Now that he has admitted that Wang Li is transforming day by day, it is not too difficult to ask her for advice.

"I've had a very unpleasant relationship with your brother-in-law recently, and my life doesn't look like a day, and my heart is very tired."

After Zhong Zining said this, he looked into the distance in a daze.

Wang Li waited for a long time and didn't wait for the following, so she weighed how to say it in her heart, and after thinking about it, she spoke: "Third sister, I am young and have experienced few things, maybe my views are not comprehensive or objective enough, I think it's okay to live this life, in fact, the most important thing is to be happy." ”

Zhong Zining didn't make any moves.

Wang Li sighed in her heart and continued: "I have been in school during this time, and I have gotten along with my classmates a lot, so I feel that I used to be a frog at the bottom of the well, I didn't understand anything, but I still feel good about myself, and I feel that I am quite clear in all aspects, in fact, it is not the case at all, everyone didn't say anything about me, but it was just because I had Zijing and my parents behind me." ”

Seeing that Zhong Zining's face changed slightly, she was really helpless, in the end, the third sister, she still had to find a way to persuade people: "Our department has held a lot of lectures recently, although it is about literature, but these things contain a lot of life philosophy, and the debate after the lecture has greatly increased my knowledge, and now when I look back at the previous things, I think, why was I so stupid at that time?" How can the means of dealing with things be so naïve? Obviously, there is a better and more appropriate way to deal with it, but it is to do things with a mind that is unwilling, unconvinced, and unwilling to be underestimated, and as a result, although the thing is barely done, no one is convinced, and there are opinions behind the scenes. ”

Zhong Zining couldn't help but ask: "Unwilling, unconvinced?" ”

Wang Li nodded and said, "Yes, it's just unwilling." I don't accept it, I have an eldest sister in my family, my father and my mother love her the most, and I will come to her first. I used to be very unconvinced, why do I do everything at home, and in the end, in front of my parents, I might as well say a few good words to my eldest sister, I was very unwilling at that time, so I wanted to compete with her in everything. As a result, my mother saw it, and she didn't ask whether it was right or wrong, and immediately scolded me, I shouldn't be right with my eldest sister, my father didn't say it, and he felt that what I was doing was wrong. After a long time, I felt very uncomfortable, and I held my breath for everything, and in the end. That breath can't be dissipated, and when you talk to anyone, you have a smell of impulse, which offends everyone. ”

Of course, what she said was an exaggeration, but she also knew what the third sister had encountered during this time, and she could probably guess what the third sister had in her heart, and now that she was talking to her, she probably wanted to evacuate the depression in her heart, I hope she said this. It can resonate with her a little.

Sure enough, Zhong Zining tilted his head thoughtfully.

Wang Li felt that it had an effect, so she continued: "Later." I want to open it, my parents have to like the eldest sister, and they are willing to listen to the eldest sister's opinions when doing things, that is their freedom, I am a child, and I can't be angry with myself for this. It's not worth it. There are still five fingers in life, why drag this? ”

"What's more, my parents treated me well, for me to study, and agreed to my marriage with Zijing, so that I have the opportunity to change my life, no matter how I say it, I have to be grateful to them for a lifetime."

"In life, there are always unsatisfactory, always thinking about unsatisfactory places, there will always be no balance, the heart is uncomfortable, after a long time, no matter how good the life is, it will be tasteless. But if you look in a good direction, you will feel, in fact, it's good now, think about it so much, you will be in a good mood, you will be in a good mood, and you have to do things smoothly. ”

Zhong Zining muttered: "Yes, there are still five fingers in life, everyone has eccentric eyes, but it is not serious, the most important thing is yourself." ”

Wang Li nodded again and again, and said affirmatively: "That's right, the most important thing is yourself!" Moreover, now that there are so many changes outside, there is not enough time to feel new bits and pieces every day, where is there too much focus on fighting with others? What a loss to do that! Time is money, if you don't keep up with everyone's pace at this time, maybe, if you don't pay attention, you will be thrown away by the times. ”

Zhong Zining was upset: "Do you think that if you are not careful, you will be thrown away by the times?" "Is it really so competitive in universities?

