Chapter 151: The Wei Family's Dispute
The big changes in the room won the praise of the visitors. Even Lin Mier had to admit that her daughter was indeed ingenious, and Grandma Huang and Old Man Wei praised their granddaughter's masterpiece to everyone who came to congratulate them, and also brought a group of their old friends to show off, making light smile and light feather shame. But the two old men also said vigorously: "Why don't you show off, what a good opportunity this is, usually watch them (they) brag about their grandchildren, and I am not allowed to fight back?" ”
Yes, this is a person who is on the bar with an old friend, no matter what he says, he can't listen to it now, and he didn't persuade him to persuade him, anyway, the people who should know almost all know it, and he didn't want to hide it when he bought a new house. The county seat is so big, and when you go out and meet someone you don't know, maybe it's still a distant relative of you.
The two sisters who want to understand the next few days are quite calm in the face of people.
The pace of the year is getting closer and closer.
This year, Lin Mier and Grandma Huang have long discussed that they want to have a lively reunion together. Over the years, either Grandma Huang's family went to her son's place, or Wei Yi and Uncle Wei were always absent. For the eldest son, eldest daughter-in-law and second son's family, there is no way to come back for the New Year, and the two old people have been used to it for many years.
Now the house of the Xiaoxiao family is bought next door, and the two old people don't have an idea yet. The two families are both relatives and neighbors, and the two old people will not go anywhere for the Chinese New Year this year, staying in their hometown to have a meaningful New Year.
As for who to put the table, the two families have different opinions. Grandma Huang felt that she wanted to be in her own home, and her statement was that Xiaoxiao's family had just moved in, and the things that had just moved in must not be as complete as those of us old residents, and if we went to buy it because we wanted to go together for the New Year, there was no need for that, and it would be a waste to say it.
Lin Mier thought that Grandma Huang's intentions were good. But don't you need to prepare things at home if you don't get the New Year? These necessities of life are to be bought now or later, so why not buy them now? I bought it just so that everyone celebrated the New Year together. Besides, the new house has more people gathering popularity, which is a double win.
Anyway, the two of them are public and reasonable, and the mother says that the mother is reasonable, insisting on each other, and no one will let them. Until the twenty-eighth day, there was no clear answer. In the end, Uncle Wei couldn't stand it and said: "It's not the New Year in whose house, this year it's Mi'er's family to buy a new house, then go to her house, just like she said to gather popularity." Switch to our house next year. Just as good. ”
And so it was settled. Lin Mi'er was happy to prepare New Year's goods, and Grandma Huang glared at Uncle Wei: "White-eyed wolf." ”
"Mom, how can you talk about your son like that. Besides, if it weren't for me to interrupt this time. You two will earn until the Chinese New Year's Eve is still like that. I have to thank you for that. Wei Jili said indifferently.
"I don't know what the hell about your little thoughts? Don't hide it, your mind is only a son in our family, not your mother said you, you are about to turn thirty-five. There's no definite number yet, so I'll have to watch with your dad. I'm so anxious that I can't help, and I feel uncomfortable! "Grandma Huang said that the marriage of the youngest son was a bitter stomach. This has to be good-looking, talented, or a golden single man, what's the matter is that the marriage is not smooth.
"Your mother has said this today. Let's open the skylight and say something. What do you think in your heart? Tell us two old men and women about your thoughts, so that we don't have to be anxious. Old Man Wei also participated in Grandma Huang's marriage when he talked about Wei Jili, and felt that he should give this old bachelor who was still enjoying being single a little warning. Otherwise, I always think that my family is generous and don't take it seriously. As soon as he said it, he slipped away under the pretext that he was busy with business.
"Dad, you're just like my mom." Wei Jili can also find all kinds of excuses to fool his mother. But it's really not good for my father, it seems that there is no way to get out today.
"Don't be perfunctory to us, I can also know a little bit about your thoughts, it's not that we think honey is bad. Really, the parent doesn't want his child to be better. Although Mi'er is good, she is a divorced woman after all, and she has two children, you ......" Grandma Huang can't go on, the children in the family have taught them to be assertive in doing things, not to give up, and to persevere to the end. Now that I want to carry out this determination to the end, the three children have their own lives, and they also play well in their own territory, especially the youngest son Wei Jili, who is a hundred times better than his two elder brothers, but now in the face of such a situation, Huang Shuqin really doesn't know whether to praise her education success or failure.
After many years of husband and wife, who have gone through ups and downs, of course Mr. Wei knows what Grandma Huang is thinking. He covered Grandma Huang's hand with his big hand, patted it gently, and said: "Our family has always been very democratic and open, and we will not do some persecutive things, but the premise is that you must understand the right and wrong of things and grasp the proportions of things." Lin Mi'er has never been divorced, this will be a little pimple for us old people, but if you like it yourself, your mother and I will not do anything to beat the mandarin ducks, even if her two children don't matter, isn't it just two more mouths to eat? It's not that our family can't afford to raise them, and these two children are not like that, sooner or later they will leap into the dragon gate. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been optimistic about her early, and I would have kissed her. ”
After hesitating for a while, Old Man Wei still felt that he had to say it clearly, so that he would have a decision for himself and his son, and the father and son would not be left with a pimple in their hearts because of this matter.
