385 Willing to be bound

After Huo Sibei was stunned for a moment, he immediately blushed and shouted angrily: "Mom." ”

Huo's mother was relieved when she saw that her son did not avoid her gaze, even so, she reminded solemnly: "Mom has no other meaning, Yilan is still in the service now, you don't want her to be embarrassed." Also, my children can't grow up in a baby care center. ”

Men and women fall in love, there are those who are affectionate and polite, and there are those who can't be stopped, regardless of right or wrong, as long as they are serious with each other, worthy of true love, and no one will put their beaks.

Union law does not regulate how adult men and women after the age of twenty relate to each other. On the moral level, they are also tolerant and understanding of the normal physiological nature of adults. But if you accidentally have a small life, it will be a more troublesome thing.

First of all, the hospital will automatically report to the Ethics Bureau, and then the government will conduct a series of parenting evaluations on the young prospective parents, and if they do not meet the rating standards given by the government, the prospective parents will automatically lose custody rights, and the children will be raised by the government until they meet the grading standards.

Whether there is a real and stable marital relationship between the intended parents is a very important evaluation item, which occupies a considerable weight. Prospective parents who have a marriage contract but have not yet reached the age of marriage are not considered to have a completely real and stable marital relationship, and they have a serious loss of points. If you don't even have a marriage contract, you won't have any points on this item at all.

Expectant parents who have children before they reach the age of marriage, because of their young age, most of them have just started their careers, and the government believes that they may be missing in the allocation of time to care for their children, and evaluate it. Almost all points will be lost on this one.

In addition, the age of marriage has not yet arrived, and the expectant parents do not have enough work experience and financial ability to accumulate after graduating from school. If the stability and continuity of the career do not take up points, it is usually judged that the ability to support is not good.

In this case, even if the grandparents are willing to support the grandparents on their behalf, it is useless, and the family has to watch the child being taken away by the government-funded childcare center as soon as it is born.

Even if the childcare centre allows the parents to visit the parents an unlimited number of times a week, one parent is allowed to stay overnight. It is a great pity to allow parents to take their children back as soon as they meet the grading criteria, which is also a big pity to miss out on the initial time spent with the children and their children.

This is what Huo's mother is worried about. She thought hard about Huo Sibei's physiology education results, she should have passed before going to college, right? Huo's mother has never had to worry about her son's study, and she doesn't know if her son has learned all the basic courses of the Star Network, and she really wants him to revisit it again. Especially the part of pre-planning for new life.

Hosbei was stared at intently by his mother. Very embarrassed, secretly regretting that I shouldn't have left Ilan's flower quilt on the bed. At that time, he gave up the master bedroom and moved to Elan's room by himself, and in a hurry, he didn't bother to put it away, and only pushed half of the space on the bed for himself to sleep. Later, I got used to it, so I didn't bother to put it away, thinking that I would still use it when Ilan came over anyway.

He guessed that it might be this quilt that made his mother think crooked after seeing it, so he had to bite the bullet and say, "Mom." I know. ”

Huo's mother thought that her son's promise was too hasty, and she looked like she was casually perfunctory without brains. The child's affairs must not be neglected, she stared at her son persistently.

It is rare for Hosnorth to be embarrassed like this. Helplessly, he looked at his mother and said again: "I know." After speaking, he hurriedly changed the topic, "Mom, what else do you want to say?" ”

Huo's mother got her son's two guarantees, and her heart went to worry about the future, her thoughts returned to Huo Sibei's marriage contract, and said with a pleasant face: "Xiaobei, mom knows that you like Yilan, that child is indeed very good-looking, good-looking, gentle and self-reliant, and mom likes it too." What I mean is that you don't have to sign the marriage certificate, and in a few years, you can start a family when you are about the same age. Later, if you have a holiday, you can take her home and let your dad see you too. ”

Huo Sibei immediately understood what his mother meant, and immediately said: "Mom, Dad is very busy with work, Ilan and I only have one vacation a year, and we may not be able to get together to go back to Tuduo, you go back and talk to Dad first, and when Ilan comes over, I will find a chance to add Elan to my father's video, and let Dad and Ilan talk a few words." If you like Elan, Dad will love it too. I want to sign a marriage letter with her first, and if I start a family, I will talk about it when I have the ability to support my family. ”

Huo's mother said bluntly: "Mom thinks there are still a few years in between, so you don't have to be in such a hurry." Get to know each other a little more. ”

"Mom, Ilan and I have known each other for a long time and know each other very well, I will only be with Elan in the past few years, and I will be in the future, so there is no point in waiting for a few more years." Hosbei hurriedly explained.

