When Ye Guan came back, he saw that his parents were still sitting in the hall, and he glanced at the time in wonder: "Dad, Mom, it's so late, why haven't you slept yet?" ”

"Your dad me off and can't sleep." Ji Meihua hurried up to complain to her son, and warned her son, "Xiaoguan, you can't step on two boats in the future, as a responsible man, this is a mistake that you can't make resolutely, you know?" ”

"When did I step into two boats?" Ye Shengtian looked at his wife speechlessly, "Didn't you already make it clear, why did you see that your son started messing around again?" ”

"What the hell is going on?" Ye Guan looked at his parents worriedly, "Don't scare me, I'm cowardly." ”

"Don't listen to your mother's nonsense, it's a female classmate who talked to her father before...... Ye Shengtian took the initiative to explain Liu Lihua's matter to his son, of course, his purpose was to hope that his son could stand on his side and persuade his wife to stop dwelling on this matter......

As a result, after his own son understood the cause and effect, like his own little daughter, he also beat him down severely, disgusting him for being too soft-hearted......

"Son, you just stand and talk without backache......" Ye Shengtian glared at his son dissatisfied, "This matter is going to be put on you, you don't necessarily have to be really ruthless!" ”

"Dad, this kind of thing will never rest on me......" Ye Guan looked at his father with a serious face, "Because if it were me, I would have broken her thoughts in the first place." ”

"Really?" The corners of Ye Shengtian's lips hooked up a shallow smile, "Then you talk to Dad." That Mei Yiyi, how do you explain it? ”

"There is a cooperative relationship between Mei Yiyi and me, and she also said that as long as I confirm that Mo Xiaomei is sincere to me, I will definitely let it go, and I will never mix it between the two of us......"

Ye Shengtian interrupted him: "Do you believe it?" ”

"Of course I do." Ye Guan nodded very affirmatively, "Although Mei Yiyi and I have only met twice, I can say with great certainty that she is by no means the kind of girl who goes back on her word, and she will definitely do it if she says it."

Father. You compare that Liu Lihua with her, which is an insult to her at all. The woman you are talking about swaying for her own interests, and Mei Yiyi, whether it is her background or quality cultivation, is sharp, she will never sell herself for the sake of interests. ”

"Good. It is indeed Dad's fault for comparing Liu Lihua and Mei Yiyi. But. The reason why Dad brought up this matter is because he wants you to be a little wary of this matter, no matter how sensible a girl is. In relationships, there will be times when you are confused.

It is undeniable that Mei Yiyi is a very good girl, if you don't have a girlfriend, it will be a very lucky thing to meet her, but now, you have a girlfriend, you have to deal with her relationship ......"

Ye Guan interrupted his father: "Dad, I know what you said, and I will definitely deal with it, don't worry." ”

Ji Meihua looked at her husband with disdain: "If you want to divert the topic, you don't need to use your son, your son is much better than you in this regard, do you think you changed the topic, and I will forget about you and Liu Lihua?" ”

"Look at you, this night around this matter is not over......," Ye Shengtian shook his head helplessly, "I really didn't want to divert the topic, I just thought of this from Liu Lihua's matter, so I told my son."

We have also talked to our son about this before, and of course I believe in our son's character, but sometimes, there are some things that you can definitely control what you want.

No matter how good Mei Yiyi is, she is also a young girl, and her background is there, in case it is not handled well, it makes Mo Xiaomei think more, our son is not a human being.

Of course......" Ye Shengtian turned his head to look at Ye Guan, "You have to think about it yourself, whether you are in love or sympathy for Mo Xiaomei, and how you feel about Mei Yiyi."

Dad knows that it is unfair to Mo Xiaomei to talk about this at this time and let you make a choice again, but this is a major event in a lifetime, and a moment of unfairness is better than a lifetime of unsmoothness.

As for you, don't be framed by rules and regulations, if you think about it, you can simply cut off another thought, long pain is better than short pain, you should understand this truth. ”

Ye Guan looked at his father with a faint expression: "Dad, you are obviously inclined to Mei Yiyi, or rather, Dad has wanted to talk to me for a long time when he has been holding back these words in his heart, right?" ”

"Yes." Ye Shengtian admitted calmly, "Dad has indeed thought about it for a long time, and he really wanted to remind you for a long time, but it is really difficult to say it for no reason."

