Dealing with Huang Xiaohua, Zhao Yiping felt a little nine forces, Huang Xiaohua is a loach and very slippery.

is not only slippery, but also small means, small huā like are endless, making people unguardable, such a person is offended, if he is not careful, he will be overshadowed by his small means, and there is nowhere to find regret medicine.

Relying on the identity of the deputy secretary, Zhao Yiping always wants to give Huang Xiaohua a little color to see, but this person is as soft as cotton huā sugar, and if you punch him, he will quietly resolve it for you, and he can't hurt his muscles and bones at all.

Sometimes Zhao Yiping is like thunder, Huang Xiaohua always has a smile on his face, that kind of very humble and respectful smile, as if Zhao Yiping just slapped him twice and punched him a few times to vent his anger, and he was also happy.

So much so that Zhao Yiping often thinks that Huang Xiaohua really confirms the recent popular witticism, and people are invincible when they are cheap!

If Huang Xiaohua is just like this, Zhao Yiping will not feel very helpless, and more importantly, Huang Xiaohua is very loyal and knows how to please Shu Zhiguo.

This point is the most tricky for Zhao Yiping, and it is also the most annoying to him, Huang Xiaohua controls the entire county party committee, from the issuance of county party committee documents, the implementation of the spirit of the county party committee, the supervision of implementation, etc., to the teacups used on the leader's table and the procurement of toilet paper used in the toilet, which are all under Huang Xiaohua's control.

He has a nose like a dog, and he can detect any slight nose movement of the county party committee, and if he notices it, Shu Zhiguo will know it immediately!

So Shu Zhiguo doesn't need to do anything, everything that happened in the county party committee can't be hidden from his eyes.

Shu Zhiguo has such a watchdog as Huang Xiaohua, and it is very difficult for anyone to make some achievements within the county party committee.

In the past, Ma Buping was there, Shu Zhiguo would always give Zhao Yiping some space, and Shu Zhiguo would not do anything if he wanted the horses to run and the horses not to eat grass, he gave Zhao Yiping space, that is, to use Zhao Yiping as a gunman, and Zhao Yiping to deal with Ma Buping.

Now that Ma Buping is gone, Zhao Yiping now really feels that his living space is getting narrower and narrower.

The cunning rabbit died, the lackeys cooked, the birds were exhausted, and the good bow was hidden, Zhao Yiping really lacked a correct understanding of this point!

Zhao Yiping didn't know this, but Huang Xiaohua knew this very deeply.

Huang Xiaohua's attitude towards the problems of Yizhou Town and Caishui Group is always based on treating the symptoms rather than the root cause. The tense situation in Yizhou Town, which had just been resolved, soon became tense again. Deputy Mayor Huang of Yizhou Town went to the countryside to investigate and was beaten with a stick, and was sent to the hospital.

Deputy Mayor Huang burst into foul language at the hospital, which soon annoyed the people again, and the local people began to besiege the hospital. The town dispatch office could not control the scene at all, and urgently asked the county public security bureau for help, and at the same time, the news was reported to the county party committee again.

When Zhao Yiping heard the news, his last insistence completely collapsed.

He recognized the fact that he could not stop Shu Zhiguo from carrying out his will at all, in the place of Li River. He is not enough to break his wrists with Shu Zhiguo!

Suddenly receiving a call from Hong Hao, deputy director of the county party committee office, Chen Jing felt a special surprise.

Coincidentally, when he received a call from Hong Hao, he happened to see the international settlement and international capital and credit chapter of "International Finance", and in this article, Ma Buping had a wonderful record. Ma Buping is settled by Credit International. Extended to credit, and finally he talked about interpersonal relationships in a whimsical way.

Ma Buping has a unique opinion on the maintenance, maintenance and expansion of interpersonal relationships, and the core of his opinion is eight words: "insight into human feelings, different from person to person." ”

For example, he said, "The relationship with governing the country focuses on the Xuan name, the relationship with Zhao Yiping focuses on the false name, and the interaction with Hong Qizhi focuses on the practical ......,.........."

"Governing the country. It should refer to Shu Zhiguo's "Xuan Name", Chen Jing doesn't understand the two words, but he pondered carefully, it should be related to Shu Zhiguo's metaphysical beliefs, Shu Zhiguo believes in fate and many metaphysics, is this a breakthrough in dealing with Shu Zhiguo.

Zhao Yiping attaches great importance to his false name, which breaks his personality characteristics in one sentence, and the people who slip around and get along with Zhao Yiping must be harmonious.

There is another interesting record here: "Dealing with Huang Xiaohua and others, the emphasis is on domineering, this kind of person is different, and this kind of person should not be close to and respect, you should be a pig and a dog, he should be your father and brother, you should be a friend, and he should be a pig and dog." The word "cheap" can summarize the characteristics of such people. ”

When Chen Jing saw this text, he immediately laughed, laughing so much that tears flowed out, at this moment, he realized that Ma Buping was vicious, Huang Xiaohua was such an existence in his eyes?

