Chapter 397: Dabao's Family Affairs
After dinner, Lin He asked Ziyu to wait for Chen'er and Xiaobao to go to bed early, and he and Dabao were talking about some things that had happened at home recently, of course, Lin He mainly wanted to know about Dabao's marriage, and after chatting for a while, Lin He said: "Big brother, what do you think of this family business, do you agree with the girl?" ”
Dabao thought about it, originally felt that he had a lot to say to his sister, but once he wanted to say it, he didn't know how to express it, but when he heard Lin He ask, he said: "Daddy is very satisfied, grandma also likes that girl very much, the girl is okay." ”
Lin He looked at Dabao and said helplessly: "Big brother, I'm not asking my father and grandmother, I'm asking you if you're dissatisfied with this family business." ”
"Be satisfied, just be satisfied at home, I don't think much about it."
Lin He stared at Dabao, he was really a little helpless, and said after a while: "Big brother, this is your own marriage, the first and most important thing is that you must be satisfied with yourself, as for everyone else, you must put your opinion first, if you are not ready for your own family affairs, why should you agree to get married, can you really not withstand the pressure of your father's mother, you can't look at your own family affairs so hastily." ”
Dabao listened to Lin He's words, was stunned, and asked puzzledly: "Isn't it all the order of parents to get married, just think it's good for your father and mother, don't everyone else marry like this?" ”
"Then everyone else is very happy to get married, why are you not happy at all, everyone else is fifteen years old and married according to the order of their parents, why do you wait until this time, you obviously don't want to live the same life as others. You don't show your own attitude, I want to know what you want. Lin He was really a little angry when he looked at Dabao like this.
Lin He rarely talked to Dabao like this, but he was stunned by what Dabao said. But after Dabao figured out Lin He's words, he was a little discouraged, in fact, he didn't know what he wanted, he promised his father and mother that he was willing to settle down, but it was also because he was a little disheartened after losing his last relationship, and he didn't want to be sad about this matter, so he thought he would simply leave it to his father and mother to deal with. But once this matter was decided, Dabao felt a little unwilling again.
Lin He looked at Dabao's appearance, and he couldn't bear to blame him like this again. But the attitude of this big brother really made her unable to suppress the anger in her heart, and Lin He felt that she had to let Dabao figure out what she wanted, Lin He stared at Dabao for a while, and neither of them made a sound. It's half a ring. Dabao said: "Then what can I do like this, my relatives have already decided, if you want to regret it, not to mention the family, even I can't open this mouth, after all, the girl has not done anything wrong." ”
"I'm not saying that I want you to quit your family, I want you to find out your own mind now, if you marry this girl just to relieve the pain in your heart. I don't think you should settle the family affairs so quickly, you can move the marriage later. When you understand it, if you think this girl is good, and you can happily accept this family business, then there is no problem. ”
Lin He looked at Dabao, and continued: "And now I didn't say that I want to withdraw from my relatives so seriously, let's look at the girl first, so far, what do you think of her?" ”
"That girl is nothing, she doesn't like to talk very much, I've only seen it twice, it's just that her family is a little annoying, didn't Chen'er tell you?"
"Chen'er mentioned it, but it's all children's words. Big brother, I understand your mood somewhat, I know you still haven't let go of the things in your heart for the time being, in this case, why didn't you do it according to what you thought in your heart, you want to be a filial child, but you are wronging yourself, when it comes to the emergency, you feel that you are too wronged, you start to waver again, if you can't deal with this problem, then how to deal with big things in the future, I haven't seen anyone yet, and I can't give you advice, you think about it yourself, let's go back together tomorrow. Lin He said this to Dabao and went back to his room.
Lin He also sat in the room for a while, thinking that there have been a lot of things in the family over the years, but she felt that she was young and knew a lot of things in her heart, but it was not her turn to take care of it, she was also watching silently on the side, and she was generally silent until she was forced to do so, and sometimes in order to accommodate her father, she had to let them go.
But Dabao this matter, Lin He has been worried for a long time, it should be said that it is almost from Dabao to the time to discuss marriage, Lin He has already begun to think about this matter, she has always hoped that Dabao can find a better daughter-in-law to come back, and then she can take care of her father and mother, and look at her younger siblings, but now Dabao himself can't figure out his own situation, which does make Lin He a little angry, Lin He knows that for Dabao, for the sake of his family's future life, he can't help them anymore this time, It's time to bite the bullet and help out with some of the things at home when the time is right.
In Lin He's house, as soon as Ziyu came in, she saw Lin He holding her head on the table and sighing softly, Ziyu put the basin in her hand aside and said, "Miss, I fetched water, you wash up first, when will you wait for Ming'er to go back, you can't figure it out alone." ”
Lin He nodded, what Ziyu said also made sense, this matter is not clear to me, go back and take a look, this has been out for so long, Lin He is really a little homesick.
Early the next morning, Lin He and Dabao took their younger siblings home, and when they returned home, Erniu and Huang were also very surprised, and said: "He'er, I thought you were going to come back in a few days, it's good to be back so soon, it's good that the family is too busy." ”
Lin He said with a smile: "Well, it looks like it's almost the New Year, and things over there are almost the same, so I'll bring Chen'er and them back early, isn't this just to help you." ”
Huang nodded with a smile and said, "Okay, our He'er is considerate, you haven't eaten since you came back so early, I'll ask Caiqing to make you some food." ”
Lin He nodded, Huang shouted Caiqing and left, leaving Erniu here, and simply asked if the construction of the factory over there was smooth, when it would be completed, etc., Lin He also agreed one by one, Erniu didn't ask more, and saw that Dabao also came back, but he was a little dissatisfied and blamed: "Dabao, what's the matter with you, you're going to get married, why don't you come back these days, why are you so careless about this matter?" ”
Dabao smiled and said, "My shop is also busy, isn't this the same thing with you." (To be continued......)