Section 405 Parenting of children
Section 405 Parenting of children
When Song Paner was angry, she said that Gu Xuanzhi was not, and Gu Xuanzhi rarely fought back.
It's rare that his stuffy gourd has a little noise, and he said, "There is a reason for it", and Song Paner listened to it.
Gu Xuanzhi's eyes touched his mother's eyes, but his heart also flashed. He relied on half a bowl of wine in his stomach, and the courage he had to hold up, and the courage he had finally mustered up, all came to naught.
His eyes flickered, and he said: "Concubine Li Huaina, please eat and drink, everyone goes, I don't go, it's not good"
After saying that, he felt that this reason was not appropriate.
Xuanping Hou Li family, there are many heirs, Li Huai is the fourth son, Li Hou never has high hopes for him, as long as he doesn't cause trouble. Li Huai and Gu Xuanzhi are generally old, and they have been married for two years.
At the end of last year, Li Huaina was very happy with a beautiful concubine, and said that he would invite everyone to a banquet. But Li Huai's cousin got married, and it was so troublesome until the end of the year, and his banquet was put on hold.
After the New Year, on the fourth day of the first lunar month, the court opened, and the Li family also let the children out to play, and Li Huai invited everyone to a banquet.
Gu Xuanzhi received an invitation in the morning.
He originally planned to ask the little guy to seal the gift and send it, but he didn't go himself.
But he was careless for a while, and forgot to say a word in front of the seventh sister, which embarrassed him. He knew that the seventh sister would definitely ask him, and if he sued his mother, his mother was afraid that she would scold him in front of her brother-in-law.
He didn't want to be scolded in front of outsiders, so he simply hid.
Now that he is back, his mother says that he doesn't know the rules. didn't bring out the words he wanted, which shows that the seventh sister did not sue her mother, Gu Xuanzhi breathed a sigh of relief.
As she spoke, her mother's words turned to the starling Gu Xiuzhi.
Mother can't get used to Gu Xiuzhi, but he is still Gu Xuanzhi's brother.
Their brothers have feelings.
Gu Xuanzhi didn't want his mother to always say that Gu Xiuzhi was not good, so he wanted to talk to him about it. If it drags on any longer, it won't last a few days. Even if the seventh sister doesn't say it, after February, her mother really wants to seriously discuss with the Zou family. It's too late.
Then. You can't hide.
Sooner or later, I have to say it.
He wanted to say it ruthlessly, no matter what storm his mother had.
But when it came to the end, he flinched again.
He took Li Huai out and made it a target.
However, this target was not well chosen.
Because of Li Huaina's concubine's banquet. He left his sister and brother-in-law behind. I'm afraid that my mother will be even more angry. Gu Xuanzhi regretted it. I want to make amends, but I'm afraid of saying too much and making mistakes.
He looked at his mother worriedly.
The mother did not get angry anymore, but looked at him suspiciously. Gu Xuanzhi was afraid of being exposed. Busy and turned his eyes away.
He felt a little strange in his heart, why didn't he see his mother angry? Such a calm mother made Gu Xuanzhi even more timid.
He anxiously waited for his mother's next step.
In the middle of the night, he heard his mother's voice say in a low voice, "It's so late, let's go and rest first." I'll settle accounts with you tomorrow morning. Even if Li Huai invites you, you should come in yourself and talk to us and your brother-in-law. โ
Gu Xuanzhi was overjoyed in his heart, so he let him go? He said yes.
But he didn't dare to get carried away and show something strange, so he still didn't move his feet.
"Go ahead." Mother said.
Gu Xuanzhi hurriedly left the main courtyard.
As soon as he left, Song Paner and his wife glanced at each other, and the two of them had their own thoughts.
After such a conversation, the time has come unconsciously.
Song Paner took a look and lay down with her husband to rest.
She couldn't sleep. She thought about Brother Xuan's words carefully, how did they sound a little decadent wolf bรจi.
Is he envious of Li Huaina's concubine?
Is he embarrassed and embarrassed by his current situation?
Over the years, Song Paner has been in charge of it tightly, and the maids around the children have to be honest and beneficial. Who dares to flatter the young masters, they will be sold if they show a little rumor.
At home, they have not been touched by women.
Outside, there must have been.
Like Brother Xiu, who studied at Songshan Academy, he met a lot of friends, and Brother Xuan got close to Li Huai. Li Huai is clever and cautious, and he must have done it by stealing forbidden fruits from the world.
Song Paner didn't want to pursue it.
Secretly, she is too much to investigate, and the children have no face outside. As long as the family atmosphere is positive and the children take reading as their main business, Song Paner will be satisfied.
Brother Xuan has the same personality as Gu Yanzhen, and he is reluctant to work hard in reading, and he is not as lucky and good as Song Yanzhao, so his grades are mediocre.
His mind is not on studying, so he will definitely pay attention to the affairs of men and women.
If Gu Yanzhen hadn't bothered, Song Paner would have married him a daughter-in-law last year. Now that it has dragged on until now, it has not been decided, does Brother Xuan have any complaints?
Will he be greedy when he looks at his friend's wife and concubine?
Do his friends often make fun of him?
Li Huaina's concubine, if he doesn't go, will his friends laugh at him even more? That's why he knew that his mother would be angry, and he wanted to run to participate?
For these reasons, he must not be able to open his mouth.
The more Song Paner thought about it, the more she felt that what she was worried about was good.
"You say, what do you mean by Brother Xuan?" Song Paner pushed Gu Yanzhen, who was pretending to be asleep next to him, and asked him as if he was verifying, "He doesn't even have a room, do people outside always laugh at him?" โ
Gu Yanzhen pretended to be asleep, just because he was afraid that Song Paner would find fault again.
