The Queen Mother Ning's parenting scriptures are all her own reflections.

Her father is an only son, and her grandmother is strict with her, and she has to make decisions for her father in everything, which has developed her father's weak character. Mother often complained about this, but when the Queen Mother's younger brother Ning Cao was born, the Queen Mother's mother repeated her grandmother's parenting style.

The Queen Mother, who was disappointed in her father and younger brother, thought from a young age that children should not be too controlled.

Let your child learn to make his own decisions.

Over the years, the Queen Mother has known all about court politics, except for the year and a half when she was sick.

Although she is familiar with the government and has cronies in the palace, the Queen Mother never interferes with the emperor's actions, even if sometimes the emperor's actions do not satisfy the Queen Mother.

She didn't want her son to be as weak as her father, and she didn't want to be as crumpy as her brother.

For the child, the Queen Mother loves him, encourages him, corrects him on big mistakes, and tolerates him on small mistakes......

It wasn't until today that she realized: Did she fail very much?

Why are Zhong Jun and the emperor's brothers so at odds?

The Queen Mother thought that she had done a good job between her two sons.

She loves her eldest son more and is strict with her younger son.

Because the eldest son has to bear more pressure, the pressure given to him by the emperor and the pressure given to him by the courtiers, he does not need his mother to urge him anymore.

The prince only needs his mother to love him, spoil him, and give him comfort and warmth when he is tired.

The Queen Mother has always done this.

She knew that the emperor hated Zhong Jun, but she never asked why.

The Queen Mother thought, at this point. She failed to do so. She avoided teaching her son to be weak. As a result, in the mother-child relationship, she herself became weaker......

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For this incident, it is the Queen Mother who can see it most clearly.

This is followed by the initiator and the emperor.

The most confused are Zhu Zhongjun and Gu Jinzhi, who are incomprehensible and cautious.

Kyori had too many eyes, and the two of them didn't dare to inquire rashly.

Zhu Zhongjun is calm and calm, and he already has measures to deal with various emergencies.

But he didn't talk to Gu Jinzhi.

Gu Jinzhi read quietly, but he didn't turn a page with half a cup of tea.

She was obviously coaxing herself, and she couldn't see it at all.

Zhu Zhongjun is funny.

He squeezed to Gu Jinzhi's side and asked her, "Are you worried?" ”

"I'm afraid you'll be put on the loose. Lost all the royal face? Gu Jinzhi knew that he had bad intentions. Rhetorical scoff.

Zhu Zhongjun smiled even more proudly: "...... Are you worried that you won't be able to marry me? ”

Since the last time Gu Jinzhi took off his clothes, expressed his willingness to sleep with him, and then was willing to rebel with him, he took Gu Jin's heart seriously and belonged to him. More and more unscrupulous.

"Worried." Gu Jin's way.

Zhu Zhongjun laughed.

"Don't worry." Zhu Zhongjun was proud. Comfort her.

"Okay." Gu Jin's way. I buried my head in reading again.

She replied too simply, and Zhu Zhongjun was a little disappointed, and said, "You can worry about it harmlessly." It's okay. ”

Gu Jinzhi: ......

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The two mingled all morning, and no one in the palace came to invite.

The early dynasty has dispersed.

Gu Jin's heart was restless.

"I want to go to the old mansion and see the eldest aunt." Gu Jinzhi said to Zhu Zhongjun, "Are you going?" ”

In fact, she wanted to ask her uncle if she knew the inside story of King Luyang's prostitution.

The uncle is not in the court, but he still knows everything about the affairs of the court.

Gu Jinzhi's marriage to Zhu Zhongjun is related to the Gu family and the royal marriage, and the uncle must be very concerned.

"Okay." Zhu Zhongjun said, "Last time I asked you to inquire, you didn't inquire about which doorman your uncle has been close to recently." I'll ask ...... myself."

The emperor asked Gu Yantao to worry about that incident, and it could even be a good thing of "loyalty and filial piety".

As a result, Gu Yantao refused.

This surprised Zhu Zhongjun.

In this era, Zhang Juzheng's tragedy has not yet appeared, and no one knows what tragic consequences the emperor's request for love will really have. If you have a slight ** about power, a difference in thought, you will agree to the emperor's request to seize affection.

Gu Yantao was so powerful, he actually refused.

Therefore, he should have a far-sighted doorman by his side.

can have foresight and persuade Gu Yantao, he is a great person, and he is not wronged as a prime minister.

That's definitely a once-in-a-century politician.

Zhu Zhongjun is very interested in meeting talents.

He was even more curious about why such a person did not enter the court as an official, but only became a doorman......

Gu Jinzhi went to her mother's yard and told her mother that she wanted to go to see her eldest aunt.

In the capital in August, the heat gradually recedes.

Today there is a light breeze again, and the air is full of the fragrance of osmanthus.

Comfortable and pleasant weather, perfect for going out.

Song Pan'er didn't want Gu Jinzhi to go, and said: "The rules in Beijing, the girl will not go out again after letting Xiaoding go." Our family doesn't restrain you from these things. It's just that you still have a month to get married, and when you walk around at this time, others say that our family has no rules......"

"I used to help at the pharmacy." Gu Jinzhi joked and said, "Our family just has no rules." ”

Song Paner was displeased: "Nonsense, curing diseases and saving people is a great virtue, and it is more than a few long-lasting lamps to accumulate blessings, how can it be called no rules?" This is really unruly when you get married and go out. ”

"I was wrong, mother." Gu Jinzhi knew that the joke was too much, and immediately apologized, "I want to go and see the eldest aunt and sister, okay?" ”

Song Paner thought about it, and couldn't bear to restrain her daughter, so she agreed.

