When he got home, Lu Xiaoyi explained the reason for the trouble between the Shen family and the big house to Yulan in detail, and Yulan listened to it for a long time without speaking.

"Mother, don't you say something?"

Yulan sighed and said lightly: "What is there to say, it's not that a family doesn't enter the door, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the big house are the same kind of people, it doesn't matter if you are stupid, you can't say it if you are ruthless, you will definitely be poked in the backbone by the people in the village when this happens." ”

Lu Xiaoyi said: "Mother, isn't it really a family that doesn't enter the door?" How are you different from your grandmother? ”

Yulan smiled, "It's not absolute, it depends on the environment and the individual." ”

Yulan is good, once everything happens around her, she likes to take it as an example, while analyzing with her daughter, while teaching her daughter step by step, after all, her daughter is going to marry in the future, and she can't take care of her for a lifetime, and she has to rely on herself in the future, just like fishing for them to eat, it is better to teach them to cast nets.

So, he analyzed Xiao Yi by taking advantage of the big house: "The old lady is a powerful person, she has been in charge of the house all these years, your uncle and grandfather are very filial to her, your uncle and grandmother must have a hard time when they marry in, including your grandmother complains that the old lady is powerful, think about it, how bad can the essence of a seventeen or eighteen-year-old first-married girl be?" It's not that I'm forced by this day. There is a powerful mother-in-law above, there is no reliable husband around, no matter how hot a woman's heart is, sooner or later it will be cold, not to mention that she has been suppressed and controlled, and her temperament will change, just like your grandmother, she treated me like that at the beginning, and often compared how the old lady treated her, and she herself felt that something was wrong. ”

Yulan didn't beat her to death with a stick and said that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the big house had an essential problem, but explained to Xiaoyi the reason why they were like this. Even combined with her own situation, she hopes that Xiao Yi can look at the problem from the root while receiving her education.

How could Lu Xiaoyi not understand Yulan's painstaking efforts, think about it, and then suddenly understand, "It's like the dough we pull, whether it's round or flat depends on the will of the person who kneaded it." ”

Yulan glanced at Xiao Yi and laughed at her: "People are not noodles, how can they really let others rub and pinch flat, so." Your uncle and grandmother are trying to calculate the old lady's money. is also perfunctory to the old lady, and even your cousin is like this, each with a small abacus, not working hard for the prosperity of the family. Pull the hind legs instead...... Maybe they once had a good side in their hearts. can be abandoned by the grinding of life. Choose a different personality that is more suitable for that family. ”

"Mother, you were very young when you married your father, if your father listened to your grandmother for everything. And I haven't been separated, mother, how do you say you should live your life? Are you like your grandmother and aunt today? ”

Yulan thought about it seriously, "If it's really what you said, I can only endure it!" After many years of daughter-in-law becoming a mother-in-law, don't many people survive like this? ”

Lu Xiaoyi didn't think so, "Mother, if that's the case, you might have endured it a few years ago, because you were young at the time, and you would be timid and immature, but when you slowly matured, you wouldn't put up with it, people like your grandmother are not your opponents at all, don't care if your grandmother and father are intimate with you, I believe you must have cleaned them all up!" Mother, I have confidence in you! ”

Yulan poked Xiaoyi's forehead and said angrily: "What nonsense, what is your mother like a fairy!" ”

Lu Xiaoyi jumped up and rubbed his forehead exaggeratedly, "I'm not talking nonsense, I'm telling the truth, my grandmother is not as smart as you, so she can't cover the old lady or my grandfather, although my aunt is a little smarter than my grandmother, but I can't avoid following the old path of my grandmother." ”

Yulan stared at Xiao Yi in surprise, her own girl was precocious, she knew it, she had also taught her two daughters step by step over the years, but she didn't expect the results to be so good, Yulan was very pleased, and said slowly: "The ruler is short and long, although your uncle and grandmother and your cousin are a little shallow, they also have advantages." ”

As for those advantages, Yulan wants to give examples but can't cite them, in the few contacts she has with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the big house, it is indeed a little difficult to say their advantages, seeing Lu Xiaoyi staring at her eagerly waiting for the following, Yulan smiled dumbly.

Lu Xiaoyi added matter-of-factly: "Their advantages are that they have no advantages!" ”

Yulan glanced at her, "Why is there no merit?" At least it's really good for your own children! ”

Is it? It can be seen from Jia Wei's family affairs alone that her kind of goodness is not really good, at least Lu Xiaoyi thinks so! ”

Yulan said again: "A lot of smart people do stupid things, not to mention your unsmart aunt and cousin, the fruits they planted because of their own food, how can they understand it by themselves when others mention it!" ”

Lu Xiaoyi looked at Yulan with admiration again, Yulan smiled and poked her again, Lu Xiaoyi hurriedly jumped away and shouted: "Mother, you look so good when you smile, you are confident, wise and young." ”

"The mouth is like smeared with honey, don't praise others for praising your mother, and I'm not afraid that others will listen to the joke!" Yulan said this, but her heart was sweet, and she said: "This person, it looks good when he is in a good mood, and he laughs less when he has more troubles, and even if he wants to laugh, he can't laugh in his heart." ”

As he spoke, Lu Zhong and the rest of the grain brought back two baskets of budding rice, and Yulan came out of the house and asked, "Are you still going?" ”

Lu Zhong nodded, "Go again, take advantage of the good autumn sun, quickly take it back and dry it and put it in the warehouse, the autumn rain in the province is coming, and the buds will grow buds." ”

Lu Zhong and the rest of the grain set off again after unloading the bud rice, Yulan and Xiaoyi were cooking lunch, and it happened that Xiao Ding Xiaogeng came back with a well-fed calf, and the mother and daughter worked together to rectify a few delicious foods.