Now that it's on this topic, it's better to be transparent, in terms of concept and background, it's obvious that you and Mei Yiyi are more compatible, and it's a pity that you met her late when I talked to your mother before.

Of course, your mother and I definitely don't take a fancy to other people's backgrounds, or purely for the sake of your happiness, and this so-called happiness is the spiritual compatibility of two people, and has nothing to do with anything else.

Your mother didn't let me say it, thinking that this kind of thing should be realized by yourself, but Dad suddenly realized one thing today, maybe by the time you really realize it, it will be too late.

Your mother doesn't like Liu Lihua, and she doesn't like her dad to help her, in fact, how does her like her? Helping her is just to see her pitiful and unbearable, and Dad is very grateful to her for letting go back then, otherwise, how could Dad meet your mother?

Sometimes Dad also thinks, if she hadn't let go back then, what would Dad's life be like today? Honestly, I didn't dare to think about it, because, no matter how I thought about it, it wasn't what I wanted to see.

However, if she didn't mention breaking up at that time, even if Dad had found out that there was something inappropriate and found that the two people's concepts were very different, she still couldn't make up her mind to let go, not because she liked it, but because of responsibility.

And the problems you are facing today are similar to the problems faced by Dad back then, and when Dad says this, you may feel that Dad is insulting Mo Xiaomei by putting Mo Xiaomei and Liu Lihua together.

But you have to understand, kid. In that era, the gap between Liu Lihua and your mother was similar to the gap between Mo Xiaomei and Mei Yiyi now.

It's just that what they differ in is their character, and what Mo Xiaomei and Mei Yiyi differ in is their concepts, as a father, it is very inappropriate to tell their son about this, but Dad thinks. Even if Dad's current approach is not appropriate. It's better than the inappropriate life you will live in the future.

Dad said this today, think about it, the difference in concepts is too big, and it will be very tiring to get along. People say they have to change themselves. But how can it be so easy to change personality?

A truly suitable partner. When we get along, both parties feel comfortable, and both parties are in the most natural state. No need to pretend, no need to hide.

Whether it's you or Mo Xiaomei, you're actually compressing yourself to cater to each other, after a long time, are you sure that this kind of compression and catering won't make you feel tired? ”

Ye Guan looked at Ji Meihua: "Mom, are you also not optimistic about me and Mo Xiaomei?" ”

After hesitating, Ji Meihua nodded: "In this matter, Mom and your dad have the same idea, and our starting point is also the same, in fact, it is not right to say that it has nothing to do with the background, the concept of two people is the same depends on the similarity of the background, otherwise, how can the concept be the same?"

Xiaomei is a good child and works hard, but when she is with you, she has too many concerns, and she shows a lot of backbone, but sometimes the deliberate backbone actually comes from low self-esteem.

In a relationship, if someone has low self-esteem, and this inferiority complex is disguised as an absolute pride, the person with whom she gets along will be very tired.

I believe you have a feeling now, there are some things that you have to say, but for the sake of her self-esteem, you have to think twice, and there are some things you should have to do, but you must also think twice.

She can feel your caution, and you can also feel her apprehension from time to time, you are both trying to cater to each other, but neither of you can solve the problem fundamentally.

In other words, it is difficult to solve this problem fundamentally, and every time you feel that the other party has changed, but the next time there is a conflict, you will find that the essence is still the same.

If you feel that the frequent occurrence of this kind of contradiction will not affect your feelings for Mo Xiaomei, nor will it make you bored, then you can get along with her well.

It is difficult to be happy in a marriage that is barely together, rather than parting ways when it is difficult to go on, it is better to let go early when it will not affect the happiness of the other party.

Mom also knows that it is easy to say, but it is a very difficult thing to do, because the first thing you have to pass is your psychological level, and it is certain that if you choose to let go, you will become the unforgivable one in terms of public opinion, unless one day Mo Xiaomei is happy, otherwise, you will always carry this heavy cross.

