"It's really unbelievable, how could I give birth to such a daughter?" Tian Youyi said angrily, and when he looked at his wife Su Buru, he obviously meant a little blame.

And Su Buru saw Tian Youyi looking at herself like this, and suddenly became angry, "Your daughter follows your temper, what do you think I do?" ”

Although Tian Youyi is quite majestic on the big bamboo peak on weekdays, he is a full rake ear in front of his wife, which means that he is afraid of his wife.

Seeing that his wife was angry, he had to stop saying anything and went back to the house alone.

Su Buru's eyebrows frowned slightly, she didn't expect her daughter to actually contradict them, in addition to being a little angry, she was also a little disappointed, but Su Buru was also a person from the past, she knew that her daughter was in the period of youth rebellion, and the teenagers and girls in this period often did something "against their parents".

In fact, this is not a problem, it is not a big problem, but it just means that your child has grown.

Since birth, the child has been listening to his parents, what his parents tell him to do, he will do it, and he also thinks that this is a natural thing, but as the child grows up little by little, he continues to accept the information of the outside world, and constantly broadens his horizons, gradually, he will find that he is actually an independent individual, not a "puppet" who only listens to his parents.

By the time they reach junior high school, they will feel that they have grown up and can think independently and do what they like.

Therefore, he will try to solve the problem in his own way and method, of course, in front of his "battle-hardened" parents. It can seem silly. It's naïve.

But. At this time, don't use "you shouldn't be like this", "you can't do this", "fool, this won't work" and similar tones to talk to children, which will greatly cause children's rebellious psychology, you may be right from your point of view, but if you stand from the child's point of view. That means you deny his ideas, or even his ability to deal with problems, which in turn leads to your despisy for him, or you don't think well of him.

If you let your child think this way, then it is inevitable that he will "do it" with you.

Of course, the child wants to work against you, not to be an enemy of you everywhere, but to prove it to you in his way. "You see, my method was also successful. Without you, I can do the right thing, and I don't have to rely on you for everything. ”

If you can read these psychological changes in children, then, you should be happy, this is a sign of a child's growth, as a parent, should not provide a protective umbrella for the child everywhere, for his sake, and even some parents actually began to plan his life from the child was not born, from kindergarten to college, and then to graduation assignment work, has been to let the child according to their own thoughts step by step, in fact, this is not necessarily a good choice for the growth of children.

Smart parents should be good at discovering their children's shining points, and then use the right ways and methods to guide, rather than using a negative tone to directly assert to their children what is not okay and what is right.

You should let the child exert his own subjective initiative, let him try something he has not tried in his own way, even if you know that this thing is wrong, you should not tell him in advance, let him touch the wall by himself, realize that this road does not work, and then wait for his own consciousness to correct, at this time, you have to play the role, is to secretly protect him, care for him, encourage him, be a guide on the road of his life, not a roadblocker.

Obviously, many parents have not thought about this kind of truth, at least the parents of the post-80s generation rarely think about it like this, and what they often talk about is, "Why are you so careless about this child?" "You are really an ancestor, I owe you in my last life!" "Look at who's little one who took the first place in the exam this time, look at you again, what to eat is not enough, what to do, why do I have such a son as you? ”

Su Buru has been cultivating immortals for more than a hundred years, and the life she has experienced is probably longer than two or three generations, so she knows her daughter's thoughts at this time, Tian Xin'er is now sixteen years old, and it is also a critical period for growing from a girl to a mature woman.

For example, on campus, I like to watch boys play basketball and soccer.

In the classroom, my eyes will glance in the direction of the boy I like from time to time, and if I am lucky enough to look at the boy I like, my little heart will beat wildly.

If you are confessed by a boy you like, you will blush and be happy, but you don't know how to express your feelings, and sometimes you will even run away stupidly, so that the boy thinks that you rejected him.

In short, this is a wonderful age, a girl with the same flower season.

Su Buru knew what Tian Xin'er was thinking in her heart, but she knew that all this was impossible, not to mention that Huo Xiaotian's origin was unknown, although he kept saying that he was here to find an old scalper, but who would dare to make trouble in Qingyunmen for the sake of an old scalper?

What's more, Su Buru once asked Song Xiaoren to send some silver to Huo Xiaotian, and asked him to go down the mountain to buy another old cow, which was regarded as a little compensation from Qingyunmen for him.

However, Huo Xiaotian categorically rejected it.

Su Buru asked Huo Xiaotian why he refused, but the answer Huo Xiaotian gave was that the old scalper was not an ordinary old scalper, it was very important to him, and he must find his old scalper.

All this made Su Buru feel that Huo Xiaotian's life experience was very confusing.

If he has a bad heart, I'm afraid that the first victim will be his daughter.

Even if Huo Xiaotian has no malicious intentions, however, he is also a married man, according to himself, he also has two sons, which shows that Huo Xiaotian's family at least has a wife, as for how many wives there are, it is unknown, but no matter how many wives there are, Su Buru is never willing to let her baby daughter marry a mortal as a concubine.

Immortal cultivators usually have an air of pride, they will not easily marry into a mortal family, let alone be a little wife for others, which is almost impossible to do.

Therefore, Su Buru is completely on her husband's side in dealing with Tian Xin'er and Huo Xiaotian.

No matter whether anything happened between Tian Xin'er and Huo Xiaotian, she had to strangle this kind of sign in the cradle. (To be continued.) )