Gu Jinzhi asked her, "Are you going?" ”

"I can't let go of my hand, you greet my aunt for me." Song Paner said.

Gu Jin's way is.

She and Zhu Zhongjun took the canopy Zhu Ying carriage and went to the old house.

Zhu Zhongjun is a foreign man, he used to be stupid, and he casually entered the main courtyard of the Gu family, but now he has to pay attention to it.

There are third brothers, eldest uncles and second uncles in the family.

Hearing that Zhu Zhongjun and Gu Jinzhi were coming, the little ones notified the people in the outer courtyard first. The third brother hurriedly greeted him and invited Zhu Zhongjun to the uncle's study.

Over there, the fifth sister came to pick up Gu Jinzhi.

The fifth sister passed on a red embroidered yellow hibiscus gown, a lake-colored horse-faced skirt, a high bun, two pearl grates inserted in the sideburns, and bright slender lilac earrings.

Her skin is white, and the pearl comb grate is shiny, and her skin is as smooth as clotted cream; The slender silver chain of the lilac earrings makes her neck more slender and elegant.

The fifth sister was dressed up in a grand and bright manner, but also extraordinary. Noble and elegant.

Gu Jinzhi pursed his lips and smiled. Ask the fifth sister: "...... Got a guest at home? ”

Gu Po was stunned and said, "How do you know, who did you listen to?" ”

Gu Jinzhi was even more affirmative, and smiled: "I haven't heard anyone say it." I guess. ”

Gu Po's feelings are loose. Laughed: "Lie." Can you still tell fortunes? ”

"I can really tell fortunes." Gu Jin said, "I not only know that there are visitors, but I also know who is coming." Is it from the Su family? ”

The fifth sister and the Su family said goodbye.

If it weren't for her mother-in-law's family coming. She wouldn't have that shy flush on her face, let alone be so well-dressed.

The Gu family is still in the filial piety period, although it is almost over, there will be no guests coming to the door, unless it is someone from the Su family.

Gu Pozhi was stunned again. Then, she thought for a while before she said, "It must have been the eldest aunt who sent someone to invite you to accompany you?" ”

Gu Jinzhi smiled and did not deny it, and the two sisters entered the inner courtyard.

The visitor is indeed the Su family of the Marquis of Jianzhao.

It was the fifth sister's future mother-in-law, who brought her two sisters-in-law to the door.

The second aunt, sister-in-law and third sister-in-law are all accompanied.

The eldest lady was very surprised by Gu Jinzhi's arrival, but she didn't come out, but only introduced her to Mrs. Su and the two young ladies.

Mrs. Su was polite and courteous to Gu Jin.

The two young ladies looked respectful and also saluted Gu Jinzhi.

Gu Jin returned the gift one by one.

Everyone sat down again, and the eldest aunt asked Gu Jinzhi, "Is your mother here?" ”

"Nope." Gu Jinzhi said with a smile, "I haven't been here for a few days, I want to see Sister Xi and Brother Kai." I didn't want my aunt to entertain here, I was abrupt. ”

"Family, say these polite words." The third grandmother got up with a smile, took Gu Jinzhi's arm, and said, "I also think about Brother Kai, auntie, I'll take the seventh sister over first." ”

She had a lively and spicy personality, and the eldest aunt smiled and said, "Go ahead." ”

Gu Jinzhi said goodbye to Mrs. Su and the two girls of the Su family, and followed the third grandmother out of the main courtyard to go to the room.

The third grandmother was a little unkind to see Mrs. Su.

Gu Jinzhi asked the third grandmother: "...... What is the Su family doing? ”

"Talk about your fifth sister's marriage." The third grandmother said, "It's not that their family has passed the day, and the first day of May next year is the most suitable for their third master and your fifth sister." There are no better days than this day......"

Today's filial piety, although it is said to be three years, is actually twenty-seven months.

In April next year, the Gu family will be removed.

How impatient is to marry your daughter just after you get off your clothes?

"What's the hurry?" Gu Jinzhi smiled, "The eldest aunt didn't agree, right?" ”

"Before the eldest aunt could speak, your second aunt agreed." The third grandmother said angrily.

It turned out that she was upset because of this.

“…… The eldest aunt didn't refute it? Gu Jinzhi asked.

"Nope."

Gu Pozhi is old, already twenty years old.

She was originally waiting to enter the palace, but the big room delayed her.

Then it was replaced by six girls who entered the palace, but Gu Pozhi didn't make it. is filial piety again, her flower-like beauty has been dragged into an old girl.

The eldest aunt wanted to refute, but she felt that she had no position, so she simply let the second lady call the shots.

Gu Pozhi is the daughter of the second lady.

No wonder Gu Pozhi looked so shy......

Gu Jinzhi didn't ask again, the third grandmother didn't say any more, and the aunt and sister-in-law walked for a while.

The third grandmother remembered something and asked Gu Jinzhi: "What are you doing today, is it the prince's business, ask your uncle?" ”

Gu Jinzhi was stunned.

"Do you know about the prince?" Gu Jinzhi asked.

"Yesterday, my mother came to see Brother Kai, by the way." The third grandmother smiled, "She also heard from her family." It's a bit tricky to talk about the prince......"

Gu Jinzhidu almost forgot that the third sister-in-law was Xia Shoufu's granddaughter.

"What else did you say?" Gu Jinzhi took the third grandmother's arm and asked, "You told me everything......

The third grandmother sneered.

"I ...... I can't say. After laughing, the third grandmother suppressed her voice and said, "You also know that my grandfather is the protégé of the old marquis of the Tan family. He was the main force to punish the king of Luyang. ”

This has been made clear.

Gu Jinzhi said in a low voice: "Third sister-in-law Xie sues." ”

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The first is to ask for pink tickets. (To be continued......)