Ming Mei didn't believe that Jian Ying was so kind, and it would help her keep her status as a concubine for a long time.

But the words "for a long time" are really tempting~ people, and they are free...... No, it is the one who has already spent the money, and he does not listen to it in vain.

If it makes sense, she writes it down, and if it doesn't, she just blows it in her ears. She believes she still has this kind of judgment.

Since the money has already been spent, there is no need to kneel and talk in such a low voice, and the tea and snacks should also be used, and a little bit can be recovered.

She brought it up generously, and Jian Ying was not stingy, so she asked someone to show her a seat and serve refreshments.

Ming Mei drank a cup of hot tea and ate two pieces of dim sum, and the person was also more energetic, "Please tell the second young lady about your golden and jade good words, the slave and maid will listen to you." ”

Jian Ying sighed secretly, and said in her heart that sure enough, people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, with the first year of junior high school, I want to be fifteen, and with fifteen, I still want to be thirty, and my appetite is getting bigger and bigger, and I will only fall deeper and deeper.

If the left and right are not the people in her room, let Meng Xinniang and Mingmei go dog-eat-dog, and she can occasionally touch the fish in troubled waters.

Thinking about it, he opened his mouth slowly, "Xiaomei, have you ever heard that the heavens will descend on the Si people, and they must first work hard and work their muscles and bones?" ”

"These are the words of the Four Books, Mencius." Ming Mei has read a lot of books, and there is no pressure to answer.

"Then have you ever heard that only when you suffer hardship can you become a master?"

"This is a long-standing proverb, and slaves have heard of it." Ming Mei said that he has a wide range of knowledge, and he can come to both elegant and vulgar.

"Do you know that? First cheap and then expensive, poor first and then hairy, first courtesy and then soldiers? ”

The meaning of a single word is understood, but when it is connected into a string, it is a little incomprehensible, "The slave maid doesn't understand the meaning of the second young lady." ”

"What this second young lady means is that your patience is too scummy." Jian Ying said the conclusion, seeing that she was puzzled, she patiently explained to her, "Take the events of last night and this morning. You're doing something very inappropriate.

Do you think you're a sign of your appearance? The waist is thin and soft, and he is literate and hyphenated, can speak well, and has some means in bed. So full of confidence. thought that as long as the prince was tethered. Can you fly on the branches and make a phoenix? ”

Ming Mei blushed because of the sentence on the bed, and then became angry when she heard her seem to despise her own thoughts, "I have followed the prince." You have to rely on the prince to live, is there anything wrong with tying up the prince?

Could it be that the second young lady doesn't want to tie up the second young master? ”

"Presumptuous, who are you comparing yourself to whom?" Xueqin immediately scolded.

Jian Ying raised her hand to stop her, and answered Ming Mei's question very kindly, "I don't like to go to the mountain, I will only let the mountain come to me."

Men are white-eyed wolves, you tie him down and hold him in your hands, he always wants to run out. One day, you let go of your hand and told him to run out, and when you found another place to eat, he immediately forgot about you.

Relying on a rope can only tie his body, not his heart, and your beauty and young body are the rope.

When you are old, this rope will naturally break. ”

Mingmei's heart shook, and she unconsciously became convinced, "According to the second young lady's opinion, how can we tie his body and his heart?" ”

"Convince people with virtue." Jian Ying said these four words, and seeing her disapproving look, she was not in a hurry to persuade her, but only said, "For example, if a man marries two women, it will be considered an equal wife."

A mediocre appearance, but knowledgeable and courteous, dignified and virtuous; A stunning city, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting are omnipotent.

Put these two together, which one do you say men prefer? Of course I prefer the latter one.

The former woman silently gave birth to children, took care of the house, never was jealous, and competed for favor.

The latter woman relied on the man's favor and arrogance, did whatever she wanted, threw it to the previous woman when she gave birth, and threw herself into the man. also suppressed the former woman from time to time and said bad things about others.

Men love her color, love her talent and charm, and always let it go.

Finally, one day, the man discovers that both women are old. The former one is still dignified and virtuous, and the latter one has no good color and good figure, and only the bad problems that have accumulated over the years remain.

Then he found that the previous wife had raised a group of excellent children for him, and kept the house in good order, and everyone outside praised him for marrying a good wife. Every child is grateful for her upbringing and has great respect for her.

The latter wife has nothing to make him feel grateful except for the memories of those warm spring ~ nights. And he has long passed the age of wind and snow, needs a comfortable and peaceful life, and longs to enjoy the joy of his children and grandchildren around his knees.

Think about it, when that time comes, which one does he prefer?

Think about it again, if the latter woman had both the appearance of the city and the virtue and character of the previous woman, what would happen at that time? ”

Although Ming Mei did not regard the former woman as Meng Xinniang, she unconsciously regarded the latter woman as herself, and felt deeply inspired, and was convinced of Jian Ying again, "You said that I did something inappropriate, so what is wrong with me?" ”

"First of all, you're sharp.

As soon as you slept with the prince, you couldn't wait to treat your sister-in-law as an opponent and put on a posture that I want to compete with you.