Seeing that she was talking seriously, Gu Yanzhen couldn't help but answer, and said, "I haven't married a wife yet, what's the joke?" What are the rules of people like us, and his friends don't know. โ
"What about Brother Xuan, what does he think?" Song Paner asked again.
Gu Yanzhen was silent.
At the age of Brother Xuan, it is the age when he is curious about girls.
If you say you don't want to, it must be fake.
If you think about it, will Song Paner take the opportunity to find fault with him and Brother Xiu? Gu Yanzhen hesitated in his heart.
"I'm not a roundworm in Brother Xuan'er's stomach, where do I know his thoughts?" Gu Yanzhen was perfunctory, "And it doesn't matter if he complains or not." After the New Year, he settled the matter with the Zou family, and married his daughter-in-law at the end of the year. I'll ask my uncle to get him an errand in the future."
"Brother Xuan and I haven't been very close recently, but I have been complaining about me in my heart and didn't marry him earlier?" Song Paner didn't hear Gu Yanzhen's words, and only cared about immersing herself in her feelings.
Gu Yanzhen was stunned for a long time.
Didn't you kiss recently?
When did your son become close to you? Gu Yanzhen slandered.
The others didn't dare to say that everyone in the family was afraid of Song Paner, and this has never changed.
Once upon a time, it was Gu Yanzhen. Since Brother Xuan won the promotion last year, Song Paner has not clearly complained that Brother Xuan is not angry, but this is what he means in and out of his words, and now Gu Xuanzhi is also afraid.
She quarreled with Gu Yanzhen from time to time. It's all for this thing.
Brother Xuan is not stupid. Why can't he hear it?
After listening to his mother's words, Brother Xuan was broad-minded, but he was afraid that he would also have a grudge.
It's not that I don't want to be close, but I don't dare.
Gu Yanzhen thinks. Song Paner didn't know the crux of the problem. And Gu Yanzhen didn't want to remind her. lest he annoy her again. He stopped answering and continued to pretend to be asleep, and after a while he was really asleep.
The next day, the first quarter of the morning. Gu Jinzhi came over to say goodbye, and went to Song Pan'er for dinner by the way.
She came over with Yanshan.
"The prince is out, Yan Ying and Yan Shao won't wake up until the end of the hour," Gu Jinzhi explained with a smile.
Song Pan'er smiled and nodded.
She called Yan Shan to her side, put his little hand in the palm of her hand, and asked him, "Is it cold?" โ
Yan Shan replied in a low voice: "It's not cold, grandmother." โ
His voice was soft and nice.
Yanshan looks like Gu Jinzhi, and the more Song Paner looks at it, the more she loves it.
Gu Jinzhi's four younger brothers also came.
There was silence at the dinner table.
After breakfast, Gu Xiuzhi wanted to go out to study books, but Gu Xuanzhi also avoided his mother, and the two left in a hurry.
Song Pan'er instructed Xiao Shi and Xiao Shi: "You take Yanshan and look around in our yard" Yan Ying looked at it yesterday.
Xiao Shi and Xiao Shi Dao is, get up and take Yanshan out.
Yan Shan hid beside Gu Jinzhi.
Gu Jinzhi hugged him in his arms and said with a smile: "What are you afraid of?" Uncle takes you to play. Mother is here. If it's not fun, you can come back to your mother, okay? โ
Yan Shan pursed his lips slightly, still shrinking into Gu Jinzhi's arms.
Gu Yanzhen said with a smile: "In my grandfather's study, there is also a cantaloupe, do you want to eat it?" โ
In Luzhou, it is difficult to get something like cantaloupe.
This time of year is also rare in Kyoto.
During the Chinese New Year, the eldest aunt sent a basket.
Yesterday before lunch, Yan Shan liked it very much, and asked what it was.
He glanced at Gu Yanzhen.
Gu Jinzhi repeatedly said: "You go with your grandfather, okay?" Yan Shan was obedient. Mother likes obedient children. โ
Yan Shan was reluctant and followed Gu Yanzhen.
As soon as Yanshan and Gu Yanzhen left, Song Paner sent Xiao Shi and Xiao Shi out.
She took the opportunity to say to Gu Jin: "Yan Shan is too timid. Brother Xuan was also timid when he was a child, but he was a few points better than Yanshan. Don't spoil him too much, otherwise he will rely on you and become more and more timid. โ
Then, she couldn't help but say, "You take care of everything, like a nurse."
Gu Jinzhi was amused by this sentence.
She was even a little happy.
She thinks that a qualified mother should be like a nurse. Of course, it is out of place in this era. Mother's words also affirmed Gu Jinzhi's efforts.
"I'm in Luzhou, I don't have any relatives and friends, except for the prince, the children are the closest to me. Naturally, I'm more in charge. Gu Jinzhi explained.
Song Paner's heart was sour again.
Gu Jinzhi saw that her topic was getting farther and farther away, so she hurriedly pulled back and asked her, "Mother, what do you have to tell me?" โ
"Yesterday, Brother Xuan told you something?" Song Pan'er asked Gu Jinzhi.
Gu Jinzhi felt that there were some things that he should not sue his mother before he figured it out. Mother has now learned some restraint, in the end, it is a hot temper, and it will be self-defeating.
Therefore, Gu Jinzhi lied and said, "I didn't say anything." What's the matter, did Brother Xuan come back last night and say something? โ
"He didn't tell me anything." Song Paner was angry, "The older the child, the more unbearable it is." He came back and wasn't very happy. Your father and I guessed that several of his friends were married, and he looked at it with hot eyes. I thought, in February of this year, to settle his family affairs"
(To be continued......)