longer willing, and finally accepted the reality, and went to a junior high school to become an art teacher with the title of a master's student from a prestigious university.
And Li Dan's married life is not as good as she thought, although her husband is honest and reliable, but he can't stand him to have a mother who has a lot of things, the old woman when the two of them just got married, it was all kinds of overtures, even with the eldest sister-in-law to Li Dan can also hold it, and Li Dan is a child who lacks love, people treat her well, she can't wait to pay back the family, so, when she first got married, Li Dan felt the kindness from her mother-in-law, and she also reciprocated Li with a mind to be good to others.
But half a year later, Li Dan was pregnant, and her mother-in-law's daily nagging of her grandson made her very stressed, and when she was four months pregnant, her mother-in-law and father-in-law specially found someone to do a B-ultrasound for her, and when she knew that she was pregnant with a girl in her belly, Li Dan's dream was also shattered.
From that day on, her mother-in-law and father-in-law couldn't look down on her with half of their eyes, and they always stabbed her with words, from her family background, to her education, and her job, there was nothing that they didn't pick.
At that time, Li Dan was dumbfounded by this sudden change, she really couldn't imagine that the transformation of people could be so fast, how could one person be so good to another person.
It was also at that time that Li Dan learned a news that shocked him, it turned out that Ren Xuekai and her marriage was not the first marriage, but the second marriage, and he also had a daughter who lived with his ex-wife.
She went to question her husband and her mother-in-law's family, but what she got was her mother-in-law's ridicule: "This is not our cheating marriage, I told your mother all these things in the original way." ”
Li Dan was a little unconvinced, after all, such a big thing, even if his mother didn't wait to see her, she couldn't lie to herself, didn't she push her own daughter into the fire pit.
Wang Jinzhi's expression was a little evasive at the time, but after a while, he became arrogant again, "What's wrong with the second marriage, as long as the conditions are good, how many times do you care if he has been married, besides, as long as you fight for anger and give birth to a grandson to the Ren family, their family doesn't treat you as a Lafayette." ”
At that time, Li Dan couldn't help it, so she replied to her mother, "Mom, you can't give birth to a son yourself, and you still expect me to give birth to a son, do you think it's possible?" ”
These words made Wang Jinzhi angry at the time, and he picked up the broom next to him and didn't care if she was pregnant or not, it was a blow to the head and face. beat Li Dan out of the Li family, and threatened that such a rebellious girl, the Li family, couldn't stand it, so let her go as far as she could.
Li Dan returned home in a daze, waiting for the showdown of her in-laws.
The mother-in-law told her very clearly and clearly that their old Ren family was in such a single line, and she also thought that Ren Xuekai could give the old Ren family a male grandson, because Ren Xuekai and his father are both national cadres, so they can't violate the country's basic national policy of only having a good one, so if you want a grandson, you can only start from your daughter-in-law.
The meaning of the Ren family is very simple, if Li Dan still wants to be the daughter-in-law of the Ren family, then go to the hospital to induce labor, and then there will be a chance to have a boy in the future, if Li Dan does not agree, then she and Ren Xuekai can only divorce.
Li Dan looked at her husband who was hiding behind the Ren family, and wanted this honest man to say something, no matter whether the child in her belly was male or female, he was the child's father after all, and she didn't believe that he had such a ruthless heart.
But in the end, the honest man only promised that he would listen to the fuck.
In an instant, Li Dan's world collapsed, and it turned out that honest and filial men were not reliable. After thinking about it for a week, Li Dan and Ren Xuekai divorced, and then went to the hospital to induce labor by themselves.
She didn't want to be a tool for the Ren family to have children, and she didn't think that people like the Ren family would give her happiness for the rest of her life, and at the same time, she also knew that with her current conditions, there was no way to raise a child independently, so she finally went to the hospital ruthlessly.
She was alone in the small moon, no one served her, and no one visited. Li Dan felt that she was a failure. After so many years, after being busy with the family, no matter how much you pay, you can't get family affection.
In this way, Li Dan returned to being single again, and in the name of second marriage, it was even more difficult to find a suitable partner, and Li Dan gradually stopped thinking about finding another one, in fact, it was good to live alone.
Until she was nearly forty years old, she suddenly felt lonely when she watched her colleagues busy with her husband and listened to their three words about their children.
If she had gritted her teeth and had that child, would she not be alone now?
People, the older you get, the more you think, during that time, Li Dan often thinks in the dead of night, what happened to her, would she not be so lonely?
On a lonely and lonely night, forty-year-old Li Dan was reborn to the age of sixteen, and was reborn in the spring of 1995, the year she was in her first year of high school.