"Xili, you are the youngest and fastest-growing of your three brothers, so it can be said that you are also a rare elite in the family. But you also know that husband and wife are mutual, and you take a wife not only to take care of you in life, but also to help you in your career. Otherwise......"
Before Old Man Wei finished speaking, he was interrupted by Wei Jili, "I don't need a woman who dictates me in my career, it's not about marrying a wife but looking for a partner." Besides, if you want to find a partner, you can't find someone who is stronger than me, and the appearance of two leaders in a group is not the honor of this group, it is the beginning of facing a separation. Dad, you're also from here, do you think what I said makes sense? ”
"That's right." As soon as the words came out, Old Man Wei felt that something was wrong. The tiger glared, and roared at Wei Ji: "Dead boy, you actually used the method of transfer to your father, it seems that your wings are stiff today." I'm your son, I don't care if you have hard wings or soft wings, if you don't make it clear, don't think about walking out the door. And don't think about cheating, you have to know that if I leak my disagreement with your mother to Mi'er, you should know what the result will be? ”
As soon as I heard such a threat. Wei Jili was also helpless. He knows Lin Mier's character, if it is really like what the old man said, it is really a waste of all his efforts, and there is nothing. I had to lower my posture. Persuasion with good words.
"Flutter."
The tense atmosphere was dispersed by a burst of laughter, and everyone collectively turned their heads to look, only to see Wei Yi Shi Ran coming down from upstairs, thinking that he couldn't help but laugh when he heard the conversation.
I see everyone looking at themselves. Wei Yi still said relaxedly: "You go on, I'm just passing by." It's gone right away. ”
"You leather monkey, do you talk to your grandparents and uncle like this?" Grandma Huang also reprimanded Wei Yi with a smile.
"Grandma, what you said is not right, if I stay and continue to listen to the conversation between you and Uncle like this, Uncle will be even more embarrassed. I'm not free in him. I'm a junior, after all. Wei Yi went to the kitchen and poured himself a glass of boiling water, walked out and stood at the top of the stairs and said, "It's better for me to disappear consciously, so that I don't have to offend people." ”
"Disappear what? It's a big deal at home. It's also a big deal for your uncle, so you can sit down and listen to it. Help with the analysis. Old Man Wei said to Wei Yi, who wanted to flow: "Don't go, sit down." ”
Wei Yi found a place nearby and sat down, and said to Wei Ji: "Uncle, it's not that I want to hear it, it's the old man who won't let me go." Don't blame me if there is something wrong with speaking, I was also forced to be helpless, and I couldn't help it. ”
Listening to Wei Yi's words, Wei Jili couldn't wait to beat him up, this little guy is now clearly going to watch himself make a fool of himself, and he will fan the flames. But now, as he said, there are two old Taishan, and there is really no way to clean up, so I can only sit down.
"Don't look at your nephew, it's my decision. Now there are only a few of us in the family, and before your eldest brother and second brother have a full understanding and clarity about this matter, I want to end the matter in my small area. Whether you want to be with Mi'er or separated, you always have to give us an explanation, what is this procrastination? Besides, your mother is right, you are almost thirty-five years old during the Chinese New Year, you are no longer a child, you really have to think about lifelong events, we are also old, and we always hope to see your marriage before we close our eyes. Speaking of his old age, Mr. Wei was also sad for a while, the years are unforgiving, there are grandchildren, and he and the old woman are really dying.
"Dad, what did you say?" Wei Jili was also embarrassed by the old man's sadness, the passage of youth is not something that can be disobeyed by man, "I know what I am doing, I promise to give you an answer." ”
"It's not that my mother dislikes Mi'er. I also like this child, but you also know that this daughter and daughter-in-law are different. It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and there is some truth in some of the words that have been handed down. As a daughter, I like a gentle girl like Mi'er, and I don't like her too weak personality as a daughter-in-law. This is her advantage and her disadvantage, but marriage is a day for two people, and how to live this day depends on the two of you, and others can't give you a decision, so you can only give advice on the side. Grandma Huang sighed, leveled her mentality and said: "The final choice lies with you, and we two old people will adjust even if they are psychologically uncomfortable." At this age, there is nothing you can't see, as long as you ask your own heart. ”
"You have to think clearly, once you go public, there is no going back. Divorce is also not allowed in our family. The old man added after Grandma Huang finished speaking. In fact, he and his wife still like Lin Mier very much, gentle and considerate, and now they are gradually changing some of their shortcomings, of course, it would be better if divorce was ruled out. But when I thought that if I hadn't been divorced, then Xiaoxiao and Xiao Yu wouldn't have existed. The old man is entangled.
For such a frank conversation between the two old men, Wei Jili was not unmoved, but he was a man, not a girl, and tears should not flow on the surface of his body. Wei Jili silently endured this qiē in his heart, and said to his parents very sincerely: "Thank you, Mom and Dad, in fact, I know that you are for my good, and I will always remember what you said today, and I will always remind myself that there is still something insufficient." Regarding me and Mi'er, I want to think clearly and understand, this is what I want, and it is also my own choice, I will cherish it, you just wait to see my happy life. (To be continued)
ps: Shallow and confused, and now I found out that yesterday's chapter was not marked as the first chapter, and I forgot to call everyone at the end of the month to use up the tickets in their hands. >