No matter what your sister-in-law reacts, you should be docile and virtuous, go to her bed to serve tea and medicine, let you beat and scold, show weakness to her, and lower her precautions.

So you can take them by surprise and be unprepared, right?

Second, you're short-sighted.

I just want to serve people in Israel and catch the prince, and I have no long-term plan. If you think about it carefully, have you left the impression that the prince is restless and uneasy?

At first, you have to climb into his bed by any means, and it is inevitable that you will be restless and uneasy. After this, you should try to make amends and show him your strengths other than beauty and figure, so that you can capture his heart.

Again, you're putting the cart before the horse.

No matter how much the prince doesn't want to see his sister-in-law. The sisters-in-law are all Ming media who are marrying the main lady of the family. If you want to be the concubine of the prince, you must live under her, unless you go to the unsightly outer chamber.

More importantly, if you want to sit in the position of a noble concubine, you also need her to help you ask for a seal.

You slept with her man, made it clear that you wanted to deal with her, and ran to the side of the concubine who was not on the right side with her, trying to ask the concubine to go out of the mountain to deal with her with you, if it was you, would you obediently help her with the fold?

It was she who was forced to lift you up under pressure from all sides. Can you be with the prince twelve hours a day? Don't you eat, sleep, go out to swim in a lake, let off steam?

As long as she has the heart. Isn't it as easy as pinching an ant to death if you have a concubine with no background?

Your kneeling outside the Jingor Courtyard and forcing your mother to come forward not only offended your sister-in-law, but also your mother-in-law.

Do you think that if there is a conflict between the mother and the sister-in-law, she will definitely stand on your side? Even if there is a contradiction between the two of them. Will you put everything on the bright side?

You don't want to think about it either. How can a serious mother-in-law meddle in the affairs of her daughter-in-law's room? You don't have a name yet. was charged with sowing discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law first.

You're not looking for a backer, you're making enemies for yourself.

Fortunately, the mother is generous and doesn't want to worry about you. And I pity you for your suffering, so that I should come forward and deal with this matter.

If it had been someone else, he would have rewarded you with a board and sold you far away, so as not to leave you as a bane and disturb the rest of the house.

How much affection can you have when the prince of the world slept with you all night? If you weren't angry with your sister-in-law, he would have offered to raise you as a concubine? If he sells you, he is afraid that he will not even blink an eye. ”

Mingmei's face changed color again and again, "That...... So what do I do now? ”

"Didn't I say that?" Jian Yingxin said that after laying so much groundwork, she was finally able to lead to the topic, "Patience, and at the same time convince people with virtue."

You have to show weakness to your sister-in-law, make her feel that you are not a threat to her, and make her feel that you have value in use, and it is more beneficial to keep you than to kill you.

When she neglects to guard against you, you will have the opportunity to get closer to the prince and show him your affection, your cartilage and waist, and your ...... Capability.

The key is to let him know that you not only have a good skin, but also a good character. You should always praise your sister-in-law, persuade him to go to his sister-in-law's place to sleep, let him care more about his two children, and remind him that everything is prosperous......

The Chinese text is broad and profound, and the words of praise may not be true praise.

If you say it well, you can not only highlight your noble character, but also belittle your opponent without a trace.

You're a smart person, don't you need me to teach you everything, right? ”

Ming Mei hurriedly wrote down these words secretly, and frowned again, "But the princess is now like my enemy, I'm just afraid that I won't even be able to see her face, how can I have the opportunity to show weakness to her?" ”

"That's why you have to spend the fifteen hundred taels of silver." Jian Ying slapped her chest twice.

Mingmei seemed to have just remembered this stubble, and faintly felt that something was wrong, and couldn't think of it for a while, the thought flashed in her mind, and she only thought about going to see Meng Xinniang, "Does the second young lady have a way to let the princess accept me?" ”

"Without diamonds, I will do this porcelain work?" Jian Ying said confidently, "Okay, don't talk about it."

Jin Ping, Yin Ping, you two take Xiao Mei down, help her dress up again, be more poignant, lighter, bitter and deeper, don't wipe the rouge gouache.

In short, try to dress up ugly. ”

The golden screen and the silver screen agreed in unison and led Mingmei away.

Xueqin couldn't help but pout, "It's good that kind of person is beaten out, why should the second young lady waste her spirit and teach her with painstaking words~?" ”

Jian Ying glanced at her, "Do you think I'm training ~ her?" ”

"Isn't it?" Xueqin was a little puzzled, no matter how you heard those words just now, she was putting herself in Mingmei's shoes, right? Isn't this a tuning ~ teaching?

Jian Ying smiled and didn't explain, sent everyone else down, and told her to call Jiang's mother to come over and talk alone, "Jiang's mother, you pick up a few snacks and take a look at my mother for me."

By the way, I told her that I had a Zhuangzi in my dowry, so I told my mother that I wanted to exchange that Zhuangzi for another Zhuangzi. I came back and looked for a long time and found that there was no house deed and land deed.

I'm really struggling right now! ”

――(To be continued......)