Chapter 22 Asking for Marriage
Due to the impact of her feelings, the worries in her heart suddenly increased, Su Shanyun has not slept well in the past few days, and often wakes up suddenly in the middle of the night, always feeling as if something bad will happen.
Zhang Ying said that this was because Su Shanyun's psychological pressure was too great.
"A girl of your age should be enjoying life carefree, how can she have so many things on her mind?" Zhang Ying patted the back of Su Shanyun's hand and asked.
Su Shanyun had no way to tell her about the unpleasant things she had experienced in the Bai family in her previous life, so it was not easy to explain why she was afraid and resistant when she saw the box of gifts, but she also knew that she couldn't escape, she could only see the moves, step by step, but what if Bai Yinghuai didn't know the difficulties and retreated, but became more and more frustrated?
That's what worries her most right now.
She is not good at dealing with people, especially the kind of person who is powerful and has means, so she lived so painfully in her previous life, and she was finally cornered.
Even if she is reborn, she doesn't want to live in the whirlpool of calculating and dealing with people all day long, she wants to be a person with a bigger pattern, like Zhang Ying.
So she asked Zhang Ying: "Stepmother, if you don't like someone very much, but that person keeps pestering you, what will you do?" ”
Zhang Ying thought about it very seriously and said: "It depends on what kind of person the other party is, but since the other party will always be entangled, then there is a person who is very confident in himself and refuses to admit defeat, so when dealing with this kind of person, you can't say no clearly, and you can't hit him with words, otherwise it may backfire, I think about it......" Zhang Ying rubbed her forehead.
Zhang Ying, who thought for a while, shook his head helplessly and said: "If you really meet such a person, you can only stay away from the beginning and don't give him room to succeed." ”
Su Shanyun nodded.
She felt that her stepmother was right, and she was secretly glad that she persevered, as long as she stood firm and didn't give him a chance, she believed that she would eventually be able to get rid of him.
In a few years, Bai Yinghuai should get married when she is old, and if she can meet the object she likes, she will also get married, and then this qiē problem will be solved, right?
However, in this life, can she really have the fate to meet the person who is happy with each other?
In her previous life, she searched for so long and didn't find it.
Will it be the same in this world?
She clenched the small handkerchief in her hand tightly and lowered her eyes.
However, a wave of unsettled waves has risen again and again, and only three days after the Spring Festival, someone asked a matchmaker to come to the door to propose marriage.
"It is Zhang Zonglin, the eldest son of Zhang Yunju in Zhangjiaxiang, who is 18 years old, the first in the township test last year, and a veritable teenager Xie Yuanlang! Now I'm going to take the exam again, and I guess the results are good, Zhang Zonglin's mother saw Miss Su when she came to participate in your family affair a few years ago, and she thought she liked it very much, so she wanted me to ask. ”
Su Ziming and Mrs. Xiao glanced at each other and only smiled silently.
"How suitable is this talented man and woman, if you settle down early, everyone should be relieved as soon as possible, who of us as parents doesn't think so?" The matchmaker wore a bright red silk flower on her head, and with a courteous smile on her face, she was trying her best to match.
That Zhang Yunju's family background is innocent, but he has never been an official above the fifth grade, and his living standard can only be regarded as average in the island city. For Su Ziming and Mrs. Xiao, such a family is too ordinary. They felt that with Su Shanyun's talent, they should at least find a home for officials above the fifth grade to not be aggrieved.
Moreover, the difference between Zhang Zonglin and Su Shanyun was six years old, and they were in conflict with each other, so they also had some scruples in their hearts, so they hurriedly and politely rejected this marriage proposal.
Su Shanyun was half frightened to death when she learned the news, and hurriedly ran to Dongli Curie and said to Su Ziming: "Daddy, don't give me my family affairs so quickly, I ...... I...... It's too young and I'm scared. As he spoke, he nervously wrung the handkerchief in his hand, so aggrieved that he was about to cry.
Su Ziming couldn't help but sigh secretly when he saw this situation.
It seems that the little girl is really scared.
Lately he'd seen her look of concern that she would be abandoned.
She must be very insecure, right?
Su Ziming put down the pen in his hand and walked to her, reached out and touched her head and said, "Shanyun, please rest assured, Daddy doesn't want you to marry too early, and even if you want to set a family business, I will ask for your consent first, and I will definitely not let you suffer the slightest grievance." ”
Su Shanyun nodded reassuringly and rested her head on Su Ziming's shoulder.
In her previous life, she had only been courted by people since she was fourteen years old, but in this life, she was twelve years old, which meant that she had to face those wild bees and butterflies in advance, and she had to prepare in advance to prevent the recurrence of the tragedy in her previous life.
She suddenly felt as if a mountain had been pressed in her heart.
A few days later, Mrs. Zhou from Yulin Lane also came to the door in person to propose marriage.
Mrs. Zhou and Mrs. Xiao have close contacts on weekdays, so they are clear about Su Shanyun's situation.
"I'm here to ask for my nephew, and you know my nephew, right? Named Cao Pinnan, sixteen years old, this year is going to take the township examination, his father is in Beijing as a bachelor in the Hanlin Academy, and the official is from the fourth grade. His elder brother Cao Pindong is now also working as a foreigner in the Ministry of Officials, and their family is a typical family of scholars, and the door style is also ......," Mrs. Zhou said in a sincere tone.
The Cao family is only three streets away from Sufu, so Mrs. Xiao also knows a little about their family's affairs. Mrs. Xiao had also seen Cao Pinnan and knew that he was a very fair and elegant young man.
It would be nice to be able to marry their family.
And the age difference between Cao Pinnan and Su Shanyun is not far apart.
Mrs. Xiao couldn't help but think in her heart.
But Mrs. Xiao also knows Su Shanyun's character, if it is not suitable, I am afraid she will not be willing to make a compromise. And the Su family has a tradition of 'seeing each other first and deciding later', so she decided to discuss it with Su Ziming and Su Shanyun before calculating.
"Then I'll leave it to you, if we can get married, it would be great." Mrs. Zhou patted the back of Mrs. Xiao's hand again and again and said.
"Don't worry, I'll have a good discussion with Uncle Ming." Mrs. Xiao sent her away with a smile.
After seeing off Mrs. Zhou, Mrs. Xiao called Su Ziming and Su Shanyun to her and told Mrs. Zhou what she meant.
"The style of the Cao family is really good, that Lord Cao is in the capital, he has seen the world, and his wife is also very kind, as for that Cao Pinnan, I have also met a few times, and I feel very good...... "Mrs. Xiao said in a calm tone.
She didn't want to force her son and granddaughter to agree, but deep down she wanted it to happen.
"Shanyun, what do you think? You can meet with him before making a decision. Su Ziming looked at Su Shanyun with a warm face and asked.
"Daddy, you promised me that I wouldn't get married too early." Su Shanyun lowered her head and said.
Su Ziming laughed: "It's not that I just ask you to marry, just look at each other first, and then make the next step if it feels suitable, if it's not suitable, forget it." ”
"Yes, Shanyun, it's okay to see you first, and we'll look at your decision after we meet, and we will definitely not force you. But you're still too young after all, and I'm afraid you don't know how to look at a person, so of course we'll help with advice. Mrs. Xiao said.
Su Shanyun sat there with his head down, in his heart, heaven and man at war.
Su Ziming and Mrs. Xiao were a little unbearable again.
But adults are adults after all, and they know what kind of family each other is, so they don't want to miss it casually.
"And aside from other people's reasons, don't you want to give yourself a chance? Maybe he's the Ruyi Lang of your life. Su Ziming stroked Su Shanyun's head and asked.
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