Now in her position, she can indeed feel the frequent changes at the top and the reversal of the direction of policy selection, but this is also something that can only be truly felt by people who have reached a certain level, at least, the vast majority of ordinary people, at most, feel that there has been a little change outside.

So, in fact, the campus is also a news-sensitive place? Did she get a little misguided before?

Although Wang Li didn't know what she was thinking, these were indeed what she felt, so she nodded and said, "Yes, in school, if I don't work hard enough, after a while, I won't understand what everyone is talking about." ”

She found a few examples to talk about, and finally concluded: "I haven't communicated with everyone for a week, do I think I have missed a few words?" If I haven't communicated with you for half a month, I will think, did I miss something big? If I haven't communicated with you for a month, I will wonder if I usually take the same class as everyone else. Information is changing all the time, and if you don't update your knowledge at any time and accept the latest information bombardment, you will feel that you are being pulled down by this era little by little. ”

Zhong Zining nodded in his heart, so, is this the reason why Wang Li has changed so much.

She couldn't help but ask, "So, what have you been working on lately?" ”

When Wang Li talked about this, she couldn't help but dance with her eyebrows: "We have a few people who have recently gotten together to discuss, and feel that after the country has been smashed and looted without any control for more than ten years, the moral civilization system of the whole society has been damaged to the greatest extent, and the sense of trust between people has been reduced to the minimum, and we have completely lost the bearing and style that we should have as an ancient civilization. ”

After saying that, she was a little embarrassed, thinking that the things they discussed were quite high, but these were indeed what she was thinking.

Zhong Zining didn't laugh at her. In her opinion, people with ideals are worthy of respect, and people with ideals and willing to practice in a down-to-earth manner are worthy of everyone's admiration.

She felt. Originally, I just wanted to come to Wang Li to evacuate my mood, but I didn't expect to get such a surprise.

Yes, she struggles with Gao Chenghe every day, why he doesn't believe her, why doesn't he help her speak. Why did his eldest brother treat her like this, did he treat her as a family, etc., it was indeed too narrow-minded.

The outside world is so vast, why did she limit her gaze to such a small place?

What if the Gao family refuses to let her share the family's resources? What about the eldest brother, who accused her of misusing her connections? Even if she never needed it again, what would she do?

It's just that it's a little more difficult to do things in the future, it's just a few points more tortuous on the road to promotion, and it's not that you can't live from now on.

In the end, she is just unwilling and unconvinced.

To put it another way, now she is still young and has time and energy. Instead of wasting time and energy on meaningless quarrels, it is better to use it to fight for work.

The achievements she has worked hard for will not be able to be taken away by anyone at that time, and no one will be able to point fingers at her.

When the time comes, see who can still show her face!

Thinking of this, she glanced at Wang Li again.

What even Wang Li can do, of course she can do!

The sister-in-law talked for an afternoon, and after sending Zhong Zining away, the excitement in Wang Li's eyes did not diminish at all.

The third sister finally wanted to open up, and wanted to go to her career wholeheartedly.

She just said. The third sister is usually so powerful, why can't she think about it so much, so she has to hold on to the third brother-in-law? The third brother-in-law has a good relationship with his eldest brother, which is amazing. Let's not touch the glory of his Gao family, what do we want in the future, we can earn it with our own hands, why not be unwilling to be unconvinced, and in the end make ourselves angry, and we haven't been able to get a good word.

The third sister is not her. The mother's family has no help at all, but the Zhong family is her solid pillar!

She can straighten her waist and be a person, and the third sister should do better!