"What about Ilan? You always have to give her a choice. ”

"Ilan willing." Hosbei said without thinking.

Huo's mother has a headache with her son's temper, life changes are not what you want, now everyone swears, in case who thinks it is inappropriate in the future? She said again: "Xiaobei, my mother not only thinks that you are in a hurry to sign the marriage letter, but also thinks that it is unnecessary. The relationship is good, and when he reaches the age smoothly, he can get married without a marriage certificate. If the relationship is not good, you can't make it with a marriage certificate, so it's better not to have a marriage letter, you go with the flow. ”

Huo Sibei was silent for a moment, and said something that impressed Huo's mother: "Mom, emotional matters can't go with the flow, sometimes you have to fight for it." ”

Huo's mother was surprised and then laughed, her son actually talked about his feelings in front of his mother, and after being funny, he couldn't help frowning: "You mean that you are afraid that you won't be able to win it, so you use the marriage book to cover Yilan?" ”

Huo Sibei avoided his gaze, his expression slightly embarrassed. His intentions were clear, and he wanted to make a solemn promise to Elan that he would be her family after all. But with the marriage certificate, when Yilan was down-to-earth, he himself was indeed down-to-earth.

He wants to make Elan no longer just lovers and friends, but also an unmarried couple.

Subconsciously, he was really afraid of another change, after all, he and Ilan had a lot of hardships before, plus they were still separated by one side, he couldn't be by Ilan's side all the time, and it was easy to miscommunicate, especially he was three years younger than Ilan, and when Ilan's marriage age came first, in case the two of them had some misunderstandings and twists and turns, he would not regret going at that time.

Huo's mother looked at her son's uncomfortable expression, and thought angrily that her son was so unconfident.

"Do you really think so?" Huo's mother asked in a deep voice.

Huo Sibei raised his eyes to look at his mother, reflected carefully, and said seriously for a while: "No, if Yilan doesn't like me, I won't force her to sign a marriage letter." ”

Huo's mother breathed a sigh of relief and said earnestly: "That's what Mom meant, emotional matters can't be forced, you still have a few years, get along well, and when the time comes, you are willing to start a family and start a family." ”

"Mom, Ilan and I didn't force each other, we were willing to do it with each other, the marriage contract is a formal commitment, I want to promise Ilan, I think this is the greatest respect for feelings." Hoth North made a loud noise.

"Xiaobei, commitment means responsibility and obligation, it's not as simple as liking, are you sure you want to take on this responsibility and obligation? And voluntarily bound by it? ”

Without hesitation, Hosbei said, "I'm sure. ”

Huo's mother sighed slightly: "Xiaobei, you and Yilan are both young, and they have time to think about it carefully." Marriage is a big deal, you can't be sloppy, and you can't be impulsive. ”

"Mom, I've thought about it carefully, not on the spur of the moment." Huo Sibei's eyes were firm, "I understand what you said, I will be with Yilan sooner or later, and this will not change." ”

Huo Sibei eased his tone and said with a smile: "So, the marriage signing letter is just taking time to go through the process, I want to take advantage of the fact that I am not busy now, and set the matter between me and Yilan." ”

Huo's mother finally had to say: "If you insist, my mother will not object, although I don't approve of such a rush." ”

"Thank you, Mom."

Huo Sibei let out a long breath, his mother did not object, and his father did not object. He now has to give Ilan a formal promise and legal assurance, as for the marriage, it will be a few years later, how can he let Ilan and him rush to salute? (To be continued......)