Chen Jing combined his own life experience and carefully pondered Ma Buping's words, and he could really figure out the truth.

In reality, there are indeed some people who you can't be too good to, and if you are too good to them, he will kick his nose in the face and not save face for you everywhere. The attitude towards them is worse and worse, but he comes over to slap you and respect you, Chen Jing thought of Ma Buping saying "Gai Yi'cheap' word, which can summarize the characteristics of this kind of person", he really had this kind of resonance in his heart.

In addition to talking about interpersonal communication "insight into human feelings, different from person to person", Ma Buping focused on the essence of the way of dealing with the world, he believes that the heart should be "like a rock, like water!" ”

When Chen Jing read these seven words, his heart suddenly burst out with agitated emotions, a feeling of awakening and empowerment suddenly emerged, and there was a sense of epiphany in his heart.

The so-called heart is like a rock, which means that a person's heart should be firm, and he must have a strong sense of purpose, direction, and mission, and the shape is like water, which means that a person's external performance can not be confined to a mold, but should adapt to the situation and the environment.

A little more abundant, a little free, you can give an example.

Taking the reform of the lateritic slope forest farm led by Chen Jing as an example, the reform of the laterite slope forest farm encountered a lot of resistance at that time, why did these resistances exist? At that time, Chen Jing's prestige was not enough, and the lack of qualifications was one thing, but more importantly, Chen Jing neglected to engage in public relations, and did not think about creating a good external environment for the smooth restructuring of the laterite slope forest farm, and he paid too much attention to the shape at that time.

If Chen Jing had been able to dredge up the relationship with some of the main leaders of the county party committee and the county government at that time, and let the leaders correctly understand the goal and direction of the restructuring of the laterite slope forest farm, would the situation have been different?

In addition to this example, if it is more popular, Huang Xiaohua's character is so low in Ma Buping's eyes, and he actually used the word "cheap" to summarize this person, so how should Chen Jing deal with Huang Xiaohua in the future?

If according to the traditional concept, the gentleman is far from the villain, and this kind of person should be respected, and he should be regarded as a flood beast.

But if it is "shaped like water", the treatment method will be completely different, since Huang Xiaohua is so afraid of people, so why not do what he likes? Huang Xiaohua is also a county leader no matter what, and according to the concept of superiors and subordinates, it is natural to respect leaders.

Besides, if people can be trusted by the organization, it means that they have their own strengths, and ignoring their strengths because of their weaknesses is itself extreme.

So, and Huang Xiao. Hua not only has to deal with him, but also has to be willing to deal with him, and according to his characteristics, Huang Xiaohua is also willing to deal with himself.

What is all this for? In order to be the heart of the rock, their goals, directions, and aspirations can never be completed by one person, in this process, the country always needs the help and help of others, and the more help a person gets, the greater the chance of natural success.

If you set too many restrictions, don't know how to know a person correctly, are not good at discovering how long others are, and care too much about others' shortcomings, isn't that a circle for yourself?

There is a saying that "the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds", and the self is only one of these many birds, if you blindly follow your own standards to watch the birds around you, how can life be sublimated to a higher realm?

"The sea is inclusive, and tolerance is great!" A person's mind and bearing determine the height that a person can reach, and this is where the enjoyment of reason comes from.

Of course, the shape of water is only an external manifestation, people's hearts should always be as firm and stable as a rock, people in the world, but not in the world, cold eyes on the world, a "bystander" two words, a person pattern elevated.

There was no wine in the place where Chen Jing was reading, and even after drinking three cups of tea, he suddenly felt that his today was completely different from yesterday.

The simple seven words of "heart is like a rock, shaped like water" made his life realm reach a new height.

He looked back on his past and found that he had too many complaints and complaints, always complaining about the unfairness of the system, always complaining that the leaders were blind, and valuing those mediocre talents but not himself.

Always worldly, like many people, pretending to be high-minded, thinking that respecting the leader is a sycophant, and giving gifts to the leader is even more disdainful, thinking that it is a loss of personality and a loss of character.

In fact, all these thoughts are shit, what people need is inner firmness and strength, as for the means and methods of behavior and interpersonal communication, why should they be too restrained? Some leaders like to listen to flattery, so why not pat yourself on the back? Some leaders have a good reputation, as long as they don't violate their principles, so why don't they do what they like?

A person's maturity and the cultivation of a person's humanity should start with "the heart is like a rock, and the heart is like water".

Chen Jing was savoring these seven words, and the call from the deputy director of the county party committee, Hong Hao, came, he was very calm and peaceful at this time, and the faces of the leaders of the county party committee, Shu Zhiguo, Zhao Yiping, Huang Xiaohua, and so on, were already alive in his mind