But even so, it's better than living in depression for the rest of your life, right? It's much better than not going on halfway and going from husband and wife to enemies, right? ”

My sister has also talked about these problems with me before, but my sister has not said it so thoroughly, and now, my parents have put this issue on the table so solemnly, and Ye is really messed up.

That's right, he told his sister so resolutely that he insisted on being with Mo Xiaomei, because he didn't want his letting go to hurt the other party, but now that his parents said so, he was a little unsure about this matter again.

Mo Xiaomei's suspiciousness and sensitivity is a fact, no matter what he does, he always thinks twice before taking care of the other party, and this way of getting along does make him feel a little tired.

He has always persuaded himself, love, it's all like this, this kind of tiredness is actually a kind of running-in, as long as he does a good job and gives the other party confidence, there will be no more such contradictions.

He also used this to persuade his sister, although he saw from his sister's eyes that he didn't agree, but his sister didn't say much, and he also strengthened his confidence to go all the way.

If you ask him if he is comfortable with Mo Xiaomei or Mei Yiyi, he doesn't even have to think about it, he can give a clear answer, of course, he is comfortable with Mei Yiyi.

Moreover, he will add an explanation later, the relationship between friends and lovers is always different.

But now, he also has doubts about his own explanation.

But, does he like Mei Yiyi?

The answer is definitely no.

All he has for her is the appreciation between friends, not the throbbing between lovers, but do you ask if there is a throbbing between him and Mo Xiaomei? The answer is also no.

It was he himself who hurriedly made what he thought was the most correct choice when he didn't understand love......

Looking at her son's tangled appearance, Ji Meihua was a little distressed, so she sighed: "Don't force yourself if you can't think clearly, go by your feelings for a while, and then make a choice." ”

Ye Guan smiled bitterly: "Mom, isn't that even more irresponsible?" ”

"If I knew about it, don't mention it......" Ji Meihua glared at her husband, "I said don't talk about this with my son, you have to talk about it, now that it's like this, are you comfortable?" ”

"Don't talk about it, can you rest assured?"

was asked by her husband like this, and Ji Meihua stopped squeaking.

Yes, don't talk about it, it doesn't mean that she can really feel at ease, looking at the relationship between her son and Mo Xiaomei, she is tired of her son, as a mother, although she will also take care of Mo Xiaomei's thoughts, but she can't put her son's happiness in life on the line for this, right?

And the key is that even if she takes the happiness of her son's life, there is no way to determine where the two will go in the future, anyway, she is skeptical about the change of personality or something.

Sometimes, deliberate change is just to hide some thoughts in your heart, and when one day you reach the flashpoint of contradictions, the result is still the same.

Ye Qing didn't hear the sound of his brother going upstairs for a long time, so he came out curiously to look, and saw that the three people sitting downstairs were all frowning with tangled faces, so he wondered - he participated in a class reunion and helped someone who shouldn't be helped, so it won't be over yet, right?

Thinking like this, she didn't ask along this line of thought, in case it wasn't what she thought, and she would pick up the old topic again, wouldn't it be okay to find a draw?

After thinking about it, Ye Qing went back to the bedroom to get a water glass, went downstairs, pretended to pick up a glass of water, and sat opposite the three of them: "Dad, Mom, brother, why don't you sleep and sit here?" ”

"It's not your brother's business......" Thinking that her youngest daughter's idea is very right now, Ji Meihua told a few people about the topic of pulling out.

"You're just for this, and you can't pant smoothly?" Ye Qing rolled his eyes speechlessly, "Brother, haven't we talked about it before, aren't you quite firm?" ”

Ye Guan sneered: "I didn't talk deeply at that time, I didn't think much of it." ”

"What's the use of thinking too much? You can't make a choice...... Ye Qing took a sip and looked at his brother seriously, "There are some things, just listen to others, I haven't experienced it, and I will never be reconciled, so ......" She spread her hands and didn't say any more, she believed that her parents and brother would understand, sometimes, the closer people are to theorize together, the easier it is to theorize and not understand - care is messy! (To be continued......)