After lunch, they were still busy, Lu Zhong went to the field for the autumn harvest, and Yulan was in charge of baking cakes.

Lu Si's daughter-in-law made it clear that she would not come, and Yulan also made arrangements to invite Sister-in-law Liu, the small backyard, because of the arrival of Sister-in-law Liu, the atmosphere became lively again, Wang Dongmei and Sister-in-law Hua were very satisfied with Sister-in-law Liu, and they didn't work neatly, and they could talk about it together, and they wouldn't be disliked like Lu Si's daughter-in-law.

Lu Xiaoyi doesn't go to fish for clam shell screws now, as the magpie said, they have been fished out by the villagers, fortunately, the Lu family does a dough cake business, and there is more black bran left after grinding the dough, and the ginseng and some corn flour are mixed into the chopped sweet potato leaves or other vegetable leaves, which can also feed the chickens.

Now Yulan's body is inconvenient, chopping pigweed and mixing chicken food to feed pigs and chickens, Xiaoyi Xiaoding is rushing to do it, not letting Yulan interfere, the young ladies immediately won high praise from Sister-in-law Hua and others, Yulan is happy in her heart, but she is modest in her mouth, praising the magpie of Sister-in-law Hua's family, and praising Sister-in-law Liu's daughter who married, the whole backyard atmosphere is very harmonious.

Mrs. Lu coaxed Xiaofeng to sleep, and when she came over, she found that Lu Si's daughter-in-law had been replaced by the daughter-in-law of the Liu family, and asked Yulan: "Si's daughter-in-law said that she couldn't come?" ”

Yulan said: "I said it clearly, Xiao Yi happened to be in the big room in the morning, and I helped ask, and my sister-in-law said that she was slow to delay our scones, and she didn't plan to come." ”

Mrs. Lu sneered: "She is quite self-aware!" ”

Yulan didn't want to tell Mrs. Lu the real reason why her sister-in-law didn't come, so she echoed Mrs. Lu's words: "It's rare that my sister-in-law has this heart, and she took the initiative to bring it up knowing that I was embarrassed to speak." ”

Mrs. Lu pursed her mouth, "You're embarrassed to speak, I'm embarrassed, these things have to be played by one with a red face and one with a black face." After speaking, he deliberately reminded Yulan: "Haven't you noticed that I am helping you play blackface in many things, tsk, my hard work as a mother-in-law, why don't you understand as a daughter-in-law!" ”

The corners of Yulan's mouth twitched slightly, feeling that her mother-in-law was sick again, and smiled perfunctorily.

Lu Xiaoyi secretly rolled his eyes and said in his heart: "How can you help my mother play a black face, you have always had a black face, it's just a coincidence!" ”

Mrs. Lu said to herself: "The person who was arranged by the old lady to come will not come if it is not done in five days, such a good opportunity, should I talk to the old lady and talk about it." ”

Where are you looking for someone to say, obviously you want to find something, Lu Xiaoyi reminded: "Grandmother, don't go, my cousin has already made it clear to my great-grandmother, and her house is now in a mess, and most of the time you go there will be no one to take care of you!" ”

Mrs. Lu didn't go out in the morning, and she hadn't heard about the Lu family's big house, but when she heard Xiao Yiyi say it, she immediately smelled an unusual smell, and asked with a smile: "It's a mess of porridge?" What's the mess? ”

Lu Xiaoyi originally wanted to say it, but when she saw Yulan shaking her head almost invisibly, she changed her words: "It's because my aunt didn't want to come, my great-grandmother was angry, and my uncle and grandfather opened a private store. ”

Yulan didn't want Lu Xiaoyi to say it, and she also had her thoughts, although Lu Pozi would know about it sooner or later, but she couldn't know it from their mother and daughter, because she knew that people like Lu Pozi, once she knew, she would definitely go to the big house to gloat and say cool things, if there was an incident, the old lady would feel that their mother and daughter were broken, she didn't care much about the old lady's opinion, she just wanted to cause as little trouble as possible.

Mrs. Lu listened to what Lu Xiaoyi said, so she believed it, sat on her supervisor's special stool, and observed the new daughter-in-law of the Liu family. Sister-in-law Liu is obviously not of the same grade as Lu Si's daughter-in-law, and Mrs. Lu observes and observes, and sees that she has work in her hands and feet, and she can't find anything wrong, so she relaxes.

Sister-in-law Liu and sister-in-law Hua had already heard about the morning incident in the Lu family's big house, and they wanted to talk about it while they were making cakes, but seeing that Yulan's mother and daughter were reluctant to mention it, the two knew that they did not mention it.

Sister-in-law Liu said: "I also heard that Uncle Lu opened a private museum for a while, and Xiao Yi also mentioned it at this time, don't you really want to open it?" ”

Magnolia nodded, "yes, haven't we all started customizing the seats?" ”

Sister-in-law Liu said happily: "It's okay now, my Bao'er can continue to study again." Speaking of this, she was a little indignant, "Those bad boys in the city, seeing that my Bao'er is flawed and bullying him all day long, if it weren't for the help of the Shen family's boys, maybe they would have been beaten!" ”

Yulan said: "When the uncle's private hall opens, they are all young men who are familiar with each other in the village, and Bao'er can study with peace of mind." (To be continued......)