Moreover, Wang Li is happy when she thinks about it, the third sister, she plans to take the road of propaganda in the future, and in the future, she has time to slowly influence the third sister, let the third sister accept her concept, and then, through the third sister, will influence more people.

has lived two lifetimes, and she knows that in fact, the general public is blindly obedient to a large extent, especially in the next ten years, basically when they believe what the state promotes, and rarely have doubts.

She believes that as long as we make good use of the propaganda mouth, use more than ten years to publicize more positive things, and filter more information from abroad, we will always be able to play a positive role in the whole society.

If she could do this, she felt that she would be worthy of this opportunity to be reborn that God had given her.

She was so happy that she simply stayed in the school, although there were no lectures in their department today, but other departments did!

When, it's all about having more skills and not pressing, and it's always beneficial to absorb a little more knowledge from the outside world.

Today, there is a lecture in the Department of Mathematics, which is about the future application of computers, she thought, in her previous life, her son was so rare in computers, not to mention that he bought computers early, and muttered all day long that the future is the world of computers, a machine in hand, what do I have in the world, then, now, it is always good for her to know a little more about related knowledge.

It's a pity that she really doesn't have much talent in mathematics, and she listened to a class and only felt that she was in a fog and didn't know what the professor above was talking about! It was easy to hold on, and she barely finished the whole class, and she was caught in the crowd of departures and went home in a gloomy manner.

I was still thinking about it with hatred along the way, and sure enough, math was a conflict with her! Even the derivative subject computer doesn't like her!

However, when she returned home and saw the three children sitting in a row from tall to short, she felt comfortable again, even if she couldn't, she still had three children! There is always someone who can inherit Zijing's talent and is very good at mathematics! When the children grow up, let them learn computers!

Maybe it's a good thing that always comes together, and in the evening, I actually received a call from Zijing, who has not been in touch for nearly two months!

“…… Yes, the battle on the battlefield is over, we have returned, however, for the next month, we will still be busy, and when we are almost busy, I can rest for a few days, and then I will go back, you wait for me. ”

On the phone, Zhong Zijing's voice was similar to usual, listening to Wang Li's ears, as if he was still in the army and had never gone out to participate in a war.

"Did you inform your parents first? Everybody misses you. Although Wang Li was happy, she still remembered that although her mother-in-law didn't say anything recently, she still seemed to miss him very much, and now that he is back, she should have told her first.

Zhong Zijing chuckled: "Don't worry about dad and mom, when our army came back, my dad already knew, and I didn't tell you, because there are confidentiality regulations, and the ban will be lifted from this afternoon, dad should have told mom, are you late to listen to the lecture again?" Otherwise, Mom should have told you. ”

Wang Li smiled and said, "Yes, I stayed in the school today to listen to the lecture of the mathematics department, and I just came back for a while." ”

Behind his back, he was muttering, didn't he just come down from the battlefield? Haven't you heard from you for two months? She stayed for the lecture and came back very late, and it was only this month, so why did he know everything? Who gave him the little report?

Zhong Zijing laughed at her strangely: "Aren't you not very good at math?" How can you still bother to listen to lectures in the Department of Mathematics? Can you understand it? ”

Wang Li pouted unhappily: "Not all of the mathematics department is about mathematics, and there are also subjects such as computers, and today's lecture is about the future application of computers, and it is not about applied mathematics." ”

Zhong Zijing listened and wanted to laugh, the computer ...... If you want to learn advanced mathematics in programming, if you are not good at math, hehe, I won't talk about more.

He doesn't want to make her angry, anyway, he understands or can't understand, she's all her, and he supports whatever she wants, well, he's such a good man!

So I wanted to pull the topic away, but before he could speak, Wang Li continued: "When you come back, let's talk about the computer in detail, this thing is very important and very important!" ”

As soon as Zhong Zijing heard her tone, he knew that this was a secret involving her again, and he kept the computer in his heart at the moment, and planned to wait until he went back and talk to her about it.

His mind was spinning fast, but he still chuckled and said, "Don't worry, when I go back, we have time to talk about it, not only computers, but also many other things to talk about." (To be continued.) )